I met an OF Master over a d***k last week and as he was talking about the not-so-enjoyable meeting he once had with a guy who was a not a real slave, I realised that the same applies to me.
I like the idea, the fantasy of being a slave and I can play along with it, but it is not me and it doesn't even turn me on. It's something I think I should be, but am not.
In a real time meet, at some point I'll always roll my eyes, fight the urge to snigger or wonder how much longer it's going to be, and I'll rarely get even hard.
There, I admitted it: I am an impostor!
cynic, it applauds you for being so honest and truthful. It agrees with Master Phranklin, the Master who has agreed to the meeting should pick out the situation and decide if its worth working on. Dragging out a social meeting that is awkward when no one is going to enjoy/get anything out of it is pointless. It also agrees with Master Pete, what any of us 'expect' or 'hope' to find is rarely on the first meet. Profiles on these sites are to entice, they must be exciting or what is the point of putting it there. A good S&M should have a sound basis of trust, honesty, respect and safety on both sides which to learn from. The comments added here are very needed and it good that you have opened this up - well done!cynic, it applauds you for being so honest and truthful. It agrees with Master Phranklin, the Master who has agreed to the meeting should pick out the situation and decide if its worth working on. Dra...See more