Maybe you don't. But if you do, what is it about it that turns you on?
Which of these is You?
There may be more than one that applies to You.
You may have other reasons that aren't included here. Please mention them.
1. I get heavily sexually turned on by the power of it.
2. I get a bit sexually turned on by the power of it.
3. I get sexually stimulated from being worshipped through cash, but not in a massive way.
4) I do it simply because I'm a superior Alpha. I get a buzz from it, but it's not sexual.
5) It's fun and I enjoy it, but it's just an interest I have. It's not sexual for me.
6) It's a way to make some money from fags, nothing more.
10 Things Specific to Online Financial Domination
by DorianTheAlpha
#1 - Discipline
No, not the kinky kind. I’m talking about self-discipline. It’s easy to be motivated at the start, or after a heavy drain, maybe you’ve just owned a new fag or two. Not everyday will be motivating. Some days this might even feel like work, down right discouraging. Discipline is what separates the flashes in the pan from the those who stand the test of time (this is true for Dominants and submissives).
#2 - Communication
Online domination is noisy. Very noisy. Being a strong communicator is a key part of succeeding here, but that doesn’t mean being everywhere all the time. Be thoughtful about where you want to focus your own energy, and in those places: be responsive. With your fellow Alphas, with owned fags, with loyal sluts: make time and be thoughtful in your replies. A stale dynamic rarely lasts long. M/s is above all a relationship.
#3 - Decisions
I wrote this point specifically for Alphas new to online scenes. Timewasting: when a sub seeks free attention without any intention to serve you. The more I consider the idea, the more I realize it presumes an Alpha does not choose how to spend that time. When you indulge a timewaster, you the Alpha spend that time wastefully. It’s important to get to know potential servants. See: communication. Decide with intention, and stand firm by your choices while also…
#4 - Learning
Ultimately, the decisions you make are based on judgment. I’ve made decisions I later changed (past blogs, notably). There is a difference between flip-flopping a choice, and growing as a Dominant. No one is above improvement, and yes even as Alphas we can and are sometimes wrong. Whether it’s a fellow Master, a seasoned sub, or a brilliantly written borderline Nobel-prize-winning calibre blog — there’s always more to learn.
#5 - Responsibility & Ethics
I often hear from Alphas that it’s the sub’s responsibility not to self-destruct. And this is true. Ultimately, kinks like findom are power exchange between two consenting adults. That said, the best dynamics here exist because the Master & slave trust each other, deeply. Be responsible with your subs. Be ethical in your domination. Now, you can still leave a bitch battered, bruised, mouth full of ash, piss, spit, and weeping in a way that they fully consent to & even thank you for while begging for more. Intensity & extremes can and should still be responsibly, ethically carried out.
#6 - Community
Is the cash fun? Obviously. Do you know what’s more fun? The people that make this place great.
It’s called power exchange, not tips exchange. If you *need* the money, then you’re starting this for the wrong reasons (that’s just My perspective). If you’re only interested in heartless cash grabbing, you’re going to grow bored quick regardless of your success. Community is what makes OF, more than anything else.
#7 - Respect
Rule 1 - don’t be a dick. And it is rule #1 for a reason. That goes for Masters to Masters, Masters to fags, and fags to fags (obviously most of all fags to Masters). There’s plenty of Alphas here who use a sharp, punitive tone, while also doing so respectfully. Respect doesn’t have to be soft, or cuddly. I don’t agree with all of you. I don’t even like some of you. But being a toxic twat is a surefire way to alienate yourself or worse get banned from the site. Be better. Respect everyone.
#8 - Start
Unsure whether you’ve got what it takes to dominate online? Try it. Do it. Open your account. Verify, read the rules, and dive right in. Worried messaging subs will make you seem weak? Write them. Send PMs. Test what works best. You can only get better. This is the cliché classic “you miss 100% of the shots you don’t take”. It’s especially true of the online space where you’re just an avatar and a handle until you make yourself more than that. So make yourself more than that.
#9 - Stop
I don’t know who told you to start but that was a horrible idea. Stupid.
I joke, but the notion that you need to be always-on and constantly grinding will burn out the best of us. Taking breaks matters. Prioritizing your health & wellness matters. Remember that there’s more to life than the next tip notification or Pantheon climb. Stop and smell the roses. Call your grandma. Read a book. There will be subs & sending aplenty when you return. This message was brought to you by someone who is constantly failing at this particular point and in general maintaining work/life/kink balance.
#10 - Give Back
Donate to the site. There’s no elaboration here. The man’s growing a moustache for a good cause. If you haven’t put up for it: donate. Men’s health is no joke and last I checked we all had a cock between our legs.
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Short summary for happy and entertained Masters and slaves! At least from my personal experiences,
Monday is tribute day; Master decides how much, where and how to tribute. No Master?Ask an Alpha you fancy for a tribute opportunity.
Lucky slaves who were kindly given a debt contract usually pay a part every monday but that is Master to decide.
Tuesday is... to come soon
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Wednesday is: wishlist day
_Thursday= 10ÂŁ Thursday
_Friday= fagtax
_Sunday= reimbursements day
A play day for slaves to sneak in Master(s) wish list & buy a small (or big) something for the Master or Masters you like. See my blog post about wish list Wednesday (on my profile).
Friday is known fagtax.
Time for a new tribute occasion; I am launching: the 10ÂŁ Thursday!
A day,
we slaves will choose one or more Masters we fancy and send him (or
them) a 10ÂŁ gift (or 100 tips), Easy and fun.
Tributing every day is not what makes a good slave.
It is not the frequency nor the amount that make a good helpful, useful and faithful slave.
I truly think a good slave and a good Master will depend on what you look for, what you like, how you get along together, how everyone behaves and what kind of dom/sub relation you will build up together.
But then, tributing everyday or very regularly is fun and hot! Why do without? At least, if you can afford it and if and you want this!
My opinion: It doesn’t have to be big! Many small tributes or targets on regular basis are just as exciting and effective. The important thing being to show s********n and devotion.
So far then my new idea & way for an extra tribute occasionw hich I think is can be nice and fun for both Masters andlaves but that is up to you,
This, as my previous tributing games & ways were created to please and entertain Master as well as all Masters and slaves on the site
Many verified Masters without a slave and many single slaves! I like those games and different habits of tributing on weekly basis because it is giving all Masters the occasion to be tributed and it gives all slaves the opportunity and fun to tribute one or several Masters without getting engaged,
have fun,
enslaved
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