"Call me an egoist, but you’ll get farther, and more from me, by genuinely worshipping me. Look at it another way: constantly talking about how inferior you are to everyone, while it could be true, puts me in a large group of people who then, by default, are above you. It’s all relative to you.
Whereas tributing and talking about me being above you because of WHO I AM is elevating me, which of course is right and proper. That is my favorite route.")
Having my cock and balls worshipped, Submissive older men, Cheerful or at least entertaining if miserable.
Call me Boss. (always have plenty of jobs for you to do- for my benefit, entertainment or convenience), Sir or Master are good too.
Approachable and nurturing, can quickly flip it and indulge a little bit of sadism, easy to talk to and able to talk about life outside of the fetish.. I have a fairly strong (non-professional) interest in psychology and getting under your skin and into your head in the longer term, and living there rent reimbursed.
“At the beginning of human history, man lost some of the basic a****l instincts in which an a****l's behavior is embedded and by which it is secured. Such security, like paradise, is closed to man forever; man has to make choices. In addition to this, however, man has suffered another loss in his more recent development inasmuch as the traditions which buttressed his behavior are now rapidly diminishing. No instinct tells him what he has to do, and no tradition tells him what he ought to do; sometimes he does not even know what he wishes to do. Instead, he either wishes to do what other people do (conformism) or he does what other people tell him to do (totalitarianism).”
― Viktor Emil Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning
What I want
Authenticity, Obedience, Trust, Reverance..
Look at me feeling honoured and in awe.
On your knees, with my legs raised either side of you.. one hand on the back of your head, guiding , and the other with a cigarette or a beer.. Passion over experience- Rough to tender. I'll pull your tonsils off my dick when I get close and you will instinctively reach for your wallet.
Then show me, how much it is worth to you.
My kicks from this dynamic come from your your decision and choice to sacrifice for my benefit. That doesn't mean I wont encourage, guide and press you over time but it does mean no b*******l or exposure s**t. I'm not into that.
As mentioned before, love to be the boss and give tasks/instructions/jobs and everything else that comes with that title.
What experience do you have?
A lifetime of being serviced. I enjoy enforcing chastity, intox, loads of Novelty (games/my website)
I like to give tasks and challenges, some to reinforce correct behaviour or mindfulness to me, and some just because they're funny.
Fin Dom experience, an appreciation of the power of listening and then weaponising what you give me, until we both end up where we should be.
It's true that subs accept targets and pillories willingly but we also have to keep in mind that they are the ones putting themselves in the more vulnerable position. Doms have the power, and as Spiderman says, "with great power comes great responsibility" ;)It's true that subs accept targets and pillories willingly but we also have to keep in mind that they are the ones putting themselves in the more vulnerable position. Doms have the power, and as Spide...See more
I would like to thank SimX for being the most amazing Master of all us minions, SubX (peebs) for being the coolest friend on the scene and everyone on this site for making it all fun and for voting to rid the site of its vendetta against me so I could be SOTD. Oh, and I would also like to thank Cher. No explanation needed.
Isle of Man 
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Yesterday, 20:16not only a great profile pic; also a great playing sub writing wonderful comments on his tributesYou need to sign in to comment
Yesterday, 12:20I also agree, but I think that something needs to be changed in the rules of the site, so that there would be no such moments
Yesterday, 21:38Everyone needs to be grown up and take responsibility for their own actions and their own foolish decisions. Snowflakes melt on Owned Fags...
Yesterday, 23:18It's true that subs accept targets and pillories willingly but we also have to keep in mind that they are the ones putting themselves in the more vulnerable position. Doms have the power, and as Spiderman says, "with great power comes great responsibility" ;)It's true that subs accept targets and pillories willingly but we also have to keep in mind that they are the ones putting themselves in the more vulnerable position. Doms have the power, and as Spide...See moreYou need to sign in to comment
May 20@subcorey, @ Sexy_Superman, @ MasteJO.... Your kind comments and encouragement are gratefully received. Thanks all.
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