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Approach in Findom: A Guide for Subs

1. Read about the Alpha. Be acutely aware of how to stand out, and know Their turn-offs to the best of your ability.


2. Send Their minimum amount. Generally, at least 300-500 in tips. If you want to impress, send more. If they ask you to send again to prove yourself, or for whatever reason, do so promptly & passionately.


3. Make your first words your best, most selfless. Ask the Alpha how you can best serve them? Do not bring up your past, present, interests, or kinks. This is about Them: Their perfection, Their domination, Their pleasure. Please Them. They will know what to ask about you, when that information becomes relevant for them to know. A verified, experienced cashmaster knows how to explore a sub’s mind, and explore D/s better than you ever could, slave.


4. Wait patiently for Their response. Don’t panic. Don’t bombard Their inbox. Certainly don’t block Them in a worried frenzy. Simply breathe and know that you have followed Their approach instructions well, and They are busy draining other subs at the moment. They will reply to you, in time.


5. Possibly the most important: an initial tribute is not a transaction. There is nothing given in return. Have no expectations. The Alpha owes you less than nothing. The tribute is a gift for the privilege of being welcomed into the powerful realm of Their existence, which is itself the greatest privilege you could ask for.


Follow these instructions, and almost every Alpha will welcome you into their stable for the supreme opportunity to serve Them financially, and whatever other ways They may please. 


Good luck, My sweet pets.

Selflessness: The Backbone of True s********n

If you have stumbled upon this piece searching for smut, or cheap thrills, you should stop reading now.


If you are here because you are searching for something more... stay. Read on.


The momentary rush of being condescended, or humiliated, will always have a home in kink.


It is a superficial pursuit, and that's okay. But these things grow old in time. They go stale. And true submissives will yearn for more. 


Because ultimately, you are still simply serving yourself. It is easy enough to put forth the narrative: "But He told me to do so, humiliating myself was for His enjoyment." Perhaps that's true, but it's hardly the whole truth...


True s********n, My sweet pets, begins when you put your Master's pleasure first. When symbiotically, your pleasure becomes woven into Theirs. Nowhere is this truer than in the case of financial domination.


Money forms the basis for exchange. The most powerful exchange there is. Financial domination is the purest form of s********n, because it is the surrender of financial power to your Superior. To those who have never sent a true financial tribute. Try it. A gift without condition or consequence. Press send, and feel that rush... in time every other kink will feel like a distant memory.


To the sweet pets who read this as curiosity flutters your heart: approach Me. Speak to Me. I will guide you... until all you crave is to send to Me again, yet more. Approach, tribute, and be willingly to selflessly learn.


Tribute begets selflessness... and in that, you will find true s********n, to Me.

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