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🌟 New Owned Fags Milestone! 🌟
Posted by MasterOfAll

Well, today is the day that the site turned over 250K within a one year period!

Yep that's right, over a quarter of a million quid has been processed by this site within 365 days and I'm buzzing.

Thank you to all who have supported and used this site, especially those of you who have been there from the beginning.

I will never stop innovating and trying to create the best findom site that there is and have a place where we can all have fun and explore findom in a safe environment. 

I just wanted to mark this special occasion with a little blog post, thank you for reading!


Human ATM
Posted by slaveofMasterSir

its Thursday  February 27th 2020 and i got a text from my sir  about to meet him by an ATM and do a drain live. I had to leave work and went to meet my Sir,  with my card,  by the ATM not that fare from where i work. No word was speaken, i just put my card in the ATM, enterd the code and then Sir took over. Saw him pressed the amount , than gave me my card and took the cash. i said thank you and Sir left me.  It only took some seconds , and i was so horny about the session, where sir drained me live. That was a fucking good drain and hope my Sir will send me more text about meetings by an ATM for drain.
worthless cunt versus proud slave
Posted by chubbyvie1

My Master supports me in sharing a few of my impressions I have of here, since I joined this side a few weeks ago. 

First I must say, I´m not really into Findom, having been more than 30 years into BDSM and so I'm one who's learned the hard way of the Old Guard, and there really are a lot of differences. 

All that I write here is my personal thoughts - you can agree, we can talk about it, or you may think it is totally nonsense.  

One of the first things I discovered is the frequent​ use of abusive words for slaves in Findom - of course, each Master has the right to call his property what he wants (and I´m sure he knows for what reasons),​ but if you don't own the slave (long term or short term)​ is​ it​ really necessary to call every slave a fag or worthless cunt.​  

Especially if the slave is owned, this shows lack of respect for his Master - would you be happy if someone says your car it is shit and worthless? - a Master can allow his friends to call his property as they want, as a Master who knows but not own a slave longer term, it would be also o.k., but if a Master who knows nothing about the slave calls him a worthless fag, to me, this is disrespectful against the Master of the slave. 

Most slaves are not worthless - otherwise most wouldnt have a owner. You cannot determine the worth of a slave from their income - there are things that are​ more important like Loyality, Trust, Obedience - if you look only for money you will never have a good slave. 

There is no way for a slave to react after being​ called worthless cunt, fag or something else without being disrespectful to the Master that called him so - and to many of the self-named masters it is really hard to stay respectful -so the only hope for a slave is that his Master will protect him.

I dont understand why so many Masters into Findom like to make their property feeling worthless - if I'm a real Master I would like to show all others that I own a proud slave - a superior Alpha Male who can handle a strong Beta.  

If you buy a new car and you can choose a Dacia or a Porsche -​ you would choose the Porsche to show your friends how succesfully you are - so why make the Porsche to a Dacia​ - the only reason could only be, you are not able to drive a Porsche.  

Having a sixpack, showing the middlefinger or your feeds, doesn't qualify you to be a Master. 

A slave should mirror the worth of his Master -only good and real Master will ever have good and real slaves.

Many thanks to my Master and especially to SoS, they helped me to translate my toughts in  english for everybody readable.

Posted by servus

Sometimes i wish there was a dungeon for Masters. i respect all of them even if i serve mostly one, but there is one kind i really hate: poachers. Those i think would be appropriately described as "the most vile of creatures on Owned Fags" and as such, they would deserve a MoA offered all-inclusive lodging in the dungeon.

MoA has gone through a lot of efforts to make it clear what ownership means, but still some "Masters" would try to approach owned slaves in the hope of being served, sometimes even insulting the Owner and trying to lower Him in the eyes of the slave. This is absolutely unacceptable.

I am lucky to be owned by a very generous Owner who is not jealous, and who allows me to serve His friends as well as some other Masters whom i feel inclined to. The only limit is i am not allowed to serve a few Masters who have been offensive to Him or hurtful to one of my slave brothers in the past. This DNS ("do not serve") list is very short (3 Masters at the moment if i am counting well). As such i often pay small tributes or gifts to other Masters as Sir Coinnigh, Sir youngswimmerboy or MoA Himself can witness, but i never do it in the back of my Owner and He fully approves of it. It also doesn't mean i would serve a Master i am not inclined to, except if my Master ordered it of course.

I posted what i thought was a clear warning on my profile months ago stating that i didn't want to be approached by poachers, and that i would take appropriate actions, but this doesn't seem to be enough, maybe because some Masters are so full of themselves that they believe it doesn't apply to them, or just because they don't read profiles, whatever...

So from now on this is how i will deal with poachers who contact me:
- first time i will answer them politely i am not interested in serving them and remind them i am owned (at this stage i would not consider them as poachers)
- if they insist, which makes them poachers, i will ignore them
- if they still insist (for instance by sending me targets) i will let it publicly known they are poachers by posting a negative comment on their profile
- if they go on i will report them to MoA.

The only reason i don't report them sooner is i think MoA has a much better use for His time improving the site than dealing with such scums and i don't want to bother Him unnecessarily.
I punished my slave for sending tips
Posted by MasterMister

This might sound unusual to some, but I'm sure most of you will understand. 

Since this slave started serving me, he's showed nothing but absolute loyalty, commitment and devotion. Before he met me, he was serving random master after random master, looking for the right one for him, to the point that he ended up in a dangerous financial situation. Besides, this corona pandemic is seriously affecting his business. So I accepted him as my own slave and helped him control his impulses. I forbid any tribute beyond his weekly tax and set a maximum of one gift from my wishlist per month, with a maximum value of €30. I did this to protect him and make sure that he will be able to serve for a long time.

Yesterday, he disobeyed me for the first time. While I was taking a nap, he came to OF and sent me a gift. Under normal circumstances, that would have put a smile on my face, but these are not normal circumstances. He says he did it because he got jealous seeing that other slaves had been sending me gifts, which I understand, but there's no excuse for disobedience. 

Starting today, he's locked until further notice. I've locked him in the past just for fun, but this is different.  Not being allowed to cum for a while will give him time to reflect on what he did. It could be for a day, a week, a month... uncertainty adds another layer of suffering.

Being a master means having power over someone, but that power comes with responsability. Even though punishment can be unpleasant, it's for his own good. I'm sure this will make our relationship even stronger.

What makes a good FINDOM fag/slave/sub? - "Money vs Sacrifice"
Posted by SoS

As a sub to men for some 35 years, and a cashfag for 21 years, i felt it may be helpful for some subs here (and Masters) to have my thoughts on what it is to be a 'good sub/slave/fag'. You may disagree with some points, or have other views, but this is simply my own view, which is widely shared across the BDSM community.

There are some basic elements of what makes a good sub.

* Subordination (awareness and practice of it)
* Obedience (to the one you trust and serve)

* Respect
* Humility (accepting mistakes and errors, willing to apologise)
* Putting the Alpha's desires first 

A fag will often approach an Alpha with a list of expectations and requirements. This is the opposite of what it means to be a good sub. The instinct of a sub is a wish to please and satisfy the needs and desires of the man he is serving, before his own desires.

Note that I don't mention tributes of money in the list, as this is secondary to the above. In findom, in it's real sense, tributing is a by-product of the above qualities. 

What is Findom, and where does it fit into BDSM? 

Findom has many offshoots and vagaries, but this is how I understand the basic principles...
Findom is a curious thing. In the world where it is a sexualised practice, it is the opposite of how it is in the world outside of BDSM.


'Findom' in the work place is a natural power exchange, where an employee is the financial subordinate of his employer. In the work place you will do as you are told, and do whatever the employer requires, because that is the way you get your wage, and hopefully, if you please him enough, you will receive a bonus. All the power is in the hands of the man who gives you money, and you will put up with all manner of things in order to avoid missing out on it. The more you please and are compliant to your boss, the more likely you are to get a bonus. You are the sub, and the Dom is the one giving you money. It is the manifestation of the saying 'money is power'. Money talks.

This scenario is obviously very familiar to all of us here.


In the 'findom community', it is the opposite way around. The power play is not expressed by the Boss (Alpha) handing money to the employee (subordinate), but by the sub demonstrating his subordination and often obedience by handing over a tribute to the Alpha.
Be clear that in findom, a tribute is not a payment, but is simply a tribute, which expects nothing in return. If something is expected in return, such as time, cam, pics, vid or whatever else, then it is not a tribute, but a payment in return from what he has bought. In essence, this is not submission, but a simple transaction. The Alpha may choose to spend time with the sub, do cam, send pics or whatever, in order to encourage the submission and develop a bond, but that is because he chooses to. It is not part of a 'deal'.

A tribute is an expression of subordination and worship. A sacrifice made.  Nothing more and nothing less.

On a simple level, a tribute is not pressured or demanded. It is freely offered and given.

In a more advanced relationship, the power can extend to a deeper control of the sub's finances. FINDOM (financial domination) is just that in these cases, where an Alpha can extend his power to a control of spending in the sub's life, demanding when the sub hands over his money, and demanding when he is not allowed to. It can extend to moulding the sub's way of life by controlling what money is available to the sub. This is where Findom comes into it's own on a very powerful level, based on an enormous amount of trust on both sides.


What about you?

ONE VERY IMPORTANT THING for a sub to note is that the amount of tribute offered is of less importance than the level of sacrifice made. Some subs are deflated when they see other subs tributing large amounts to an Alpha. They look at the slave market and feel their efforts are wasted because they don't rank amongst the 'high flyers'. They feel they are 'useless' and bad subs. This couldn't be further from the truth.


What the slave market doesn't tell you is how much sacrifice is made, how much the subs give up or go without, in order to hand over their tributes. Many of them have a much better income than you. In that regard, if you are making sacrifices in order to tribute, you are as good as those handing out large amounts of money, and you may be a better sub than some of the greater tributers if your sacrifices impact on your life.

Money vs Sacrifice


I make this comparison...A tribute of £10 from a poor student or sub with a low paid job who struggles to get by is greater than a £500 tribute from a wealthy sub who wouldn't miss it. Of course, there are many Alphas who prioritise levels of money obtained from subs, which is understandable. However, in the Findom BDSM world, it is not the amount of money, but your level of personal sacrifice that is important to a 'great' Findom Alpha. 

It is worth noting at this point that Findom is not an end in itself, but is a tool for expressing submission in the BDSM environment

A top quality Alpha/Master isn't concerned about the amount of money you can tribute. He is much more concerned about the level of sacrifice you make for him. 

So... my point being, don't concern yourself with what others do. 

Focus on what you can do. 

Your submission is between you and the Alpha you tribute. 

If you serve with humility, obedience, respect, subordination, making sacrifice, and worship the Alpha by putting his wishes before your own, you are amongst the greatest subs. 

Without these qualities, you are are nothing of a sub. 

With them, you are amongst the best, no matter how much or little you are able to tribute.

SouthernScum / lowlifekunt
Posted by SkinBossDan

Truly broken beyond words I’m so saddened to say southern scum / lowlifekunt is no longer with us he was one of the finest to ever step foot on this scene not just my boi ... 

but a friend of more then 6 years

 I have no words 

See you on the other side 


Slave auctions?
Posted by 2XU

I am not sure how, but would it be nice to have slave auctions on OF? 

I am thinking that owned slaves can be rented out by their MAster, and free slaves join. 

MAsters will be able to rent/buy slave fora period of time, knowing that the slave will serve well.

The slaves for rent will be displayed. 

I am a slave, way to stupid to create a perfect solution to this idea, but maybe some MAsters like the idea? 

Posted by SoS

Something i wonder about Masters is - who does actually get sexually aroused by receiving tributes from fags?

 Maybe you don't. But if you do, what is it about it that turns you on?


Which of these is You? 

There may be more than one that applies to You. 

You may have other reasons that aren't included here. Please mention them.

1. I get heavily sexually turned on by the power of it.

2. I get a bit sexually turned on by the power of it.  

3. I get sexually stimulated from being worshipped through cash, but not in a massive way.

4) I do it simply because I'm a superior Alpha. I get a buzz from it, but it's not sexual.

5) It's fun and I enjoy it, but it's just an interest I have. It's not sexual for me.

6) It's a way to make some money from fags, nothing more. 

Stable for new slaves
Posted by chubbyvie1

In the last weeks there was often the discussion about why so many slaves leave OF after a short time and​ if slaves join a stable too quickly. 

I have begun to think about this and will write my personal thoughts - how often it could be wrong for other people, but this should be for thinking about and maybe we can have a discussion about diffferent opinions - please feel free to write your thoughts in the comment field.

Most of the slaves want a Master who​ takes care of him, gives his life a meaning, gives him orders to fullfill and set rules - help him to make his and the life of his Master better.  

If a slave joined OF first time - they are new victims for all the slave-hunting Masters there - you have 10-20 Masters who want you to serve him, set you targets with more and more​ gifts or tips -​ a few of them have not even the deceny to write to you first before they set you a target.​ ​ 

Many of the slaves are really overwhelmed by all of this - some don´t know they can say no to a target, some don´t know how to respectfully say they don´t want to serve that Master - some completely loose control of all of this.  

Many of the slaves are burnt out within a short time and leave OF for this reason - others seek the protection of a Master and join his stable.​ ​ ​ 

Most new slaves dont know what it really means to join a stable - made the same mistake by my first try here - they are now secure from most of the other Masters and have only to concentrate on​ their new Master - but after joining a stable you go from a hundred to zero messages if you have started with more messages than you can read, to, if you are lucky, some from your Master.  

If you're lucky to find the right Master after this short time, he will take care of you and look after how you feel, he will support you and will always be there for you - if not, you are only his ATM and he will only contact you if he think he needs more money - you will be alone with this new situation and nobody will take care of you as you are a owned slave​ and most Master​ respect this and will not contact you. 

I know - many slaves know their Master previously from other sites and come to OF only for their Master (as me), many are lucky to find the perfect matching Master in a short time, but many find out after time they are not lucky - it is hard for them to leave a stable they once joined voluntarily - they must say if they were wrong with their decision or​ other people will think they are too weak for this Master, or they don't want their Master to look weak for loosing a slave.​ 

So, maybe it will help to have a trial period for 2 weeks or so to prove you're a​ good match or not, after this both could decide they will continue or it will automatically finish. (don´t know how this technical would go and how difficult it is to make) - this two weeks could be a "stable light" with lesser restrictions, maybe in this time you could make a mentorship with an experienced slave or a experienced Master the Master trusts. 

I think this could help to made new slaves stay longer on OF, maybe it would be better if more Masters would have the chance to look if a new slave is compatible with them and maybe more Masters would try to be a careful Master to their new slaves.​ 

After these two weeks, both should know what the other wants and each real Master will then set limits and restrictions for his slave as he wants and how he thinks it would work for both. 

I know - this is a FinDom site and many would think they are not here to take care of worthless slaves or cunts, many slaves don't want a caring Master, but they want a hard Master who dominates them and make them into submissive pieces of shit from the beginning - if both want this it would be possible too - the trial period should only be for knowing better what the other really wants - if both know this from beginning they should make what they want.

And a second time - many thanks to SoS for being my lector and translate my thoughts in readable english and for the support of my Master.


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