The only words I know are "yes, my master"
My biggest dream is a gang bang. Making many men squirt at the same time makes me extremely happy.
I don't have to be asked for sex either. If you feel the urge to fuck me, no matter where, then use me and don't pay attention to what I want.
What do you think of me? Would you use me unrestrainedly?
Mezmerising, powerful, addictive, friendly AND cruel, educated in the occult.
Bow before your new leader, submit to his will, let him guide you into sinful pleasures
you have never experienced before...this is your chance to seek new experiences, new heights of pleasure.
First come first served basis.
TIMBUS
From your knees there is only one place to go and that is on your belly kissing my feet."
and then I get "I'll sign my house over to you too." Big stupid clams/offers. I always give faggots a go but I know from this that this faggot is a none starter. It has given me nothing to work with, no real idea of what it has to serve me with and no real way of knowing what to do with it. So never one to give up state away I look around to see if it has served any one else and for how much (something to help my mindreader skills, LOL). I mean a house that's a big tribute but lets be real and start a little smaller. So I send this
";-) faggot that's a good thing to know. Well start by making a tribute to me, show me how fucking weak you are."
Guess what? Not a fucking thing no tips no reply.
Is it me or do other Masters get this sort of runaround?
looking to find subs that i can exploit willing. ive always craved to dominate a weak sub wallet.
need help paying bills and surviving hmu if you are a paypig looking to get squeezed for all they've got.
ㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤ
Thank you, Sir, for allowing me to serve you.
10 Signs You Are A Toxic Sub
by DorianTheAlpha
It has been a long time since I’ve written a blog post. I try not to retread the same old thoughts I have covered before here; I invite you to read my other entries on topics like tips for newcomer subs, newcomer Masters, among other themes in kink. Today we will address something unfortunately ever-present in power exchange: submissive toxicity.
Now, let me say at the outset: this does not suggest Masters are not also at fault sometimes. It is possible for Doms to be toxic too. That is a post for another day. Here, I address common behaviours that all subs show at some point — these are signs you are being toxic. A good sub can have a toxic moment. Even the best owned subs slip up. It does not mean you cannot improve. Instead, use this as a reminder to be better. Grow & learn constantly to serve your Master as best you can. These are in no particular order, though personally I would say those highest on the list are the most egregious.
1. Doxxing & Hostility
To dox someone is to reveal their real identity online. If you even feel the hint of an urge to do this: don’t. Never threaten violence, or be hostile. If you feel that level of anger & aggression do to some slight in kink or your dynamic: walk away. This space is not for you if you cannot handle its intensity. Many people here keep their kink lives separate & secret from their career, family, and personal sphere. Any kind of hostile act towards your Dom, any Alpha, or any member of this community is unacceptable. This one should be self-evident.
2. Illegality
Many illegal actions are desirable. Substances, sex acts, even demographics. Regardless, never suggest or bring illegal activities to your Alpha. For some, sex work is their full-time career. For others like myself, this is a supplementary outlet to express my dominant self. When you suggest illegal things, you jeopardize that space. Deviant fun can be legal and still be plenty daring.
3. Topping from the Bottom
This is when a sub attempts to exert their desires and demands onto their Dominant. It reverses the power exchange: the Master is instead performing a “dominance fantasy” according to the conditions of their submissive role-play leader. Hence, topping from the bottom. This is the worst form of selfishness. Now, you can have submissive desires. And especially with single session play, it is important to voice them to your Dominant. However, in power exchange, your role is to please your Alpha first and foremost. If you have desires, there is a correct way to communicate them. That is not topping from the bottom. So speak properly, humbly, and when in doubt defer to your Master. Don’t be a selfish twat.
4. Inability to Handle Drop
This is most applicable to financial domination, but applies to other intense forms of session play like pain certain sex play. Drop, or sub drop, is a form of guilt and regret that can be all-consuming after intense sessions. In the throes of submissive obedience, you may send more or suffer more than you expected. Some of your limits may be tested. This leads to a lurching depression for many who are new to the feeling. It is your responsibility to manage it. Many Alphas offer guidance, aftercare, and compassion. Some do not. It is not our job to be your therapist. I personally tend to do so, but it is wrong to expect it from your Dominant. This is an adult space, between consenting parties. Behave as such.
5. Jealousy
If I need to explain this one at length, you are the problem. Do not be jealous another sub is sending more, receiving more time with your Alpha, getting more attention in the chat. This is about Alpha pleasure. If you are envious of others, work harder & serve better to achieve those same goals. Better yet, find the maturity to realize that you should only measure yourself against your own servitude.
6. Submissive Poaching
This is a rare case, but does sometimes happen. Never poach other owned subs from another Master to come and serve your Alpha. This is the equivalent of an Alpha poaching a sub; it is no better and just as atrocious. If a sub is unhappy, that is between them and their Master to resolve. An owned dynamic (as defined on the site; not “grey/open” dynamics etc) should always be treated with utmost sanctity and respect. Even between owned subs.
7. Nuisance
Owned or new, don’t be a dick (or a little s**t). There is a reason this is one of the tenets of the chat room, and it extends to private conversation. Don’t play dumb. Don’t be a brat, or rude. Many Masters will converse and dominate subs who have little to send, but speak soundly and offer entertaining banter. Don’t be a nuisance.
8. Over-investing
This is a two-parter, and both matter equally. Do not invest more financially here than you can afford. Doing so is on you if it happens. Never blame your Alpha for your own lack of self-control. Secondly, do not over-invest emotionally. Some Masters dominate with sexual overlap, and sometimes even romantic overlap. This is still kink in power exchange. Don’t let your M/s get messy. Don’t over-invest.
9. Deletion & Relapse
This isn’t even necessarily that annoying, it is just so predictable. Subs who can’t manage the above, generally are those who delete, and come back crawling under some new pseudonym. The relapsers. I suppose it helps that you pay a join fee each time you create an account here. Still, it’s transparent, and laughable. Best avoided if you hope to be a sub in good standing here among Alphas and your fellow subs.
10. Manipulation
The last point here is a broad stroke generalization for all the gaslighting, excuse-making, and other such vapid waste that subs spew in their squabbles with an Alpha. This isn’t a relationship of peers. This isn’t a negotiation. This is kink, s********n, and servitude to your Master. We have heard it all, and we see your pathetic tricks coming a mile away. Save it.
Avoid these my sweet pets if you do not want to be a toxic sub to your Master.
Serve well, and to my Dominant readers, stay powerful gents. Comments and questions, as always, are welcome.
In a discussion in the chatroom, MasterTrigger asked me to tell the story of an experience I'd had that taught me to never judge a Man by the cover.
Do I prefer tall men over short? Or muscled men over slim men? The answer for me is that none of that matters. Not when it comes to s********n.
I thought it would be an idea to repeat the story in a blog, so hear goes...
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I was contacted on a site called slaveboys some years ago, by a man who was into corporal punishment, and liked to treat subs like 'naughty schoolboys'... not something I was into at all, but his message hit something. He asked for my phone number, and he called me. His voice and how he spoke to me took me instantly into a powerful submissive state...
He called a me a few times, calling me a naughty boy as he spoke gently with absolute authority. A deep and very calm voice that got deep into my head. But it wasn't just the voice. It was how he spoke to me with total authority.
I agreed to visit him, as it was 20 miles away.
I went on the agreed evening, but I had no idea what he looked like... I'd not seen a photo of him.
When he opened the door, he was about 68, short, very overweight, thick glasses, and a comb over. Quite an unappealing sight....
He beckoned me in, having told me beforehand to wear a white shirt and tie. He told me to put some shorts on that he had for me to wear... the whole schoolboy thing was as he wanted it.
I stood in his kitchen with him in front of me, and he began talking softly to me.
I immediately went into a very deep submissive state from his voice and words, how he spoke to me and what he said.
I responded as if a was a small boy, as that's how he made me feel.
He took me upstairs and had me lay over his lap for a spanking, to punish me for being a naughty boy
I actually felt like that, and felt i deserved it. He'd got so deep into my mind, and was in total control.
He lay on the bed and had me stroke him, then told me to just lay quietly beside him. He put his arm around me and held me, continuing to talk softly to me, with complete authority...
I went into such a state of deep s********n that I began crying and started sobbing like a babe.
I'd never before experienced such deep submissive feelings.
When it was over, we went to the kitchen and chatted normally. He told me about himself, and he was such a nice man.
I was desperate to see him again.
This taught me to NEVER judge a Man by the cover. Never.
A sexy voice is just a sexy voice. Muscles are just muscles. A handsome face is just a handsome face.
He had no physical appeal, whatsoever. Quite the opposite!
It is the character and authority of the man inside that makes it work.
There are many men with good looks, muscles, a sexy voice, who simply don't have it.
He had all that he needed.
It's often the case, those who are naĂŻve about how and why communities like ours, often use terminology that to them is inflammatory or has negative connotations in everyday society.
Any gay man who may have been bullied to a lesser or greater degree at school will tell you the term "faggot" is used in schools, and will have been called that now and then in the past - regardless if they were "out" at school or not,.
It often gets used to demean anyone who "doesn't fit-in" so viewed by the majority as weaker, geeky, nerdy, gimpish, or just inferior in that context.
But what about this context? (of a findom community)
The first group of people who question the use of "Fagot" (for obvious reasons) tend to be gay men. Society has come a long way, but some words are still used in a way that is upsetting for the people who are the targets. It is understandable many terms are going to get people's backs up, but with change comes evolution and progress.
I have always used the term "Queer" to describe myself, it also means unusual, quirky, singular or different. It is an adjective, not historically a noun. That's a choice others have criticised, as it's been used to insult them in their own lives, and I respect that.
As a gay man myself, openly gay and not ashamed of it to say it .and stand by my choice to use it in my own interpretation of the term, and aim to educate others about it's re-appropriation..
I've had fights over my sexual identity and others have died in our names to defend our entire existence, sadly many still do.
Back to education... it needs to be written down somewhere- because at some point we'll need to explain the circumstances of this social metamorphism of word-play and linguistic repurposing, From detriment to empowerment.
So, on Faggot!...
"Faggot" is a term (Similar to "Queer", "Dyke" or "Nigger") once used by those who hated us to denigrate us all, reclaimed by some within the LGBT community as a term self-defining submissive use to identify as.
Fags and Faggots of the world, we salute you!
A fag is still a human, not a real man, for sure; but still a lowly class of human.
It's human who consents to and who craves the degradation of itself by Men it sees as its betters.
Respect
is not to be taken for granted. Respect can easily be lost. The
same goes for the relationship between the Dominant and the submissive; the Man
and the fag. A true Dominant will give a fag's life a sense of
purpose. A Man who behaves irresponsibly will not. When a true
Master is connected with a true submissive, power is exchanged. The
s********n is a big commitment. Something precious is handed over. The
Dominant has the power to crush the submissive but He chooses not to, because
He understands that with this power comes great responsibility. The
Dominant is submitted to because he deserves it, because of who He is.
Fags should take time getting to know the Dominant and vice versa; exploring
together whether they have found a good match; but realising the finality of
the situation if the fag chooses to refuse. This will be game over, the
end of the line, door closed. Sometimes that is a necessary decision,
sometimes the fag is being pig-headed.
It
is vital that any Dominant who is given something as precious as a fag's
s********n takes this s********n seriously. He has the power to say and
do things that could have a catastrophic impact on the fag. Fags should
also be sensible and think about what they are being told however in that
moment of s********n, the only thing a fag truly desires is to please the
all-powerful Man. The fag has entrusted himself completely to its Dominant
and its Dominant needs to understand that with the fag's eyes fixed so firmly
on Him, it is hard to see anything else.
When
limits are set and agreed, the submissive should give himself wholly to the
Dominant. For the Dominant to do as He pleases, to take what He wants, to
use as He wishes. The limits have been set, s********n has been
given. Service and s********n are not only when it's fun. A true
submissive puts the needs of the Man before his own.
s********n is precious. Treasure it. Nurture it. Stretch it. And you will have the loyalist of fags who serves you with every waking breath because you deserve it and have demonstrated how seriously you take the responsibility that comes with it.
Fags, now it’s time to submit yourself to BOOTSMASTER, to tribute me and to join my stable!
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