FFS: Communicate from DorianTheAlpha's blog

FFS Communicate


by DorianTheAlpha


This may be the most self-evident blog ever written, and yet: here goes.

I often say there’s very little that communication & tribute cannot together solve.

The funny thing is: if you can’t tribute, what’s the very first thing to do?


Communicate that.


Communicate what you can & cannot do.

Communicate who or what you are, and are not.


Notably, communicate if you’re into realtime, online, or both.


List the kinks you like on your profile.

Don’t list kinks you don’t like (you’d be surprised how often this happens).


Communicate with your Master.

Communicate with other slaves.

Communicate with MoA via the Contact Us section (constructively).


If a limit is breached, say so to your Alpha.

If a kink feels unexplored or sidelined, bring it up.

If a change in your personal life happens, share it.

If you’re simply feeling down, or horny: be clear about it.

If you want more tasks, targets, or simply more chat — it’s a word away.


Now speaking up doesn’t mean whining, complaining, rudeness, or petulance.


The best communication is selfless, humble, concise, and human.

Banter, jokes, cheeky fun, vanilla conversation all make lasting M/s well, last.


Now obviously some matters are sensitive, and we aren’t all the same.

Some of us are quiet, to the point. Other less so, case in point yours truly.

We won’t all say it in the same way. That’s what’s great about this place.


But holding back, lying by omission, being vague or playing dumb,

Worst of all ignoring something altogether… just don’t. Be better.


For fuck’s sake: communicate.


My name is not actually Dorian, but I do approve this message.


Oh and pop into the chat if you like, or don’t. But it’s good fun.


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