There is not one “right way” from JakeMiller3's blog

My view is that there is variety in the way masters and subs feel about findom. Aside from the “givens” such as no scamming, no faking, no stealing, no harming, no time wasting....there is room, for instance for various “styles” of Masters (for lack of a better term. Hopefully the style is genuine). The main thing is that subs and masters find someone they match up with. <br /><br />
I bring this up because I tire of bitchy people complaining about masters/subs because they don’t like that person’s way. Why do that? Find the person you match up with. Let the others find each other. You are not the arbiter of what is right. Why disparage? It’s like if you like dark hair guys and don’t like blonds, and then went around dissing all the blonds For being blonds lol. Just find your dark hair and STFU. Don’t be rude. <br /><br />
Now, again, I’m not talking about bad behavior. That can be called out. I’m talking about criticizing something that’s not up your alley. <br /><br />
Variety is the spice of life. <br /><br />
I will say that this doesn’t happen much here, which is great. But we see it other places. Why all the bitchiness? It’s not attractive, at least not to me. There’s an insight into my likes for subs reading this. Serve, $erve, don’t be a complainer, concentrate on yourself (and your Master). Be fun, be respectful, let people be themselves as long as they are acting in good faith. <br /><br />
And yes it goes both ways.<br /><br />
In a nutshell: It’s all about finding a good match or connection. When it’s not there, it doesn’t mean someone is wrong. They are just wrong for you.

Nov 2 '19
Excellent post, sir. To each his own! There is something for everyone, but not everything for someone. It's worth searching for those who click with what you like because there are all types out there!
Nov 3 '19
Fully agree Sir
Nov 25 '19
let the world see what is awesome about my Master. He understands that this community is for consensual and rational people and is a good and thoughtful man. (Who given all that, still has zero problems whatsoever putting a fag in its place)
Dec 16 '19
Great blog and very wi$e words
Feb 7
Why all the bitchiness? I don't know but I do know is every fetish group I have been around has had it. I have found the Masters here seem to get on very well, the bitchiness often comes from the bottom.
Feb 7
Very well put Pete, all should read
Feb 7
100% agree Sir Jake. There's always someone, a Master or fag, who thinks they know better how my owner and I should interact.
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By JakeMiller3
Added Nov 2 '19
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