Approach in Findom: A Guide for Subs

Posted by DorianTheAlpha

1. Read about the Alpha. Be acutely aware of how to stand out, and know Their turn-offs to the best of your ability.

2. Send Their minimum amount. Generally, at least 300-500 in tips. If you want to impress, send more. If they ask you to send again to prove yourself, or for whatever reason, do so promptly & passionately.

3. Make your first words your best, most selfless. Ask the Alpha how you can best serve them? Do not bring up your past, present, interests, or kinks. This is about Them: Their perfection, Their domination, Their pleasure. Please Them. They will know what to ask about you, when that information becomes relevant for them to know. A verified, experienced cashmaster knows how to explore a sub’s mind, and explore D/s better than you ever could, slave.

4. Wait patiently for Their response. Don’t panic. Don’t bombard Their inbox. Certainly don’t block Them in a worried frenzy. Simply breathe and know that you have followed Their approach instructions well, and They are busy draining other subs at the moment. They will reply to you, in time.

5. Possibly the most important: an initial tribute is not a transaction. There is nothing given in return. Have no expectations. The Alpha owes you less than nothing. The tribute is a gift for the privilege of being welcomed into the powerful realm of Their existence, which is itself the greatest privilege you could ask for.

Follow these instructions, and almost every Alpha will welcome you into their stable for the supreme opportunity to serve Them financially, and whatever other ways They may please. 

Good luck, My sweet pets.

Live-in Slave

Posted by FitFinDom

Arrive home from work to find my live-in cashpig on his knees in my spotless kitchen. He's wearing a fresh jock and thigh high socks. He's staying for the week, and he knows his hole is mine the moment I step through the door. He's tucked two $20s in his strap.

A fag so eager to serve gets me rock hard. I approach. The sound of my footsteps makes him tilt his hole upwards – to heaven, to his god.

I tease his hole with the tip of my cock. He begs for it. He's clutching poppers. I tell him to take a sniff and count him down from 5 ... 4 ... 3 ... 2 ... I drive my cock deep into his slave cunt as he inhales. He whimpers like a bitch. He's here to serve. 

I leave his hole gaping, my alpha seed poking out of his cunt. It drips. I help myself to both $20s.

Consent

Posted by docMboot

I find consent really hot.  The idea of a submissive freely offering cash (or body) to use as I please, for no reason other than that he feels compelled to submit, horns me immediately.  This is power exchange.  Raw, taboo, sexy, affirming, full of life.

Of course, there are other darker themes around the same scenes - 'cash ****', 'b*******l', and more.   Trying to find the right line, some are keen to add the word 'consensual' to those terms -- but that seems like a contradiction in terms: just because you can form the phrase doesn't mean it makes sense. I guess what people are trying to get at there is an element of role-play, in the first case, and a form of advance commitment in the second.  This is edgier, but appeals to some I know: edgy because all sorts of law and protections surrounds all of these activities.

A bit of edge spices things up a bit, but a serious risk to my career, or to my credit rating, or even to my financial or other online  accounts, is quite a mood killer. I want to be enjoying the financial domination game, not looking over my shoulder for a submissive who wants to make mischief or worse.  

And sub behaviour is of course the other challenge here.  If your capacity to consent is impaired - because you are deceived, or because you are mentally ill, or even because you suffer from serious low self-esteem issues, then please seek professional help and stay away from this community.  On the other hand, if you fully have capacity, but tend to think with your cock, or you tend to get pissed and start sending tributes, I have no problem with taking your money.

Others will have different outlooks, and a different propensity to edginess.  Find your appropriate level.  As for me, a fully aware, capable consenting adult who serves me - preferably over and over again - is truly, deeply, fucking sexy.

[with apologies for triggering word filter warnings - fair enough]

The Tease

Posted by MasterPete

You arrive at the flat as instructed in the e-mail you received a week ago it seems like it was months. It started in a chat room you wern’t that serious at first, to you it was just some fun to wank to but as time when on you started to realize that the man you where chatting to did not see this as fun! You started to understand that this man was what you cold call a Master, a Master that was for real. You Where to come to know that you would be his slave for real but that’s a long story so back to the flat for now.

The door was open and you walked in. It was not hard to know what to do as the email was very clear. You found your way to the “play” room. OK I could describe it but we all have our own idea at to what a play room is like. For this part of the tail all that is important is that there is a comfy chair with a wooden stool to it’s left. You undress (why?) and lay your clothes on the stool with your sneakers under it, your pants on top with your wallet on top of them. From the web cam in the room I could see that you were complying with all my instructions. Once you put the blindfold on I knew it was time for me to enter the room.

Now reader, think of standing nude in front of me head bowed hands behind your back. I would be looking you over and asking you questions like; Why are you here boy? and your answers will tell me where to go from there. I might start my running my fingers down your arms to see how your body reacts running them down and over your chest getting close to your nipples but never touching them. You see from this I like to tease work from slow and light to hard over a long time.

As much as once you become my slave your thoughts won't matter to me, to start with they do. So tell me boy!

I want to start to see how long I can tease that body sometimes running my fingers over those nipples starting to squeeze them, to pinch them and gently pulling them, taking my time to work them harder and harder. Then just as you think it's too much I stop and go back to being very gentle. As my fingers get close to the nipple I see a shiver go thought the body and a pull back just to start again. All this time I take no interest in that boy penis even if it's hard a twitching.

As you answer these questions you can feel pegs/clamps being put on your nipples then my hand running down and over your belly stopping at your pubes for a bit. You know I will not touch that cock as it twitching in the air. Instead my hands run around to your buttocks. At this point being a good slave you know what is required of you right now............ Yes that's right you place your self over my lap as easy as breathing but with a little anticipation. Is your Master in the mood to give a good spanking or maybe will just want to tease that ass?

The one thing you do know is while your over his knees you will reach for your wallet and hand it to your Master because what is in side, is HIS as you will be!

Fag Training

Posted by suncubfag

As many of You know by now, i have been released by Master Beardeddom and am now a free fag.  The decision to set me free was not an easy one for my Master to make but He did it in the best interest of this fag.  Outside circumstances have limited His time on the site and He no longer felt that He could provide the proper training that this fag requires and deserves.  As a fag, i fully respect His decision and admire His fortitude for my welfare and training.  This has left me in a state of both excitement and apprehension.  Although i will miss the security and guidance He provided, i look forward to meeting New Masters and am confident that the new experiences that await me will help to further my training and help to improve my performance as a dutiful fag.  That said, i will be taking **** steps and moving at my own steady pace as i enter these uncharted waters.  Recently, i have received many requests and invitations from both Masters and fags alike.  While i greatly appreciate all of this support and attention, please bear with me as i move forward in the next phase of my growth and development.  There will be plenty of time (and tips) for all of You!  Also, regardless of who i serve and tribute, Master Beardeddom will always have a special place in my life and in my heart as He was and always will be my #1 Master!  i wish Him all the best and will never stop supporting Him whether i serve in His stable or not.  Please continue to respect Him and His decisions.  As for me, i am ready to step forward into the abyss that is my future and see where this next phase of my growth and training take me!  i thank each and every one of You in advance for Your support and guidance as this new chapter of my training starts to unfold.  Now, let the games begin!

Confusion

Posted by MSteele135

OK so.there seems to be plenty confusion on multiple points so I'm thinking a little clarity might be needed

Firstly, on the matter of showing respect to a fagslave, this does not happen... Now I.know you think it's due you as a human... wrong. You are.a.fagslave. You exist purely to serve a real man, the sooner you stop fighting the instinct, the better.

Secondly the matter of.serving on cam... this is not a fags right... the only rights a fag has are those it's master decides upon... serving on cam, much like serving in person is a reward to an amazing fagwhore... much like my **** Shane.

Thirdly... this is a personal one... it is considered rude to ignore an Alpha, not to mention it makes the fag look like an arrogant fraud... I am not an unreasonable man... if.I approach you for service and you don't find me a man who.You could serve then by allmeans tell me...

Fagtax

Posted by MSteele135

O.K...now I have noticed that you faggots seem to need something basic and simple explained to you. Namely the concept of Fagtax.

Now there is a thread of thought amongst you cock crazy cumdumps that in order to pay fagtax you must be a Cash Fag.... THIS IS WRONG.

The simple truth is what i am about to explain. Now a cashfag, that is the smart kind of.bitch who understands that they exist solely to surrender their money and credit cards to regular pursetwat fuck sessions by real men.

Fagtax however is what ALL faggots should.pay the real men who honour them with their attention and in some cases derision.  The simple rule.is... if.You are.a fag, then you need to pay fagtax.

Now the subject of how to pay fagtax is just as simple... it.can be cash given in person... items bought from Amazon, or on this site... large amounts of tips.

The concept of Fagtax is really that simple.... Now let's see if you brainless cunts can get it right