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Safe, Sane, Consensual
Posted by docMboot

In real-time BDSM, many make these three their watchwords as part of the path to ethical Dominance and s********n -- or slavery.  This makes excellent sense.  For the wise, a safe word is a key part of that: It marks the withdrawal (temporary, or as a full end to the scene) of consent.  Continuing when consent has been withdrawn is fucked-up behaviour and could even be criminal.


But what about interaction at a distance?


I mention this because I was in touch with an inexperienced fag yesterday who said he got locked in chastity shortly before the covid lockdown, and was then stuck in the cage because he couldn't meet his KH.  Now, that's quite funny if you're into chastity, but at some point the fag says he really wanted out.  He says the KH refused to send the key in the post.  At that point, you start to think that's eventually rather shitty behaviour.  In fact, if the sub truly wants out, and is not given a way out, that's a***e. [Let's overlook the question of whether a ball-trap device can really be that perfect; we can also discount the "what if the key got lost in the post" excuse, since every lock always has more than one key.  As for me, I'd always insist on the fag having access to an emergency key.]  


It strikes me that people seldom have a safe word for cyber/online D/s.  But wouldn't that be a good idea?  So you can distinguish between the "I hate being locked" moaning and the actual withdrawal of consent.  It might make interacting all the more horny if there is some pleading and moaning --- while you know that the fag is laying it on thick and isn't actually at the point of wanting out for real.


Does this also carry over to findom, and anything that's all in the mind?  The sub who wants out can, of course, just stop responding/block/run away.  But mindfuckery doesn't really work that way does it?  Or, not for everyone: so you get the phenomenon of fags crawling back for more. To give them an 'out' requires the Master to work out if they're genuinely needing to be cut loose, or of they just need encouragement.  I don't know if safewords would help here.  I need to think more about this.  

Leathers for your KING
Posted by masterskin

Getting out on my silver dream machine is only possible due to your constant donation of leathers


Slaves have to work out the best way to ensure I have the best leathers


I don't care if you just send them direct to me, or send me the cash, but it is the ultimate when you take me to the bike shop

and you help me choose and pay for them at the till - then you carry them home for me!


Recently I have looking to get m cool bright as fuck leathers and at the same time just black


Of course I don't make it easy being 1m96 tall - it is always difficult to get bike gear long enough in both legs arms and body!

One Piece leathers are Horney as hell but more practical to get jacket and jeans


What are you gonna get for me?

📰 So a bit of an update for 2022
Posted by MasterOfAll

Since the start of the year we have updated our backend server and software bringing around a 5% performance increase, not much but every little helps, right?


We have also launched polls which will hopefully bring new game and interaction opportunity. The polls will be tweaked over the next week or so to bring a couple new additions and fixes.


Next we will be bringing an overhauled messaging experience, adding new features such as group chats.


After that has launched we will be going back over all the current site functionality to bring improvements and updates to these, providing additional features and fixes that have been asked for.


From around June we plan to start developing and adding Web3 features.


Owned Fags has always been at the front of innovation when it comes to findom and we have no intention of slipping behind.


Web3 and DeFi is no doubt the next technological revolution and we plan to fully embrace it. More on that coming later in the year.


As always, thank you for your support.


✌️

MoA

Ways to be useful to your Dom
Posted by SupremePower

If you’re a Findom sub, your main priority is to provide tributes and gifts to your Dom/Master.

But, sometimes subs find themselves low on cash and when this happens, it’s important to find other ways to be useful. 

I will suggest few things you might do for your Dom/Master: 


4 ways a sub that's low on cash can still be usefull

*Become a promo sub -  like, comment and share your Dom/Maste's content.

*Become a recruit sub - Reach out to other subs and connect them to your Dom/Master

*Become a content creation sub - create twitter banners , artwork, photoshop images,etc

*Become a research and a data sub - provide your Dom/Master with useful information and ideas that can raise his influence and reach - research and share strategies that have proven to be effective


The bottom line is true Findom subs exist to make their Doms/Master’s lives easier. If you aren’t useful in some way, then what incentive is there for your Dom/Master to spend lots of time talking to you? Don’t be that annoying sub who thinks your Dom/Master has nothing to do but engage in endless conversation with you. Be a useful sub!

The visit
Posted by masterzal

You turn up a bit nervous, even though it is not your first time there.

He welcomes you in full gear which, at first, always feels a bit intimidating.

He can read it in your body language, so he puts a firm hand on your shoulder to put you at ease as he looks deep in your eyes and says:


- You have nothing to worry about, just relax, boy.


He shows you where he wants you to lay down and you immediately do as you are told.

He is in charge.


Sometimes he is there on his own, but oftentimes he also invites one of his colleagues over, making you feel even more vulnerable and outnumbered.


- Open up for me, boy

he orders, as he approaches your gaping hole with his hands.

He usually starts by sticking his fingers inside first and then continues by making use of some of his tools.

- Open wider for me, boy, much wider.

he says, as he proceeds to explore your insides.


- This might hurt a little bit, but you have to relax and trust me.

he says, as he has his way inside you.


You feel completely powerless and at his mercy, yet somehow it feels right letting him do what he does best.

At the end of the day, you were the one who decided to arrange the visit in the first place.

You have no say on the matter and you have been told that you are not allowed to speak anyway, so you stay there, quietly, trying not to gag until he is fully satisfied with his work.


It is always him who determines when it is over, your opinion does no matter, so you just allow him to continue as he goes in and out your hole with all his tools and toys, while you drool and feel pathetic.

Meanwhile, his colleague witnesses the scene in awe as you feel completely numb while he goes harder and deeper into your orifice.


- We are done with you now, boy.

You did well.

You may spit or swallow if you want.


You thank him, as you have been told you should always do.

You leave the room, still a bit confused after having paid a significant large amount of money, knowing damn well that this is definitely not going to be the last time that you visit the dentist.

Poachers follow-up (2)
Posted by servus

I hereby revoke my previous posts about giving warning to poachers, since some of You are too dumb to read a profile before sending a target.


From now on I apply a zero tolerance poacher policy.


If you try you will

1) fail

2) be blocked

3) be reported

4) be exposed


This will apply from the first attempt, there will be no warning.


Trying to poach me is an insult to my love and loyalty for my Owner.

The Master-$lave paradox
Posted by delta

Lots of slaves apparently dream of being dominated, controlled and owned "in all aspects of life" and several Masters long for a slave of that sort. But when it comes to cash slavery I've noticed that these intentions ("in all aspects of life") get blurry and I am not sure whether the Master is actually controlling the $lave or it is the other way around. What kind of slave is that who sets "terms and conditions" to his master and decides when to worship and tribute him? What kind of Master is that who only wants his $lave's money? I guess in this case there is no real ownership, control, or domination at stake. It's just the "$lave" paying his "Master" to entertain him. The "$lave" ends up controlling his "Master" and making him play "Master" in exchange of some coins. I know, I know, there is no only one single way to be in a slave/master relationship and as long as the two of them are happy and satisfied that's more than ok. I also know that most of this type of relationships are confined to the realm of fantasy and imagination. That's more than ok as well. But this gives me the feeling that not everyone really sees ownership as a state of mind "in all aspects of life", but as a role-playing game. What a shame. 
Worship Me Song (I made it up, Fags)
Posted by clements

Don't get me wrong

I'm a God-fearing Christian man

But if being a master was a religion, then damn

I don't know what I'd do

Yeah, I might have to worship that religion

I might have to sing master praise

I might have to go to church, yeah

Every single night and day

Yeah, I might have to hit my knees

'Cause you lay it on me like the truth

And you love me like hallelujah

I might have to worship that religion

Yeah, I might have to worship  that religion

I might have to worship  that religion (I might have to worship  that religion)


And I ain't saying you can walk on water

Or that you can turn it into wine

But, slut, it feels like a miracle

That you're my bitch

My First Master Experience in the world of Master/Slave
Posted by clements

My first experience as a master was 16 years ago!


I do not remember how it came about to meet each other but the slave that, IT was begging me to be his master. I did not know anything about Slave/Master/Financial Domination (findom). He told me to come to his home and park my car at his home. Then go into his home and make him come with me nude to drive to top of mountain and then make his get out of the car and take his car and phone along with anything else in there as mine and to plan for someone to come pick up my car so I would have two cars then. I do not know how that guy got home with no phone and was nude but he did. 


Anyways, I did a good bit of that but honestly, I could not get myself to take his car so drove back to his home and dropped it off and then got back into mine and drove off. However, I know he made it home as he called me a week later made that I did not take the car using his phone I left in his car and his keys in his house. 


What can I say, I chickened out but I was young, scared, and new. For someone new to it, that was extreme and would of went totally as planed if I did that now but it took some getting used too. I did not understand it at the time but it would of been a long term findom if I did 100% what he asked me to do so that died that off because of that.


Until this year (2020) it has been offline so new to the online side but I am learning to appreciate that fact I can do it online and offline still so why not.

10 Tips for subs New to OwnedFags
Posted by DorianTheAlpha

10 Tips for subs New to OwnedFags


I recently wrote a similar piece for new Masters. 


This one is specifically for submissives new to the site. Read up & enjoy.



Feel free to DM if anything below is unclear.


If you approach Me inquiring about this article, I won’t presume you want to serve Me.


Note: some Alphas will disagree. Ultimately, s********n is about serving your Alpha.

So do what they want first and foremost. This is simply a basic set of guidelines.


I’m well aware of the similarities to the Alpha version; it’s meant to be a converse piece.



1. Read the rules.


Read the website rules. Read about kink, about D/s ownership.

Read up on findom.

If your Alpha commands a kink or task you don’t know: ask about it. Learn about it.

Don’t play dumb. It’s see-through.

Everyone starts somewhere. You are born with the purpose to worship your Superiors.

Thrive in that purpose exuberantly, within the guidelines set for this community.

The only tribute allowed here are those sent with OwnedFags tips. No other tribute methods allowed. Period.



2. Do not waste time.


I almost put this first (but reading the rules is truly critical).

Simply put: don’t waste an Alpha’s time. Don’t waste anyone’s time.

Can Alphas be pushy or talkative too? Of course. That’s not an excuse.

It’s important to get to know each O/other. That’s not an excuse.

As a sub, the onus is on you to be useful and earn an Alpha’s presence. Always.

Send before speaking, even if only a beer (which represents 50 tips or £5).

If an Alpha reaches out, don’t drag on the conversation. Serve, or decline.


Here is a short list of common excuses that signal to an Alpha a sub is time wasting:

* Scared to serve because a past Alpha mistreated or manipulated them.

* Unsure how all this works, so needs you to explain every little spoon-fed detail.

* Leads the chat with their own desires, especially time-intensive ones like cam or real-time.

* Wishes they could serve, but has to ask their other Master offsite.

* Wants to get to know you, then after a short exchange, vanishes once time to serve.

* Would definitely tribute, except their jobless or a student, so don’t have the money.


Which leads quite naturally to:


3. Tribute. 99.9% of dynamics will require it.


There are Alphas who dominate without requiring tribute. It’s an extreme rarity.

More so, you should still be offering them gifts to show gratitude.

So tribute. Be useful. Be proactive. 

Every day, your sacrifice restarts. There is no entitlement. There is no earned credit.

Be clear what you can afford. Then push yourself to the very edge of that limit, for Him.

Findom is about power exchange through currency transfer. Much like bondage is through mobility transfer.

It's just another vector for a submissive to surrender to its Dominant, whether in session or lasting servitude.

For almost every Alpha —especially this website’s community— it’s essential.

s********n is sacrifice. Sacrifice hurts. That’s the point. And it’s clearest with tribute.


4. Communicate.


If tribute is the heart of s********n, communication is the brain.

Have a request? Tell your Master.

Found a new limit? Tell Him.

Feeling regret, guilt, sadness, worry from sub drop? Share it.

Feeling horny, eager, masochistic, desperate? He will use it.

Not interested in an Alpha’s DM? Tell them by declining politely.

Do not ghost. Do not leave an Alpha on read. Be better.

Learn how your Alpha likes to be referred to. Use it.

Does He want certain words in ALL CAPS, or Capital Case, or $tylized perhaps?

Do the little things (on top of the fundementals).


I have yet to encounter an instance that cannot be solved with tribute and communication. 

Sometimes only one is needed. Often some combination of the two.


5. Respect every Alpha. That doesn’t mean be boring.


D/s is a simple acronym to portray that every Dominant is above any given sub.

As such, owned, new, seasoned, cynical, or otherwise: respect every Alpha.

That means be courteous in chat. Reply in DMs.

A simple “Sorry [Sir/Boss/Master/God] but I am not interested. Have a good day.” goes a long way. 

That doesn’t mean you always have to tiptoe around Alphas, or feel scared to engage.

Chat with Us. We may poke fun. We may taunt. That’s part of the D/s community.

It will teach you about the Alpha mind, and about yourself. 

An Alpha is usually more generous with an amusing slave than a vapid cunt.


6. There are many types of subs. Know what you are.


There are owned subs who live to serve their one true Master.

There are owned sluts who are loyal to a Master, but serve many.

The Master knows this, and sometimes even encourages it.

There are community/session whores who serve freely, to all.

Some subs like the games here. Others enjoy camming. Some love tasks.

Some subs fuck their Alphas non-stop. Some live at the glory hole.

Others are straight & married to women. Others are asexual.

Subs clean apartments. Subs get filmed tied up in dungeons.

Kink is a massive spectrum. For every sub, exists an Alpha.

If you’re completely new to BDSM, take a kink quiz online.

Once you know what you want, and what you are:


7. Express your wants & limits clearly.


Lasting s********n begins with finding the right fit.

Many Alphas reach out to new slaves.

Verify your account.

Complete your profile.

If you just took the aforementioned quiz, post the results to your profile.

Add as much *concise* detail as possible. No one wants to read a brick of text.

Be clear about the type of Alpha or dynamic you enjoy.

Be clear about any limits, experience, and considerations you have.

If you’re stuck, go to the Slave Market and observe the top slaves’ profiles.

Do not copy them. 

Use them as a reference to construct your own original thoughts.


8. You will fail. Learn from it.


I’ve seen spectacular fuckups from subs.

And smaller day-to-day mistakes.

This might be an innocent hiccough, or a willful blunder.

Either way. To revisit #2, the best apology is said with tribute.

Then own your failure, and explain to your Alpha you know what went wrong.

Moreover, explain how you will improve, and grow.

Then commit to that growth, and do not repeat your mistake.


9. Building dynamics takes time.


For every Alpha you crave, there will be others that demand your servitude.

For every Alpha you serve, there will be others you crave.

For the Alpha who owns you, you may want to also serve others.

I cannot speak to numbers here. 

I’ve never discussed this with My subs to know how many Alphas reach out. 

It’s a part of being a useful sub. It’s appealing to other Alphas to see a slave serve its Master.

So, be useful, and be prepared for it to be noticed.


10. It isn't a competition.


It's easy to get caught up in the points. The Pantheon & slave market positions.

I've been guilty of it as an Alpha, as I'm sure many others are on both sides.

s********n (and domination) is about the intimacy & thrill of power exchange.

Finding the right Alpha for you isn’t just about W/who’s on top (pun intended).

Is success attractive? Obviously. Does it signal a certain experience? Generally.

Are those in the Pantheon top 25 on here regularly, and actively? Almost always.


Use points as a general indicator, not as an ultimate measure. 

I know lasting ownerships for Dominants who aren’t “famous” here.

And I know subs who serve sublimely but aren’t top of the slave market.

As much in finding your Alpha(s) as in measuring your own success serving them. 

If your Master is pleased, you will know. 

If your Master is displeased, you will definitely know.

Celebrate other subs’ serving Him well. That’s the point. Don’t be jealous.

Those are your beta brothers, serving your Alpha: his desires fulfilled.

That’s all that matters.


Obvious bonus: The reality is unique to you and your Alpha (and have fun).

This article is a general guideline: you should serve, obey, and listen to your Master(s).

As I’ve said: kink is vast. The same goes for ownership, session play, and everything in-between.

If you aren’t happy, tell your Alpha. If he is unhappy, do all you can to learn why (if unclear).

Then fix it. If it doesn’t work, He can remove you from His stable, or you can leave yourself.

Don’t delete your account. This place isn’t nearly as scary as it seems. It’s a beautiful community.


Stick around, and remember:

s********n is between you and Him. Everything else here is secondary.

This isn’t a place for friction or frustration. It’s about pleasure.

Finding pleasure in pleasing your Master.



Cheers.

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