Firstly, on the matter of showing respect to a fagslave, this does not happen... Now I.know you think it's due you as a human... wrong. You are.a.fagslave. You exist purely to serve a real man, the sooner you stop fighting the instinct, the better.
Secondly the matter of.serving on cam... this is not a fags right... the only rights a fag has are those it's master decides upon... serving on cam, much like serving in person is a reward to an amazing fagwhore... much like my **** Shane.
Thirdly... this is a personal one... it is considered rude to ignore an Alpha, not to mention it makes the fag look like an arrogant fraud... I am not an unreasonable man... if.I approach you for service and you don't find me a man who.You could serve then by allmeans tell me...
There are several slaves here, if not most, that serve as community fags. They are not beholden to any one Master, by their own choice. It is one of the few choices a little cash piggy has, and I as well as all Masters should respect that, in order for this findom community to properly thrive.
Domination
When a Master and a slave interact for a single interaction, whether one tip, a session, or a series of tips and sessions, there is a temporary domination that occurs. This does not change the fact that there will always and permanently be Superior Alpha men and pathetic beta bitch boy cashslaves. That is eternal, and true. However, a cash slave can choose to serve multiple Alphas, at their own leisure, so long as they obey the Dominant/slave dynamic that is drives their sole purpose: to serve at the pleasure of Alpha Men.
UC (Under Consideration)
Now, some slaves are competitive, both within themselves and others. When channeled properly, this can be deeply constructive for both their s********n and (more importantly) their Master's pleasure. When left to run rampant, it is toxic, destructive, and often leaves the slave blocked and wayward because of their own selfish jealousy. The best cash faggots will be "considered" by their Alpha Masters: a period wherein they serve their Cashmaster exclusively, though not yet owned. Ownership, a cashslave foremost reward beside their Master's pleasure & approval, is a beacon of exemplary servitude: you are a sufficiently excellent cash dispenser that your Masters sees it fit to brand you as public His. The summit of s********n & servitude for a mindless ATM.
Ownership
As eluded to above, this is the pinnacle of what subs hope to achieve while worshipping at the altar of their Alpha Master's perfection. Do not conflate this ultimate reward with it being the pursuit of one's servitude: you serve to please your Master, exclusively and entirely. All else follows. Ownership rarely comes to those who actively seek it out; it is rather bestowed upon those truly selfless slaves that purely provide for their Master's every whim, setting aside their own kinks and orgasms for Master's slightest desire. True, beautiful, blissful s********n to a Supremely Powerful Alpha Male.
Now, the reason for this distinction between the three is that too often there are those here who seek to poach, coax, or otherwise betray the fidelity good slaves show their Masters. I hope that this post can serve as a clarification for community cash whores, prospective pets, and wholly owned finfags. The latter two should not be sought out unless their Master has given you His explicit approval. The first... is fair game to use and a***e at your disposal. And oh how they are disposable.
Cheers to all. I hope this helps.
10 Things Specific to Online Financial Domination
by DorianTheAlpha
#1 - Discipline
No, not the kinky kind. I’m talking about self-discipline. It’s easy to be motivated at the start, or after a heavy drain, maybe you’ve just owned a new fag or two. Not everyday will be motivating. Some days this might even feel like work, down right discouraging. Discipline is what separates the flashes in the pan from the those who stand the test of time (this is true for Dominants and submissives).
#2 - Communication
Online domination is noisy. Very noisy. Being a strong communicator is a key part of succeeding here, but that doesn’t mean being everywhere all the time. Be thoughtful about where you want to focus your own energy, and in those places: be responsive. With your fellow Alphas, with owned fags, with loyal sluts: make time and be thoughtful in your replies. A stale dynamic rarely lasts long. M/s is above all a relationship.
#3 - Decisions
I wrote this point specifically for Alphas new to online scenes. Timewasting: when a sub seeks free attention without any intention to serve you. The more I consider the idea, the more I realize it presumes an Alpha does not choose how to spend that time. When you indulge a timewaster, you the Alpha spend that time wastefully. It’s important to get to know potential servants. See: communication. Decide with intention, and stand firm by your choices while also…
#4 - Learning
Ultimately, the decisions you make are based on judgment. I’ve made decisions I later changed (past blogs, notably). There is a difference between flip-flopping a choice, and growing as a Dominant. No one is above improvement, and yes even as Alphas we can and are sometimes wrong. Whether it’s a fellow Master, a seasoned sub, or a brilliantly written borderline Nobel-prize-winning calibre blog — there’s always more to learn.
#5 - Responsibility & Ethics
I often hear from Alphas that it’s the sub’s responsibility not to self-destruct. And this is true. Ultimately, kinks like findom are power exchange between two consenting adults. That said, the best dynamics here exist because the Master & slave trust each other, deeply. Be responsible with your subs. Be ethical in your domination. Now, you can still leave a bitch battered, bruised, mouth full of ash, piss, spit, and weeping in a way that they fully consent to & even thank you for while begging for more. Intensity & extremes can and should still be responsibly, ethically carried out.
#6 - Community
Is the cash fun? Obviously. Do you know what’s more fun? The people that make this place great.
It’s called power exchange, not tips exchange. If you *need* the money, then you’re starting this for the wrong reasons (that’s just My perspective). If you’re only interested in heartless cash grabbing, you’re going to grow bored quick regardless of your success. Community is what makes OF, more than anything else.
#7 - Respect
Rule 1 - don’t be a dick. And it is rule #1 for a reason. That goes for Masters to Masters, Masters to fags, and fags to fags (obviously most of all fags to Masters). There’s plenty of Alphas here who use a sharp, punitive tone, while also doing so respectfully. Respect doesn’t have to be soft, or cuddly. I don’t agree with all of you. I don’t even like some of you. But being a toxic twat is a surefire way to alienate yourself or worse get banned from the site. Be better. Respect everyone.
#8 - Start
Unsure whether you’ve got what it takes to dominate online? Try it. Do it. Open your account. Verify, read the rules, and dive right in. Worried messaging subs will make you seem weak? Write them. Send PMs. Test what works best. You can only get better. This is the cliché classic “you miss 100% of the shots you don’t take”. It’s especially true of the online space where you’re just an avatar and a handle until you make yourself more than that. So make yourself more than that.
#9 - Stop
I don’t know who told you to start but that was a horrible idea. Stupid.
I joke, but the notion that you need to be always-on and constantly grinding will burn out the best of us. Taking breaks matters. Prioritizing your health & wellness matters. Remember that there’s more to life than the next tip notification or Pantheon climb. Stop and smell the roses. Call your grandma. Read a book. There will be subs & sending aplenty when you return. This message was brought to you by someone who is constantly failing at this particular point and in general maintaining work/life/kink balance.
#10 - Give Back
Donate to the site. There’s no elaboration here. The man’s growing a moustache for a good cause. If you haven’t put up for it: donate. Men’s health is no joke and last I checked we all had a cock between our legs.
Don’t forget to like & subscribe. New merch available soon. (This is a joke)
A sharing of some more personal thoughts and feelings. Findom and
me, how, why and after!A little about me & own experiences so
far, A few of you asked. Time for me to reveal a bit and be a
little more intimate than the eternal smiling, always positive and
in a good mood concierge of the chat! As for ever ; forgive my
English & enjoy trying to guess what I mean,
As for sex ; my findom practises & attitude started quiet young ! 7Yo, exactly, everyday around 10 am ! As a teenager I believed in the power of young lads & was looking for them to protect me from the older bad bullying boys. Young & already bad behaving doms I guess !
As an older teenager
I discovered naked men (live) & switched my love for candies to
love for dicks & sex!
I discovered real findom when I was about 20yo.
No more giving cookies but giving money to a man I lliked & wanted to please. I have had some fun & gsome reat connections on those old Yahoo Groups where many doms had their Group, their pics & fans ? I remember 2 very well ; My favourite now on here as : All for GodMasterArchMasterArch, He had such a yahoo group with the hottest male soles pics ever,
I've been asking him to upload those on OF but I didn’t yet succeed !
Came Twitter time with again several doms I got to know & made
connections with, Should I mention I often ended serving those men.
one day while checking what had been posted I saw a dom’s
account His tweets were simultaneously similar but different from the
other doms and their tweets,
He had some
interesting things posted comparing to the casual Twitter dom.
I
must admit that his pics were just as interesting to look at,
He
posted a link to some owned fags thing wich I found weird & not nicedisturbing,
I had heard that name too many times in the past & not exactly in an enjoyable way, Being on Twitter I also met some hot black American guy I started to chat with & soon started to serve,
We exchanged messages about everyday, Ask Slave ; my English may be bad, I do love to write,
I was serving this
hot black man while looking and thinking about this other white dom.
His tweets were simultaneously similar but different from the other
dominants and their tweets !
It took about a year before
I dared to send this dom a message! It may not be very visible but I’ve always been rather shy, careful
and the kind of guy who try not to disturb. My education, I guess,
I'm not the type to want to impose myself neither! Especially not
when I care about someone,
Having read that this owned fags
link was leading to a Master/ sub site, we : (the black dom &
myself) decided to register, It took a days to see how the site
worked& what’s to do on it as how to do it. We tried things
out & tested others. we decided to test that stable option.
I
was there for a few days & as far as I remember; I paid that dom
to leave that stable after a few days
That stable thing &
giving up control was nothing for me at that time,.He wasn’t
neither the right dom to do such things with,
He’s still a
member on OF but doen’t log’in no more.
While being on OF,
I got in touch with member : yellow bandit, He old me about his
target record. Several targets running at the same time yet having
many targets running simultanimy. For several doms, That game
sounded fun! I met Master Pete on the chat & started on :
targets games with many, many doms, Too many doms actually but it
was fun & it still is a good fun time to remember.
For those who should want : you can read about those targets & rounds on Sir MasterPete profile & on mine. I basically would do a round 3 & 4 but it’s too expensive. About £500 per round; is a fun but expensive game!
I will rather keep
that money to play with one single dom the way most subs do,
At
that time I met & started making a connection with an exquisite,
wonderful cruel hung man with massive balls, a beautiful voice &
a humour to die for, A man who has been burning his kitchen a few
times while trying to cook!
An international beloved sub member
who was to become a lifetime friend. By now & unfortunately for
him he’s known as My Cutie Pie!
B efore I continue; an
important detail without too much importance ; For those who
didn’t yet know: Slave as has Stan & “the cat”. This
isn’t a French expression I tried to translate, it’s the way he
calls his cat! A cat bitch & dog Stan who became famous in chat.
A new findom chapter, I met (SHM (or traighthungmaster) (here on OF)!
Daily messages on Twitter wich was fun & nice, We didn't really talk about deep & important things but it was nice to log'in & see I had a message from the dom I had fun with & was serving. Those messages weren’t just to reply question but a few words he wrote spontaneously wich is lovely,
We have been playing quiet a lot, He's an expert in target titles & setting games, We had lots of fun until we, sort of decided the fun was not there no more.Many have been asking about; being called enslaved on a owned site & not being owned !
Why, how come, is the name appropriated,
I guess I’m just unownable, a demanding daydreamer and not to forget : Slave has not yet started building his stable !
Third target I am completing for Slave but he’s too busy being great to work on building a stable, , Being that good ain’t easy, I will p robably have to spend another winter outdoor at his door while he will set more & more targets on me !
you may wonder, what
happened on Twitter & the 2 doms I liked !The black American
dom still posts some scandalously hot naked pics but I don't serve
him no more, as for the other dom, there’s about nothing to say
except maybe : he still doesn’t tweet much!
Slave aka
Cutie love Pie has ever called me a passionate sub into findom &
serving! I guess I used to be that way .To be honest I’m not that passionated no more. As for many subs, I
have been dreaming, wishing & hoping. I have been surprised,
positively and negatively, I was disappointed and saddened but
overall; I don’t regret nothing & won’t waste time on
complaining,
I know many personal things about many of you & a very few know very personal things about me.
All I can is I will never share anything I am being told unless you should ask me to tell.
As for myself; things are not always as they seem.
For those who should wonder; yes you can message me everywhere you want whatever the place,
As you have seen;
same name, same profile pic,
I had dreams and desires, I had
ideals and a certain idea of things.
I'm no longer sure that this is still the case.
I have always preferred to be honest and say what I think and feel. In my opinion, the best reason to build things, to evolve and in any case : to remain faithful to ourselves and our principles.
I really enjoy meeting you daily in the chat so for those who don't have Twitter, my Skype or me email adress ; don't leave without saying goodbye & telling me how I can t reach you.
I lost several friends because of not having any way to get to them, That, it's so sad & so stupid,
At this point I don't really know where I stand anymore. I joined a site for doms to end loving subs.
I have shared & had more fun & honest, sincere times with subs as I ever had with a dom.
I do like to tease & scratch a dom from time to time though, I don’t believe in superior & inferior living beings, Everyone is superior or inferior than another being I do understand the idea behind the scene & game but I believe in equality. It’s not about how many we can or want to give & it’s definitly not about making money, To me it’s almost not even about money, It’s about a connection & relation with someone who makes your days nicer, naturally , A dom making your days nicer ? That will naturally lead to wanting to please this dom & make his life better, nicer & greater in whatever possible way . Some subs likes to be mistreated, some doms will want to exploit, hurt or exploit someone’s feelings or finances, As long as both feel better with each other
I no longer
have any idea what I'm looking for and what I really truly want.
What I noticed above all is that I have lost my spontaneous motivation which was enormous.
Or better said, I no longer really have motivation or expectations for findom.
Whether your ego is small, medium, large or exaggeratedly very large, we are all unique and O; horrible truth ; no one is irreplaceable. I advise you all to complete your profile carefully.
Saying what and who you would like and looking for i’s is a great start to getting it/ .
@BS, Gucci Nike, frenchbottomslut, Jeffie, servus & other owned subs; I love to see & read how happy you are with & thanks your to Master. Sorry for other owned subs I might have forgotten. See you on the chat doms & sub friends
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