Poaching slaves is for the weak from RawPower's blog

It's interesting, now that I have developed significant experience on this site and scene, to watch new masters come onto the scene and make some of the beginner mistakes that I used to make. 


We all know what it's like when a handsome new master storms onto the scene. Whether his cock is large or simply average, photos of it gets lots of likes in the Newsfeed—after all, everyone loves free porn. He quickly clutches at the lowest-hanging fruit to flesh out his new stable. His boastful profile and/or intro video get lots of attention—nothing wrong with that, everyone loves fresh meat. 


That can be a good thing. On both sides of the Dom/sub divide, the scene can sometimes feel pretty small, filled with all the usual suspects (Myself included!). So new faces are a great thing, Dom or sub. Of course, all the attention can go to a newbie Dom's head. We've all seen arrogant new masters slander other Doms as they climb their way to the top of the Pantheon on short-lived waves of fresh-meat excitement. And we've seen them flame out just as quickly too—just as the highest-paying $ubs who get lots of attention usually burn out within a month.


Using another guy's $lave—or even stealing them away—must feel like a real ego boost for a new master trying to make a name for himself on the scene. I've done it myself—when I was a weaker and less experienced Master. And since then all kinds of new masters have actively chased after my owned subs to try and woo them away.


It must make a guy feel like he's the Real Man, and the slave owner must be some kind of chump. After all, the new master thinks, if the $ub handed over some Tips or cash despite being owned, the slave owner must clearly be lacking in his control and power. Yanking a slave out of someone's stable and plunking it into your own must be the ultimate demonstration of who's the real Boss, right? Well, that's one way to look at it. 


The other is that such behaviour is a facile and empty power play that only reflects negatively on the poacher. I've come to realise that about the time that I did it myself. And I think that when the glow of excitement of being the shiny new master wears off, guys who make their mark on the scene by stealing from another master will come to see themselves in the same light. It's not powerful or masterful -- it's weak and unmanly. 


There are so many different types of Doms and $ubs that it can take a long time and a lot of effort to build a powerful and meaningful relation$hip on this scene. All subs can be tempted. If an owned sub approaches you, have the balls to turn him away. And if you think that the way to show your power is to actively chase after another man's property, you shouldn't feel pride. What you deserve to feel is shame. 

Comments
cashdrainer
Dec 31 '17
Or those that forget it is fetish and go out of their way to cause trouble for guys
Garboss82
Dec 31 '17
I have used an ownedfag but with the fags owners permission. Masters have also owned one of my $luts with my consent too
MasterPete
Feb 8 '18
I had a sort of experince when I joined within days some fag came to me asking to be owen and I had not notised that it was already owen. I did not go looking for it so could not say I poached him and did talk to his old Master to work out how to deal with him. This was not a good experince for me at all as I have the most respect for fellow Masters.I had a sort of experince when I joined within days some fag came to me asking to be owen and I had not notised that it was already owen. I did not go looking for it so could not say I poached him and...See more
RawPower
Feb 8 '18
Funny enough, one of the masters who was using my owned property has now come out to Me as a total faggot himself!
swimmer22r
Feb 8 '18
excuse for my intervention but I see the exact opposite. I see that its very hard to find talkable subs as all the active ones are already owned. You talk about poaching when I haven't really seen anything like that whilst I have read a lot. Then I read about looserservealpha being sent to dungeon despite him trying to complete 7 targets at the same time. strangely enough none of those set the targets was willing to own him yet denouncing him for being a stupid fag and not completing each masters target. I see a lot of greed and certain subs are not treated fair. Which brings you to one of your points. If the sub is not addicted enough then he will move on. Some masters should accept it if they are not willing to give the time or effort. Anyway vending done need a wank now.excuse for my intervention but I see the exact opposite. I see that its very hard to find talkable subs as all the active ones are already owned. You talk about poaching when I haven't really seen any...See more
Garboss82
Feb 8 '18
Great post RP. Especially about the high paying $ubs who burn out within a month. Swimmer - as I said before - you don't know what masters said to looser in PM or via skype etc. They probably all did check-in on it. However, some fags who are new to findom get carried away. Likewise some like the rush of being cash whores.Great post RP. Especially about the high paying $ubs who burn out within a month. Swimmer - as I said before - you don't know what masters said to looser in PM or via skype etc. They probably all did ...See more
swimmer22r
Feb 8 '18
so do you agree with what happened? Everyone just trying to take their share and demanding for more? I saw some faces that are not that active? as far as I know anyone can set a target for a slave? Correct me if I m wrong
Garboss82
Feb 8 '18
Hey Swimmer - feel free to DM me. I think you're missing my point.
RawPower
Feb 9 '18
Hey guys. Swimmer22r, a couple thoughts. First, a fag is not made to accept targets, they must choose whether or not to accept or reject each individual target. A fag should choose wisely; he doesn't have to accept any of them. I approached that fag for service and he immediately gave me the brush-off, which is fine. But that means the fag knows how to say no. In the end, fags must be accountable for their decisions, even foolish ones. Fags also need to learn how to say no, which in itself is not disrespectful. Especially online, no one is really "making" a faggot do anything. Except with very well-trained fags, targets encourage this sort of failure, as an undisciplined fag with a leaky clit will say yes right now to a Master to commit to something that's not due until later. The outcome is just embarrassing for everyone.Hey guys. Swimmer22r, a couple thoughts. First, a fag is not made to accept targets, they must choose whether or not to accept or reject each individual target. A fag should choose wisely; he doesn't ...See more
RawPower
Feb 9 '18
Now swimmer22r, regarding your thoughts on whether there are any decent fags on here that are not owned. I hear you. I guess what I can say is that these things wax and wane over time. There are some decent unowned fags on here and elsewhere (as well as some owned fags that are allowed to serve others). The crowd on this site changes and shifts all the time in terms of both subs and doms. These days, I don't seem very popular with the current crop of OF $ubs at all. But that's just fine. All I can and will do is be myself and I believe the right fags will find me and $erve; I have a lot to offer to a particular type of fag with the demands I make and the training I dispense. In past at one point, I got a very significant amount of attention and service from $ubs on here; the first time I got paid out on OF it was 2,500 quid. These things change and shift all the time; all you can do is be yourself and not let it get you down.Now swimmer22r, regarding your thoughts on whether there are any decent fags on here that are not owned. I hear you. I guess what I can say is that these things wax and wane over time. There are some ...See more
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