I'm a college educated dominant that works in IT. I am typically on the quieter side in real life and am very analytical of people and the world around me. As you can imagine from my work, I have some geek interests but hold playing ice hockey as my main hobby.
What I want
I'm hoping to develop long term arrangements with genuine submissives. While a one-off drain can be fun for some I don't like to break my toys. The long slow drains where I weave my way through a sub's head and learn exactly what it is that makes them tick is more entertaining. Ultimately it's the control that I crave. While I've only found one of these arrangements, the best one I've ever had was one where I was fully in control of their budget. I helped them overcome some debts while also carving out a bit for myself as their income was freed up.
If we were to live in a perfect fantasy land: I'd like to have a submissive live in one of my nearby rentals, so we'd have a set monthly drain while also being able to drop by for in person play.
I also coach a hockey team if you'd be interested in funds going towards those guys, measage me and we'll discuss the team budget, needs and desires as well.
What experience do you have?
I feel relatively new to the findom world even though I've dabbled off and on for about 8 years. I found my previous arrangements on other bdsm/kink sites that really don't cater to findom so there was always long gaps between subs and often a lot of wasted time.
a dom asking a sub to join his stable could be a dream coming true for the sub at least when it's a real dom the sub likes. Otherwhise please remind me; what is a stable for except from having the "right" to pay more?
All three options are true, really; of course, true ownership has to be mutually felt, but once that point has been reached, it does seem fitting for the Dom to offer (and as Master Jon says, the sub ought to know what to do in that instance, and some prostration is assuredly involved). And certainly, some stables do seem completely meaningless.All three options are true, really; of course, true ownership has to be mutually felt, but once that point has been reached, it does seem fitting for the Dom to offer (and as Master Jon says, the sub ...See more
Care is important. Especially aftercare. A dom could get you into a dangerous place, financially but also mentally if you feel shame or regret from being caught in the moment. It's a Doms place to watch for the signs and make sure it hasn't went to far. A sub zeroed out his account for me one time and I ended up sending him most back. There's not many that wouldCare is important. Especially aftercare. A dom could get you into a dangerous place, financially but also mentally if you feel shame or regret from being caught in the moment. It's a Doms place to wat...See more
@SirTheDirtyDomCop= you really understood the concept💋😍 @SirAlex: your words also are very clever, very true & human. @SirMasterR: one more truth you added👍 as a sub it's great to see doms who know better than ; I want to make money as for what you feel; get lost sub. A dom doesn't need use tricks to prove he is a dom; it can be seen & feel. Being a dom doesn't neither mean to insult or ignore others. Beautifully said men. you surely deserve to be called Sir@SirTheDirtyDomCop= you really understood the concept💋😍 @SirAlex: your words also are very clever, very true & human. @SirMasterR: one more truth you added👍 as a sub it's great to see doms who know be...See more
🪅🪩💃🍾🥂🎈 It's coming! It's fast approaching! The cakes are being baked, the balloons blown, the flagpoles screwed and erected, choirs are brushing up on their singing and HAL9000 is having his annual oil change ready for all the dancing and love-making. So, how could I let OUR BIG BIRTHDAYS go by without a TARGET set for the King of Belgium! 🎈🥂🍾💃🪩🪅
This little fag needs to be put into its place. Its limits must be pushed and it needs to learn how to behave and obey its Master! Let's draing the faggot hard!
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I will go for other because I don't understand the other options! My kind would be a mix of guidance, orders, sexual obediences & protection to feel his Alpha power
SpiraledJames "Let's break this down, shall we Pete? Firstly, your assumption that there is a single way to engage in Findom….nay…any fetish, is nothing more than ignorance."
Firstly please find out from me in person if I am making any assumptions and what they might be before posting a public rebuttal. Nothing in my comment shows that I have the assumption that there is a single way to engage in Findom. If any part of my comment says otherwise I am willing to expand/explain. Maybe get to know me first.SpiraledJames "Let's break this down, shall we Pete? Firstly, your assumption that there is a single way to engage in Findom….nay…any fetish, is nothing more than ignorance."
Like Woof82, I too am a fan of the classics,
I find that several copies of The Iliad and The Odyssey a great way to weigh down and restrain most slaves
United States, SC, Charleston 
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Jul 24a dom asking a sub to join his stable could be a dream coming true for the sub at least when it's a real dom the sub likes. Otherwhise please remind me; what is a stable for except from having the "right" to pay more?
Jul 24All three options are true, really; of course, true ownership has to be mutually felt, but once that point has been reached, it does seem fitting for the Dom to offer (and as Master Jon says, the sub ought to know what to do in that instance, and some prostration is assuredly involved). And certainly, some stables do seem completely meaningless.All three options are true, really; of course, true ownership has to be mutually felt, but once that point has been reached, it does seem fitting for the Dom to offer (and as Master Jon says, the sub ...See moreYou need to sign in to comment
Jul 19Care is important. Especially aftercare. A dom could get you into a dangerous place, financially but also mentally if you feel shame or regret from being caught in the moment. It's a Doms place to watch for the signs and make sure it hasn't went to far. A sub zeroed out his account for me one time and I ended up sending him most back. There's not many that wouldCare is important. Especially aftercare. A dom could get you into a dangerous place, financially but also mentally if you feel shame or regret from being caught in the moment. It's a Doms place to wat...See more
Jul 19Very important no matter at what level or how unethical or sadistic one is. What that means is different per slave/ dom but important regardless
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Jan 5SpiraledJames "Let's break this down, shall we Pete? Firstly, your assumption that there is a single way to engage in Findom….nay…any fetish, is nothing more than ignorance."
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Mar 10 '23Dammmnnn. That poor sub is gonna owe forever. ;) Oh wait, is that the point? ;)
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Jan 25 '23Gotta love shibari. The intimacy of tying a sub and the flexibility of the rope are not to be sniffed at
Jan 25 '23Like Woof82, I too am a fan of the classics,
