Yes Sir Fin Bear Dom: the physical act of sex may be part of the power exchange (if the Master wishes it), but obedience is much more: serving and adoring the Master.
So a slave agreed to come serve me, paid a deposit of half the fee that was agreed.
Slave then contacts me on the day before it is due to arrive claiming I'll health and can't now come.
I informed slave they had to pay the other half of the fee agreed, as there was virtually no time to find a replacement.
Slave complained they had lost out on travel and accommodation (they were arriving late at night so booked hotel to be here for service early the following morning) and then blocked me and never paid the outstanding balance.
Should the slave pay the balance in this case?
I say yes and it owes me £100
If you make a deposit for a service or product and then don't complete the transaction, you just lose the deposit. You don't suddenly owe a full balance because the manufacturer or business was inconvenienced by your cancellation.
I suppose you could do sex work on OF, but I'd say a vast majority of Sirs on OF would be offended by the classification of sex work, and those Sirs don't provide any services or opportunities, even cleaning, for a rate. Findom is about the relationship and exchange of energy between a Sir and sub. There are no negotiated services, fees, rates, or deposits. If the sub gives you money, he does so freely as a symbolic gesture of the relationship. The sub is not buying anything, and the sub is not expecting anything in return. Money is more honoring the dom, and dom does not need a deposit if a good boy wants to visit. It seems like you do not know or trust your boy very much. Perhaps this boy was a terrible fit for you anyway if you had to charge him a deposit to visit.
@elbus 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I do find this post rather funny. The OP is trying to treat the OF website like an escort service, which it clearly is not.If you make a deposit for a service or product and then don't complete the transaction, you just lose the deposit. You don't suddenly owe a full balance because the manufacturer or business was inconv...See more
No it's not, it's a I need a slave for Saturday/Sunday as the 1 I had arranged is I'll and can't make it. It's a I need a replacement kind of countdown
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Sirswaiting voted on Phil's pollApr 1011+8 more comments
Apr 10Fin_Bear_domI think that the exchange of power and obedience in itself is sexual, even if there isn’t the physical act of sex
Apr 10Sub4myLordYes Sir Fin Bear Dom: the physical act of sex may be part of the power exchange (if the Master wishes it), but obedience is much more: serving and adoring the Master.
Apr 14bondagebuddy2TPE without sex is a powerful dynamic. Obedience and respect are key.You need to sign in to comment
Aug 16 '23If you make a deposit for a service or product and then don't complete the transaction, you just lose the deposit. You don't suddenly owe a full balance because the manufacturer or business was inconvenienced by your cancellation.
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