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International Findom recruitment dream
I woke up this morning with my head consumed with Findom.

The alarm clock woke me up for work during a dream about an international Findom recruitment campaign.

It was very sketchy with little detail, but the essence of it was:

Members of a global Findom organisation were methodically contacting individuals to find out if they were naturally Alpha or beta by nature. They would then draw them into an indoctrination process into the truth about where they naturally fit into society when the fake social equality mindset is stripped away.(A bit like the methods of Jehovah's Witnesses or Mormons).

In the dream, the recruitment/conversion campaign had become well advanced, and i was helping an Alpha to strip a beta's home of it's content and replacing the content with the basic requirements. It wasn't a gay beta, but a married one with family, and in this 'new world' where Findom was spreading quickly in society, the betas/fags weren't decided by sexuality... simply by being male betas. Alpha males learnt that betas were for using and exploiting, and betas accepted that was their role in life.

Quite a powerful dream that has really stayed with me all day.


Lending an Ear. A small chat to make you feel better, maybe even ...

As most of you have seen, I have been openly asking anyone who needs to chat to contact me on Skype. I feel I can now share why I have been doing this and what is currently happening within my community.

In February this year, I was driving back to the office from a meeting in Manchester. As I came off the Motorway and onto the Dual Carriageway, A shape dropped from a bridge, right onto the windshield of a car 3 in front of mine. It was a student from a local school. This was the Fourth young person (3 of which were male) to commit suicide off this bridge. Of course, traffic stopped. people came and gawped at the incident and the young man. Myself and another motorist went to see if there was anything we could do from a first aid perspective. Sadly it was too late for the young man but quite a lot of people were suffering from shock. The police and ambulance where quick to the scene and obviously traffic was held for some time while the Emergency services did what they needed to.

I still see this young mans face and went to the funeral service to pay my respects.

As part of my role with work, I communicate with local Schools and shortly after the incident I was having a brew with one of the councilling team that had been working with students in the aftermath. She told me that the reason he had chose to take his life was due to a relationship with another male. He could not tell his family. I was shocked that this still happens in the UK and that they felt there was nobody to talk to.

As a college we have opened up a service to the community, involving councillors, volunteers and members of the emergency services to have confidential chats with anyone who wants to talk. This is open to anyone in the community and the view of the team as a whole is if we save one life, we have succeeded.

I am writing this to ask all of you. If you are mentally sound enough to deal with it, open yourselfs to others to chat. It does make a difference.

Thanks for reading. Fancy a chat? my Skype is always open.

Something i wonder about Masters is - who does actually get sexually aroused by receiving tributes from fags?

 Maybe you don't. But if you do, what is it about it that turns you on?


Which of these is You? 

There may be more than one that applies to You. 

You may have other reasons that aren't included here. Please mention them.

1. I get heavily sexually turned on by the power of it.

2. I get a bit sexually turned on by the power of it.  

3. I get sexually stimulated from being worshipped through cash, but not in a massive way.

4) I do it simply because I'm a superior Alpha. I get a buzz from it, but it's not sexual.

5) It's fun and I enjoy it, but it's just an interest I have. It's not sexual for me.

6) It's a way to make some money from fags, nothing more. 

Being a cashfag

I posted this on my blog yesterday, thought about posting it here to:

I have been into the Findom scene for about 3 years, and I have tributed and served many different Men so far. I never thought that I was gonna get into this fetish and lifestyle.

As Y/you can see by my blog, I believe in the superiority of the Black Men, but I already tributed non-Black Men that were clearly Superior to me.

I always was submissive and liked to pay for everything when I used to have dates.

I was a cuckold during 3 years and my (then) girlfriend never had to pay for Uber, Motels or condoms ever, I always made sure to pay for everything.

Now I feel complete when I pay my tribute (or fag tax) to one (or more) of my Superiors. Knowing They are enjoying life, having great experiences and that I'm helping Them achieve that is very rewarding to me.

I work hard and feel good knowing that I'll send to my Superior this money I'm going to receive. He deserve it and I'm honored to give.

I've lost count of how many extra time I made so far just to pay my tributes.

I never imagined that I would feel so happy.

Thank You to all Alpha Men for letting faggots like me to serve You.

Treatment of my fag

After a long day I return home after being in full leather all day, I release my slave from its cage. My naked collared human ashtray at my feet, licking my boots, i grab its collar and lock on the heavy leash. I take my 8x80 Asylum cigar and fire it up, hauling hard producing lots of heavy gar smoke and thick ash. I spit in its mouth and I f***e him to eat my ash. Then i put my gloved fingers in its mouth, I f***e him to take all of my big leather clad hand inside making it gag, I look at it with my devil’s smile holding the cigar between my teeth. I f***e it to inhale my thick gar smoke, I put some ash on my boot and i push its head with my other boot to lick it off.

While I enjoy my cigar I look at this fucking slave licking the dirty sole of my boots, telling it “faster, I want the sole perfectly clean in 10 minutes otherwise I will turn your ass into a striped red flag with my thick leather paddle”, while it’s licking, I grab the leash tight and I shovel in its mouth a big piece of ash.

It cannot finish to clean my boots on time, so i grab it from the leash and I drag it on the couch bending it over the armrest. Its trying to move but I  place my left boot on his neck to block it, i take out my thick leather paddle firmly in my gloved hand and I begin to punish it. I let it count how many times I strike it while I haul on my cigar, As soon as i have some thick ash I f***e it to eat it, it’s ass now looks like a raspberry. It’s crying, I hold its head and feed my thick gar smoke inside its mouth, I spit in its mouth, I unzip my leather breeches and take out my thick erect dick with my 8mm PA and I f***e it to take it all, feeling it deep in its throat holding its head by the ears. Every time I hear it gag I slap it very hard, it has to learn how to please me.

SLAVE wants to be CONTROLLED in a TPE arrangement


masterskinYESTERDAY WAS APPROACHED BY LAD ONLINE WHO WANTS TO BE TRANSFORMED TOTALLY INTO A SKIN. Some rubber sub in east London - says he wants a TPE and total control house him for the master benefit.
He starts of by ******* 40**** to me for a pair of bleachers, then after an hour of conversation *** pals *200 for a pair of boots.
Then he asks me to take more control and offers his bank details but I tell him to give me his ***Pal account logon and password
He did right away - I took a bit more - he is gonna be one great slave..................... edited as the BOT thought I was suggesting you guys do something other than TIPS

Slave is gonna be padlocked into boots for 3 weeks - keys will be sent once the boots are worn in! Daily photos have been demanded and should start 3 weeks from nowdaily foots will be posted here

Sacrifice and isolation

In some ways it seems the experienced cashfag is well-positioned to get through the current situation perhaps with less difficulty than others or even than many masters. (I know not everyone is having the same experience right now and some are much worse off than others.  I speak only for my own experience.)

Sacrifice for the greater good.  Service over self.  Going without for a period of time.  These all come naturally for a fag.  Curtailing certain activities, following directions, modifying typical behaviors - good subs have lots of practice in all of these.

Self-isolation has even provided an opportunity to keep my fagdick locked up while on lockdown.  And with some extra time to spend i am also able to spend more cash on masters.  Because this time has not been as difficult for me as it might for others without experience in these practices, i recognize a special responsibility to do even more to make Doms (and others) comfortable and do my part to support everyone.

Confused Masters' comments... ?

Some confusing comments on some profile of Masters.

"Pay me to abuse you"

"You will pay me to lick my feet"

"My time is money. You'll pay for my attention"

...and similar 'pay me for' comments.

These are not findom. These are Masters offering a service for payment.

"Hand over your money because I deserve it, and I'll laugh at you"

"Open your wallet and hand over what's mine"

"You can't resist paying me for nothing in return"

This is findom.

See the difference?

Human ATM
its Thursday  February 27th 2020 and i got a text from my sir  about to meet him by an ATM and do a drain live. I had to leave work and went to meet my Sir,  with my card,  by the ATM not that fare from where i work. No word was speaken, i just put my card in the ATM, enterd the code and then Sir took over. Saw him pressed the amount , than gave me my card and took the cash. i said thank you and Sir left me.  It only took some seconds , and i was so horny about the session, where sir drained me live. That was a fucking good drain and hope my Sir will send me more text about meetings by an ATM for drain.
"Straight" Masters, "gay" slaves
I've seen a lot of truth-twisting when it comes to the "Sexuality" listing in Master profiles on this site. Of course, anyone can say anything they want in any aspect of their profile; much of online representation is fantasy anyway. But sometimes I think Masters intentionally lie about being heterosexual in order to hoodwink gullible fags. And if someone does that, I don't believe they deserve the cash they got from them, because it was, frankly, fraudulently obtained.

There are a handful of well-known masters on this site who are demonstrably straight. A lot of us use the "bisexual" listing option with varying rationales -- in my case, I have enjoyed using both women and male fags for My sexual gratification, and continue to do so now -- ie, I mean this year, not one woman one time 30 years ago or something. One master on here I've met in person is as straight as they come, but he told me "I've put my dick into fag's mouths to piss down their throats; I'd feel dishonest if I didn't count that on my profile as bisexual behaviour."

Meanwhile, a number of masters on the site call themselves "straight" and put on a front publicly that they have zero same-sex attractions in order to create an image that draws the sort of cash fag who "only worships straight men" -- meanwhile in private they send me pics of their spread arseholes and/or tell me about all the sex they have with men.

Part of the problem is confusion between sexual orientation and, conversely, people's position on the Dom/$ub spectrum. I think there are OF masters whose only experience with a vagina was coming out of one at birth, but still they hesitate to list themselves on here as "gay" -- because "gay" still carries stigma, and sounds too much like "submissive fag." And homophobic str8 masters who insult the gay masters and call them "undercover fags" only add to the problem.

But for what it is worth, I think there is a big difference between a sexuality that including being aroused by male bodies or some male/male sex acts -- versus the submissive urges to tribute Superiors, lick toilets, choke on big cocks, be owned, etc etc etc.

But there is no genuine shame in any of those things -- unless a sub actually needs its feelings of shame exploited and amplified in roleplay for purposes of brainwashing and control!

For some, submission is mental. For others it is sexual. For many, it is both. The same is true for Masters. You don't have to be physically turned on by a cunt to enjoy abusing and controlling it.

Perhaps it would simplify things -- and lead to greater honesty -- if we took the Straight, Gay and Bisexual labels off profiles altogether, and replaced them with Dominant, Submissive and -- if we want to be really honest -- Versatile.