I feel like I came across the wrong way yesterday and have spent the last hour worried that I’ve lost my chance at being accepted in this community.
I should have been more graceful with your guys tips, I’m going to get my photos verified and profile filled out.
I think I just got a bit defensive about how people judged me because I’m a broke Dom. I know a lot of you guys are older and have proper jobs and money. Im just a young student who’s not been born into a money at all, and I don’t think this is a good reason for people to question my sexuality and kinks, accuse me of being disingenuous.
I don’t want to lie about anything that I put on this profile. So those telling me to restart and say I have money because it’s a turn off, I accept that you are not the sub for me and I’m not the Dom for you. I’m open and honest about my life and how I feel about things, my past subs have liked this because they know I mean the things that I say I’m going to do with them.
So I’m sorry for my post yesterday please forgive me. But I hope you guys understand that I’m going to keep being me.
On a serious note I think this massage today shows you as a genuine person. Knowing someone may be in need of cash can be OK, but you need to display other aspects that position you as a Superior Male.
It’s not always easy, but can work well at the end of the day.On a serious note I think this massage today shows you as a genuine person. Knowing someone may be in need of cash can be OK, but you need to display other aspects that position you as a Superior Male...See more
I would follow @denied suggestion about deleting the other post. It really gives a bad image of you, even if you reflect on it in this new one. You'll come to understand that good findom is about connections and patience. You'll need to make the sub want to serve you, instead of demanding it without knowing them at all just because. I've always said there's a thin line between a good Dom and a clown (don't take me wrong, I'm generalizing).
About your profile, I'll suggest to read other Dom's profiles. All of us have changed it several times seeing what works and what doesn't and you could find inspiration there to help you speak your truth. Every Dom is unique and you'll need to find your own voice, but it still helps.I would follow @denied suggestion about deleting the other post. It really gives a bad image of you, even if you reflect on it in this new one. You'll come to understand that good findom is about conn...See more
It’s not always easy, but can work well at the end of the day.On a serious note I think this massage today shows you as a genuine person. Knowing someone may be in need of cash can be OK, but you need to display other aspects that position you as a Superior Male...See more
About your profile, I'll suggest to read other Dom's profiles. All of us have changed it several times seeing what works and what doesn't and you could find inspiration there to help you speak your truth. Every Dom is unique and you'll need to find your own voice, but it still helps.I would follow @denied suggestion about deleting the other post. It really gives a bad image of you, even if you reflect on it in this new one. You'll come to understand that good findom is about conn...See more