Findom: My Thoughts

Posted by TheTechGuy

While I am a bit new to the findom scene, I am not new to the Dom scene. And frankly I'm not sure how I didn't stumble across this before. Findom, when you boil it down, is about control, about the power dynamic. The subs giving up their power, their dignity, in a physical form to someone they see as worthy of that respect. At first I was a bit skeptical about it, but now that I've had some experience under my belt...

Oh boy, the feeling of control and overall power that I feel over a sub when I see that email saying I have money waiting. Seeing how they often beg and praise while degrading themselves. Having that physical element to it in a way that benefits the dom (me), really helps to tie it all together. 

As a dom, I believe that I should be able to converse with a sub, establish the rules, and have some fun. Abd while I wouldn't go out of my way to bankrupt someone... I'd be down for it if they so choose. So, if you're reading this and want to have some fun, send me a message. And it will all begin real soon

The Mental Game

Posted by TheTechGuy

I think there is a lot that can be said about the mental aspect of any dom, but findom in particular. While I respect those who decide to go the blunt route, I myself prefer the mental games that can be played with subs. Get them relaxed, get them comfortable. Perhaps catch them when they are drinking. Then start picking apart what makes them tick. Mend your words and your tone to really sell it home to them, make them believe that it is not you telling them, but them thinking of it themselves. Guide them in the direction you want, and with some patience and the right words, you could easily take whatever you wanted from them, and all they would do is say thank you. It's especially fun on a sub who is relapsing, since it makes the feelings they experience more potent and makes it easier for you to get what you want.

So how about it, subs? Want a guy who gets in your head? Then reach out to me.

What I enjoy most

Posted by TheTechGuy

Honesty, as they always say, is the best policy. It's something I try to live up to, especially in spaces like this. I'm not the most fit person in here, nor am I the loudest or the most aggressive. Truth be told, I'm a nerd. Damn proud of that too. Always have been and always will be. It's not for everyone, but that's ok. What I do appreciate, and what I like to think I bring to the table, is a willingness to understand and develop a relationship with a sub in order to try to help them become the best sub they can be. Providing them an outlet that they can enjoy, and might not find elsewhere.

I find enjoyment in the building of the relationship between a dom and a sub. Some are eager to jump into the deep end, others need more time. And that's ok. As long as the sub is serious, willing, and dedicated, I am willing to do my part to help build them up, strengthen the relationship, and provide them their end of this pleasure deal. I enjoy seeing subs change and develop over time. Becoming more willing, more eager, enjoying what they do. I enjoy seeing them offer things not because I told them to, but because they WANT to. That's they key part. I WANT them to enjoy serving, I WANT them to enjoy what they do, I WANT them to look forward every day to doing what they do best.

Seeing that, in my opinion, is something that can't be beat. And it makes every tribute that much sweeter, for both sides. If you as a sub do not enjoy sending Send every time, then I have failed you. And I for one do not tolerate failure. So I strive every day to learn more, to grow more, to be a dom that you can be happy and proud to serve. 

The Vicious Circle of self-service

Posted by Maskedmasterbe

We have all seen it many times. After serving a lot of subs experience a huge drop and regret their actions.

It's The vicious circle :

Horny Sub –> A Dom makes the sub’s dick itch –> Send to a Dom –> Climax –> Reality check -> Feeling 💩ty -> Swearing to do it Never again -> Horniness -> Relapse -> Let’s try another Dom -> ….

 

Well Sub. You cannot blame Dom ! Yes he used you, yes he got what he wanted and probably doesn’t’ know at all how to manipulate subs without his social media marketing.

You only got yourself to blame !. Why ?

·         * You send to a Dom you knew nothing about

·         * You just followed your brainless dick

·         * You didn’t have a strategy how to serve properly

The regret comes from the fact you didn’t serve a Dom at all. No you only served yourself. This behaviour is self-destructive.

It is the vicious circle of self-service : a self-serving Sub and a self-serving Dom.

By controlling your urges and submitting to a real Dom with who you build a lasting connection you will find real pleasure and purpose.

Yes you know you need to Serve (your body and min remind you each time). The combination of the need to fulfil your primal urges and your weak brain causes it to go really wrong.

If you want to find happiness you need a real master like me to step in and guide you. Even reprogram you to become focussed, immersed and committed. Single minded devotion ! No more regret, no more confusion. The feeling of belonging to real superior alpha master.

My first half of the year with Findom, what can I say...

Posted by Olgg

I've wanted to write this little blog for a long time, but I just couldn't get it started properly. After some time, I still decided to start it with...

Thank you to the entire OwnedFags community for what you have done for me.
Thanks to you, I was able to improve my psychological and financial situation for a long time, I managed to overcome some problems that started to haunt me since the beginning of 2022, I learned a lot and saw what humanity is when they really help and not pretend that they want to help.

And if everything is clear with the financial part, then the psychological part is another level. If a person is broken psychologically, it is almost impossible to help him, it is not a physical pain that passes over time, it is a pain that can be with a person for the rest of his life and will never heals.

A person can break physically, but psychologically remain strong, nothing will stop him, but if it is a psychological injury, then it cannot be treated, it can only be calmed down for a while, like some medicine.  Therefore, many thanks to everyone who helped me in this, your kindness will not be forgotten and will return many times over.

Thanks to OwnedFags.com

I think this is a good start. Back to the blog. Today marks exactly six months since I got acquainted with such a term as findom. Since these six months, almost 5 months, I spent on the OwnedFags.com site, I learned a lot about the very concept of findom, about life related to findom and people who are also in this community. 

I still have a lot to learn, but even in such a short time I learned some factors: 

1) Findom is addictive. Both from the Dom side and from the sub side. During these six months, I did not visit the site only a few times. It's a big world with different people who like what they do, it's almost like a computer game, but in reality. Perhaps the word "game" will be a very rude statement, but there is a grain of truth in it.

2) Many people do not understand the concept of findom. This also applies to everyone in this community. Dom believes that, being Dom, every sub should pay him whatever amount he wants, simply because he was registered as a dominant. Because he's Dom, and that's all. "All the money for me", "his fault", because he wanted it that way, he is not interested in rejection, he considers himself number one, simply because he was born that way... 

FILL IT OUT - there will always be a person who will be better than you in everything you know and know, he will be stronger, he will be better mentally, he will be better intellectually, he will be smarter, he will... No one in this life owes you anything, all people are free and have the right to do what they want. Don't be an asshole, there are a lot of people like you and they think the same. Nothing is free in this world, you have to work hard to get something. If you are interested in money, be smarter, develop a strategy and act so that everyone is satisfied. 

As for the sub, it's practically the same. This is financial domination, no one will fulfill your dirty fantasies for free. You have to pay for what your Dom wants. Do not waste the time of other people who want to make a connection with you. You are not the only one. No one makes you to pay an amount that you cannot repay. Everything has its price, and in financial domination it is one of the key parts. 

And most importantly, findom is a relationship, one-time or long-term, it all depends on the people. Everyone fulfills his role in it and has what he has.
3) Online relationships and real life relationships are a big difference. Everything is clear here, everything is like in life. Online relationships are a fun stage of getting to know each other for a short period of time. But fіndom in real life is already different, different emotions, different relationship, interest and so on...

Unfortunately, I didn't have the opportunity to experience it, but everything is possible.

That's all. 

I hope you understand what I wanted to write. Thanks to everyone who read this post. Have a nice day everyone and be yourself

There’s a new alpha in town and I expect you all to be good boys ...

Posted by aibonedaddy

Good evening to you all…

There’s a new alpha in town… here to be worshipped by all the good boys around here. I hope you enjoy my content and I’m sure you’ll all be more than generous with those tips, shouldn’t you be tipping me now? 

A little about me, I’m not new to being a dom I have a few memberships with clubs in my area and share a club with a good friend of mine it’s specifically nsfw and we are working on bringing one to the northeast so as you can imagine tips would come in very helpful, I specialise in cbt, findom, sph and real time domination but you have to earn a real time session don’t you goon?

My links are in my profile and I’m sure you will all make me feel welcome around here won’t you?

Toxic People

Posted by Olgg

This blog will have a topic that will probably never go away with the findom community - toxic people.

The most retarded, obnoxious and probably the dumbest people in fіndom.

On this site, in six months, I saw many different people, with different characters, behavior, philosophy, life, and so on. All of them are unusual, with their own history and principles of life, each different and each interesting in its own way. It seems that everything is perfect, but on this scene they appear - toxic. It is difficult to comment on what kind of people these are, but in general they are unpleasant people. And to my surprise, there are many of them not only among Dom, but also among subs who purposefully came to the site to obey others. If it's a Dom, then that's understandable, but being male doesn't make you dominant, or a Dom, or anything but an creature, even worse, creatures can understand and some Doms can't. A real dominant can only be a person who proved all this not in words, but in deed, with his authority, skill, position in society and many other things. Be people, not creatures.

And now about some subs, well, if Dom is doing it, he chose such a role, but he has no knowledge, then how to explain some subs... Complete disrespect both to his colleagues and to authoritative Doms on the site. This is just nonsense, I understand that there are different situations, events, emotions and much more, but when it is on a permanent basis, then many questions arise. The main thing is that you have forgotten here, if you do not follow the rules and behave, in the best case, as an egoist. Many questions remain for both sides, but for another time for sure.

At the end of this small blog, I will say - personally, fortunately, I have not met such people on the site, I received all the stories from other people on the site and in other applications. Fortunately, a large number of such individuals, I am informed, have already left the site, but not all.

Also, no one objects to your presence on the site, you don't need to wear someone else's mask, be yourself, but remain human and have at least some moral values.

That's all, thank you for your attention, everyone have a nice day, fun, entertainment and health 😉😁👍

The most serious mistakes that people who are tied to the findom ...

Posted by Olgg

Findom, short for financial domination, is a niche fetish where individuals derive pleasure or satisfaction from being financially controlled or dominated by another person. While it is important to acknowledge that different individuals may have different preferences and boundaries within the findom community, there are some potential mistakes or risks that people tied to findom may encounter. Here are a few:
1) Financial Irresponsibility: One common mistake is when individuals involved in findom fail to set clear financial boundaries or engage in reckless spending beyond their means. They may become financially unstable or accumulate debt, which can have serious long-term consequences for their overall well-being.
2) Lack of Consent and Boundaries: Consent and clear communication are crucial in any BDSM-related activity, including findom. It's essential for all parties involved to establish and respect boundaries, as well as agree upon limits and expectations. Failure to do so can lead to misunderstandings, emotional harm, or exploitation.
3) Financial Exploitation: Findom relationships should be consensual and based on trust. However, some individuals may take advantage of vulnerable individuals seeking financial domination and exploit them for personal gain. This can involve coercing or manipulating them into providing excessive financial support or engaging in activities they are not comfortable with.
4) Emotional Manipulation: Findom relationships often involve power dynamics, and in some cases, emotional manipulation can occur. Individuals may exploit the emotional vulnerability of those seeking financial domination, using tactics such as guilt, shame, or threats to control their behavior or extract more money. It is crucial to be aware of and avoid such manipulative tactics.
5) Privacy and Security Risks: Engaging in findom often involves sharing personal and financial information with others. There is a risk of this information being mishandled, leading to identity theft, fraud, or other privacy breaches. It's important to exercise caution and only share sensitive information with trusted individuals.
6) Psychological Impact: Findom can have psychological effects on both dominants and submissives. For some, the power dynamics and financial control can lead to a fulfilling and enjoyable experience. However, for others, it may result in feelings of guilt, shame, or anxiety. It's crucial to regularly assess one's emotional well-being and seek support if needed.
It is important to approach findom or any other fetish or kink activity with caution, respect, and open communication. It's advisable to educate oneself about the risks, establish clear boundaries, and ensure that all activities are consensual and mutually beneficial. Seeking guidance from reputable sources, joining supportive communities, or consulting with professionals experienced in BDSM dynamics can help individuals navigate the findom world in a safer and more fulfilling manner.

This is exactly what ChatGPT wrote, and he is right. What do you think about this issue? Write in the comments. Thank you all for your attention, take care and have a nice day

Beginning and Development of the Gay Fіndom

Posted by Olgg

In the realm of alternative lifestyles, findom, or financial domination, has expanded to include diverse expressions of desire and power dynamics. This article delves into the creation and development of a gay findom, shedding light on the motivations, dynamics, and growth within this captivating subculture.
The Birth of Gay Findom: The creation of a gay findom typically begins with individuals who identify as gay and share a fascination with power dynamics and financial control. They may have an inherent affinity for the allure of money or find pleasure in exerting dominance and control over others' finances. As online communities and social media platforms provide avenues for expression, these individuals discover an outlet to explore and monetize their desires within the gay findom space.
Defining the Dynamics: In the realm of gay findom, dominant individuals, known as gay findom masters or alpha doms, engage in power play with submissive individuals, referred to as cash pigs or money slaves. The core dynamics of financial domination remain, where the gay findom masters exert control over their submissives' finances through tributes, gifts, and financial transactions. Consent and clear communication are paramount, ensuring that all parties engage willingly in these consensual power dynamics.
Building an Online Presence: To establish themselves as gay findom masters, individuals craft online personas that embody their desired image of dominance, charisma, and sexual prowess. Social media platforms such as Twitter, Instagram, and specialized platforms like o******s provide them with the tools to connect with potential submissives and build a loyal following within the gay findom community.
Developing Financial Transactions: Financial transactions form the core of the gay findom experience. Gay findom masters offer a range of services tailored to the desires of their submissives, including personalized content such as photos, videos, or audio recordings. They may also engage in webcam sessions, virtual tasks, or phone calls that allow them to exert control over their submissives' financial well-being.
Communication and Trust: Effective communication between gay findom masters and their submissives is crucial to establish boundaries, expectations, and limits. Open dialogue builds trust and allows for negotiation, ensuring that all interactions are consensual and respectful. Gay findom masters must prioritize the financial stability and well-being of their submissives, avoiding excessive demands or pushing them beyond their means.
The Evolution of Gay Findom: As a gay findom master gains experience and reputation, their influence and dominance may extend beyond individual interactions. They may establish online communities, mentor aspiring findom individuals within the gay community, or collaborate with fellow gay findom masters to create a supportive network. The growth and development of gay findom is driven by the ability to adapt to changing trends, explore new platforms, and continually engage with their audience.
Conclusion: The creation and development of a gay findom involve a desire for power, dominance, and financial control within the context of the gay community. Through online personas and clear communication, gay findom masters connect with submissives who willingly engage in consensual power dynamics centered around financial domination. As the gay findom community continues to evolve and expand, it represents a captivating and diverse subculture within the realm of alternative lifestyles, offering unique expressions of desire and power dynamics.

Well, I guess it was interesting. I hope you enjoyed this blog. I had to sweat a little to write it, but overall it turned out not bad. Thank you for your attention, everyone have a nice day and have fun 😉🔥😎✌️

Navigating Depression in the Findom Community: Unveiling the Unsp...

Posted by Olgg

In the vast landscape of online communities, the findom (financial domination) community has emerged as a unique and controversial space. Findom involves the exchange of power dynamics and financial transactions, where submissives willingly give money and gifts to dominants. However, behind the glamour and allure of findom lies a hidden truth: depression can permeate the lives of both dominants and submissives within this community. In this blog, we will shed light on the challenges and struggles faced by individuals battling depression in the findom community, exploring ways to cope, seek support, and foster a healthier mindset.

1) The Masked Faces: Depression in the Shadows
 - Unveiling the prevalence of depression in the findom community
-  Factors contributing to the  development of depression
-  The role of isolation and secrecy in exacerbating mental health issues

2) The Tug of War: Power Dynamics and Emotional Well-being
- The impact of power dynamics on mental health
- Balancing emotional well-being while engaging in findom relationships
- Recognizing the signs of depression within the context of findom dynamics

3) Coping Strategies: Nurturing Mental Health in the Findom World
- Self-care practices to combat depression
- Establishing boundaries and consent in findom relationships
- Seeking professional help: therapy, counseling, and support groups

4) Breaking the Stigma: Creating a Supportive Community
- Destigmatizing depression within the findom community
- Encouraging open conversations about mental health challenges
- Building a support network and fostering understanding among peers

5) The Journey to Recovery: Healing and Growth 
- Recognizing the need for personal growth and introspection
- Transforming the findom experience into a catalyst for positive change
- Embracing self-worth beyond financial transactions

Conclusion:
Depression is a silent battle that can affect anyone, regardless of their involvement in the findom community. By shedding light on this often-overlooked aspect, we can encourage open discussions, support one another, and promote healthier mindsets within the findom world. Remember, seeking help is not a sign of weakness but a step towards reclaiming control, finding healing, and fostering personal growth. Together, we can create a community that understands and supports each other in the face of depression's daunting challenges.

Thank you all for watching, have a nice day everyone and more cheerful mood ✌️