Tonight I wasted my time talking
to cocksucker572 on skype. He wanted to see me and hear my voice but wouldn’t
pay a cent. He wanted to play games and disrespect me before finally deleting
me from skype. This behavior is not atypical of many fags on this site and
online in general. Masters like me get loads of messages from fags every day. I
get messages saying how hot I am, how much a fag enjoyed my profile or a
picture I uploaded, yet most don’t even leave a tip or offer any service, and
it’s pretty insulting to me, other masters, and the site. On one level, I think
those slaves who do participate in the tip system and enjoy the site should be
the ones speaking out against these posers, posers who come to the site acting
like cash slaves (or otherwise) and are dishonest about motives. They make all
slaves look bad.
The same goes for lots of masters who use shouting and bullying techniques to drain
fags and leave them useless to the rest of our community. I’m not talking about
those who know a slave and know it responds well to yelling, but rather the
ones who feel entitled to the world and try to screw other masters over due to
greed. It’s a COMMUNITY. We work together to make it a great place, and it’s
terrible to have a few individuals ruin it for the rest of us. I haven’t even
been around a month, and I already know the rules and norms of the site. New
fags and masters should take some time to familiarize themselves with the
community before diving in feet-first.
I will be purging my profile of most fags, mainly those who have never tributed
me, never participated in the community discussions, and who haven’t tried to
get to know me. This will be most unfortunately. I encourage fags to reapply
for my friendship and to request to serve me. Send a tip and be honest about
what you want. I think it’s the best way to get to know each other and to
promote a good community on the site. Fags who have low rankings but are active
and honest are welcome as much as cash fags who tribute often. I enjoy friends
as well as slaves on this site, and the lines do get blurred at times. I think that’s
ok so long as everyone knows his/its place. That’s all I really want to say
now, I hope it makes sense. I’ve heard a lot of masters and fags say similar
things, so this post is way overdue. Make each other feel welcome and have fun
out there.
Best,
Master Dom
There are several slaves here, if not most, that serve as community fags. They are not beholden to any one Master, by their own choice. It is one of the few choices a little cash piggy has, and I as well as all Masters should respect that, in order for this findom community to properly thrive.
Domination
When a Master and a slave interact for a single interaction, whether one tip, a session, or a series of tips and sessions, there is a temporary domination that occurs. This does not change the fact that there will always and permanently be Superior Alpha men and pathetic beta bitch boy cashslaves. That is eternal, and true. However, a cash slave can choose to serve multiple Alphas, at their own leisure, so long as they obey the Dominant/slave dynamic that is drives their sole purpose: to serve at the pleasure of Alpha Men.
UC (Under Consideration)
Now, some slaves are competitive, both within themselves and others. When channeled properly, this can be deeply constructive for both their s********n and (more importantly) their Master's pleasure. When left to run rampant, it is toxic, destructive, and often leaves the slave blocked and wayward because of their own selfish jealousy. The best cash faggots will be "considered" by their Alpha Masters: a period wherein they serve their Cashmaster exclusively, though not yet owned. Ownership, a cashslave foremost reward beside their Master's pleasure & approval, is a beacon of exemplary servitude: you are a sufficiently excellent cash dispenser that your Masters sees it fit to brand you as public His. The summit of s********n & servitude for a mindless ATM.
Ownership
As eluded to above, this is the pinnacle of what subs hope to achieve while worshipping at the altar of their Alpha Master's perfection. Do not conflate this ultimate reward with it being the pursuit of one's servitude: you serve to please your Master, exclusively and entirely. All else follows. Ownership rarely comes to those who actively seek it out; it is rather bestowed upon those truly selfless slaves that purely provide for their Master's every whim, setting aside their own kinks and orgasms for Master's slightest desire. True, beautiful, blissful s********n to a Supremely Powerful Alpha Male.
Now, the reason for this distinction between the three is that too often there are those here who seek to poach, coax, or otherwise betray the fidelity good slaves show their Masters. I hope that this post can serve as a clarification for community cash whores, prospective pets, and wholly owned finfags. The latter two should not be sought out unless their Master has given you His explicit approval. The first... is fair game to use and a***e at your disposal. And oh how they are disposable.
Cheers to all. I hope this helps.
It's often the case, those who are naïve about how and why communities like ours, often use terminology that to them is inflammatory or has negative connotations in everyday society.
Any gay man who may have been bullied to a lesser or greater degree at school will tell you the term "faggot" is used in schools, and will have been called that now and then in the past - regardless if they were "out" at school or not,.
It often gets used to demean anyone who "doesn't fit-in" so viewed by the majority as weaker, geeky, nerdy, gimpish, or just inferior in that context.
But what about this context? (of a findom community)
The first group of people who question the use of "Fagot" (for obvious reasons) tend to be gay men. Society has come a long way, but some words are still used in a way that is upsetting for the people who are the targets. It is understandable many terms are going to get people's backs up, but with change comes evolution and progress.
I have always used the term "Queer" to describe myself, it also means unusual, quirky, singular or different. It is an adjective, not historically a noun. That's a choice others have criticised, as it's been used to insult them in their own lives, and I respect that.
As a gay man myself, openly gay and not ashamed of it to say it .and stand by my choice to use it in my own interpretation of the term, and aim to educate others about it's re-appropriation..
I've had fights over my sexual identity and others have died in our names to defend our entire existence, sadly many still do.
Back to education... it needs to be written down somewhere- because at some point we'll need to explain the circumstances of this social metamorphism of word-play and linguistic repurposing, From detriment to empowerment.
So, on Faggot!...
"Faggot" is a term (Similar to "Queer", "Dyke" or "Nigger") once used by those who hated us to denigrate us all, reclaimed by some within the LGBT community as a term self-defining submissive use to identify as.
Fags and Faggots of the world, we salute you!
And if everything is clear with the financial part, then the psychological part is another level. If a person is broken psychologically, it is almost impossible to help him, it is not a physical pain that passes over time, it is a pain that can be with a person for the rest of his life and will never heals.
A person can break physically, but psychologically remain strong, nothing will stop him, but if it is a psychological injury, then it cannot be treated, it can only be calmed down for a while, like some medicine. Therefore, many thanks to everyone who helped me in this, your kindness will not be forgotten and will return many times over.I think this is a good start. Back to the blog. Today marks exactly six months since I got acquainted with such a term as findom. Since these six months, almost 5 months, I spent on the OwnedFags.com site, I learned a lot about the very concept of findom, about life related to findom and people who are also in this community.
I still have a lot to learn, but even in such a short time I learned some factors:
1) Findom is addictive. Both from the Dom side and from the sub side. During these six months, I did not visit the site only a few times. It's a big world with different people who like what they do, it's almost like a computer game, but in reality. Perhaps the word "game" will be a very rude statement, but there is a grain of truth in it.
2) Many people do not understand the concept of findom. This also applies to everyone in this community. Dom believes that, being Dom, every sub should pay him whatever amount he wants, simply because he was registered as a dominant. Because he's Dom, and that's all. "All the money for me", "his fault", because he wanted it that way, he is not interested in rejection, he considers himself number one, simply because he was born that way...
FILL IT OUT - there will always be a person who will be better than you in everything you know and know, he will be stronger, he will be better mentally, he will be better intellectually, he will be smarter, he will... No one in this life owes you anything, all people are free and have the right to do what they want. Don't be an asshole, there are a lot of people like you and they think the same. Nothing is free in this world, you have to work hard to get something. If you are interested in money, be smarter, develop a strategy and act so that everyone is satisfied.
As for the sub, it's practically the same. This is financial domination, no one will fulfill your dirty fantasies for free. You have to pay for what your Dom wants. Do not waste the time of other people who want to make a connection with you. You are not the only one. No one makes you to pay an amount that you cannot repay. Everything has its price, and in financial domination it is one of the key parts.
And most importantly, findom is a relationship, one-time or long-term, it all depends on the people. Everyone fulfills his role in it and has what he has.
3) Online relationships and real life relationships are a big difference. Everything is clear here, everything is like in life. Online relationships are a fun stage of getting to know each other for a short period of time. But fіndom in real life is already different, different emotions, different relationship, interest and so on...
Unfortunately, I didn't have the opportunity to experience it, but everything is possible.
That's all.
I hope you understand what I wanted to write. Thanks to everyone who read this post. Have a nice day everyone and be yourself
This blog will have a topic that will probably never go away with the findom community - toxic people.
The most retarded, obnoxious and probably the dumbest people in fіndom.
On this site, in six months, I saw many different people, with different characters, behavior, philosophy, life, and so on. All of them are unusual, with their own history and principles of life, each different and each interesting in its own way. It seems that everything is perfect, but on this scene they appear - toxic. It is difficult to comment on what kind of people these are, but in general they are unpleasant people. And to my surprise, there are many of them not only among Dom, but also among subs who purposefully came to the site to obey others. If it's a Dom, then that's understandable, but being male doesn't make you dominant, or a Dom, or anything but an creature, even worse, creatures can understand and some Doms can't. A real dominant can only be a person who proved all this not in words, but in deed, with his authority, skill, position in society and many other things. Be people, not creatures.
And now about some subs, well, if Dom is doing it, he chose such a role, but he has no knowledge, then how to explain some subs... Complete disrespect both to his colleagues and to authoritative Doms on the site. This is just nonsense, I understand that there are different situations, events, emotions and much more, but when it is on a permanent basis, then many questions arise. The main thing is that you have forgotten here, if you do not follow the rules and behave, in the best case, as an egoist. Many questions remain for both sides, but for another time for sure.
At the end of this small blog, I will say - personally, fortunately, I have not met such people on the site, I received all the stories from other people on the site and in other applications. Fortunately, a large number of such individuals, I am informed, have already left the site, but not all.
Also, no one objects to your presence on the site, you don't need to wear someone else's mask, be yourself, but remain human and have at least some moral values.
That's all, thank you for your attention, everyone have a nice day, fun, entertainment and health 😉😁👍
Conclusion:
Depression is a silent battle that can affect anyone, regardless of their involvement in the findom community. By shedding light on this often-overlooked aspect, we can encourage open discussions, support one another, and promote healthier mindsets within the findom world. Remember, seeking help is not a sign of weakness but a step towards reclaiming control, finding healing, and fostering personal growth. Together, we can create a community that understands and supports each other in the face of depression's daunting challenges.
Thank you all for watching, have a nice day everyone and more cheerful mood ✌️
On and off I've been part of OF a good few years now, and while never very high profile, have had some amazing experiences from it. I have a deeply submissive streak to my personality that is difficult to explain to others, or even myself. But I also seem to have become very lonely in recent times, one of these middle aged men often in the news, single, whose friendship group seems to have evaporated without me really being aware of it, part of the 'loneliness epidemic' that seems to be part of our modern life. Findom has always been an illicit thrill for me in the past, but recently I'm wondering what my motivation is, whether I am in fact using it to pay for attention and contact with other men, other men who would not look at me for any other reason. A way of fulfilling fantasies that I couldn't hope to realise for free, and to be honest, filling empty hours when there is nothing else going on in my life. I think for me part of this is the retreat of the realtime world in the face of the online; I used to be very much part of the fetish scene in London when I was younger and more self-confident (and when there was more of it) but now much of my life is lived through a screen and contact with other men is much more transactional, I think that is just the nature of the beast. But I wonder where I'm going with this, whether I'm just paying for an immediate thrill and to stave off unhappiness and fear of growing old, and how sustainable that is.
However not everyone will be feeling overly Merry
There will be those maked to live a lie as they must ensue time with family that have issues with the way they are, for others such as myself it is a sad time as we remember those we have lost and have left a gaping hole in the celebrations
So remember be thankful that we here are a community that care about each other and look out for one another
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