In a conversation you will sometimes read "in the real world" or "in real life".
It may be that some Masters and fags see Findom as something totally separate from their 'real lives'. It may be just a fetish or a way to try and make some money on the side.
But if it is something you indulge regularly, it is a part of your 'real life'. You may wish to separate it from the rest of your life because of shame or because it's not something you don't want to associate with who you are 'in reality'.
For many of us, Findom is very much our 'real life', and is as much a part of it as going to work, shopping, or going out with friends.
When i first met my Master on Twitter, i didn't know what i was looking for, other than to submit to a Real Man. He showed me that he could transform my life in a real way and make my s********n to him impact on the rest of my life. Over the past year, He has transformed my life from being a selfish fag to living only on what i need, and he removes the rest of my earnings to his own account.
That is an amazing gift he has given me, enabling me to show genuine s********n to his superiority, and reinmaking my own natural inferiority and purpose in life. Through audio files and regular work on me, and encouraging me to be used by other Alpha Men locally, he has helped me to embrace my true self, my degeneracy, and to labour each day for a Man who deserves to have what i earn more than i do. The mental changes have been very real, and my life priorities have been changed. He keeps me safe. He is the most important Man in my life, and he has my 100% trust, obedience and confidence that he wants is what is right and best for me.
This is "the real world", and everything else in life is effected and influenced by it.
Different Masters and fags approach Findom in different ways, and all those ways are legitimate if that is what they want. However, when you refer to the rest of your life as "the real world", remember that there is nothing more real than Findom and how it impacts on lives.
Maybe you don't. But if you do, what is it about it that turns you on?
Which of these is You?
There may be more than one that applies to You.
You may have other reasons that aren't included here. Please mention them.
1. I get heavily sexually turned on by the power of it.
2. I get a bit sexually turned on by the power of it.
3. I get sexually stimulated from being worshipped through cash, but not in a massive way.
4) I do it simply because I'm a superior Alpha. I get a buzz from it, but it's not sexual.
5) It's fun and I enjoy it, but it's just an interest I have. It's not sexual for me.
6) It's a way to make some money from fags, nothing more.
Some confusing comments on some profile of Masters.
"Pay me to a***e you"
"You will pay me to lick my feet"
"My time is money. You'll pay for my attention"
...and similar 'pay me for' comments.
These are not findom. These are Masters offering a service for payment.
"Hand over your money because I deserve it, and I'll laugh at you"
"Open your wallet and hand over what's mine"
"You can't resist paying me for nothing in return"
This is findom.
See the difference?
I should write a blog but I didn't know what to write. So here are my most recent twitter comments.
A very worthy exercise for any #finsub?
Make October special, making all efforts to STOP spending money unnecessarily on yourself.
You don't deserve it, so save it for those who do.
Those extras you buy without thinking? Think and save!
You know it's right! RT
#Stoptoberfindom
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When I see another subordinate loser being drained hard, manipulated, & account drained to zero, it sends shivers of admiration and respect for the greedy Alpha Man. Especially when the loser begs for it then thanks Him.
Us losers deserve it, & THEY deserve our earnings.
#findom
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Off to work, Saturday.
Need to work as many hours as possible for my Ma$ter. So He can keep me functioning productively for Him.
$acrifice and poverty.
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Findom for me is not something i do now and then.
It is a chosen lifestyle, appropriate for what i am.
It dictates how i live, what i eat, relaxation, work, routines, rituals, sex, mood, and who takes priority in my life.
It suits a subordinate loser. It defines me.
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I see 2 types of #Findom.
1. A form of BDSM power exchange where money is a powerful tool within the relationship between Dominant and subordinate.
2. Where a Dom exploits any sub's vulnerabilities in order to get money.
Some Doms and subs mix the two.
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A message from a 'Master' on
@OwnedFags
"Hey Faggot, I know you have a master but any chance you could help a stuggling photographer in london. this city is cutthroat, almost as cutthroat as me but need help with bond on a new flat so I can continue bossing you fags around." :o
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my Ma$ter, who rescued me from doubt and confusion, and $ecured me in the truth of my purpose in life.
A very genuine Man who has a complete understanding of findom and of His natural Superiority.
I owe the Man such a lot!!
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I always have difficulty with the comments such as:
"Pay for the privilege"
*Pay to lick..."
etc...
I don't enter contracts or pay FOR anything. I simply hand over what i earn because He rightly deserves it and i don't.
Today, the sissy deleted her account, as is the habit of fags who are in the cycle of $ubmit and remorse.
It is a condition that just about every cash faggot endures. In my own experience and the experience of other cash fags, it's a very common condition, which is frustrating for Masters, and confusing for fags.
The greatest issues with this condition are:
1. selfishness, and the belief that that fag deserves to have luxuries in life from the money he/it earns
2. fear of financial issues
3. the denial of what the faggot is
This condition can last for years, and some faggots enjoy this cycle, getting hyper horny when the natural urges and needs pull him/it back to findom and into a splurge of hard and fast cash/tips $ubmissions. Then the fag retreats and regrets... until the next time.
For many fags, this cycle of $ubmission and regret is the basis of their findom life, and the cycle has become a sort of fetish in itself. These fags will undoubtedly never be broken out of the cycle.
For other fags, it's simply a stage in their development, where the selfish pride and desires for their own luxuries and extras have yet to be cleansed from their mindset.
We need to take into account that there are various types of fags, ranging from confident and assured fags, to the self-loathing fags who see themselves as the inferiors they are.
This is why the condition of the Cycle is complex. Those who hate and are ashamed of what they are, and $ubmit to Masters because they know themselves to be inferiors, are more likely to come out of the Cycle at the other end, finding horniness in their inferiority, fulfilment in their 'fulltime' subordination to Superior Men, and really 'live' it. These are fags to be envied by others, as the conflict and struggle of the confusion that they endure is shaken off by those who fully accept their status. They reach a stage of fulfilment in their sacrifices to Men, beyond just the moment of sacrifice itself.
Shaking off that Cycle of $ubmission and remorse is a liberation for a cashfag. All cashfags know what they/we are, and that it is something for life. But, the majority of fags fight it, and continue to struggle with it. Society's conditioning gets in the way, making us believe that we all are deserving and equal. That, of course, is a social fabrication which doesn't exist in reality. But, it fools many fags.
In my own case, my Master has managed to break this Cycle in me, and now i feel a real sense of change and liberation as a loser and cashfag, as a way of life. It takes a good, genuine and insightful Master to help a fag to break away from the Cycle and embrace the reality.
I'm sure that other fags here have their own stories about this, and it would be interesting if you'd tell us about it.
Some may disagree with my analysis. Or you may be able to add to it. This is just my own observations and personal understanding, right or wrong.
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