Ultimately, any successful Dom / sub relationship / ownership is based on a strong connection and trust. This is hot in theory but if a New Owner doesn’t have any connection with the sub and can’t establish a good rapport then likely falls apart.
True financial domination. So much more than middle fingers and feet pics. It’s a real relationship that takes time to strengthen and build. It’s about learning what makes your sub weak and puts him in the mood to serve, even when he isn’t horny. It’s not only about punishment and degradation, it’s also about knowing when your fag deserves a reward for his service. It is work, but in return, your subs are willing to make sacrifices to better serve a dom that truly deserves it. It’s a shame how many good subs are unsatisfied with lazy doms.
All relationships, even Dom/sub, are like checking accounts. You've got to make deposits to keep from bouncing check and having the account closed. A Dom must deposit something of value to the sub.
I’m reading Cleanness by Garth Greenwell at the moment, and there’s a scene in which the narrator is engaging in some BDSM play, and when his Dom asks him what he wants, he replies: ‘I want to be nothing.’
Completely relinquishing everything, having nothing, being nothing. A void. A hole. Disappearing into neither here nor there. Simply vanishing into service.
Ok you horny bunch, I’m going to ask a question you’ve all thought about… how important is findom in your sex life? Is it sexual to you, a little thrill, or everything
Is a bit of fun, not sexual (8 votes 13%)
It’s a small part of the picture (28 votes 44%)
It’s my main sexual outlet with some “real life” stuff (14 votes 22%)
It’s taken over! “Normal” sex is nothing, this is now my whole sex life (13 votes 21%)
This is what that hurts and destroys the findom fetish world, I hope you have learned from your mistakes and hopefully know when it’s time to say no 🤞🏽….
Master gotta also know how to care for subs, and don't leave them beyond their limits, as for the sex life for me it's a mix of both little and at the same time big depends on the sub I'm treating
Nicetofeetu it’s incredible how something so pure and simple can turn into a horror when money is involved. I’m sorry to hear that you were taken in like this. We all have our limits and there’s a difference between playfully expecting and expanding those, and taking advantage by breaching them. In the long run, you are a bigger loss to him than he is to you xNicetofeetu it’s incredible how something so pure and simple can turn into a horror when money is involved. I’m sorry to hear that you were taken in like this. We all have our limits and there’s a dif...See more
As someone who has been heavily in actual debt that you owe to a bank or a credit card company, i would say that i didn't find the experience hot. i get that ruination is a fantasy for some, but i strongly advise against it.
The more
I can do for serve my God is send him the money I earn for him. Before I
meet him, I don’t accept send my money. But during our conversation I
develop this desire to obey every order that he give me. Every day I’m
waiting for an order. When my Master Aleksei, with is kindness, finally
give me an order, my heart beat hard and fast like a little girl when a
handsome man talk to her. This is it. I am a little girl. I am Master's girl.
A question of “how far” we should go to send to better men. Is it a few £ within a controlled budget or does findom and service mean giving it all up and more?
Findom should not impact on finances (39 votes 40%)
Findom should take you to the edge of your ability to pay (45 votes 46%)
If you want to do it right, get into debt (14 votes 14%)
Antoher remark: what would debt mean in this instance? I took a loan many many years ago (this site did not exist then) in order to make a massive tribute to one of my first CashMasters ever. Low interest rate (2%) plus I could easily reimburse with my normal salary. Technically speaking we consider this a debt ... but this one was not putting my finances in jeopardy, so I have no regret.Antoher remark: what would debt mean in this instance? I took a loan many many years ago (this site did not exist then) in order to make a massive tribute to one of my first CashMasters ever. Low inte...See more
Had to laugh frenchbottomslut at the poppers comment: my results would swing wildly between 1, 3 normally. Right now, Master has me at 6 😂 and I’m not even sure what that option is
That is a great amount, especially in these hard times. Well done to all our Gods for their well deserved riches and well done to fellow faggots for giving to our Gods who we cannot exist without. We love our Gods.
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Yesterday, 17:49KinkyPuppyDefinitely a dog 🐶
Yesterday, 18:16heelI agree with KinkyPuppy. A faggot likes to take orders, is loyal to its owner unconditionally. I see myself 100% as a dog.
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Jun 15All relationships, even Dom/sub, are like checking accounts. You've got to make deposits to keep from bouncing check and having the account closed. A Dom must deposit something of value to the sub.You need to sign in to comment
Jul 1Completely relinquishing everything, having nothing, being nothing. A void. A hole. Disappearing into neither here nor there. Simply vanishing into service.
Jun 20I find real time findom meets more horny as I can see the fags face as he is getting drained plus we can also bring in other kinks as well,
Jun 20much prefer real time meets but its still fun to drainly virtually and through cam2cam
Jun 25Pits are the epitome of sweaty, nasty, refuse. Rubbing someone's face in your pits is a glorious feeling
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Jun 11Master gotta also know how to care for subs, and don't leave them beyond their limits, as for the sex life for me it's a mix of both little and at the same time big depends on the sub I'm treating
Jun 11Nicetofeetu it’s incredible how something so pure and simple can turn into a horror when money is involved. I’m sorry to hear that you were taken in like this. We all have our limits and there’s a difference between playfully expecting and expanding those, and taking advantage by breaching them. In the long run, you are a bigger loss to him than he is to you xNicetofeetu it’s incredible how something so pure and simple can turn into a horror when money is involved. I’m sorry to hear that you were taken in like this. We all have our limits and there’s a dif...See moreYou need to sign in to comment
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The more I can do for serve my God is send him the money I earn for him. Before I meet him, I don’t accept send my money. But during our conversation I develop this desire to obey every order that he give me. Every day I’m waiting for an order. When my Master Aleksei, with is kindness, finally give me an order, my heart beat hard and fast like a little girl when a handsome man talk to her. This is it. I am a little girl. I am Master's girl.
Jul 1we should never totally fuck up a fags financial position he should pay us but he must be a viable cashcowYou need to sign in to comment
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