Iâve been controlling since before I was even legal⊠Iâve just turned 21 but still have a hairless, defined and clear skinned body.
Iâm looking for a sub that wants to be mindfucked like never before, give me control of their life, humiliate them for what they are. An it. A slave.
If youâre obedient, submissive and a waste of space. You know what to do.
My PMs are open
I meet people as they are. I'm a support for the downtrodden, hero to the underdog, a helping hand to those who have been knocked down.
For this reason, I have always had huge issue with bullies, biggots and đ©žy knob heads.
I've been trying a new coffee shop out.
I've always been a cash guy and I tip. A week in, same time each day, they know me.
Unfortunately, I seem to share my morning coffee with an asshole.
I'm not au fait with gay identity or 'types' so forgive me, but he is clearly out. He is a prancer. A dancer, loud 'proud' and cuttingly quick in his venom for those who displeases him.
Each day he has come in behind me. Chatting loudly on his ear pods, orders a frothy mocha low fat non fat skinny waste of good coffee.
Adds a ton of sugar and basically, annoys me.
Yesterday, as I was waiting for my order. He took offence at something that happened at the counter.
Some simple error, some easily correctable mistake that led to the end of the world, R.A.D.A performance extrordinar, meltdown and filth spewing verbal attack on the poor barista.
I thought the poor chap was going to cry. His eyes welled up, a little quiver on his lip and still Mr Poison was venting.
I stepped in. All it took was an 'Easy there'... as if i was talking to a naughty pooch.
The Barista looked relieved, the stupid asshole looked... well, a little turned on.
This morning, I ordered and my new friend the barista pointed behind me and said "your order is on him". I turned to see Mr Drama queen give a little wave.
"I don't think so" I told the barista. He laughed and took my offered cash. I tipped double and waited for my order.
In conclusion.
Feel free to tip or treat me. Feel free to reimburse to your hearts desire.
Unless you are an asshole.
True story.
I'd like to address some rumours that have been going around in the last few days. That Slave, I meant to write, Cynic and myself are in fact the same person!
Yes, we are both obsessed with Master Zal (but then who isn't?) and dismayed at his continued and obstinate use of towels and other fabrics to cover up his family jewels. Yes: we are both blessed/cursed with ENORMOUS cocks. Yes: we both tend to see the (usually intentional) amusing/funny in some posts and pictures, and having incurred the wrath of several masters with a sense-of-humour bypass, luckily survived a number of clumsy assassination attempts. Yes, we never seem to be in the chat room at the same time. BUT we are not the same entity!
Fortunately, I don't have Slaveâs Cynicâs teapotâish looks, but I do have BREATHTAKING bulging muscles, which is just as well as the world needs the occasional âstud sub' to walk into the room. There are two of us, but we are not the same. Not to mention that it would be in direct infringement of OFâs T&C.
So, I hope that now I've put to bed once and for all these flattering (for Cynic) but pointless, I mean, baseless rumours..
To subs reading this, have you ever felt at times you were in another world while in a submissive state? Do you make decisions you normally wouldnât make as youâre being dominated/fucked over? Did you spend more then you intended to, did you give out sensitive information, or perhaps did you let a man black out your computer screen because you âwerenât thinking clearly?â This is totally normal because financial domination is a form of BDSM as subs do other âabnormalâ things with non findom BDSM. The correct term for this state of mind is âSubspace.â The ability to reach TRUE subspace is not the same thing as sniffing and sending.
When the average person thinks of Bondage of any kind the first thing that comes to mind is blind folds, leather, whips, chains, paddles, and rope. The power transfer of your life source coming from your wallet is a MENTAL form of bondage rather then physical. Subspace to many feels like you are almost hypnotized. Some say they feel like they are in a trance after staring at a pendulum. Many have a hard time reaching subspace when they crave to submit, which is where things like poppers or other d***s come into play. A truly skilled dominant can push a submissive into subspace without any substance if he or she knows what they are doing. With Findom, I sometimes like to mix physical BDSM with Findom rather then alone. For example torturing their balls, twisting their nipples, a spiked chastity device, or whatever comes to my mind. In BDSM its easier to get into someone's mind into subspace when mixing pain and pleasure.
When you mix pain and pleasure, your adrenal glands naturally release something called epinephrine (a hormone and neurotransmitter) as your brain releases endorphins from the pleasure you are feeling. During intense stress (doesnât have to be bad stress) and high tension your adrenals can also release something called enkephalins, and enkephalins are very important to understand among these other natural brain chemicals. Enkephalins bind/attach to your opioid receptors during pain as an automatic response as a natural pain killer. Despite feeling some pain or being reminded of mental anguish as youâre being manipulated, your brain will release endorphins as you are âgetting offâ on losing control or being humiliated. And SOMETIMES if you know the submissive well enough, you can get their brain to release enkephalins without physical pain but itâs not that easy. In findom its much harder to activate opioid receptors naturally as the bondage is more mental. This is why i**********n comes into play and can be useful. Intense fear from things like dangerous thrills, b*******l, or info extraction can certainly trigger enkephalins to be released as an automatic response. A skilled dominant will be able to travel through someoneâs mind like a long corridor and knowing which doors to enter. Many of my slaves are curious as to some of the questions I ask them, and each time I reassure them I have a reason for everything. :-)
When You combine enkephalins, endorphins, and epinephrine the chemical combination creates a mild MDA or Morphine like effect. This is why pain can go away during the state of subspace. Iâve had old ancient slaves with spinal issues crawl on the floor feeling nothing at all as I manipulate their thinking as they are under my âspell.â Those opioid receptors combined with the rush of endorphins is literally like you just took a narcotic. And these brain chemicals create a unique effect, as its not just them all being present at once. The temporary altered brain chemistry can truly render oneâs logic completely out the door! Subspace for some is like Heroin for the mind.. as many of the problems that bother you go away for a short while, nothing else matters but where your mind is focused in the world of subspace. When you feel that âurgeâ to get fucked over you remember those pleasurable feelings at times when you are feeling bored or at an emotional low. Subspace becomes a coping mechanism that you become hooked on, like staring at a book and hearing nothing as others call your name.
Like a young one walking near the top of the stairs, they arenât aware they can be hurt themselves if they fall. In subspace, a sub trusting a ânon compassionateâ dominant may be hurt beyond the realms of what they intended to happen let alone their limits. Itâs up to the responsibility of the dominant to check in on a human level if he/she feels that the session/playtime will harm the individual. Its also wise to check in on how your sub is feeling not just for moral reasons, but for the sake of long term dynamics. For example, if the submissive loses control and starts acting out on serious actions that could be detrimental in anyway, the dominant can expect a looming âDropâ when subspace has ended. A skilled master who knows what their doing does their best to make sure Drops donât happen. And remember, A happy slave is a loyal slave.
The alarm clock woke me up for work during a dream about an international Findom recruitment campaign.
It was very sketchy with little detail, but the essence of it was:
Members of a global Findom organisation were methodically contacting individuals to find out if they were naturally Alpha or beta by nature. They would then draw them into an indoctrination process into the truth about where they naturally fit into society when the fake social equality mindset is stripped away.(A bit like the methods of Jehovah's Witnesses or Mormons).
In the dream, the recruitment/conversion campaign had become well advanced, and i was helping an Alpha to strip a beta's home of it's content and replacing the content with the basic requirements. It wasn't a gay beta, but a married one with family, and in this 'new world' where Findom was spreading quickly in society, the betas/fags weren't decided by sexuality... simply by being male betas. Alpha males learnt that betas were for using and exploiting, and betas accepted that was their role in life.
Quite a powerful dream that has really stayed with me all day.
I should write a blog but I didn't know what to write. So here are my most recent twitter comments.
A very worthy exercise for any #finsub?
Make October special, making all efforts to STOP spending money unnecessarily on yourself.
You don't deserve it, so save it for those who do.
Those extras you buy without thinking? Think and save!
You know it's right! RT
#Stoptoberfindom
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When I see another subordinate loser being drained hard, manipulated, & account drained to zero, it sends shivers of admiration and respect for the greedy Alpha Man. Especially when the loser begs for it then thanks Him.
Us losers deserve it, & THEY deserve our earnings.
#findom
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Off to work, Saturday.
Need to work as many hours as possible for my Ma$ter. So He can keep me functioning productively for Him.
$acrifice and poverty.
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Findom for me is not something i do now and then.
It is a chosen lifestyle, appropriate for what i am.
It dictates how i live, what i eat, relaxation, work, routines, rituals, sex, mood, and who takes priority in my life.
It suits a subordinate loser. It defines me.
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I see 2 types of #Findom.
1. A form of BDSM power exchange where money is a powerful tool within the relationship between Dominant and subordinate.
2. Where a Dom exploits any sub's vulnerabilities in order to get money.
Some Doms and subs mix the two.
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A message from a 'Master' on
@OwnedFags
"Hey Faggot, I know you have a master but any chance you could help a stuggling photographer in london. this city is cutthroat, almost as cutthroat as me but need help with bond on a new flat so I can continue bossing you fags around." :o
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my Ma$ter, who rescued me from doubt and confusion, and $ecured me in the truth of my purpose in life.
A very genuine Man who has a complete understanding of findom and of His natural Superiority.
I owe the Man such a lot!!
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I always have difficulty with the comments such as:
"Pay for the privilege"
*Pay to lick..."
etc...
I don't enter contracts or pay FOR anything. I simply hand over what i earn because He rightly deserves it and i don't.
A fag is still a human, not a real man, for sure; but still a lowly class of human.
It's human who consents to and who craves the degradation of itself by Men it sees as its betters.
Respect
is not to be taken for granted. Respect can easily be lost. The
same goes for the relationship between the Dominant and the submissive; the Man
and the fag. A true Dominant will give a fag's life a sense of
purpose. A Man who behaves irresponsibly will not. When a true
Master is connected with a true submissive, power is exchanged. The
s********n is a big commitment. Something precious is handed over. The
Dominant has the power to crush the submissive but He chooses not to, because
He understands that with this power comes great responsibility. The
Dominant is submitted to because he deserves it, because of who He is.
Fags should take time getting to know the Dominant and vice versa; exploring
together whether they have found a good match; but realising the finality of
the situation if the fag chooses to refuse. This will be game over, the
end of the line, door closed. Sometimes that is a necessary decision,
sometimes the fag is being pig-headed.
It
is vital that any Dominant who is given something as precious as a fag's
s********n takes this s********n seriously. He has the power to say and
do things that could have a catastrophic impact on the fag. Fags should
also be sensible and think about what they are being told however in that
moment of s********n, the only thing a fag truly desires is to please the
all-powerful Man. The fag has entrusted himself completely to its Dominant
and its Dominant needs to understand that with the fag's eyes fixed so firmly
on Him, it is hard to see anything else.
When
limits are set and agreed, the submissive should give himself wholly to the
Dominant. For the Dominant to do as He pleases, to take what He wants, to
use as He wishes. The limits have been set, s********n has been
given. Service and s********n are not only when it's fun. A true
submissive puts the needs of the Man before his own.
s********n is precious. Treasure it. Nurture it. Stretch it. And you will have the loyalist of fags who serves you with every waking breath because you deserve it and have demonstrated how seriously you take the responsibility that comes with it.
Fags, now itâs time to submit yourself to BOOTSMASTER, to tribute me and to join my stable!
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