Reimbursement opportunities. I got some replies from subs stating I need money to pay my event tickets (which were listed as . Clearly these fags are a bit confused as one can only be reimbursed if the money has already been spent.
Now. I do understand why some subs are confused. Often I see on Twitter a picture of a shopping cart and a Dom asking for reimbursement. If the cart has not been paid for, than there is absolutely no reason to ask for reimbursement. In fact the Dom probably hadn’t the money to pay for the item in his shopping cart in the first place. Or the Dom never was going to buy the item but just wanted (begged) cash to pay other bills.
Where is the Dominance when you ask subs to pay for things that you actually can’t afford ? Honestly, this sounds dumb and desperate
Now back to the replies on my reimbursement opportunity. Every reimbursement opportunity or receipt I post here or on my Twitter have always been paid in full. I don’t need anything. I can pay my own bills and take care of all my expenses.
Now what I do like to
see, is that subs spend their hard earned money on me instead of spending my own.
It’s a hot game, they thank me for it. And as sub, who do you like to serve ? a
Dom that is needy or a Dom that manages his own money properly …
It is common for people to take a step back and dedicate a portion of their time to self reflection at the beginning of a new year.
As opposed to making that process coincident with the Earth completing yet another boring loop around the Sun, I like to entertain such thoughts closer to my birthday instead (the 5th of April), which seems like a much better occasion and excuse to celebrate and look back.
By the time I turn thirty seven next week, I will have been a member of this site for almost three years, and I think that it is fair to say that this site has changed me; not in a drastic, or in a bad way. But the more we grow, the more we find ourselves wanting to learn and experience new things, for which change is usually a suitable mechanism to go through.
This has always been a trait of mine, also in my personal and my professional life: I do not like stagnation and I do not do well staying at idle over extended periods of time.
My time in OF has not been any different.
When I first joined, I found myself surrounded by people who, for the first time, understood a very personal part of me that I had rarely shown to anyone else.
I would say that my communication style back then was certainly more assertive, if not borderline aggressive. Perhaps under the misconception (unfortunately shared by many) that such were the tools and characteristics of Dominants.
Being, at the time, surrounded by a number of very successful Alphas with a clear bias towards leather, boots worshiping, or pain-play (kinks which were not particularly high up on my list of preferences, or not as high as they were in theirs, at least), made me question my approach to domination compared to theirs.
I was still feeling a sense of belonging, but there were very significant differences between us that I struggled to reconcile.
Yet, these guys managed to pique my interest on a continued basis, and even brought a competitive side out of me, wanting me to do better within the scene. And the ability to motivate others is something that I will always admire in people.
The chat room was a fundamental tool for me to gain perspective. I found myself chatting with other users for hours, subs and Doms alike, getting to know them better, appreciating the nuances of their dynamics, learning about what made them tick, getting insights into their psyche, and eventually bounding with them.
And, as I learnt more from them and about them, I also learnt more about myself: what fascinated me the most about this site was and will always be the human interactions.
It is not about sums of money, it is not about the rankings, it is not about sex; it is about building trusting relationships:
With my fellow Doms, because they are individuals sharing a rather unique and uncommon kink with me.
And with subs, because the unquestioning obedience that most of us seek comes from building trust and developing relationships, rather than from proclaiming a title and dictating rules.
And, as it happens, I have always been good and thoroughly enjoyed building relationships.
I did not need the gear, I did not need the aggressiveness and, for what is worth, I did not even need a face. I just had to continue exploring the beauty of human interactions and their multiple facets to find my place.
As a wise submissive from this site said once (yes, there are A LOT of smart, incredibly intelligent, and wise submissives around): the rest are nothing more than tools to “lubricate” such relationships.
Fast-forward a couple of years, my approach has not changed much ever since that initial realisation. What has drastically changed is who I choose to cultivate those relationships with, and how much energy I opt to invest in each of them.
Arguably, it is a matter of deciding “whether if the juice is worth the squeeze”. And if you think I am talking about cash, think again; subs and Doms can offer a lot more than that.
I have significantly reduced my interactions in the chat room, I have not made as much contributions to the site as I used to, but I am still enjoying it, having fun and I plan to continue celebrating birthdays as a member of Submit for years to come.
I would urge you to dwell and dig deeper too. Open up (not only sexually, but also mentally), make your dynamics varied, get creative.
Transactional interactions can be fun, but they are usually short-lived.
As I often tell my subs: in a few years time, you will not remember the individual tributes you received or made, but you will certainly cherish the way some of them made you feel and the interactions that you had the opportunity to share along the way.
From today Masters can now instantly withdraw their Tips to a bank account without having to wait for the monthly pay-out date.
The minimum amount of Tips needed to make a withdrawal has been lowered to 500 Tips (ÂŁ50) from 800 (ÂŁ80).
From November Tips will also be withdrawable after 2 weeks instead of the current 4!
If you have any problems with the new system please email support@ownedfags.com
Do not use the comments or message MOA for support.
Thank you!
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Short summary for happy and entertained Masters and slaves! At least from my personal experiences,
Monday is tribute day; Master decides how much, where and how to tribute. No Master?Ask an Alpha you fancy for a tribute opportunity.
Lucky slaves who were kindly given a debt contract usually pay a part every monday but that is Master to decide.
Tuesday is... to come soon
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Wednesday is: wishlist day
_Thursday= 10ÂŁ Thursday
_Friday= fagtax
_Sunday= reimbursements day
A play day for slaves to sneak in Master(s) wish list & buy a small (or big) something for the Master or Masters you like. See my blog post about wish list Wednesday (on my profile).
Friday is known fagtax.
Time for a new tribute occasion; I am launching: the 10ÂŁ Thursday!
A day,
we slaves will choose one or more Masters we fancy and send him (or
them) a 10ÂŁ gift (or 100 tips), Easy and fun.
Tributing every day is not what makes a good slave.
It is not the frequency nor the amount that make a good helpful, useful and faithful slave.
I truly think a good slave and a good Master will depend on what you look for, what you like, how you get along together, how everyone behaves and what kind of dom/sub relation you will build up together.
But then, tributing everyday or very regularly is fun and hot! Why do without? At least, if you can afford it and if and you want this!
My opinion: It doesn’t have to be big! Many small tributes or targets on regular basis are just as exciting and effective. The important thing being to show s********n and devotion.
So far then my new idea & way for an extra tribute occasionw hich I think is can be nice and fun for both Masters andlaves but that is up to you,
This, as my previous tributing games & ways were created to please and entertain Master as well as all Masters and slaves on the site
Many verified Masters without a slave and many single slaves! I like those games and different habits of tributing on weekly basis because it is giving all Masters the occasion to be tributed and it gives all slaves the opportunity and fun to tribute one or several Masters without getting engaged,
have fun,
enslaved
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2 months on the site & into findom. What an exciting world & discovery. Such a fantastic site & community. Thank you Masters & slaves to make it so great. And a huge thank you to MOA for creating the site & his work on it.
What I learned & did. What I like & don't! Tributes, serving Masters? I love it.
See my many tributes on my profile page & scroll down & down & down! Everyone is having his own preferences, do's & don't.
I respect everyone's choices as for mine so far & mainly due to some bad web experiences. I go for verified Masters with a few albums that include face photos. Most Alphas are verified with such albums. Time to play & serve. I am part of the group: Amazon lists on this site but mostly serve with tips. Please do not ask for any other ways. Especially if not knowing each other! yes I do have Skype & enjoy so called cam sessions to see & hear Master & his orders but let us begin here please. I will always try to entertain & please superiors.
Alphas are priority. I enjoy public use, humiliation & multiple draining. Not ruining! For now I am not into
pillory games.
Over 1700 Masters on the site & even more submissives. it's obvious I can not serve all Alphas matching my criteria. I will though do my best to stay on my slave's place. Keep it fun & horny for Masters & those who like me.
Targets on the other hand is a great way to serve,
entertain & make Sirs horny when used on public multiple draining
sessions. I am unowed & free to stay so but I love the hand of a dominant expert. Master Pete is in charge for my targets.His guidance & experience is precious on keping my targets & serving hot & possible. Idea, suggestions, wishes? you can ask him. He may not be my owner. I trust him, will follow his directions & obey his commands.
Please check his blog post: https://www.ownedfags.com/blogs/1592 you can ask him directly.
Any further personal use can also be asked to GrandMasterB: https://www.ownedfags.com/user/GrandMasterB
thank you Masters & everyone for making this site & community so hot & great
Master's shout to Masters:
Break the number of Targets for this slave. Hay Masters lets see how many targets this slave can handel at one time. We will set a record, if we set long small ones, lads. for one month at a small amount, you can do it.
Set long but small targets for enslaved". We are trying for small targets around ÂŁ10 for about a month or more.
me: I hate declining an Alpha's target. I rather please & entertain Sirs. I will accept all targets fiting those few description. Send me a message to set your target. Add a hot humiliating tittle & description for you & other Alphas.
Targets are accepted by date except for those with a very humiliating title and description that will be accepted first.
Everything is controlled & decided by expert Master Pete.He will be in charge & give his directions & commands.. I will proceed & obey.
thank you Masters. have fun Sirs.
respectfully,
Enslaved
A big thank you to Master Pete for coming up with this idea. Master Pete is not my owner but he is in charge for this challenge.
You turn up a bit nervous, even though it is not your first time there.
He welcomes you in full gear which, at first, always feels a bit intimidating.
He can read it in your body language, so he puts a firm hand on your shoulder to put you at ease as he looks deep in your eyes and says:
- You have nothing to worry about, just relax, boy.
He shows you where he wants you to lay down and you immediately do as you are told.
He is in charge.
Sometimes he is there on his own, but oftentimes he also invites one of his colleagues over, making you feel even more vulnerable and outnumbered.
- Open up for me, boy
he orders, as he approaches your gaping hole with his hands.
He usually starts by sticking his fingers inside first and then continues by making use of some of his tools.
- Open wider for me, boy, much wider.
he says, as he proceeds to explore your insides.
- This might hurt a little bit, but you have to relax and trust me.
he says, as he has his way inside you.
You feel completely powerless and at his mercy, yet somehow it feels right letting him do what he does best.
At the end of the day, you were the one who decided to arrange the visit in the first place.
You have no say on the matter and you have been told that you are not allowed to speak anyway, so you stay there, quietly, trying not to gag until he is fully satisfied with his work.
It is always him who determines when it is over, your opinion does no matter, so you just allow him to continue as he goes in and out your hole with all his tools and toys, while you drool and feel pathetic.
Meanwhile, his colleague witnesses the scene in awe as you feel completely numb while he goes harder and deeper into your orifice.
- We are done with you now, boy.
You did well.
You may spit or swallow if you want.
You thank him, as you have been told you should always do.
You leave the room, still a bit confused after having paid a significant large amount of money, knowing damn well that this is definitely not going to be the last time that you visit the dentist.
A Slave asked me to browse his latest photo collection after a RT session – pics of him on his knees, bound, with his wallet in his mouth and his Master's rock-hard cock looming over him.
I took control of his screen on TeamViewer and explored the folder of images ... Then I realised the l Fool left his OwnedFags window open. I drained his a entire bank of tips, all while while he begged me not to.
Then, three nights ago, he asked me to browse his new photo collection. The fag had even restocked his tips.
So eager to serve.
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