asked that way; subs are very clever obviously as for dominants, depends who, what he does, does not, behave, say or do not say. same answer for both roles as it's not the role but his personality & behaviour that makes him clever.

Subs are smart enough to know I should make decisions for them

subs are also smart enough to see who is a real dom & who is a guy who's just looking for money.

it is!

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I have seen it happen. But it’s rare. In the cases where I’ve seen it succeed, the sub was direct and honest about his needs, and the partner loved him enough to explore, ultimately discovering the nascent dominance the sub recognized. I fear subtlety is unlikely to achieve much, even as I recognize that directness risks losing much. Successful D/s relationships almost always require great risk.I have seen it happen. But it’s rare. In the cases where I’ve seen it succeed, the sub was direct and honest about his needs, and the partner loved him enough to explore, ultimately discovering the na...See more

everyone's different, I would say, whatever the action; do only what you feel good with, don't when you don't feel good about it & definitely talk together about whatever you want like, dislike, look for or want. No idea what's a dl dom though. take care, keep on loving each other & have fun😊😇💋everyone's different, I would say, whatever the action; do only what you feel good with, don't when you don't feel good about it & definitely talk together about whatever you want like, dislike, look ...See more

Good advice up there. When I’ve been in more vanilla relationships I’m sat down with the other and asked them what their fantasies, and interest were sexually. What is their biggest fantasy, what was the hottest thing, and to ask them to show me some of their fav porn. It created a window to discuss what I wanted and combining it with the things they liked and it was a smoother introduction to things and as time went on things got more intense. What ever happens honesty is key.Good advice up there. When I’ve been in more vanilla relationships I’m sat down with the other and asked them what their fantasies, and interest were sexually. What is their biggest fantasy, what was ...See more