Selflessness.
For Myself and Many here, being an Alpha is a natural state of dominance, domination, supremacy, and control in pursuit of Our pleasures. That is the nature of being an Alpha and Cashmaster. In contrast, so many submissives here are entitled. Not partially; entirely entitled. Maybe that's a generational cause, or some nurtured symptom of this specific community here. Whatever the reason, it is fallacious, toxic, and simply wrong.
A submissive aims to please his Master. A good submissive pleases his Master, consistently. A great submissive knows how to please his Master and does so without being told, consistently. An outstanding submissive takes that proactive knowledge to find new ways of pleasing his Master without his Master having to lift a finger. Growth in submission that blossoms over time as B/both explore in their D/s power dynamic.
And so, to conclude, a small tip for any slaves seeking to approach Dominants here, especially Findoms such as Myself. Tip first. Then speak, selflessly. Lead with action, then profess submissive intention. I wager you would be hard pressed to find an Alpha here who disagrees. This is basic stuff, pets. Do better, and rightfully put your Alpha first.
Cheers.
by DorianTheAlpha
Now, I will preface in saying this is My opinion, though one I know it is shared across hundreds of Superiors. That said, you may well find a Master that views submission differently than I describe here. If so, I weep for you because you'll never know the bliss of true sacrifice to serve your Master's pleasure.
Let's begin by listing off the excuses so many pretenders enjoy bleating to Masters Who've heard these tired lines a thousand times before:
- i am student/jobless right now, but i can serve You in other ways.
- i want to send to You, but i need to trust You first.
- i might be open to sending, but financial domination is not My primrary kink.
- i was mistreated by a previous Alpha, i need to recover before i can worship You.
- i have no money to send, but i can be Your promo/task slave.
If this is you: you are the worst kind of wasted space in findom and kink as a whole. These aren't reasons; they're excuses. Do better. Redefine yourself to serve His pleasure first and solely.
There are countless others, equally transparent, equally boring, equally self-branding "block me: i'm a waste of time".
This article is meant as instruction, and as motivation. Like all habits, starting with a few easy steps will lead to undertaking the harder ones. In time, you can be the best slave you can be by incorporating all of these and more. Internalize the spirit of these habits to truly devote the entirety of yourself to your Master.
1. Work harder, smarter, longer.
Secure a raise or bonus? That portion goes to your Master. Great night of tips? Those are Alpha's. Win a payout, lottery, jackpot, raffle, contest? Guess whose: your Owner, silly pet. Get a second job, or third, gigging: Uber, tutoring. Suck cock if you can get paid for guzzling cum in your Master's name. Be creative, and proactive.
2. Cut back on luxuries and indulgences.
Don't buy meals out. Meal prep, and make that coffee/tea at home. Skip the steak, and eat chicken or beans. Fast intermittently if your health allows it. Drink less, or not at all. Only Alpha Men consume fine spirits; you get hooch if anything. Forget about tobacco, weed, parties: they are revelries for Superior Males. Designer labels, latest tech, new toys of any kind... these have no place in a cash slave's world.
3. Simplify your lifestyle.
Forget the Uber: walk, bike or commute. Don't bother with a flagship smartphone when a budget model will do. Take cold showers and reduce your heating/AC to send your Master those savings. Workout? Cancel that gym membership, and go train outside. Sell your appliances and wash your dishes and/or clothes by hand. Which leads Me too...
4. Sell your valuables.
Collectibles: magazines, comic books, video games, watches, vintage items, etc. Jewelry, needless gadgets, vehicles, sex toys (looking at you sissies). Anything you are guilty of from #2, sell — that's a simple starting point. What feels more right: you owning $1,000+ of superficial goods you could do without, or placing that cash into your Master's powerful hands, where it belongs?
I have likely missed ideas here. What matters is starting small, being accountable to improve through sacrifice, communicating your commitments to your Master, and most or all: sending as soon as you have cash to do so. The longer your Master's money stays with you, the lazier you are being, slave.
Read, act, send. Or pretend that you are already doing "enough" for your Alpha, as if that is even possible.
We always deserve more...
I am sure Y/you all know the drinking card game "Kings". This is similar, with a few small changes, and a single King: the One you serve (or you are, cheers Mate and hello thanks for reading). This game is best played c2c (cam-to-cam), but there's an added element of inventive fun if played over private message (DM) chat, where the Alpha can simply make up what the next card will be (evidently only naming each card once).
Let's begin with the rules, as suited to findom (financial domination):
King, Rules of Gameplay:
Any 2: Send 200 tips.
Any 3: Send 300 tips.
Any 4: Send 400 tips.
Any 5: If available, the sub rolls a dice, and sends five times that number.
Example: roll 3, send 150 tips. If not, the Alpha chooses a random multiple between 1-6, and the sub sends 5x that multiple.
Any 6: Dick-related punishment. A personal favourite of Mine involves hot sauce.
Any 7: Free task.
Any 8: List eight things you adore about your Alpha.
For every hesitation to think, send 50 tips. For any repetition, send 100 tips. If cannot think of 8 things, send 800.
Any 9: Wild card. Personally, I like to lean into the sub's interests here: anal play, sissy plan, piss play, pain play, feet, etc.
Any 10: sub chooses any amount, and sends. This can be a free turn if the tributes are intense.
Any Jack: sub may touch itself for as long as Alpha allows.
Example: Specific number of strokes, or with set number of fingers, or set time. I like to let it jack so long as it can hold its breath.
Any Queen: Send equal to the sub's age in tips times ten. ie Age x 10 = tips sent.
Any Ace: Alpha gives sub a task. The sub must send in tips based on how long it takes to complete it in seconds.
Example: 10 pushups takes 30 seconds. Send 300. As always, x10 factor in play.
Any King: Alpha chooses any amount for the sub to send. Fourth King: Game over.
Enjoy the fun, and would love feedback on gameplay and overall experiences between Masters and slaves.
It's quite simple; I live my life for the benefit of others. In my family and social circle, I was always the one that would be on hand to patch things up, to make things right, and to restore the peace. Families and friendships have fuck ups, and me, being the sensible and emotionally grown up one, sorted it all out.
Then, just over seven years ago, when I was 36, my father died within a week of having a massive stroke. My families world, and mine, was blown apart. I hit rock bottom, and 6 months later, I was in therapy. I was suffering from PTSD and self-harming. Slowly, we healed, got through it, but I changed after that. I am not the person I was. Four years ago, one of my brothers died, acute a*****l poisoning. Once again, I was left supporting the family, this time more mindful of my needs, but still being the strong one. We waited over two years for an inquest - the longest of my life. After that inquest, I crashed, again, PTSD back, rock bottom. Slowly, with support of others, I got to who I am, and made a life changing decision.
I decided to ditch my career path as it was then, and retrain. I am working my way through my counselling degree, whilst also studying various courses to support that. My pledge and vow is that when qualified, I will donate 33% of my time to pro bono work, either agencies or private, in order to allow those in need to get help quickly. My main areas of work will be Men's Mental Health, Grief, and Sexual and Gender Identity.
I already volunteer and counsel for free, run support groups for men suffering from bereavement, and am an advocate for men's mental health. My desire is that the world is a beautiful place, and we are better off being in it that leaving it too soon. We are here to enjoy life, not to be burdened by our minds, to die slowly on the inside.
On top of that, I look after an infirm relative and work a day job. Some of you will have seen the crazy hours I do.
I am not here demanding your money - simply putting across that I give my time and effort to helping other's become the best they can, to live life. I work for them. Hard. Simply put, this is WHY I am worthy of your money - to get back from society, a society of those who recognise that they aren't deserving of what they have, and we, as a group of superiors, do. I deserve to have the income and comforts that I don't get because I work for the greater good of society.
Remember that, when you see I am online - I accept any tribute, big or small. Remember tho, I am NOT a push over, this doesn't make me soft. I am a dominant, hung, filthy, strong master, who has the ability to develop a deep psychological connection with you, to protect you, and to guide you in the journey.
Some may say I have divulged too much here - I believe in a two way, transparent street. My naturally dominant, superior nature, combined with my knowledge that I am deserving, has created what I am here, a CashMaster
Courtesy of SkinBossDan and TBMaster, their joint property 🥩 today transfers to pasture 🐄 from where it will appear inactive on OFs even though interacting with its awesome Owners. Before this, they suggested it write a blog on its servitude rather than shyly going quiet on the site as was its instinct. Unsure what could possibly be of interest to others, it will simply say in public some things its Owners already know, though not all of which it has before expressed, even in private.
1. Ownership 🔒
When it first joined OFs in September 2020, like so many subs before and since, it deleted immediately after cumming🤦 Yet a conversation with TBMaster had intrigued it sufficiently that it rejoined the following day. And with His encouragement overcoming its nervousness, it sent a beer to SkinBossDan who it knew of previously, although with whom it had never before spoken - and who responded in his own inimitable style. By then the die was cast. Those separate conversations led to a conversation between Masters, joint ownership of their new sub, and everything that has followed since. And their joint property has never looked back.
2. Humiliation 🥴
When joining the site, amongst fetishes, it casually ticked the box for humiliation. Then, after being taken into ownership, it received a full-on onslaught from its two Masters, each seemingly trying to outdo the other in treating their fresh meat like it never before imagined any sub could be treated. Its only reassurance was that both Owners seemed to think this treatment to be totally acceptable – and even normal! It quickly learnt to take what was given - and in turn that whatever was their pleasure would become its pleasure too (at least once it was over!). As for what had previously been its own pleasure, the one thing that has never been permitted is another selfish opportunity to cum. Only most rarely have they generously allowed it to touch itself and then, of course, entirely on their terms. That, though, has always been more than worth the wait! Life is much better doing what they choose when they choose – liberation from decision making is freedom for their property.
3. Two Masters 👑 👑
From the beginning, there has always been total trust between Owners and with their property. When it serves one financially, it serves the other equally, without being asked and without being checked. It knows of no other way and its Owners would have it no other way. This, though, created a strain from it wanting to serve both Owners to the best of its ability as if each was the only one (why should either settle for half?). This strain was initially relieved when they took full control - it by then all being their cash anyway. But then was increased as they raised the bar - further and further - and further again - until, even on a good day, their property could barely reach after a struggle. They were comfortable at that level - so it learnt to get comfortable there too. Other than ability, there are no limits to the devotion each can inspire.
4. Community 📲
Of course, there were more than its Owners on the site when it joined. In fact, as a new member, it felt quite intimated both by all the Masters - and also by some of the subs! And none more so than its stable-brother, then top of the Slave Market, SouthernScum (sadly no longer with us); subCorey, then no 2 on the Slave Market; and SoS who was particularly active at the time and appeared to be in overall charge! Yet they were precisely the subs who reached out and became its friends on the site. The role that encouragement from other subs and also other Masters plays should never be underestimated. It cannot imagine its journey without this. Yes, this is FinDom and not exactly a commune. But it says ‘community’ above the door and that’s one of the things that sets this place apart from others. Its Owners have always been active members of the community encouraging others on the site. In whatever ways it can, it tries to follow their example.
5. Slave Market 🐄 🐖
Other than a way of encouraging slaves ‘to climb’, the Slave Market is a bit of fun. The actual quality of a sub cannot be measured solely from the amount of cash it sends (as conclusively proven by a former member thankfully no longer on the site). Providing they do their best, subs are valued by its Owners for who or what they are - not just by how much they tribute. They develop each sub individually in the way that they decide is best. In the case of their joint property, they proved they knew best when, despite its previous protestations of impossibility, they got it into the top 20 on the Slave Market. As for what followed, it can vaguely remember drinking so much that it lost the ability to count, or even to operate a calculator. Certainly, they have never offered – or given - anything in return for tips (or any other tribute) - as these are all already theirs to take. And yet the rewards it has received in terms of what it has become and how it feels have at times been overwhelming. As for them getting it to the top, they must surely be the only Owners whose property was put in that position while they had it incarcerated in the Dungeon! Service is on THEIR terms. And it cannot imagine this any other way.
6. Dungeon ⛓
Without ever missing a target, it has spent more time in the Dungeon than anyone else since it joined. Why? It would be easy - and true - to answer that its Owners can be sadistic. But actually, they also expect its best in non-financial terms as well. When it has fallen short in either of their minds, the Dungeon has provided both punishment and the time and space for it to learn how to behave - and to communicate - better. Each time, this has also drawn a line on the past - not once have they ever looked back after a lesson learnt. Had the lesson not been learnt, it would surely have been discarded, as have others. Either way, life moves on, and so do its Owners. Maintaining the high standards they expect is sometimes difficult. But it is now part of life – which is all the better as a result.
7. Pantheon 🤴🤴
Sending a tribute that propels a Master up The Pantheon is a special honour to relish for any sub. As well as enjoying the pleasure of seeing other subs doing so, it is humbled to have been allowed the buzz of sending tributes that on separate occasions moved each of its Owners to Number 1. And whilst it is great to see one of its Owners at the top of the Pantheon, they have always been quick to congratulate others reaching that position, and to encourage it to do so as well. And also to recognise the other great masters whose Pantheon position is not so high – numbers of tips alone do not measure the quality of a Master either. All (or most) owned subs believe their Masters to be the best, at least for them. It is no exception. But trying to be as objective as it can, it does believe its Owners to be truly great Masters. And, as it has come to know them well, the strength of this view has only grown. What can be seen publicly is but the tip of what there truly is.
8. Master of All 👑
MoA is awesome. The great Man behind the best site in FinDom - and arguably in fetish. And the amazing, calmly assured, and best-never-crossed Alpha who keeps U/us all safe and in-line. Of an evening, MoA was in chat and had occasion to invite anyone silently watching to join in. Even without its Owners there to give it the confidence to do so, it knew what they would expect and what it must do. With its heart in its its mouth, it jumped in. MoA could not have been more welcoming, engaging or friendly. Whilst it was just one sub amongst a site-full, and to Him this was but a single conversation of many, it remembers it all clearly to this day. It was a masterclass in engaging with subs - with anyone in fact - that this sub will never forget. Yet (or is it because?) in terms of power on the site, no one approaches MoA. Except, possibly, one. HAL. Strong and silent Dungeon Master. Introducer of features (like members sending themselves to the Dungeon) without the knowledge of MoA (who undoes them when He finds out). And bar-stocker extraordinaire - never lacking in any cocktail ingredient, no matter how obscure!
9. Rollwercoaster 🎢
Of course, part of the attraction of FinDom is that it can engender strong emotions, sometimes difficult (or even impossible) to control. Its owners have been able to make it laugh so much that it cried. And even cry so much that it laughed ! From feeling itself trapped by exhaustion from its own pathetic excuses. To realising it was being taught how to soar free like a bird on the wing. Through thick and thin, its Owners have always stuck with it along the way. And it knows how privileged it is to be allowed to be with them. Something it can’t now imagine ever being without.
10. Outside events 🌍
Stuff happens in life. Most of it good, some of it not so much. And when it is not so good, emerging stronger than before can take time. And the support of those closest to you helps get you there. Its Owners have always been there for their property - way beyond anything for which it could have hoped. And they know their property will always be there for them. Travelling with the ebbs and flows of life is easy.Traversing against them is more challenging - and often more rewarding too. Rare indeed is the current so strong that prevents a return even another day. There is no end, only a new beginning.
This chapter of SkinbossDan’s and TBMaster’s joint property concludes with its thanks. To its awesome Owners, of course - it owes them more than even they know. To all the Masters and subs who have encouraged it on the journey thus far. And of course toMoA who with HAL makes it all possible.
There are no goodbyes - long or otherwise. Merely an ‘Au revoir’ and a ‘Merci beaucoup’🙏
I received him naked, in chastity, on my knees and holding my tribute in my mouth. As soon as he took it I started licking his sneakers enthusiastically. I missed that role of boot licker and it is a great honour to be able to fullfil it to my Master.
First he took a cigarette and smoke it while I kept at work licking. Then asked me for something to drink. He started then playing with a new toy I bought for his entertainment, a pair of vice japanese tit-clamps. This are designed so that the harder you pull, the harder they squeeze. I thought they could not be removed by pulling them. Well, I was wrong, my Master did pull them several times and amused himself seeing my face being contorted by pain. They were the reason I felt to the floor completely paralyzed. My nipples are still in pain and somehow I am happy with that.
My genitals although in chastity were also the object of his attention. He stomped and kicked me without mercy. I am happy to provide him with balls to play with.
He also whipped me with a leather belt and made me to whip myself. It was painful but not as much as the tit-clamps. There is photographic record of my back after the belting.
There is another part of my body still in pain, which are my knees. I still remember his standing orders when I first started serving him, one was that I am to be naked at all times in his presence, and the other is that I have to walk on all fours. I am sorry to say that I had to be reminded of the latter, but of course I did comply. And going from one place to another on all fours ends being very painful on my kness, which obviously is just a reason for the amusement of my Master besides being a very good way of putting me on my place.
While he was torturing me I declared my total adoration for him, it's hard to explain why I am so grateful and adoring to the person that humiliates, tortures and degrades me so completely but that's the nature of a faggot. He answered that amused him greatly seing me suffer.
Before leaving my home he informed me that he was going to come back for more and he took the keys of my chastity device with him till the next time we saw each other. Naturally, another standing order of him is that when he dismisses me I have to kiss his shoes, which I have done even in public and I did again before he left.
Thank you very much, Master, for allowing me to serve you.
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Short summary for happy and entertained Masters and slaves! At least from my personal experiences,
Monday is tribute day; Master decides how much, where and how to tribute. No Master?Ask an Alpha you fancy for a tribute opportunity.
Lucky slaves who were kindly given a debt contract usually pay a part every monday but that is Master to decide.
Tuesday is... to come soon
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Wednesday is: wishlist day
_Thursday= 10£ Thursday
_Friday= fagtax
_Sunday= reimbursements day
A play day for slaves to sneak in Master(s) wish list & buy a small (or big) something for the Master or Masters you like. See my blog post about wish list Wednesday (on my profile).
Friday is known fagtax.
Time for a new tribute occasion; I am launching: the 10£ Thursday!
A day,
we slaves will choose one or more Masters we fancy and send him (or
them) a 10£ gift (or 100 tips), Easy and fun.
Tributing every day is not what makes a good slave.
It is not the frequency nor the amount that make a good helpful, useful and faithful slave.
I truly think a good slave and a good Master will depend on what you look for, what you like, how you get along together, how everyone behaves and what kind of dom/sub relation you will build up together.
But then, tributing everyday or very regularly is fun and hot! Why do without? At least, if you can afford it and if and you want this!
My opinion: It doesn’t have to be big! Many small tributes or targets on regular basis are just as exciting and effective. The important thing being to show submission and devotion.
So far then my new idea & way for an extra tribute occasionw hich I think is can be nice and fun for both Masters andlaves but that is up to you,
This, as my previous tributing games & ways were created to please and entertain Master as well as all Masters and slaves on the site
Many verified Masters without a slave and many single slaves! I like those games and different habits of tributing on weekly basis because it is giving all Masters the occasion to be tributed and it gives all slaves the opportunity and fun to tribute one or several Masters without getting engaged,
have fun,
enslaved
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Here I go again ; one more way to serve ! I can’t help it ; my creative brain loves findom !
A nice, hot option & many serving opportunities to Submit & serve,
For subs :
The Reimbursementsoption is wonderful option of the site to Submit and serveAlpha men,
This means participating in a refund with the amount of your choice. For your own Master or any Sir you like & want to please. An advice tor owned subs; ask your Master first before making a reimbursement, Unless you were alreadt given permission to serve other Sirs,
I wouldn’t want you to end in the dungeon because of my serving ideas & games
For Sirs :
Please add your receipt & give subs the possibility to serve & reimburse your receipt.
Reimbursing completely or a part of the price & amount, subs choice, An additional way to serve
you and be a little in your life to take part of your needs or your wishes, Isn’t it therole of a slave?
A bit like buying from your wishlistsbutexcept it is you who decide what you buy and when.
If I may say Sirs : be e nice, add yourreceips & allow us the the hot fun and joy to take part on your those reimbursements opportunities, Thank you Sirs.
More tribute ideas & serving games on my other blogposts on my profile,
A summary of my findom submission, proposals,games & habits :
_Monday =
tribute day ; Master decides what, how much & when. Unowned (no Master?) Ask a Sir you like what kind of tribute you may give him
_Tuesday= rest day ! 1 day in the week to recover a bit, keep findom fun & hot.
here is nothing more boring than doing the same thing every day!
_Wednesday= wishlist
wednesday : on most Sirs profile & ont the wishlist group
among the other groups
_Thursday= £10 thursday .
_Friday= fagtax
_Saturday= do your thing
_Sunday= reimbursement day
Just my own habits & ideas for those who like games & creative submission,
Still & Always :
MOA Master (the site owner) will be given a tribute whenever MOA will be written on the chat.Unless the very few times I don't have tips no more.
See my previous blogpost about this game!
I would like to suggest all users who likes this site to participate on this findom game to help the owner of the site and its many costs. There's also a donations option
Owned Fags is a male only site which deals with adult themes
You should only view this site if you are over the age of 18, male and are not easily offended.
