It’s fair to say that most people know Nike and SHM here. We started our findom journey on Owned and we’ve shared many of our highlights on the way, mainly through wording on tributes and targets .
We’ve continued to develop our findom relationship over the past 10 months or so, trying all sorts of different things. Ultimately all of them have been fun, mainly because we communicate well, set expectations and make sure we are both happy and comfortable with whatever it is we plan.
This week marks something slightly different. With the end of our Big target in site, we have been discussing what to try next. As ever, being creative together is always good fun. I love discussing with the boss new ideas and things that look to the future be demonstrate loyalty and commitment. It keeps things fresh and fun.
After some careful consideration , we are stepping things up once again by continuing to infuse findom into our day to day lives. We are going to try Total Power Exchange (or TPE) on finances for one week. In summary this basically means that I hand over a week’s wages to the Boss and have to ask him for money whenever I might need it. He the decides whether or not that request is needed / essential, or whether it’s a luxury that I should forego for the sake of him, because at the end of the week, any money left over from the wages will be kept by him.
So apart from a pending phone call to finalise a couple of minor points and boundaries, we are all set to go. How am I feeling? Excited ? Yes! Nervous ? Yes! . Will we enjoy the dynamic and power exchange, enhancing our findom relationship? Or will I throw my toys out the pram because I’ve seen a top I like, beg the boss to buy it and he says no? I’ll admit I like to treat myself, and I know what I want when I see it, so this is going to hit very differently! It will certainly feel strange having to ask for basics- money for the train to work , lunch , drinks with friends… what will the boss say? And how will I react?
The control excites me a lot. Let’s find out from Sunday . What I do know is , that if I can do this with anyone , then it’s definitely my owner SHM. Watch this space and wish us luck boys 🔥
Some great comments here . What an amazing community we are part of . I hope everyone also follows our twitters as a lot of things we aren’t able to post on here
This is huge. TPE requires a lot of dedication from BOTH parties, and it is great to see that you have reached this point together. Findom at its finest; way to go 👌🏼
very well written Nike but no more Gucci without him telling you? Could you survice without a Dior fragrance?🤣 it's very nice to read you 2 get that point & enjoy it. Bed time told daily? Keep us updated on the evolution. @SirSHM: I haven't checked if you already did but don't you feel like writing a blog. A straight point of view on male findom could be interestingvery well written Nike but no more Gucci without him telling you? Could you survice without a Dior fragrance?🤣 it's very nice to read you 2 get that point & enjoy it. Bed time told daily? Keep us upda...See more
Can I use the private jet Boss? No! Can I spend a few days in a sauna on the Maldives? No! Can I buy lunch for the Beckhams at the Savoy Grill? No! Poor Nike is going to be slumming it this week, buying peanuts at Wetherspoons... HURRAY! 🥜
