I have always been a pleaser for as long as I can remember. As an adult, that naturally transpired to me being submissive sexually. I don't feel fulfilled unless I am pleasing. It has become almost second nature in all areas of my life. The pleasing extends much farther than in sexual domination, it occurs in a lot of my personal interactions. In the last couple of years, I feel I've been called to serve an Alpha. Serving an Alpha, in all ways seems to be a natural transition on this journey.
What I want
Looking for an ALPHA who is willing to put in the effort to understand my higher purpose, and train me to serve. I do really well with positive reinforcement , very task oriented and goal focused. Loyal and I absolutely hate to disappoint anyone.
An Alpha who understands that while he is superior, top of the food chain, and deserves to be served, that I do have a fulfilling life, with friends, successful career, etc. I do not do well with Alphas who immediately demand money, and start degrading in the first message they send me. If an Alpha gives off the vibe they are only in it for the money and not authentic, then it is not a fit for me, no matter how hot or dominate you are. I am looking for true superior energy. That energy sometimes comes from Alphas, who do not have the perfect muscular body.
One of the few experiences I had serving an alpha, was with a college kid for approximately a year. He had a kind of alpha energy, that he never once had to ask me to provide anything financial, I freely gave him money for an entire year, because he just had natural Dom energy without having to put it on display.
I am looking for an eventual Alpha to serve exclusively, both on-line and in-person. The superior does not have to be local to me, but eventually I would like to serve in-person, a few times a year. It is important that I can serve in all ways and not just financial, although financial is a piece of that equation.
I have a huge sneaker/trainer, jockstrap, pit and spit fetish. Into popper intox as well.
What experience do you have?
I am new to serving an ALPHA. I'm a novice to s********n in some ways, but that does not equate to being a flake or not knowing what I want. I'm a very loyal and given the chance to be properly trained with a suitable Alpha, I could be a useful and dedicated boy.
@Slave - On the surface it is a contradiction, but Sir is teaching me the importance of self control. It is incredibly difficult to not jerk when he uploads new images.
True financial domination. So much more than middle fingers and feet pics. It’s a real relationship that takes time to strengthen and build. It’s about learning what makes your sub weak and puts him in the mood to serve, even when he isn’t horny. It’s not only about punishment and degradation, it’s also about knowing when your fag deserves a reward for his service. It is work, but in return, your subs are willing to make sacrifices to better serve a dom that truly deserves it. It’s a shame how many good subs are unsatisfied with lazy doms.
All relationships, even Dom/sub, are like checking accounts. You've got to make deposits to keep from bouncing check and having the account closed. A Dom must deposit something of value to the sub.
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BuddyPleaser sent some Tips
Jul 9 '22Who was the sub who gave you some tips? I'm broke. Please give me their name so I can meet them and turn on my MASSIVE charm! 😊You need to sign in to comment
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Jun 28 '22Godness, please Sir wring you shirts and give me your sweat as milk to d***k Sir!You need to sign in to comment
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Jun 22 '22I will say hello, pick up Slave who has p********t & take a shower if that's why I came there!
Jun 15 '22All relationships, even Dom/sub, are like checking accounts. You've got to make deposits to keep from bouncing check and having the account closed. A Dom must deposit something of value to the sub.You need to sign in to comment
