Findom to me

So every morning I wake up with a nice big smile on my face knowing that I am superior in this species we like to call the human race.

Only around 10 percent of the human population are alpha by nature and probably only a small percentage of that group of individuals know how to fully assert their power and dominance over the more submissive of the species for their own personal gain.

I know my worth, you will not change that.. all I seem to come across a lot in this scene is a large dose of jealousy and it has to be one of the most clickiest scenes I have encountered during my 37 years of life on this forsaken place we call home. I find it a bit funny to be honest rather than offensive. 

The key to it all and the secret of it all is positivity and I know it sounds a bit obvious but it’s true. If you continue with a positive outlook you will naturally attract more positivity towards you. (Naturally). If however you are constantly doubting yourself or your potential to be a success what do you think the end result is gonna be? You guessed it… your pretty much doomed or at best your setting yourself up to fail.

Your circle is important don’t get me wrong and it’s paramount to surround yourself with people you naturally vibe with but your own mentality is way more important as when the chips are down no one but you is gonna truly have your back and believe me when I say this… I have learnt the hard way.

If you are constantly doubting your ability to serve as a sub you are never going to make forward steps, likewise if you are constantly doubting your ability to assert yourself as a dom you are going to remain pretty stagnant. No point complaining, the only person capable of changing it is YOU.

Findom works best when both parties involved are coming from a positive perspective. All other d/s relationships are destined to fail. They might be fun for a while but they will have no longevity. Which ultimately should be the goal for any successful DOM or thriving SUB. When you both thrive together it is magical.

Look at it this way. If you’re not well off then realise your limits are small sends but make them small enough so they can be regular to keep both yours and your DOMS interest rife. If you’re well off then you still need to keep them sends regular for the relationship to continue at a good pace. The amounts will not be as painful for the more well off sub but the sacrifice remains the same and that is ultimately what matters most.

All this money for kinks stuff is not findom so stop trying to play it off as such. There is nothing wrong with selling content or items of clothing or anything else for that matter but IT IS NOT FINDOM.