Real Time Location Map
So I'm often asking subs where in they are so I thought it's be good to have a location map where Masters and slaves can add their approximate location. 


This is the Map https://drive.google.com/open?id=1V26ov1jfl9M8XVh02LjEeCUN_HU&usp=sharing


Instructions; 

Select the Master or Slave layer

Select Add Marker

Click on the map your approximate location

Fill out your profile name and save


Add, share, let my know if it's been useful. 


How to start $erving

If you've joined this site or you’re just curious to experience the pleasures of serving, I’ve written a simple guide to start you off.Just my thoughts. I welcome the opinions of fellow masters, and also faggots that are already enjoying the pleasure of servitude. 


Step 1: Buy some tips. A small amount will do.


Step 2: Get comfortable. Turn off any distractions. Close the curtains.
Sit down and relax.


Step 3. Practice the act.
Open up the profiles of a master or two that you feel drawn to. Or, a Master you already talk to on Skype / messages. Or, a master you like that’s gifted you with a target you’re considering accepting. Look at that tribute button. You’ll instinctively feel drawn to it. Think about how good it’ll feel to submit and send a master some of your tips. Think about how your submission benefits a master. Think about doing it a few times, so you get comfortable with the idea.


Step 4. Give it a shot.
If this is your first time, you may not fully enjoy or understand the experience. But that’ll come a little later. Touch yourself as you hold that tribute button down. Notice how good it feels deep inside as you submit and send. 

You’ll feel a rush of pleasure, and your first instinct will be to do it again. Don’t. There’s such a thing as too much of a good thing. You run the risk of beginners remorse if you do it too much too soon. So wait at least an hour, but no longer than a day to try it again.


Step 5. Be ready to repeat. But use your judgement.
As you start tipping, more and new masters you’ll be faced with all sorts of feelings and requests. Your Skype / Kik etc may start filling up with eager masters who want more. This is normal. You need to learn to balance and moderate. Send your tips to a master you feel a real connection with. A master you interact well with and that offers you something you need and you could build a great bond.


New Feature: The Dungeon
The Dungeon is now up and running.


Slaves in the Dungeon can view no area of the site other than the Dungeon.


They cannot read messages, comment, view profiles - NOTHING until their sentence is finished.


Slaves can put themselves in the Dungeon by going to their profile, or if they're owned their Master can put them in there from the Manage Slave screen.


Masters can comment on the slaves in the Dungeon, abuse and humiliate them , while the slaves can do nothing but watch!


Let me know what you think and any suggestions for improvement.


Based on feedback the Dungeon has now been updated:


- Masters can add any slave to the Dungeon that is not owned at half the price a slave pays to add theirself there


- Slaves have a 1 day grace period after being released from the Dungeon

Not what you call your self.
So you give yourself's name like "littlefaggot" and you put in your profile that your into "Humiliation" and so I send you a message like "little faggot get crawl over here and beg for me not to abuse you"  and yet you react has if someone has done something that bothers you.  Why the fuck did you give your self's that name in the first place!!!  If you don't want something then don't ask for it with the name you chose and the things you say you like. Be honest with your self and others and you will get what you want not what your profile says you want when you don't want it. 
Kind to fags

When I first have contact with a fag, I like them to know what my needs are, I then like to consider theirs, to me there must be something in it for them too.

I guess I have the wrong attitude for a Master here, because the next thing I know they are tributing left , right and centre and not to me.

Slaves I have had in the past especially realtime, responded well to my caring about them, and I would find it hard to be so heartless, Do I have the wrong attitude to be a Master here?

An Owned faggot's gratitude + financial control

Two subjects rolled into one, but you/You will see how they might relate.


Not all faggots are programmed to be owned, and many are $luts to various Ma$ters. But all faggots have the potential to be owned.

Once a faggot embraces the need to be owned, there are many things that the faggot should be grateful for. The gratitude of a faggot to it's Owner should be right at the top of the faggot's mindset.


Once a faggot is taken into ownership by a good Ma$ter, the structures, rules and requirements provide the faggot with a sense of belonging and stability.

Early on in the relationship, a good Ma$ter will make sure He knows and understands a faggot's finances and financial responsibilities. A Master can only cultivate a faggot's loyalty and devotion in a full way when He has this information.

The risks of not knowing this information can result on a faggot handing over more than it can afford, which is a serious threat to any long term control of the faggot.

This is particularly important with a faggot who has developed a heavy addiction to handing over it's cash to a Ma$ter, so there needs to be controlled spending, not only the spending on itself, but in how much is handed to it's Ma$ter. (We all see the faggots that 'burn out' within days or weeks. This is due to lack of serious interaction to gather information about a faggot's finances. Plus, a lack of control. Faggots burning out is a whole subject in itself).


The greater the levels of information handed to a Ma$ter, the greater the trust is involved, and the more effectively the Ma$ter can cultivate His asset for His longterm benefit.


How do these things relate to gratitude from a faggot?


The seriousness of a Ma$ter/faggot $lave relationships varies considerably with each Ma$ter or faggot. But, even on the most casual level, the Ma$ter provides many things for which a faggot should be grateful.


An owned faggot should show gratitude to the Ma$ter for:


1. receiving the faggot into His $table

2. the Ma$ter's valuable time spent on His faggot

3. providing a sense of belonging

4. providing a sense of usefulness and value

5. providing the outlet for the faggot's natural need to be u$ed and exploited

6. being the focus of devotion and worship that a faggot needs

7. providing stability and purpose in the faggot's spending regime

8. the care and concerns for the faggot's wellbeing

9. the intense pleasure and euphoria experienced when the Ma$ter's cash is handed over to Him


Once a faggot has been under the regime and ownership of a Ma$ter for some time, a faggot will develop triggers cultivated by it's Ma$ter. and should develop a deeper understanding that it's Ma$ter rightfully deserves whatever the faggot can provide.

So, an advanced faggot should be grateful for:

10. the mindfuckings and mental rehabilitation that remove the doubts and selfish desires originally brainwashed into it by society - leading to the full acceptance of it's instinctive and natural purpose to be an extension and asset for a Man.


These are just some of my thoughts on why a faggot must always be grateful to it's Ma$ter every moment of the day. Others may disagree, or have other reasons for a faggot to be grateful.

 

The Financial Domination Scene...
...what bugs you about it, and how could it be addressed?
New Feature - RealID

In an effort to help cut down on fake profiles and reassure slaves that they a serving a genuine Master we have introduced a new feature - RealID.


RealID will allow Masters to upload an image and have their identity confirmed by an Admin.


Once this is done their profile will then display a notice saying that their identity has been checked and give peace of mind to any slaves who may wish to serve. If you want to you can also set the picture to be public giving further reassurance to slaves.


If you are a Master and wish to upload your RealID photo you can do so here:


https://www.ownedfags.com/verification/real-id

"Straight" Masters, "gay" slaves
I've seen a lot of truth-twisting when it comes to the "Sexuality" listing in Master profiles on this site. Of course, anyone can say anything they want in any aspect of their profile; much of online representation is fantasy anyway. But sometimes I think Masters intentionally lie about being heterosexual in order to hoodwink gullible fags. And if someone does that, I don't believe they deserve the cash they got from them, because it was, frankly, fraudulently obtained.

There are a handful of well-known masters on this site who are demonstrably straight. A lot of us use the "bisexual" listing option with varying rationales -- in my case, I have enjoyed using both women and male fags for My sexual gratification, and continue to do so now -- ie, I mean this year, not one woman one time 30 years ago or something. One master on here I've met in person is as straight as they come, but he told me "I've put my dick into fag's mouths to piss down their throats; I'd feel dishonest if I didn't count that on my profile as bisexual behaviour."

Meanwhile, a number of masters on the site call themselves "straight" and put on a front publicly that they have zero same-sex attractions in order to create an image that draws the sort of cash fag who "only worships straight men" -- meanwhile in private they send me pics of their spread arseholes and/or tell me about all the sex they have with men.

Part of the problem is confusion between sexual orientation and, conversely, people's position on the Dom/$ub spectrum. I think there are OF masters whose only experience with a vagina was coming out of one at birth, but still they hesitate to list themselves on here as "gay" -- because "gay" still carries stigma, and sounds too much like "submissive fag." And homophobic str8 masters who insult the gay masters and call them "undercover fags" only add to the problem.

But for what it is worth, I think there is a big difference between a sexuality that including being aroused by male bodies or some male/male sex acts -- versus the submissive urges to tribute Superiors, lick toilets, choke on big cocks, be owned, etc etc etc.

But there is no genuine shame in any of those things -- unless a sub actually needs its feelings of shame exploited and amplified in roleplay for purposes of brainwashing and control!

For some, submission is mental. For others it is sexual. For many, it is both. The same is true for Masters. You don't have to be physically turned on by a cunt to enjoy abusing and controlling it.

Perhaps it would simplify things -- and lead to greater honesty -- if we took the Straight, Gay and Bisexual labels off profiles altogether, and replaced them with Dominant, Submissive and -- if we want to be really honest -- Versatile.
2017 in review: Thank you!
Hi Everyone,


So I decided to do a little blog here and just chat about what's been happening with the site over the last year and to also thank you all for your continued support.


You will have noticed that not a lot of new features were added this year. That was because during the development of certain things I realised that the core of the site was not adaptive enough to hook in with all the new ideas that I had.


When I started this place I really wasn't sure if it wold work out and so I kind of just threw it all together with no real vision or consideration for how it may grow.


This meant that I have spent this last year going back and rebasing a lot of code and making it more adaptive for new things. A lot of this you would not have noticed as it's all background work, but it has taken a lot of time to complete.


No that this is done I can crack on with developing the new things that I had planned, so 2018 should see lots of new an improved features!


Some of these include; a marketplace to buy and sell, community goals, a user dashboard, new menu system, new blog features, new group area, new photos section, better mobile support, site layout redesign more controls and features for stables.


There will no doubt be other improvements and additions too, but those are the main things I want to focus on.


Apart from talking about the technical side of things I also wanted to talk about the community side of things as well.


We have seen more members join this year than any other so far, more content like photos and videos uploaded and more Tips paid out than ever before.


For example:


Tips paid out in 2016: £97,037.23

Tips paid out in 2017: £138,645.74


This is almost a 43% increase!


This place really is becoming such a fantastic community and I cannot thank you all enough for your continued support.


I will continue doing my part to give you all the best possible site in which to have fun and make connections and I hope you continue to enjoy using it.


Thank you all again, and let's continue to have fun together in 2018!

Master of the day
Slave of the day