Some late night thoughts....One beauty about findom is its irony. Who knew that spending one's money on another is actually the closest thing to feeling like spending one's own money for themselves.
Irony had as more than a grain of truth and here's the truth or at least the logic. The aim of spending on one's self is to do something that makes one's self feel good. So if you feel good spending on someone else then your spending on your self.