Once you find your place in findom and work out the pitfalls and the aspects that suit your temperament and urges...
Once you learn self-discipline and fit it into your life in a way it enhances you rather than detracts...
It can be the lifestyle that makes and fulfils you.
For a genuine sub, the act of submitting money to an Alpha, with the expectations of nothing in return, just an offering... can be the most invigorating and rewarding experience.
The task is to learn to decipher the genuine deserving Alphas from the opportunists & chancers.
