I love watching a sub give up control, the look of panic in their eyes, what will I demand next, maybe its those tips draining from your account, how many slaps you have to deliver to your balls or how much I will crank up your e-stim 😈
I love playing games, manners are a must for every slip of the manners you will receive punishment.
Chasity - lock up ur dicks and post me the key, give me control.
Once i get to know you, what drives you crazy, whats your favourite toy, etc….. I will tease you, torment you, pleasure you and when necessary punish you.
What I want
Subs who are willing to give up control and truly experience obedience. You must understand your limits must be tested, pushed and worked hard in order to grow.
New subs who need training - to experienced, all welcome. Subs sent on loan for discipline are also welcome.
Don’t come to me with a long list of what you don’t like, you are coming to serve so the only thing that really matters is what I like and how you can please me!
What experience do you have?
I have been working subs for some time now, and I have been on the receiving end and been dominated. Nothing quite like letting go of all control and not questioning your dom just obeying. It brings a sense of fullness and eager want for more.
Rest assured that once I have worked you hard I will take time to rebuild you.
One year of exclusive findom ownership to SHM. Entered his stable a year ago today after my first Pillory. The rest as they say, is history. Thanks for the amazing community support in that time guys 🔥 Trust ✅. Fun(d) ✅. Loyalty ✅.
I’m planing a drain game with my sub but by distributing it to other doms through a humiliating game for him to play. Are you interested in participating? Doms, switches, subs welcomed.
Yes I am interested in receiving $ (send me a msg) (37 votes 73%)
No (3 votes 6%)
No but keep coming up with games. (5 votes 10%)
Voting on this to bump the poll for more community interaction. (6 votes 12%)
nope. you & him having fun, messaging each other & build a real online relation is my idea of community. I'm not interested in "making" money on a findom site. have a good time you 2 & by the way; nice socks I saw😉
2 definitily. That used to be the idea, wish & dream. Something honest, interesting, caring. . Not to meet a venal man looking for nothing but to make money.
Some of these subs need serious discipline but they don't even realize it. Y'all wanna have a dom or wanna get owned but still want to have control of lot of things.
I'm a type of dom who likes to take most decisions with his sub, but even I get tired of this type of behaviour. Don't act like you want to be dominated when all you actually want is spending like 10-15 minutes and throw some money over any 'lucky' doms you can find.
As we always say but most of us don't care to do, this 💩 should be more than just the money to make it consistent and more meaningful. It's about your efforts and intentions too. At the end, we all stay around the scene to feed our desires. sometimes it can be money, sometimes loyalty, sometimes having a person you feel attracted or share lot of feelings or thoughts together.
Not gonna lie though, the vast majority of doms are responsible for subs behaving this way. This is what happens when all you do is consistently asking for money without adding some quality to your subs or that relationship.
I had some posts like this in the past because I like passionate people around me. People who brings sustainable quality on whatever they do. Maybe it's just my personal problem about this scene but wish some things were different.
And of course, this is not something that targets everyone or includes blanket criticism. Everybody has their own likes or their own way to do things. But as someone who had great material and nonmaterial times in findom, I think it makes sense to say some things out loud. Especially inexperienced people in the scene should think about it and decide who they want to be or what exactly their needs are.
Although I don't much disagree, this behavior on both sides is prevalent enough in most online D/s (and much RL D/S), and a consequence of very real struggles people have with their often misunderstood feelings. It does not really seem all that shocking to me that it is worse with findom, given the nature of the interaction. A lot of this just comes with the territory we are exploring.Although I don't much disagree, this behavior on both sides is prevalent enough in most online D/s (and much RL D/S), and a consequence of very real struggles people have with their often misunderstoo...See more
Having had a few copy mine. I just take it as a compliment but it annoys me off the subs sake. As for A.I, imagine if there actually was an A.I findom just rinsing bois 😂. There’s gotta be some tech nerd subs who would kink hard for that *coughs* @YELLOWBANDITHaving had a few copy mine. I just take it as a compliment but it annoys me off the subs sake. As for A.I, imagine if there actually was an A.I findom just rinsing bois 😂. There’s gotta be some tech n...See more
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Sep 11nope. you & him having fun, messaging each other & build a real online relation is my idea of community. I'm not interested in "making" money on a findom site. have a good time you 2 & by the way; nice socks I saw😉
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Aug 21Everyone has different needs, demands, limits and abilities, but I think there’s a match here for everyone.
Aug 21Although I don't much disagree, this behavior on both sides is prevalent enough in most online D/s (and much RL D/S), and a consequence of very real struggles people have with their often misunderstood feelings. It does not really seem all that shocking to me that it is worse with findom, given the nature of the interaction. A lot of this just comes with the territory we are exploring.Although I don't much disagree, this behavior on both sides is prevalent enough in most online D/s (and much RL D/S), and a consequence of very real struggles people have with their often misunderstoo...See moreYou need to sign in to comment
Aug 14Having had a few copy mine. I just take it as a compliment but it annoys me off the subs sake. As for A.I, imagine if there actually was an A.I findom just rinsing bois 😂. There’s gotta be some tech nerd subs who would kink hard for that *coughs* @YELLOWBANDITHaving had a few copy mine. I just take it as a compliment but it annoys me off the subs sake. As for A.I, imagine if there actually was an A.I findom just rinsing bois 😂. There’s gotta be some tech n...See more
