43 years old, sub, Gay
United States, ny Joined Feb 16
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Type of meets
Real-Time,
On-Line
Here for
Findom,
Physical Use,
Ownership,
Chat,
Friendship
Fetishes
Findom,
Piss,
Muscles,
Bondage,
Uniforms,
Dungeon Play
About Me
I do not like all humans, in truth I hate most of them and prefer the company of animals. But to those I call friends or family I am fiercely devoted. I will always have your back.
I hate hypocrites, injustice, cruelty.
I live for my dogs, will do anything for them and they always come first. Above all.
There are a lot more ingredients to the mix that is me. Sometimes they change, sometimes they don't.
What I want
Been in findom for years, maybe a decade. Hard to keep track. I have only ever done online findom but want to experience it in real time eventually.
I want to be part of a community where I can express myself and be understood. I want to use findom as not only an enjoyable experience for myself but as a catalyst to make long term changes in my life.
Hope to have some hot and fun interactions in the short-term. Serve, be drained, roughed up.
In the long-term I'd like to serve just a couple of Masters. See how the Dom/sub relationship develops with an eye to be owned by someone eventually. Don't want to rush into it, want to ensure a good fit for all.
Looking for a Master who knows how to make a sub addicted to them, make them beg to serve. But also looking for someone that understands that at the end of it a sub is still human, sometimes its nice to just get asked how the days is going. Looking for a Master that molds their style to the individual sub, making it more engaging for Master and sub alike, not one size fits all.
Looking for a Master that will fit my personal goals into the dynamic when possible. Use them to assign punishments and rewards alike. Looking for a Master that if I say I have a limit for the month but then come begging to be drained will not allow me to.
In return to this Master. As a sub I promise the following:
- Will remember that Master is a human. They are not on call for service at all times.
- Will check in just to ask how you are doing. Will be an anonymous ear for you to vent if needed. You being happy is of upmost importance to me.
- Will give my devotion and loyalty.
- Will drain for you.
- Will spoil you.
- Will serve you.
- Will remain level headed.
What experience do you have?
Been doing online findom for years, maybe a decade at this point. It started of innocently. Didn't know it even had a name. All I knew was that I liked it. Slowly figured that it had a name and sank deeper and deeper into the swamp of addiction.
Highly enjoyable, I have never had any regrets about doing findom. I only regret the times I've lost control and did more then I could.
I've tried to leave findom behind, sometimes ghosting people in the process. For that I'm ashamed and want to take responsibility.
Going forward I want to continue doing findom but stick to my limits.
When you join a stable you become owned by the Dom who runs it. Being in a stable means that the Dom can have a certain amount of control over your account. The Dom will be able to:
⛓ See how many Tips you have and view your Tips log
⛓ View your private messages
⛓ Control your block list so he can determine who can contact you and who can not
⛓ View what you have been saying in the chat room
⛓ Put you in the Dungeon
enjoy the view from above😊those places & market does not make you a better sub. The most important will be you have fun & enjoy your playing & obedience. take care & have fun
I would eventually marry a human because of him, his attitude & because I would love him for what he is, not because of his role. A top would be nice thaugh
sort of all of those as well as the few options you did not list. I love your pols👍 nothing worse than a narcissistic, stupid, uneducated and mean Sir. Life would be easier if all dominants were naturally as interesting and perfect as you. 😍🤪💋👨❤️💋👨😻sort of all of those as well as the few options you did not list. I love your pols👍 nothing worse than a narcissistic, stupid, uneducated and mean Sir. Life would be easier if all dominants were natur...See more
I actually find a degree of narcissism charming. A dom should have a healthy sense of self and co confidence. Stupidity might be out of one’s control to a degree. Greed isn’t charming but deceit erodes trust and is not an admirable trait.
With the card function down I was afraid I wouldn't be able to complete the target. I am glad its back, and it is my pleasure to complete this target for you Boss!
Sex is about our bodies and whether we are born with male or female reproductive organs (or both). Gender is about how we feel inside and the roles and behaviors society expects from us based on whether we are a man or a woman (or anything in between)Sex is about our bodies and whether we are born with male or female reproductive organs (or both). Gender is about how we feel inside and the roles and behaviors society expects from us based on wheth...See more
Sure, I can do another poll @enslaved. @never2late, that's one of the nice things about this site - i load tips when i'm sober, and if i make a decision under the influence as to whom to give them to, it's money i've already committed ;)
United States, ny 
Jun 26JAWRMe too…
Jun 26FinDomJonNice!You need to sign in to comment
Jun 11enjoy the view from above😊those places & market does not make you a better sub. The most important will be you have fun & enjoy your playing & obedience. take care & have funYou need to sign in to comment
Jun 6Just like in general Japanese culture where the husband hands every penny of his salary to his wife. If the Japanese can do it, so can we! 😂
Jun 7I'm poly, so as long as a sub could handle not being the *only* plaything in my life I could be down :)You need to sign in to comment
Jun 6I actually find a degree of narcissism charming. A dom should have a healthy sense of self and co confidence. Stupidity might be out of one’s control to a degree. Greed isn’t charming but deceit erodes trust and is not an admirable trait.
Jun 9Does jumping to conculsions and making generalised assumptions count as stupidity??? Asking for a friend...You need to sign in to comment
May 22Sex is about our bodies and whether we are born with male or female reproductive organs (or both). Gender is about how we feel inside and the roles and behaviors society expects from us based on whether we are a man or a woman (or anything in between)Sex is about our bodies and whether we are born with male or female reproductive organs (or both). Gender is about how we feel inside and the roles and behaviors society expects from us based on wheth...See more
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