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The asshole at the coffee shop.
Posted by ManagingDirector

As a straight, non curious, tough rough chap, I've always been respectful.

I meet people as they are. I'm a support for the downtrodden, hero to the underdog, a helping hand to those who have been knocked down. 


For this reason, I have always had huge issue with bullies, biggots and 🩸y knob heads. 


I've been trying a new coffee shop out. 


I've always been a cash guy and I tip. A week in, same time each day, they know me.


Unfortunately, I seem to share my morning coffee with an asshole. 


I'm not au fait with gay identity or 'types' so forgive me, but he is clearly out. He is a prancer. A dancer, loud 'proud' and  cuttingly quick in his venom for those who displeases him. 


Each day he has come in behind me. Chatting loudly on his ear pods, orders a frothy mocha low fat non fat skinny waste of good coffee. 

Adds a ton of sugar and basically, annoys me. 


Yesterday, as I was waiting for my order. He took offence at something that happened at the counter. 

Some simple error, some easily correctable mistake that led to the end of the world, R.A.D.A performance extrordinar, meltdown and filth spewing verbal attack on the poor barista. 


I thought the poor chap was going to cry. His eyes welled up, a little quiver on his lip and still Mr Poison was venting. 


I stepped in. All it took was an 'Easy there'... as if i was talking to a naughty pooch. 


The Barista looked relieved, the stupid asshole looked... well, a little turned on. 


This morning, I ordered and my new friend the barista pointed behind me and said "your order is on him". I turned to see Mr Drama queen give a little wave. 


"I don't think so" I told the barista. He laughed and took my offered cash. I tipped double and waited for my order. 


In conclusion. 

Feel free to tip or treat me. Feel free to reimburse to your hearts desire. 


Unless you are an asshole. 



True story. 



The topsy-turvy world of findom
Posted by cynic

I recall with fondness the days when I was visible and even desired. 

Locking eyes with another man in a crowd; catching someone looking at me and my crotch while walking past and then turning exactly at the same time, leading to exchanging numbers or heading for the closest facilities.

Alas, all of this is in the past now. 

I still notice men when I walk past but they are either staring at their phones or just don't see me at all: now that I am old, I am just invisible or simply an obstacle on their path.

So, thank goodness for findom: we are valued here and lusted after by legions of young(er) men!

What? Sorry... What did you say?

They are just after my wallet or being named in my will? No, I can't believe it! 😭😭😭

The RULES of Findom
Posted by Slave

When I came to this wonderful website, the second time around, in the first few hours I was encouraged to leave the site and head to another platform. I smiled. I understood the ‘game’. The ‘Dom’ who insisted I walked away from this site so that MasterOfAll would receive nothing for his incredible efforts, then demanded, within the first few seconds of our engagement, £100. The Dom wasn’t remotely interested in me, he didn’t care whether I was happy or not, he wanted money. I declined his demand and he was churlishly, childishly furious and has tried, at occasional intervals, to convince me and more importantly himself, that what he was doing was right and that I am a fool.

 

What a load of old bollocks! There are no rules in this findom world. Everyone, whether Dom or sub, chooses their own unique path. I don’t subscribe to the rules set by others and that makes a great many men quite cross. For them, I have only this to say: I don’t care. I have my own rules, designed to keep me safe in a dark, deceptive world. Treat me with respect and you’ll receive my respect. Treat me like a fool and I’ll assume you are a fool. Behave impatiently, ungraciously, greedily and with an uncalled-for callousness and I will slam the door in your face. I'd rather be alone and unowned forever than to be the slave of a liar.

 

I'm submissive but not everywhere, and I’m here to find a good man and to give to him the best of myself. The best isn’t just cold, easy money but care, respect, devotion, decency and even my love. I'm not easy but treat me honestly, patiently, compassionately and who knows, I might be all yours…


GOD. The opportunity facilitator.
Posted by ManagingDirector

As well as growing up with a little servanty chum, I grew up with a dude who became a priest. 


Without getting into a deep and meaningful, he's my mate first and foremost. The fact he's a priest doesn't phase me.


Now, him giving godly advice to people facinates me. How ever, he did say something I thought was quite insightful..


If you ask for patience. God isnt going to give you patience, he will bless you with the opportunity to be patient. 


I'm not comparing myself to any kind of deity, but if you want an opportunity to serve, say hello. 


I'm sure we can find some common ground. Especially if your servitude isn't based in a sexual thing. Sometimes servitude is enough to give you the validation you need. 


You have my blessing to reach out. 

Failed "dom".
Posted by fagface

My Skype chat with Dorian Gray Feb 15 2024

I told DG I wished to be released from his 'stable' as I have suffered a death of a freind and was away and offline for about 4 weeks. After informing him I was moving on, I recived this message from him.

 Feb 15th 

FF: "I've been gone for a few weeks. I wanted to let you know i have no interest in continuing this, as you have probably assumed. You are a very smart man, and a decent person but this isn't working for me as I imagined. I wish you nothing but happiness and success in your endeavors."


DG "  My point is: what does you telling me this serve to accomplish? Nothing. I do not benefit; only you do. It is selfish, and burdens my time with no upside.


I am pointing out your egotistical impulse to crawl back here just to tell me you're leaving... it is as futile as it is asinine. If you aren't pleasing me, you don't exist to me. All this little return has done is remind me that you do no exist.


Quiet old man: attempting wisdom for sake of your age suits you poorly. "


The only reason I post it here now as he claims to not "recall" this chat from Feb 15, and has blocked me. He is either a liar or brain damaged to not "recall" this. No actual Alpha Dom acts this way, at least in my book. Not if they want long term tributation. Good looks are only 10% of being an Alpha. The rest is Honor and Confidence.  I hope to find a real one eventually,

Young Danish Alfa male
Posted by YoungAlfahanDK

Young Danish Alpha male seeks humble beta males who will worship a 22 year old straight dominant Master. You are a miserable pathetic paypigs who will enjoy paying me to be superior to you. If you're lucky, you'll be allowed to see my naughty pictures both solo and when I'm playing with my friends.


You will not be able to make demands and I offer you to dominate and humiliate you in Danish for Danish subjects. If you want, you can also buy your Masters filled condoms with nice protein for slaves. Maybe you'd rather buy used sweaty underpants so you can sniff where my alpha male cock has been and let your Master's piss drip into the underpants.


If you have special wishes for me to get remote access to your computer via TeamViewer, that is also an option. Can also offer you Small Penis Humiliation where I humiliate your clit.


Keyholder - if you want your Master to have the key and control when you can be released again. Then you can also get the opportunity for this. Write you pathetic lowly slave.


YOUR MASTER

New Master and muscled god. Worship me and see me grow.
Posted by MuscledMasterHector

Hello, slave. 

Get on your knees and worship the perfect alpha male.

I aim for the perfect body, I want to get bigger, and I want you to see it. 


Make contributions towards my steroids, food, protein and gym kit, and I will talk to you regularly the way you deserve to be talked at. I will also show you my progress with videos made just for you and video calls. I want you to see how big my muscles can get, and feel the need to be dominated by me and keep contributing. That's your nature, to serve me. To devote your low life and your cash to me, your Master, your muscle god.


Text me on here or on telegram and be mine.


Master Hector. 💪🏽

Supporting subs
Posted by Newnorthern

I have learned recently that subs (like me) have feelings too. A lot of iud like humiliation, trusting amd getting cashfucked. The thing is subs are also human. Subs need to protect their income and mental health. I think what I am trying to say here is if I sub only has a small amount or is dipping their toe in findom, don't make them. So recognise we are in a cost of living crisis so tributes may be lower or may not happen at all.

Subs are people. They may need support, understanding and aftercare. That aftercare is your responsibility as a dom. 


HR issue. Bullying or servitude.
Posted by ManagingDirector

The office can be a tricky place to navigate. 


Now Steve and his servitude has raised a question in my mind. 


I'm all for servitude. I'm going to write a list maybe of all the tasks I might let him perform.


However.


It's a busy office and stupid Sue has her eyes everywhere. 


Yes its my company. But at what point am I going to have a conversation with HR about workplace 'bullying'.


His accounts job spec doesn't include bringing me tea or picking up the hole punch holes...


People are going to notice. 


Maybe I need to terminate Sues contract.

Or get Steve his own dungeon office where he can do the accounts in his underpants in peace. 


Stupid Sue. 

Stupid pathetic Steve. I hope you read this. You are causing me trouble wuth your slavey ways. 


I'm off for coffee..

Whos gonna pay? 


Rise Like a Phoenix
Posted by SnowFolf

Sometimes, everyone feels ashamed of themselves, be it something the desire, something they have done, something that is part of them, something they long to change or even wish had never happened.


While we often fail to discuss things like that seriously often dismissing them as a joke, the feeling of being ashamed everyone understands. Yet in a kink like this where perfectionism often comes out it is easy for those that are different to feel ashamed and try and hide.


Switches become ashamed of their 'other' side.

Those who may have bi tendencies become ashamed of the 'gay' side

Those who see themselves as too fat or too thin, become ashamed of their own bodies.


And then there are the deeper things people feel ashamed for, the things that have happened to them or are hidden from everyone.


Earlier I posted a reimbursement for something which, I will openly admit I wasn't sure if i should or not, I felt ashamed to do so because it showed I wasn't 'perfect' there was something wrong with me. Now at first glance, you may very well think there is nothing there that's unusual so why would you feel ashamed, however if you read the post fully you will understand that the reason for the shame is that we live in a world and are part of a community which often makes one feel everything has to be perfect.


And by posting that I have openly admitted that my body isn't perfect as it is broken .


Disabilities take many forms but ultimately those with them face the same reaction, "Something wrong with them" and pitted or even ridiculed for it.


But the reason i decided to post it was so that others felt they could be honest an open about things and know they aren't alone. All it takes is one person to do something unexpected to allow for change


and remember inside each of us there is a new version waiting to burst free like a phoenix from the ashes



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