How not to engage a sub from Newnorthern's blog
I had a dom warm me up but then be an absolute prick. As a sub, Do not demand. You need to warm us up. It's like any form of sex. If you shove it in too hard we won't be receptive.
Why do you think you can just plunder in without due care and attention?
You might get a quick tribute through being so reckless, but for any sustainability the dom needs to nurture and encourage a sub boy.
Doms may think they hold the control, but subs can withdraw it any time if they are not feeling the same way.
In conclusion, doms have the ultimate control when subs allow them to.
If a sub decides to withdraw that, the dom should respect and work to get it back.
Comments
Mar 29
CBUK
Well said Newnorthern
Mar 29
pucktk
oh dear God
Mar 29
JAWR
A good read. Thanks
Mar 29
NikeSwitch
Very good read. Well done for writing it and hope you have a better experience next time
Mar 29
Slave
Great points Newnorthern. Sadly some 'Doms' are bulls in a china shop. 🤷♂️
Mar 29
F4ghunter
totally agree with you boy. It works both ways and Subs are not just cash dispensers. You only get out, what you put in.
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