I suspect the vast majority of people on this site have had to “pretend I’m normal like everyone else,” at least for a significant chunk of their lives, and many likely continue to do so even now. Some might never be able to escape the feeling that they’re living the life of an imposter.
I certainly spent a good portion of my life suppressing aspects of myself to my detriment, suppressing those aspects not only from others, but from myself as well. SimX gives good practical advice that I suggest taking to heart. I know it is challenging, but working to integrate your innate identity into a broader life framework that leverages those aspects of yourself will make you an even better Dom/Master/etc. The same is true for subs/slaves/etc.
And I think it helps to know that many others are facing the same fundamental challenge. RL discussion groups where these issues can be discussed more thoroughly than on an online forum can provide more support than you might expect.I suspect the vast majority of people on this site have had to “pretend I’m normal like everyone else,” at least for a significant chunk of their lives, and many likely continue to do so even now. Som...See more
There are occassions when skills transference need not be applied to pursuits that run parallel courses. Personally I gain great satisfaction from counseling, coaching, and mentoring, which, when done in their purest form, are devoid of any sense of domination.There are occassions when skills transference need not be applied to pursuits that run parallel courses. Personally I gain great satisfaction from counseling, coaching, and mentoring, which, when done...See more
As a further aside. Some people find that their work is their passion and for the huge majority that don't find that to be the case, I suggest considering that their work may be the very thing which allows them to pursue their passion elsewhere.
Iv seen some amazing masters on here who know how to be served. Most have left, but u lucky slaves are lucky there are also some good 1s here. U slaves need to step up, before most masters fuck off from here on twitter. MOA has done a amazing job here for years. appreciate!
At least we agree that MOA has made this site a great place. And a safe one thanks to the tips system where subs - especially new ones - can have their privacy respected.
This being said, why should I shut up? Next time you post here, maybe you should add a message to subs: “no caveats or disagreements permitted. Sir, yes Sir is the only comment you may post here”. 😂😂At least we agree that MOA has made this site a great place. And a safe one thanks to the tips system where subs - especially new ones - can have their privacy respected.
This being said, why ...See more
As a young master, I’m still at university here in the uk. Anyone who’s been a student knows the financial hardship that comes with it, especially whe...
I demand control…
I’ve been controlling since before I was even legal… I’ve just turned 21 but still have a hairless, defined and clear skinned body....
Is there anyone in the north of the UK yearning to embrace their submissive side fully? My journey into real-life domination has been a solo one. I’ve yet to meet someone who matches my appetite for control and obedience. Someone who not only seeks to be dominated but craves to be controlled to the depths they secretly desire.
As a final-year university student by day and a master of domination by night, I bring a fresh, intelligent approach to dominance. It’s not just about exerting control for me; it’s about creating a space where power dynamics are explored with respect and a mutual thirst for the extraordinary.
My path in the world of domination stands unique. Young, yet imbued with an understanding beyond my years; not born into affluence, but rich in the art of psychological play and control. My life hasn’t been a journey of financial luxury, but one of relentless determination and an insatiable desire to delve into the deeper nuances of dominance and obedience.
In me, you will find a Dom who values authenticity and honesty above all. I offer no pretense, no facade of a life I don’t lead. Instead, I invite you into experiences that are raw, real, and exhilarating. My domination transcends physical control, focusing on mental captivation, where my commands stimulate both body and mind.
I seek subs who crave not just any Dom, but a mentor; someone who can unlock the depths of their submissive nature and explore boundaries they’ve yet to confront. Whether experienced in the lifestyle or new to the scene, I provide a haven where your boundaries are honored, your limits are explored, and your deepest kinks are indulged.
As we embark on this journey together, understand that I am here to lead with a firm hand and an insightful mind. Your obedience is not just a gift; it’s a sacred exchange of trust and power. Together, we will traverse the landscape of your obedience, challenging norms and discovering uncharted territories of pleasure.
If you are in the north of the UK and seek a Dom who is genuine, commanding, and dedicated to creating profoundly satisfying dominant-submissive dynamics, then let your journey begin with me. Embrace this chance to engage in a connection where dominance is crafted with skill, care, and an unwavering commitment to mutual fulfillment.
Nicely written. Now used it to edit your profile and place it there so everyone can see it without having to read your blogs. DM me if you need help finding it.
I feel like I came across the wrong way yesterday and have spent the last hour worried that I’ve lost my chance at being accepted in this community.
I should have been more graceful with your guys tips, I’m going to get my photos verified and profile filled out.
I think I just got a bit defensive about how people judged me because I’m a broke Dom. I know a lot of you guys are older and have proper jobs and money. Im just a young student who’s not been born into a money at all, and I don’t think this is a good reason for people to question my sexuality and kinks, accuse me of being disingenuous.
I don’t want to lie about anything that I put on this profile. So those telling me to restart and say I have money because it’s a turn off, I accept that you are not the sub for me and I’m not the Dom for you. I’m open and honest about my life and how I feel about things, my past subs have liked this because they know I mean the things that I say I’m going to do with them.
So I’m sorry for my post yesterday please forgive me. But I hope you guys understand that I’m going to keep being me.
On a serious note I think this massage today shows you as a genuine person. Knowing someone may be in need of cash can be OK, but you need to display other aspects that position you as a Superior Male.
It’s not always easy, but can work well at the end of the day.On a serious note I think this massage today shows you as a genuine person. Knowing someone may be in need of cash can be OK, but you need to display other aspects that position you as a Superior Male...See more
I would follow @denied suggestion about deleting the other post. It really gives a bad image of you, even if you reflect on it in this new one. You'll come to understand that good findom is about connections and patience. You'll need to make the sub want to serve you, instead of demanding it without knowing them at all just because. I've always said there's a thin line between a good Dom and a clown (don't take me wrong, I'm generalizing).
About your profile, I'll suggest to read other Dom's profiles. All of us have changed it several times seeing what works and what doesn't and you could find inspiration there to help you speak your truth. Every Dom is unique and you'll need to find your own voice, but it still helps.I would follow @denied suggestion about deleting the other post. It really gives a bad image of you, even if you reflect on it in this new one. You'll come to understand that good findom is about conn...See more
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Aug 4I suspect the vast majority of people on this site have had to “pretend I’m normal like everyone else,” at least for a significant chunk of their lives, and many likely continue to do so even now. Some might never be able to escape the feeling that they’re living the life of an imposter.
Aug 4There are occassions when skills transference need not be applied to pursuits that run parallel courses. Personally I gain great satisfaction from counseling, coaching, and mentoring, which, when done in their purest form, are devoid of any sense of domination.There are occassions when skills transference need not be applied to pursuits that run parallel courses. Personally I gain great satisfaction from counseling, coaching, and mentoring, which, when done...See more
Apr 20At least we agree that MOA has made this site a great place. And a safe one thanks to the tips system where subs - especially new ones - can have their privacy respected.
Apr 6A worrying poll. Almost half the Dom respondents freely admit that they cheat, lie or steal...
Jan 27I would follow @denied suggestion about deleting the other post. It really gives a bad image of you, even if you reflect on it in this new one. You'll come to understand that good findom is about connections and patience. You'll need to make the sub want to serve you, instead of demanding it without knowing them at all just because. I've always said there's a thin line between a good Dom and a clown (don't take me wrong, I'm generalizing).
