Find something that does ignite you like controlling does. It doesn't have to be the grad job-- something where you are in control. Side hustle, trading/investing, your own business. Make sure you're passionate enough to get good at it-- findom can always afford you more time to get there-- i would box that in with luxury and leisure, but it wont give you the passion or the need to be in charge of your own productivity and output.
Doing absolutely nothing else will always put you in a position of need/dependence and a lack of power, no matter how good you are at it.
Never take it for granted or as a given beyond fetish-- never allocate bills to a roster of slaves, other than for the fun/excitement of it- don't need itFind something that does ignite you like controlling does. It doesn't have to be the grad job-- something where you are in control. Side hustle, trading/investing, your own business. Make sure you're ...See more
Even if you are as 'good' as you feel, do you want to be in a position where you'll perform for cash because rent is due?
If you want control and autonomy, find the skill or passion, or business that will give you that-- and then take more ;-)Even if you are as 'good' as you feel, do you want to be in a position where you'll perform for cash because rent is due?
If you want control and autonomy, find the skill or passion, or...See more
All that to say, don't put all of your eggs in one basket. If you're taking enough to not need it right now, take a gap year and indulge it-- but don't make it your life, upskill yourself in other ways if you don't find the passion in pursuing the job that your degree affords-- then you're in the best spot- qualified, pursuing passion and raking it in.All that to say, don't put all of your eggs in one basket. If you're taking enough to not need it right now, take a gap year and indulge it-- but don't make it your life, upskill yourself in other way...See more
Iv seen some amazing masters on here who know how to be served. Most have left, but u lucky slaves are lucky there are also some good 1s here. U slaves need to step up, before most masters fuck off from here on twitter. MOA has done a amazing job here for years. appreciate!
@SirMrworshipme; I heard about that & noticed him was away wich is such a pitty as he was nice for everyone. Many miss him. It's never nice not to see people we like whatever doms & subs
As a young master, I’m still at university here in the uk. Anyone who’s been a student knows the financial hardship that comes with it, especially whe...
I demand control…
I’ve been controlling since before I was even legal… I’ve just turned 21 but still have a hairless, defined and clear skinned body....
Is there anyone in the north of the UK yearning to embrace their submissive side fully? My journey into real-life domination has been a solo one. I’ve yet to meet someone who matches my appetite for control and obedience. Someone who not only seeks to be dominated but craves to be controlled to the depths they secretly desire.
As a final-year university student by day and a master of domination by night, I bring a fresh, intelligent approach to dominance. It’s not just about exerting control for me; it’s about creating a space where power dynamics are explored with respect and a mutual thirst for the extraordinary.
My path in the world of domination stands unique. Young, yet imbued with an understanding beyond my years; not born into affluence, but rich in the art of psychological play and control. My life hasn’t been a journey of financial luxury, but one of relentless determination and an insatiable desire to delve into the deeper nuances of dominance and obedience.
In me, you will find a Dom who values authenticity and honesty above all. I offer no pretense, no facade of a life I don’t lead. Instead, I invite you into experiences that are raw, real, and exhilarating. My domination transcends physical control, focusing on mental captivation, where my commands stimulate both body and mind.
I seek subs who crave not just any Dom, but a mentor; someone who can unlock the depths of their submissive nature and explore boundaries they’ve yet to confront. Whether experienced in the lifestyle or new to the scene, I provide a haven where your boundaries are honored, your limits are explored, and your deepest kinks are indulged.
As we embark on this journey together, understand that I am here to lead with a firm hand and an insightful mind. Your obedience is not just a gift; it’s a sacred exchange of trust and power. Together, we will traverse the landscape of your obedience, challenging norms and discovering uncharted territories of pleasure.
If you are in the north of the UK and seek a Dom who is genuine, commanding, and dedicated to creating profoundly satisfying dominant-submissive dynamics, then let your journey begin with me. Embrace this chance to engage in a connection where dominance is crafted with skill, care, and an unwavering commitment to mutual fulfillment.
Nicely written. Now used it to edit your profile and place it there so everyone can see it without having to read your blogs. DM me if you need help finding it.
I feel like I came across the wrong way yesterday and have spent the last hour worried that I’ve lost my chance at being accepted in this community.
I should have been more graceful with your guys tips, I’m going to get my photos verified and profile filled out.
I think I just got a bit defensive about how people judged me because I’m a broke Dom. I know a lot of you guys are older and have proper jobs and money. Im just a young student who’s not been born into a money at all, and I don’t think this is a good reason for people to question my sexuality and kinks, accuse me of being disingenuous.
I don’t want to lie about anything that I put on this profile. So those telling me to restart and say I have money because it’s a turn off, I accept that you are not the sub for me and I’m not the Dom for you. I’m open and honest about my life and how I feel about things, my past subs have liked this because they know I mean the things that I say I’m going to do with them.
So I’m sorry for my post yesterday please forgive me. But I hope you guys understand that I’m going to keep being me.
On a serious note I think this massage today shows you as a genuine person. Knowing someone may be in need of cash can be OK, but you need to display other aspects that position you as a Superior Male.
It’s not always easy, but can work well at the end of the day.On a serious note I think this massage today shows you as a genuine person. Knowing someone may be in need of cash can be OK, but you need to display other aspects that position you as a Superior Male...See more
I would follow @denied suggestion about deleting the other post. It really gives a bad image of you, even if you reflect on it in this new one. You'll come to understand that good findom is about connections and patience. You'll need to make the sub want to serve you, instead of demanding it without knowing them at all just because. I've always said there's a thin line between a good Dom and a clown (don't take me wrong, I'm generalizing).
About your profile, I'll suggest to read other Dom's profiles. All of us have changed it several times seeing what works and what doesn't and you could find inspiration there to help you speak your truth. Every Dom is unique and you'll need to find your own voice, but it still helps.I would follow @denied suggestion about deleting the other post. It really gives a bad image of you, even if you reflect on it in this new one. You'll come to understand that good findom is about conn...See more
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May 29Find something that does ignite you like controlling does. It doesn't have to be the grad job-- something where you are in control. Side hustle, trading/investing, your own business. Make sure you're passionate enough to get good at it-- findom can always afford you more time to get there-- i would box that in with luxury and leisure, but it wont give you the passion or the need to be in charge of your own productivity and output.
Apr 20@SirMrworshipme; I heard about that & noticed him was away wich is such a pitty as he was nice for everyone. Many miss him. It's never nice not to see people we like whatever doms & subs
Apr 6A worrying poll. Almost half the Dom respondents freely admit that they cheat, lie or steal...
Jan 27On a serious note I think this massage today shows you as a genuine person. Knowing someone may be in need of cash can be OK, but you need to display other aspects that position you as a Superior Male.
Jan 27I would follow @denied suggestion about deleting the other post. It really gives a bad image of you, even if you reflect on it in this new one. You'll come to understand that good findom is about connections and patience. You'll need to make the sub want to serve you, instead of demanding it without knowing them at all just because. I've always said there's a thin line between a good Dom and a clown (don't take me wrong, I'm generalizing).
