As a newbie you may wonder, when is the best time to consider joining a stable on this site? I have only been on this site a couple of days and wanted to share a reflection on how cope with the first day or two as a lone stray or slave on here and trying to navigate your way around the site, and come to grips with all its features... and possible early pitfalls!
On my first day after registration, someone said to me that it can feel like being ‘thrown into a pool of sharks’, and there is certainly some truth in that so prepare yourself!
However, if you explore that analogy a little further, you can actually find a solution in there too! For me, what I did was, when the first ‘shark’ or Master came along who presented as clearly powerful, dominant, charismatic and communicated a clear projection of an overall decent person with personality (yes, I’m talking about you, my beloved MasterZal, you can start preening your feathers while you smile that knowing smile!)… well, I bought him a beer and asked him about joining his stable. My initial judgement of him was confirmed when he advised not to rush into things too quickly unless I was absolutely sure. This ‘shark’ didn’t bite needlessly then and had some real and genuine empathy for me in my predicament. To be serious, being taken in by Masterzal is like walking into the corner shop and buying a lottery ticket and then winning big time! I simply can’t wait, and am giddy with excitement and butterflies, to begin deepening and strengthening our Master/slave dynamic, learn from him and open myself up to all the new opportunities for growth and personal development that comes with any new special relationship. I feel truly blessed to have stepped through the front door of OF and found Masterzal waiting there to greet me at the ‘welcome mat’ and show me around. How many slaves can truly say that they have had that same intensively positive and encouraging start to their life at OF? Quality conversations and interactions from the get-go! Comments below, please! Or drop me a message and tell me your story, I would love to hear it, both good and less good experiences!
Later that first day I wanted to thank him for his advice and his general good guy vibes (how they gently pull our strings so, eh?!) so I bought him a really nice blue camo computer mouse from his Amazon wishlist. When he later thankedme for it and commented that he would think of me when he used it, which on this site might well be quite a lot, I realised that he hadsussed me out! I wanted him to think about me a lot, every time his Master’s hand grabbed that mouse and clicked. It would feel like it was a little bit of me he was grabbing and giving me a friendly ‘click’ or nudge.Or for every mouse scroll.. like a soft stroke or pat on the head.
Masterzal very kindly accepted my application to join his prestigious stable only 24 hours after joining the site, and was probably quite right indeed to call me a bit of a stray puppy looking for a collar and a short leash! But power and control is always a two-way process, it is never all about one side of the coin. And it made me reflect on my own and my gorgeous beloved Master’s words and actions... who exactly was controlling who and how in this scenario I’ve just outlined? Worth thinking about, eh? Who has gained more from the ‘transaction’?
To go back to the shark pool analogy, my reasoning was this: where is the safest place to be in a pool of sharks? Ask the Remora or Pilot Fish… they swim close to the sharks, eat any parasites feeding off the shark and so have formed an inter-dependent, symbiotic relationship with them… a bit like Masters and slaves when they truly get it right and commit to taking the time to get to know each and walk a journey together. From the point of a newbie slave - as a ‘Pilot Fish’ in a pool of ‘sharks’ - my advice to newbies is this…find the very best ‘shark’ you can, the very best Master who will help you grow and deepen your slave mindspace... and also find great comfort and refuge from predators in these perilous waters! Happy Swimming!
Click here for info on the Pilot fish!" https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pilot_fish
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