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Selflessness: The Backbone of True s********n
Posted by DorianTheAlpha

If you have stumbled upon this piece searching for smut, or cheap thrills, you should stop reading now.


If you are here because you are searching for something more... stay. Read on.


The momentary rush of being condescended, or humiliated, will always have a home in kink.


It is a superficial pursuit, and that's okay. But these things grow old in time. They go stale. And true submissives will yearn for more. 


Because ultimately, you are still simply serving yourself. It is easy enough to put forth the narrative: "But He told me to do so, humiliating myself was for His enjoyment." Perhaps that's true, but it's hardly the whole truth...


True s********n, My sweet pets, begins when you put your Master's pleasure first. When symbiotically, your pleasure becomes woven into Theirs. Nowhere is this truer than in the case of financial domination.


Money forms the basis for exchange. The most powerful exchange there is. Financial domination is the purest form of s********n, because it is the surrender of financial power to your Superior. To those who have never sent a true financial tribute. Try it. A gift without condition or consequence. Press send, and feel that rush... in time every other kink will feel like a distant memory.


To the sweet pets who read this as curiosity flutters your heart: approach Me. Speak to Me. I will guide you... until all you crave is to send to Me again, yet more. Approach, tribute, and be willingly to selflessly learn.


Tribute begets selflessness... and in that, you will find true s********n, to Me.

Approach in Findom: A Guide for Subs
Posted by DorianTheAlpha

1. Read about the Alpha. Be acutely aware of how to stand out, and know Their turn-offs to the best of your ability.


2. Send Their minimum amount. Generally, at least 300-500 in tips. If you want to impress, send more. If they ask you to send again to prove yourself, or for whatever reason, do so promptly & passionately.


3. Make your first words your best, most selfless. Ask the Alpha how you can best serve them? Do not bring up your past, present, interests, or kinks. This is about Them: Their perfection, Their domination, Their pleasure. Please Them. They will know what to ask about you, when that information becomes relevant for them to know. A verified, experienced cashmaster knows how to explore a sub’s mind, and explore D/s better than you ever could, slave.


4. Wait patiently for Their response. Don’t panic. Don’t bombard Their inbox. Certainly don’t block Them in a worried frenzy. Simply breathe and know that you have followed Their approach instructions well, and They are busy draining other subs at the moment. They will reply to you, in time.


5. Possibly the most important: an initial tribute is not a transaction. There is nothing given in return. Have no expectations. The Alpha owes you less than nothing. The tribute is a gift for the privilege of being welcomed into the powerful realm of Their existence, which is itself the greatest privilege you could ask for.


Follow these instructions, and almost every Alpha will welcome you into their stable for the supreme opportunity to serve Them financially, and whatever other ways They may please. 


Good luck, My sweet pets.

Sunday Worship
Posted by DorianTheAlpha

So many slaves will ask for free tasks… or free attention. To those sweet pets here who genuinely do put their Master’s pleasure first: continue to read. To lurkers stroking to My words without the slightest intention of enacting them… cease to exist you vile waste.


To My sweet pets who serve beautifully, through authentic s********n… Sundays are worship. 


This means, that today of all days, is a blissful opportunity to set your standards for the week. Send to Me. Pray to Me. Commit to new heights for Me. Take care to employ all of the sweet subtleties I enjoy. Go out of your way to embrace struggle for My enjoyment, to embrace s********n for My entertainment, to embrace sacrifice for My pleasure. Those tasks you so desire: send for them. Humiliation? Send for it. JOI/CEI/CBT etc.... send for whatever scratch you are so desperate to itch, My pet.


Sundays set a benchmark for the next six days. Even more so if it is a payday week. Remember, no Alpha here dominates for need of income. Money is simply the scoreboard. The truest of tokens that represents a surrender of financial power from one to Another. So, surrender to Me, My dear toys, in worship. Fall to your knees this immaculate Sunday, to tribute at the altar of My greatness. Show Me you crave to give your feeble power over to Me, in financial tribute. It is the beautiful of ways to do so.


To all the powerful Masters here, have a blessed day rinsing, ruining, training, and draining anew your pets. I admire you & applaud the gift you give these pathetic wayward souls in finding a purpose.


To those pets yet unowned… I am here and waiting. Approach.


Then thank Me again for the privilege.

s********n begins with selflessness
Posted by DorianTheAlpha

It interesting given My newness on this website. There seems to be so many "submissives" who open dialogues with their wants, their kinks, their terms and demands. And so, let U/us discuss today the most fundamental tenet of s********n:


Selflessness.


For Myself and Many here, being an Alpha is a natural state of dominance, domination, supremacy, and control in pursuit of Our pleasures. That is the nature of being an Alpha and Cashmaster. In contrast, so many submissives here are entitled. Not partially; entirely entitled. Maybe that's a generational cause, or some nurtured symptom of this specific community here. Whatever the reason, it is fallacious, toxic, and simply wrong.


A submissive aims to please his Master. A good submissive pleases his Master, consistently. A great submissive knows how to please his Master and does so without being told, consistently. An outstanding submissive takes that proactive knowledge to find new ways of pleasing his Master without his Master having to lift a finger. Growth in s********n that blossoms over time as B/both explore in their D/s power dynamic.


And so, to conclude, a small tip for any slaves seeking to approach Dominants here, especially Findoms such as Myself. Tip first. Then speak, selflessly. Lead with action, then profess submissive intention. I wager you would be hard pressed to find an Alpha here who disagrees. This is basic stuff, pets. Do better, and rightfully put your Alpha first. 


Cheers.

Twitter feed
Posted by SoS

I should write a blog but I didn't know what to write. So here are my most recent twitter comments.


A very worthy exercise for any #finsub?
Make October special, making all efforts to STOP spending money unnecessarily on yourself.
You don't deserve it, so save it for those who do.
Those extras you buy without thinking? Think and save!
You know it's right! RT
#Stoptoberfindom
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When I see another subordinate loser being drained hard, manipulated, & account drained to zero, it sends shivers of admiration and respect for the greedy Alpha Man. Especially when the loser begs for it then thanks Him.
Us losers deserve it, & THEY deserve our earnings.
#findom
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Off to work, Saturday.
Need to work as many hours as possible for my Ma$ter. So He can keep me functioning productively for Him.
$acrifice and poverty.
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Findom for me is not something i do now and then.
It is a chosen lifestyle, appropriate for what i am.
It dictates how i live, what i eat, relaxation, work, routines, rituals, sex, mood, and who takes priority in my life.
It suits a subordinate loser. It defines me.
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I see 2 types of #Findom.

1. A form of BDSM power exchange where money is a powerful tool within the relationship between Dominant  and subordinate.

2. Where a Dom exploits any sub's vulnerabilities in order to get money.

Some Doms and subs mix the two.

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A message from a 'Master' on
@OwnedFags
 
"Hey Faggot, I know you have a master but any chance you could help a stuggling photographer in london. this city is cutthroat, almost as cutthroat as me but need help with bond on a new flat so I can continue bossing you fags around." :o

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my Ma$ter, who rescued me from doubt and confusion, and $ecured me in the truth of my purpose in life.
A very genuine Man who has a complete understanding of findom and of His natural Superiority.
I owe the Man such a lot!!
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I always have difficulty with the comments such as:
"Pay for the privilege"
*Pay to lick..."
etc...
I don't enter contracts or pay FOR anything. I simply hand over what i earn because He rightly deserves it and i don't.

The 10 Commandments of Financial Domination
Posted by DorianTheAlpha

I often share different versions of these as a guide to slaves who fall under My spell, new to financial domination. Already here, plenty of sad little souls have asked Me for free domination...


To that end, read the below and follow each point with fervent diligence.


Do so, and you will thrive in findom, pleasing Me and/or even the strictest Master outright:


The 10 Findom Commandments:

1. Send. Tribute financially to your Master.

2. Submit. Master's pleasure is your sole purpose.

3. Sacrifice. Save, work more, sell things... to send more.

4. Obey. Do as your Master says, promptly & completely.

4. Be selfless. Void of ego: your orgasms & kinks are meaningless.

5. Speak with clarity, consistency, and creativity.

6. Represent your Master well in the findom community.

7. Own your failures. Learn fast, & make no excuses.

8. Serve only your Master, unless He tells you explicitly otherwise.

9. Celebrate your Master's other successes: there is no place for jealousy.

10. Be clear in your limits, then push yourself to expand them.

Domination, Exclusive Consideration, and Ownership
Posted by DorianTheAlpha

By DorianTheAlpha


There are several slaves here, if not most, that serve as community fags. They are not beholden to any one Master, by their own choice. It is one of the few choices a little cash piggy has, and I as well as all Masters should respect that, in order for this findom community to properly thrive.


Domination

When a Master and a slave interact for a single interaction, whether one tip, a session, or a series of tips and sessions, there is a temporary domination that occurs. This does not change the fact that there will always and permanently be Superior Alpha men and pathetic beta bitch boy cashslaves. That is eternal, and true. However, a cash slave can choose to serve multiple Alphas, at their own leisure, so long as they obey the Dominant/slave dynamic that is drives their sole purpose: to serve at the pleasure of Alpha Men.


UC (Under Consideration)

Now, some slaves are competitive, both within themselves and others. When channeled properly, this can be deeply constructive for both their s********n and (more importantly) their Master's pleasure. When left to run rampant, it is toxic, destructive, and often leaves the slave blocked and wayward because of their own selfish jealousy. The best cash faggots will be "considered" by their Alpha Masters: a period wherein they serve their Cashmaster exclusively, though not yet owned. Ownership, a cashslave foremost reward beside their Master's pleasure & approval, is a beacon of exemplary servitude: you are a sufficiently excellent cash dispenser that your Masters sees it fit to brand you as public His. The summit of s********n & servitude for a mindless ATM. 


Ownership

As eluded to above, this is the pinnacle of what subs hope to achieve while worshipping at the altar of their Alpha Master's perfection. Do not conflate this ultimate reward with it being the pursuit of one's servitude: you serve to please your Master, exclusively and entirely. All else follows. Ownership rarely comes to those who actively seek it out; it is rather bestowed upon those truly selfless slaves that purely provide for their Master's every whim, setting aside their own kinks and orgasms for Master's slightest desire. True, beautiful, blissful s********n to a Supremely Powerful Alpha Male.


Now, the reason for this distinction between the three is that too often there are those here who seek to poach, coax, or otherwise betray the fidelity good slaves show their Masters. I hope that this post can serve as a clarification for community cash whores, prospective pets, and wholly owned finfags. The latter two should not be sought out unless their Master has given you His explicit approval. The first... is fair game to use and a***e at your disposal. And oh how they are disposable.


Cheers to all. I hope this helps.

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