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Something about Master

We faggots are born as beta males, a category of lesser males that will never be able to grow and transform into a Real, Alpha Men. Many of us spend years trying to live a life he wasn't meant to live, because he lacks one thing to make him realize about his true nature: the bold presence of a Real Men in his life.


For us faggots, having a Alpha Man that we can look up to and follow His steps is something we dream since a young age, and we search for Him everyday of our miserable lives. Some of us can realize this dream and finally be chosen to serve a Superior Man, so we can learn from Him with His words, His knowledge, His opinions and we can also learn by serving Him, knowing His tastes, His preferences.


I consider myself a very lucky faggot to be chosen by Master @masterblk to serve Him. He's a Black Alpha Men that I'm very proud to be serving, proud to be able to kneel and feel happy to be under His domain. I think about Master everyday, and sometimes I need to refrain myself from keep wanting to talk with Him because I know that a Superior like Him has more to do than chatting with a slave, but I always learn something anyway. 


When Master thinks that I could do something, I'm sure He will call me and tell me to do it, so I don't need to feel anxious about it, instead I must feel happy that He remembered me.


Thank You again for Your presence in my life and for letting Me be Your property, Sir.

10 Tips for Masters Who Are New to OwnedFags

My blogs are typically about submission. How to serve better etc.


This one is specifically for Masters new to the site. Read up & enjoy.


Feel free to DM if anything below is unclear.


1. Read the rules.


Read the website rules. Read about kink, about D/s ownership.

Read up on findom.

If you're going to try a new kink a sub proposes. Study it. Ask other Alphas.

Everyone starts somewhere. You are given the power to govern a slave's body, mind, and wallet.

Wield that power responsibly, within the guidelines set for this community.

The only tribute allowed here are those sent with OwnedFags tips. No other tribute methods allowed. Period.


2. It takes longer than you realize.


For every useful sub, there are 20 timewasting pretenders.

For every lasting sub, it takes 20 who are fleetingly useful.

So if you're a math guy: that's roughly a 0.25% ownership rate on every sub interaction you have.

Lots of empty-handed, empty-headed strokers. The truly servile sluts are few & far between.


3. Don't do it for the money.


Ultimately, no one is here for the money (or shouldn't be). It's a fun byproduct of a kink: findom.

Findom is about power exchange through currency transfer. Much like bondage is through mobility transfer.

It's just another vector for a submissive to surrender to its Dominant, whether in session or lasting servitude.

If you need money, get a job or sell items. Desperate Alphas are always see-through, and fail. Just truth.


4. Build relationships with other Alphas.


Focus on the other Dominants here. Chat with them. Learn without being clingy about it.

Some, like myself, occasionally whore out their owned fags.

Especially at first, do not DM any slave here that has a lock; that is officially owned. Never.

If that slave reaches out, message the Alpha first.

Once you create a rapport with the Alpha, learn which owned sluts are allowed to & choose to chat, then do so.

Ultimately, conduct yourself so that you are earning the respect of your Alpha peers first and foremost. Always.


5. Find your style.


Emulation is natural. As with any craft, there will be those you look up to.

Take care not to let emulation become imitation. No one likes a copycat.

Find your original voice within the aspects of others you admire.

Ultimately, the most successful Alphas here are such because they are true to themselves.

For instance, I'm a soft-spoken Master. At times, I get harsh, but it's not My innate voice.

I know that, and I stick to it. Others do the opposite. It's about range & authenticity.


6. Build your brand.


A fair bit of domination is marketing. Content is king, engagement is queen, context is god.

Post as often as you can (without spamming). Find a cadence that works.

Few subs are attracted to empty profiles. Post pics. Make vids. Write blogs. Chat publicly.

Engage with others' posts and content, esp Alphas. Care about this community; not just yourself.


7. Set limits, and respect others’.


Not every sub will be a match with you. Maybe you hate piss play; piss pigs won't align with your style.

Maybe you want to solely focus on findom. Maybe findom is secondary to you.

Many subs focus on real-time meets, and even within that types of meets (eg dungeon play).

Be clear about your desires, your dislikes, and focus on those with whom your dynamic could line up.


8. Recognize the toll this takes.


Drop is real. The defeat, deflation, or other such blues felt in kink.

It can be sub drop following a heavy drain or kink session.

it can be Alpha drop after 15 timewasters exhaust you mentally.

Maybe your personal life is impacting your motivation to dominate, or create content.

Be mindful of the weight of your work here.

Yes, dominance is effortless.

But domination is hard work. And acknowledging that is crucial to lasting success.

Take days off. Communicate them to your slaves. The real ones will understand.

Likewise, sometimes subs need to step away. Not all Alphas accept that, but it is equally normal.


9. It isn't a competition.


It's easy to get caught up in the points. The Pantheon & slave market positions.

I've been guilty of it, as I'm sure many others are.

Domination (and submission) are about the intimacy & thrill of power exchange.

Owning a fag is about fulfilling Your Alpha desires together, through their sacrifice & your domination.

Each dynamic is unique. It's own singular bond. No two subs should compete, even serving the same Master.

And no two Masters should compete, because I'll never be Garboss, SkinbossDan, or Fidelio.

They have their styles, their successes, their subs. I have Mine. That's a great thing.

It's the range of kink, and domination.


10. Have fun with it.


I've learned so much about myself through domination.

How sadistic I can be. How compassionate I am.

If you aren't here to enjoy yourself, and create enjoyment for others (even with pain or struggle)

Then you're likely here for the wrong reasons.

Consider this an extensions of "don't do it for the money".


Cheers.

Sub Task: The Ultimate Fantasy

Preface:

I recently gave a newly doting faggot toy, @subcorey, a task: write for Me a fantasy of how our first real-time encounter would go. What follows is the least of a deliciously deviant weekend that I, and every Alpha deserves...


A Weekend with Master Dorian


***Saturday***


It arrives in your city Sir. Luckily we both live in Canada so it is an easier trip. It is so nervous to meet you, it has never served a master in person and its heart is racing. It booked a nice hotel room sir, with a king sized bed, as instructed. It knows you’re on your way and it feels like it is going to pass out, it is so excited and nervous at the same time.


It hears the knock at the door. As you had previously instructed it lets you in while it is on its knees as you enter. Its heart is beating so loudly it can hear it. You inform it of some rules for our meeting. If it displeases you you will hit it, HARD. You also might hit it “just because.” You take its phone so you can send yourself cash as you please. It can jerk its tiny dick if it asks politely, but only if you say yes. 


Next you make it disrobe so you can inspect your faggot in person for the first time. You laugh at it and spend the next ten minutes telling it why it is a disappointment. It is too fat, too old, its dick is too small, it is unsuccessful in its career and it will never be a real man. It thanks you for the honest assessment Sir. It feels ashamed but its tiny dick is hard. You help yourself to some cash and it thanks you for it. It asks permission to jerk its tiny dick and you reply simply, “No”. You tell it to put on a tiny pink thong, it is the loser queer’s uniform after all Sir. Then you slap it hard for being such a disgusting faggot that you have to look at.


You take a seat in a chair and order it to rub your feet. You know it doesn’t like feet, but you want comfort and your slave will provide it. It is beyond happy to be able to touch Master and make him feel good. Next you take off your shirt so it can admire your amazing muscled abs, pecs and arms. You haven’t worn deodorant or showered for a few days and tell it to lick your pits clean. They’re so stinky but i**********g at the same time. You help yourself to some more cash and it thanks you for it. It asks permission to jerk its tiny dick and you reply simply, “No”.


You decide that you need some entertainment next Sir. You order it to tell you an embarrassing story from high school. You sit in the chair while it stands before you in nothing but its tiny thong, it feels like a loser on display. It tells you about the first time it felt like it was less than, that it realized it was a loser compared to the Alpha males. It was seventeen and sitting next to a guy it didn’t really know. A guy three seats over told him to hit it. The guy next to it asks why? The other responds “cause he’s a faggot!” It was pretending not to hear it but it was still a shock when that slap hit its face Sir. A group of guys laughed at it, and the teacher didn’t notice. It had tears running down its face and it felt terrible Sir. It was the first time it truly felt its place in the world Sir. It is a loser for the better Men to use and abuse for their enjoyment. Once it finishes the story you help yourself to some more cash and it thanks you for it. It asks permission to jerk its tiny dick and you reply simply, “No”.


Next you use the restraints you told it to buy to secure it face down on the bed. It is exposed and helpless. You remove your belt and take off your pants to reveal a very well worn jock. You have been wearing it all week. It's saturated with your sweat, drops of piss and precum. You take it off and it tries to peek at your huge Alpha dick but you smack its face and tell it to close its eyes. You stuff the jock in its mouth to muffle any screams it might make and blindfold it so it won't know what's coming.  


It's trembling in fear as you pick up the belt, it doesn't know you're holding it. Suddenly you strike it hard across its ass. The pain is terrible. It cries out but you don't care. You tell it to count out loud each time you hit it. You slowly and methodically strike it over and over, you beat it from back to calf. Its entire backside is red and raw. It thanks you for beating it while tears run down its face. As you release it from its bonds you help yourself to some more cash and it thanks you for it. It asks permission to jerk its tiny dick and you reply simply, “No”.


Dinner time and you order room service for dinner. The most expensive item on the menu for you, the cheapest for it. You don’t care, it’s paying for it after all Sir. It’s not happy with its meal but you don’t give a fuck.


You then inform it you are horny and jerk off to some porn on your phone. It tries to avert its eyes but it is entranced by your massive Alpha dick. You finally shoot a massive load on the carpet and order it to lick it up. It feels like a loser licking the carpet but it has never tasted anything so good. It asks permission to jerk its tiny dick and you reply simply, “No”.


You take your place in the King size bed and fall resting. It sleeps on the floor next to you, listening to Master breathe softly and it is so filled with joy that it is blessed to spend the weekend with such an amazing man.


***Sunday***


It wakes to you yelling at it “wake up you stupid faggot!” You need to piss but don’t want to get out of bed. You tell it to take your dick in its mouth and swallow your piss, but if it spills any there will be hell to pay! It feels the spray begin, it tastes awful but it is on a mission, it came out of Master so it is good for it. It swallows as fast as it can. You let out a sigh of relief as your bladder empties into your faggot. 


It thinks you’re done using it but then it feels your dick hardening in its mouth. It knows you’re straight but it understands right away, you want to use it as a hole, nothing more. It services you with its mouth. Up and down, up and down, it gags on your huge dick and you smack it for not keeping up. You then tell it to lick your balls clean. They smell musky and taste salty. Then you tell it to lick your hole clean. You haven’t showered in days and it can tell. It smells bad but it’s so turned on. It returns to your dick and you fuck its mouth until a flood of cum fills its throat. You help yourself to some more cash and it thanks you for it. It asks permission to jerk its tiny dick but you reply simply, “No”.

 

You order room service for breakfast, on its tab of course. You eat a sumptuous meal and allow it to eat only toast and water. When it asks for bacon you tell it that it is fat enough already and that your cum and dirty ass were all the food it needs.


Next you tell it to entertain you with another oral presentation, something that would embarrass it. While you sit in your chair it stands before you in nothing but its tiny pink thong. It feels your eyes on its fat disgusting self. It tells Master about how it fantasizes about its male family members. How it has stolen dirty underwear from two of its cousins as well as its brother in law. That it jerked its tiny cock while it had their dirty undies in its mouth. It tells you how it wishes they would tie it down and take turns r****g its pathetic ass. It feels so ashamed yet turned on at the same time, it is such a sick fuck. You tell it that it did well and help yourself to more cash, it thanks you for taking it and asks permission to jerk its tiny dick but you reply simply, “No”.


After story time you tell it that you are sore and require a massage. You take off your clothes and lie on the bed face down. It is in awe of the manly body before it. It rubs you from head to toe and you seem pleased. You turn over so it can do the other side. It freezes when it sees your dick and you smack it hard, “stay focused faggot!” you yell.


Once the massage is over you inform it that you wish to go shopping. We visit several stores so it can buy Master whatever he wants. Every time we get to the cash you inform the cashier that it will be paying, then you make it carry all your bags. We repeat the process from store to store until you have all you need. 


After the shopping you get hungry and we go to an expensive restaurant to eat. You order plenty of drinks, appetizers and a large main course for yourself Sir. You only allow it to eat the complimentary bread and water, that is all it deserves and as you said “it is fat enough already”. When the waiter comes with the bill you point at it and say “give it to the faggot, it is paying!” 


Next we return to the hotel. You tell it to remove all its clothes except the thong and to stand in the corner and stare at the wall, for no particular reason other than you can. It thanks you for giving it time to contemplate its worthless existence. After an hour you decide to order a movie on pay per view and allow it to sit at your feet while we watch it together. It feels overjoyed that we can spend such quality time together, it feels content.


After the movie you inform it that you are horny, but that it is not needed. You jerk off to some porn on your phone. You cum into a tissue and it then watches helplessly as you flush it down the toilet. It feels heartbroken but it learns the lesson, you don’t need it and can replace it at any time. It asks permission to jerk its tiny dick but you reply simply, “No”. You get into the bed and it sleeps on the floor at your side. It falls resting to the sound of you breathing softly and it feels content and safe with its Master.


***Monday***


It wakes to you yelling at it. “Wake up stupid queer!” You tell it to follow you to the bathroom on its hands and knees. You sit down on the toilet and tell it to take your dick in its mouth. It feels its mouth fill with piss and it swallows as fast as it can. Once the piss abates it can feel your dick hardening in its mouth. Then it hears a fart, you’re about to shit. You tell it to suck your dick while you shit. It hears loud drops in the water and its nostrils are filled with a terrible smell. You tell it to keep sucking. It continues bobbing up and down on your huge Alpha dick while you push out more and more turds. It’s gagging from the smell but its tiny dick is so hard it keeps going until it feels a fountain of cum fill its mouth.


It reaches for the toilet paper but you stop it. You order it to lie on its back, then you squat over its face and tell it to lick your dirty hole clean. All it can see is your hole caked in shit, it doesn’t want to lick it but it has to, you ordered it to. It tastes awful but it feels so right to be used as your toilet paper, like the filthy faggot it is. You help yourself to some more cash as it cleans you and it thanks you for it.


It asks again if it may jerk off and you finally utter the word it has been dying to hear. “Yes.” You sit in a chair and tell it to get on its knees a few feet in front of you. You order it to remove the thong it has been wearing for two days and stuff it in its mouth. You reach into your bag and pull out a tube of Icy Hot and throw it to it. You order it to rub it all over its balls and use it as lube. You tell it it is not allowed to cum until you say so.


It feels like such a loser. A fat queer on its knees jerking its tiny dick with Icy Hot in front of a real man. It can taste itself with the thong in its mouth, and it can still taste your shit. Its dick and balls are burning, it’s in agony. Five minutes pass, you say nothing. Your mouth has turned into an evil grin. After ten minutes you finally tell it that it has permission to cum. You hand it a cup to jerk into. Its dick is burning. It takes it another five minutes before it finally fills the cup with its puny load. You tell it to drink it, and remark that it is the only one who will ever taste its worthless cum. It swallows the cum and asks permission to go rinse its crotch. You help yourself to some more cash, it thanks you for taking it. Finally you let it go rinse and laugh as it runs to the shower.


Once it is out of the shower you order it to pack up your things. You smack it hard for not doing it properly. After it is finally done you order it to its knees. It thanks you for using it and abusing it this weekend. It thanks you for taking so much cash from it this weekend. It will be forever grateful that it got to spend such amazing quality time with a real man like you. It kisses your shoe to show its deference and you leave. As soon as the door closes It realizes it misses you already Sir.

Update

Evening Masters and Slaves


This week has seen the good news of being allowed out for longer periods and going further afield. Living in the countryside with plenty of good walks around, I have been able to exercise better climbing the local hills that have been closed for a few weeks. We are another step closer to being able to meet again.


My fags are happy with the news and one has even come over to tribute in person. Social distancing observed etc. Another has upgraded their chastity device to one i can lock remotely. The Irish Bitch is happy and will be rejoining the site soon.


With work being slow over the last couple of months, i have spent my time well. I am able to play the sax again, rewatched plenty of old sitcoms and movies and even started looking at new vans - Will soon the dream back from the ashes! Name has been decided to be Dominator II.


This week i have not welcomed any more fags into the Stable, either here or offline. I am not in need of more but they are always welcomed. New leathers are on their way, been a while deciding on the right ones but i am happy with these. I will post some pice when they arrive.


As always look after yourselves. my Skype is always open for a chat if you just need someone to talk to.


LBB

MASTER DIESEL Introduction

The weather is dull, my house has never been so clean or organised and another Monday in Lockdown, so I thought I would be productive and do an introduction to myself on Owned Fags. So, let’s start how would I describe myself in a few words? Well an Old Guard Leather Master, Dominant, strict but fair, Confident in knowing who I am and what I want and expect in every aspect of MY life. I have always been into wearing leather from being a teenager. Financial Domination started for me at school being in a gang of lads picking out the weak loners and cornering them and emptying their pockets and enjoying spending their money at the corner shop. I have always worked and have a long successful career, so be clear findom is not about making quick cash or easy money! I have been draining and using fags for over 20 years. I enjoy the control, obedience and getting inside fags and slaves heads and getting them onto the path of service to work hard, to earn good money, to then hand it over to ME, giving them satisfaction, fulfilment and purpose to want to do it all over again knowing you are pleasing ME. Getting that cash large or small is as horny as fuck to me watching the figure going up and spending MY money on what I want when I want.

As part of this domination is a huge part of this for me, Boot worship soles treads, heal shaft the whole boot fags, Leather worship, Oral pleasure ready for a deep throat fucking love to hear a fag gagging on my pierced thick cock, Ash use fags with open mouths ready to take my thick hot ash is not a choice is a requirement if any fags are near me while smoking MY gars, smoke abuse nothing better than seeing a fag in my gas mask in tight bondage, fuelling the fags lungs with MY thick heavy gar smoke from MY 8x80 Asylums through the gas mask tube, strict Corporal Punishment for MY pleasure not just when a fag disobeys or disrespectful, Domestic service why should I clean MY house when I can get a fag to do such mundane tasks in life. Poppering a fag slave up makes them weaker to be used and drained for MY gain and pleasure.

So, Fags PM me or approach me in the chat room and let’s show you your rightful place in life.

MASTER DIESEL

Responsibility in Domination & Submission

by DorianTheAlpha


This will be a far less prescriptive post.


It is nothing more than thinking aloud.


This post is about findom dynamics, and its impact on a sub. When brash, brazen and sometimes tactless Alphas demand excess, especially from new accounts or new to findom as a whole: they flee. Sometimes that is ghosting, and all too often full account deletion never to return. I'll be the first to admit, I'm guilty of this, especially in My early days as an Alpha. Now as you read this, a natural rebuke is: "if the pussy can't handle Me, then they shouldn't be here." And yes, as Alphas, subs will never know they countless trolls, timewasters, and other toxic trash We endure. And likewise, it is a sub's respsonsibility to hold themselves accountable: understand what is expected before engaging. After all, you wouldn't enter a boxing match without a parry or a punch, but I digress.


So, where is the line between sustainable domination, and negligent cashgrabbing? It is not a set boundary. Some slaves have much to sacrifice and years of experience. For many others, this might be their very first exposure to sociosexual deviance. Even with study & fervour there's still so much you can only learn: sending, submitting, obeying, deferring to a Superior... experiencing findom first-hand.


Alphas constantly hear the same refrain from subs. Something to the effect of, "But Sir, My last experience with findom, an Alpha asked for [insert large number in the sub's opinion] and then ignored Me/blocked Me." Now, they're often telling the truth. Evidently, others lie for attention. Here many Alphas either dial up their chest-puffing demands, or dispose/block the new sub right then and there. 


So here lie the chasm. On on hand, earnest new subs get bulldozed by greedy Alphas who'd rather bark & bite than conjure any real sense of a findom dynamic. And equally if not more so, subs who will lie, cheat, whine and wallow without ever intending to truly serve. In this sea of mistreament from both sides, how does O/one navigate the vitriol?


Now this boils down quite simply: waste is dime a dozen. Great Masters & subs are a precious rarity.


My question becomes: how as an Alpha do you challenge yourself to avoid or overcome this (obviously this excludes consensual humiliation etc)? And more importantly, to the subs reading this, particularly new faces: I know you may have been used, even discarded before. What you don't know is an Alphas scars always run deeper. We deal with more trash than a landfill. So your wound-licking falls on deaf ears. Does this mean you deserve to be railroaded again? No. But does it entitle you to different standards? Even less so. How can you too can overcome these pitfalls?


Toxicity is universal. Alphas will set targets for subs owned by others, and mistreat subs who then leave the scene for good in shame or disgust. Many slaves more will fail targets, timewaste, cheat on their exclusive Alphas, so on and so on. A corny ending perhaps, but let's simply all... be better.


As an Alpha, know the difference between push your slave to thrive, and push your slave to leave.


As a submissive, know that your past & predilections do not warrant your failures or misconduct.


Cheers to all, and thanks for reading. Stay powerful Gents.

Findom Approach: The Abridged Version
by DorianTheAlpha


I have an older post that delves into this in greater detail. Consider this a pocket version.


When you are first approaching an Alpha you want to serve:


1. Send before speaking. Even if only 50 tips. A gesture to prove you're serious, and selfless.


2. Know your Master. Likes, dislikes, style of domination, expectations.


3. Speak clearly, and learn quickly. Always over-communicate unless He says otherwise.


4. Set your limits with Him, and respect His. Within that, obey. Always.


5. Be proactive & creative. Plan, save, earn, send more and please Him however you can.


--


The full version explores these and more in greater detail, but follow these five steps and thrive for your Master.

Reluctance and Deference
by DorianTheAlpha


Reluctance. The creeping hesitation that paralyzes you between taking the leap of faith, and staying stuck in sad frustration. It occurs in all of U/us, but especially in the frail frightened minds of beta boys. New arrivals worry that they do not belong. Experienced senders worry they've gone too far, or for too long, that they should finally leave the scene. There is always a voice in the back of your mind telling you not to. That voice is why I am writing this post today.


Deference. It is a word you almost never hear in kink. Submission, worship, sacrifice, tribute, selflessness, obedience, eager, pathetic, humiliating... of all the descriptors that float around this community, you seldom hear of deference. Why is that? Well, it's an uncommon word, but it so concisely captures how a sub should behave. It is *the* word, if I were to pick only one. If subs should strive for a single trait, it would be deference. So what does it mean? Respect, politeness — yes. Submissive obedience as well. Acquiescence. It is deferring to your Superior, in a noun. It is the embodiment of your Alpha knowing what is best, always. It is the sub trusting its Master.


All too often, and expectedly so, subs will stutter and say, "I'm not sure", "I don't know if I can", and so many other same-sounding apprehensions. Now, don't get Me wrong, you can say whatever you wish to say. But know that in this reticence, you show your Alpha that you do not trust Him, and His vast experience. So, the next time these demons creep up when your Alpha is pushing you within your established limits...


Let go of your reluctance, and trust the latter instead.


Be better. Be different. Be deferent.

The Luxury of Being Dominated

by DorianTheAlpha


There is a strange, skewed perspective of domination, in particular financial domination. Many slaves will approach to lead with their kinks. They will tell you all about what turns them on, what their hard limits are, their past injustices and why that makes them unable to trust the ever-perilous threat of Masters that mistreat them.


A common refrain is: "you want Me to send Sir? But W/we've barely spoken."


Now, I will always speak to curious souls. Some slaves are new. Some are unaware of how to approach. Some are just timid. But if after a short exchange, there's little sign they intend to tip, tribute, or otherwise strive to please Me, then I demand it. And generally, this is when the pretenders vanish. Every. Single. Time.


This post is for you, pretenders. The liars, the beggars, the toxic vile vermin that infect the purity of findom.


You do not get to own a Ferrari to pay for it when you like. You don't get to wear a Patek and send them a check when it suits you. You don't move into a seaside mansion and put off your mortgage indefinitely.


Serving an Alpha isn't just a luxury: it is the ultimate luxury. Financial submission is a gift an Alpha gives you.


Sending Me the money that is rightfully Mine *is* your reward, slave.


So, let U/us here and now stamp out the fallacy that you deserve attention from a Superior Male because of any of the following:

- Uncertainty or curiosity

- Insecurity or past wounds

- Prior mistreatment

- Lack of finances / having being ruined

- Lack of interest in findom

- Servitude to another Master

- The list goes on...


As a slave, you are responsible to educate yourself about findom.

As a slave, you are expected to be able to serve financially, unless your Master explicitly states otherwise.

As a slave, you are required to please your Master first and foremost, however He chooses.

As a slave, you are accountable to understand that your Master allows you the blissful gift of His existence.

As a slave, you are indebted to your Alpha merely by the virtue of serving him. Tribute merits nothing.

As a slave, you are property. It is your choice to be a slave; and it is your purpose as such to be His property.


Understand the choices you make, and adhere to your commitments. Both you and He are allowed your limits. Findom is a choice. When you make it, do not flake and do not flounder. Follow through.


Let us end on a constructive note: follow these guidelines to please your Alpha, and live truthfully in submission.


1. Do not say that you will send. Send, and then say that you have. Act first, then speak.

2. Do not approach an Alpha leading with your interests. He is above you. Pleasing him is all that matters. Do so, and maybe he will reward you by considering your own interests. That is the true nature of submission to Another.

3. Do not victimize yourself. There will always be those who hold exception with this post. Slaves here have done so to My words in the past. This is not ironclad; it is a guide. Follow it, or ignore it and resign yourself to the sad lie that you are actually a "slave" — you are the opposite. 


I recognize part of this post are strongly worded. Findom is a place of strong words, and emotions. If you are offended by this, you are likely guilty of what it puts forth. If You are nodding along, you likely know what I'm talking about, and have suffered through your fair share of vermin too.


Be better, for Him. 


For Me.

Domination, Exclusive Consideration, and Ownership
By DorianTheAlpha


There are several slaves here, if not most, that serve as community fags. They are not beholden to any one Master, by their own choice. It is one of the few choices a little cash piggy has, and I as well as all Masters should respect that, in order for this findom community to properly thrive.


Domination

When a Master and a slave interact for a single interaction, whether one tip, a session, or a series of tips and sessions, there is a temporary domination that occurs. This does not change the fact that there will always and permanently be Superior Alpha men and pathetic beta bitch boy cashslaves. That is eternal, and true. However, a cash slave can choose to serve multiple Alphas, at their own leisure, so long as they obey the Dominant/slave dynamic that is drives their sole purpose: to serve at the pleasure of Alpha Men.


UC (Under Consideration)

Now, some slaves are competitive, both within themselves and others. When channeled properly, this can be deeply constructive for both their submission and (more importantly) their Master's pleasure. When left to run rampant, it is toxic, destructive, and often leaves the slave blocked and wayward because of their own selfish jealousy. The best cash faggots will be "considered" by their Alpha Masters: a period wherein they serve their Cashmaster exclusively, though not yet owned. Ownership, a cashslave foremost reward beside their Master's pleasure & approval, is a beacon of exemplary servitude: you are a sufficiently excellent cash dispenser that your Masters sees it fit to brand you as public His. The summit of submission & servitude for a mindless ATM. 


Ownership

As eluded to above, this is the pinnacle of what subs hope to achieve while worshipping at the altar of their Alpha Master's perfection. Do not conflate this ultimate reward with it being the pursuit of one's servitude: you serve to please your Master, exclusively and entirely. All else follows. Ownership rarely comes to those who actively seek it out; it is rather bestowed upon those truly selfless slaves that purely provide for their Master's every whim, setting aside their own kinks and orgasms for Master's slightest desire. True, beautiful, blissful submission to a Supremely Powerful Alpha Male.


Now, the reason for this distinction between the three is that too often there are those here who seek to poach, coax, or otherwise betray the fidelity good slaves show their Masters. I hope that this post can serve as a clarification for community cash whores, prospective pets, and wholly owned finfags. The latter two should not be sought out unless their Master has given you His explicit approval. The first... is fair game to use and abuse at your disposal. And oh how they are disposable.


Cheers to all. I hope this helps.