Why do you think you can just plunder in without due care and attention?
You might get a quick tribute through being so reckless, but for any sustainability the dom needs to nurture and encourage a sub boy.
Doms may think they hold the control, but subs can withdraw it any time if they are not feeling the same way.
In conclusion, doms have the ultimate control when subs allow them to.
If a sub decides to withdraw that, the dom should respect and work to get it back.
Bound to a chair, gagged, made to look at the computer screen as Sir loads up OwnedFags on my login. He sends a pillory game request to my account and shows it to me - it's so high - unlimited - Im begging into my gag but Sir accepts the game on my behalf.
All I can do is watch for hours as the comments come in and the total builds and builds...
I come on here, with the expectation of having fun, chatting, possibly cracking a few jokes, and of course getting tips/gifts.
This morning I tried cracking a joke and instead of the other person messaging me to say that he didn't find it funny or to say "sorry CB, you got it wrong" he just instantly blocked me, I tried reaching out on another platform to find out what I done wrong and to apologise.
Since this morrnings blocking, I have looked at myself on this site and to be fair and honest, I feel like I am not welcome anymore, I feel like am getting pushed out and that people only speak to me if am the only one in chat or just to be pleasant.
I have come to the conclusion that when I can withdraw all my tips I will and then will delete my profile as I don't want to be a burden to anyone, also I don't want to be in chat where I am not welcome.
I know most will see this as negativity, but it is how I feel, I will think about staying or rejoining, but I will have to be made feel welcome, 😢😢
I’ve been on this site for a while now and had some great fun, I’ve met some lovely people but someone I met recently compelled me to sit and write a blog to mark the occasion. This is my storey of that encounter such as it is:
If you’re looking for a shouty aggressive agro Dom there are far better choices, take your money and get some quick thrills with many of the other Masters out there and you’ll have a great time.
If you’re looking for someone completely different then keep reading. I randomly started chatting to Master Trigger a number of weeks ago and was surprised at how quickly we clicked. Days went past with the chat getting better and better and he got me to relax and open up to him. We had great banter, he gave me some amazing advice and before long was helping me understand some of the struggles I am dealing with as a cash sub.
The conversation is engaging, the advice is exemplary and the support he’s given me has been really valuable. Master Trigger deeply understands the mindset of a sub, the mechanics of sustainable findom and is a hugely clever individual, he could outsmart me in a second. The single most impressive point I’m here to make is that he’s not once asked me for a single tribute and has genuinely made himself available to help me out as a fellow findom enthusiast.
I’ve actually brought him a couple of beers purely because I value you his help so much, purely out of gratitude and respect!
I could see myself developing things further with him in time but it’s so nice to find a Dom who’s interest is the kink over the cash. They say it’s what we do, not what we have that makes us who we are, I could not think of more fitting words.
I really didn’t want to write this, but I need to get something off my chest, and be warned, I am not going to sugar coat anything and I will tell it how it is.
Next year it will be 10 years since I set up Owned Fags.
I built this place from the ground up, on my own and to a lot of negativity and a***e from other sites and people that were around at the time thinking that they ‘owned’ the findom scene.
It took me a lot of work to get the site to where it is now, and I have spent thousands of my own money and fuck knows how much time and stress making sure that this place was a success and continues to be. Thankfully now the site pays for itself and all I need to do is keep building and innovating.
I literally never get away from this site, if I am not sat at my desk working on it then I’m looking at it on my phone while I’m out, answering emails on the go etc. I go to bed thinking to myself ‘will I wake up to any drama’, I have to plan my holidays and breaks around pay-out dates etc, it’s a lot for one person to handle.
That is why I have some mods and they help with the day-to-day tasks of moderating content which really would be a full-time job on its own if I didn’t have them, so let me please thank the mods for the great job they do because without them I really couldn’t cope.
Now, the problem I have is users that join and think they can say and do whatever the fuck they want. I’m sorry but no you can’t and no it does not suppress your ‘free speech’, you do not have free speech on a private platform. If you want to invoke your right to free speech go shout outside.
Like I said before I have invested an awful lot into this site, still do, and it is a huge part of my life. Imagine if you had to constantly read others trash talking your hard work, yourself, or other people, it would be absolutely exhausting and it would start to take a toll on you.
If you’re on a site like Facebook or Twitter, heck even Owned Fags, you can simply block someone and move on – I do not have that luxury. If someone is constantly bringing a negative vibe to my day, then I see that and I can’t escape it. So, yes, I will remove people that fuck me off and I am not sorry for that.
Think to yourself what it would be like if every day you went into work dreading how it was going to be because of a few people. You’d probably try to look for another job or move teams, right? Again, I don’t have that luxury.
Owned is only a small site with less than 4 thousand members, a small number of people can make a big difference, and if it’s a negative one then sorry you’ll be gone. I don’t care if you feel it’s unfair, that’s how it is. I am not going to spend my time having lies spread about me or having me and my site trash talked.
If we were as big as Twitter and I wasn’t the only one running the place and having to see it all the time then I probably wouldn’t take it as personally, but that’s not the case. We are a small site with a big focus on community, and if you’re acting in a way that damages that vibe then you’ll be told to go.
I’m 36 now, my tolerance for bullshit and petty games is very low, so if you’re not enjoying the site then just fucking leave, it will absolutely continue on without you. I used to be very tolerant and put up with more than I should, but that time has ended.
Now I’ve had my rant, enjoy the rest of your day 😁
We have learned a few things we would like to change for round two.
We noted that many masters just jumped on the bandwagon with a very basic "lets get that cash pussy open, 100 tips in 4 weeks" OK thats what we asked but they have to be a little more horny. Like "Nice to see your cash pussy dripping for use bitch. You need to feel all our cocks fucking you deep, 175 tips in fore weeks".
Some of you will know that enslaved has accepted two of your targets in this round because we both found them to be horny but I like to give Masters a far chance.
I am also going to be a little more strict about what targets are accepted and what are not. Basic targets will be rejected as will targets that are too big or short but as some of you will know rejected targets get a change to submit another.
A finale thought but most important. Enslaved has the right to chose who he wises to serve and who he does not. Real with face photos and verified is a good start.
I will let you know when round two begins with a shout.
There are probably very few fags/slaves on OF who've been put in the dungeon as punishment for sending to their Master, and few Masters who've sent them there for doing so. But, my Master is not like most others.
My error was to buy a 1000 tips crown on Easter Sunday for my Owner, to show my love and pride in Him as my king of kings. I wanted it to be a surprise, so I failed to ask permission.
The rule under which I live is something that I know very well:
Send His money when HE decides.
Send His money how HE decides.
I do not decide when, how, or how much.
An ATM does NOT make those decisions.
Only an ATM's user and Owner decides how His ATM is used.
This rule is fundamental to His control.
I am not a fag that begs to send His money in order to satisfy my own selfish urges. This would be me using Him for my own selfish ends.
Whether I'm horny or not is unimportant. He decides when His money is withdrawn.
The essence of Findom in our relationship is Power, Control, Subordination, Obedience. This is how Findom fits into a Power Exchange relationship. It is a wonderful relationship, and my Master is also probably my best friend, who always wants what is best for me.
Even though W/we discuss all sorts of things in our lives, confide in each other on private and personal matters, share many interests and provide mutual support in many ways, non of these aspects of our relationship alter or impact on the fact that I am His ATM faggot who works and sacrifices to earn His money which all goes into His savings and investments.
With such a special relationship, it is important that His rules over my life are adhered to in full, and gratefully respected.
I am so proud and constantly grateful, and know how very fortunate I am to be in His exclusive $table.
I apologise wholeheartedly to my wonderful Owner and the most important Man in my life.
i was wondering if Corona was having an impact on Masters' income and if so how?
i am not sure on what effect to expect: on the one hand, i can understand it would turn slaves focus out of serving, on the other hand, when a slave is quarantined, or just deprived of social events, i would expect him to turn to his main addiction to change his mind.
i was thinking, maybe it is both: first slaves tribute less, then they get used to the restrictions (and bored) and they tribute more.
Of course if that's the case it may be smoothed for successful Masters who have slaves all over the World, since the epidemic is not at the same stage everywhere.
Any insights?
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