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A lifetime of devoted slavery to my Columbian Master Dom Nathan
Well today is 15 Dec 2020 and as I sit here with my cock hanging down in this cold house, I want to share with all of you that see this my first few days on Owned Fags...

I joined on 02 Dec 2020 and began my search for the perfect Master. I had bits and pieces of what he would look like and act like towards me, but that was about it. There are so many hot men on this site, with beautiful bodies. Beautiful bodies as a result of bodybuilding are super hot but when GOD is involved in the creation process, THAT is something different!

So after several intros and emails back and forth between multiple Alphas and myself proved pretty fruitless...until I hooked up with DOM NATHAN on 13 Dec Columbian gift from God. my Lord and Master. I am his personal property now as he claims below, see pics!

He is a filthy mouthed Alpha from Cali, Columbia and he has given me 3 degrading tasks so far...2 of 3 are completed. 

*****See the whole saga on my P***h** account - brendan10101.

My undying love and devotion to you SIR!

Stable for new slaves
In the last weeks there was often the discussion about why so many slaves leave OF after a short time and​ if slaves join a stable too quickly. 

I have begun to think about this and will write my personal thoughts - how often it could be wrong for other people, but this should be for thinking about and maybe we can have a discussion about diffferent opinions - please feel free to write your thoughts in the comment field.

Most of the slaves want a Master who​ takes care of him, gives his life a meaning, gives him orders to fullfill and set rules - help him to make his and the life of his Master better.  

If a slave joined OF first time - they are new victims for all the slave-hunting Masters there - you have 10-20 Masters who want you to serve him, set you targets with more and more​ gifts or tips -​ a few of them have not even the deceny to write to you first before they set you a target.​ ​ 

Many of the slaves are really overwhelmed by all of this - some don´t know they can say no to a target, some don´t know how to respectfully say they don´t want to serve that Master - some completely loose control of all of this.  

Many of the slaves are burnt out within a short time and leave OF for this reason - others seek the protection of a Master and join his stable.​ ​ ​ 

Most new slaves dont know what it really means to join a stable - made the same mistake by my first try here - they are now secure from most of the other Masters and have only to concentrate on​ their new Master - but after joining a stable you go from a hundred to zero messages if you have started with more messages than you can read, to, if you are lucky, some from your Master.  

If you're lucky to find the right Master after this short time, he will take care of you and look after how you feel, he will support you and will always be there for you - if not, you are only his ATM and he will only contact you if he think he needs more money - you will be alone with this new situation and nobody will take care of you as you are a owned slave​ and most Master​ respect this and will not contact you. 

I know - many slaves know their Master previously from other sites and come to OF only for their Master (as me), many are lucky to find the perfect matching Master in a short time, but many find out after time they are not lucky - it is hard for them to leave a stable they once joined voluntarily - they must say if they were wrong with their decision or​ other people will think they are too weak for this Master, or they don't want their Master to look weak for loosing a slave.​ 

So, maybe it will help to have a trial period for 2 weeks or so to prove you're a​ good match or not, after this both could decide they will continue or it will automatically finish. (don´t know how this technical would go and how difficult it is to make) - this two weeks could be a "stable light" with lesser restrictions, maybe in this time you could make a mentorship with an experienced slave or a experienced Master the Master trusts. 

I think this could help to made new slaves stay longer on OF, maybe it would be better if more Masters would have the chance to look if a new slave is compatible with them and maybe more Masters would try to be a careful Master to their new slaves.​ 

After these two weeks, both should know what the other wants and each real Master will then set limits and restrictions for his slave as he wants and how he thinks it would work for both. 

I know - this is a FinDom site and many would think they are not here to take care of worthless slaves or cunts, many slaves don't want a caring Master, but they want a hard Master who dominates them and make them into submissive pieces of shit from the beginning - if both want this it would be possible too - the trial period should only be for knowing better what the other really wants - if both know this from beginning they should make what they want.

And a second time - many thanks to SoS for being my lector and translate my thoughts in readable english and for the support of my Master.

Frustrations and advice from a relatively new member
Frustrations I’ve found since becoming an online master vary a lot... these frustrations can oddly become quite positive and I find it quite surprising that things change and flip so quickly on here. My slaves have always been very dedicated in life and most certainly know their place, however, I’ve found that keeping a leash on them here always poses quite unusual difficulties. Slaves evidently need to know their place, however, they can’t ever get to understand what that place is if they are handed targets fives messages in or are demanded of things without adequate time. Communication and establishing a connection is fundamental for any master slave relationship. Now I’m not speaking up for them, just some of the mistakes I’ve made since coming on here.

I really like the community and feel that both masters and slaves give really good advice although some to be honest are just totally unreasonable and you’ll always have people like that.

Main advice to new masters:

Calm yourself and form connections with slaves

Don’t immediately think all slaves want you, they’re really fucking different believe me

Read a profile before you message, don’t just jump the gun and ignore that they have a master

Advice to slaves:

Try and give new masters more chance, they could be a great fit for you, just may be getting used to it

Don’t test patience too often it can result in lots of unfortunate things

Be obedient above all else, remember you are slutty little slave, don’t ever for get that

A fag introduced me to findom

And now I’m hooked. 

[First of all, I want to say that english is not my language.]

It was about a year ago, I was lonely at home on a Friday night and just went online to this local gay chat. I was probably hoping to fuck that night, just to feel some skin touch mine and screw solitude.

There was this guy with a strange description : « I’m a human ATM. » He was surely looking for an escort, I thought, and I didn’t engage. But at some point, I got a message notification from that « human ATM » : « Whats up! »

What followed is a roller coster of emotions I’ll never forget for the rest of my life. When he explained me he was looking for a master to give his money to and pay his bills, the idea was so… waaaaaa… in line with some of my deep desires that it just blew my mind and gave me instant erection.

I was very hesitant, never having done such a thing, and worried about legal consequences. Fortunatly, the fag, who’s the same age then me, was horny enough to explain me things and send me proofs of consent. I screenshot everything. Now, I’m laughing at myself for being so shy at that moment.

My heart was beating so bad that I was sweating and out of breath when he sent me a first 20 bucks. « Oh my f**ng g*d, I asked myself, what is going on?! »

And the kinkest part of it? He wanted to send MORE. POOOOOWWWWW! I was dead. For the next hours of the night, I feel we kind of had sex, kilometers away one from the other, through our computer, him sending a little bit more as I gained confidence while he pushed me to be more and more brutal with him.

And that « special relationship » with my fag #1 has been, in the following months, another roller coaster, since both he and I backtracked many times, felt remorses, but always came back online to have fun.

It has never been just about money. To be honest, the guy works a shitty job with minimum salary, so he paid me small amounts. It was a discovery and an exploration. I happen to have a twink body, because I’m a runner and cyclist, but always felt a hunk in my mind. I’m dominant, and I learned to let the vulgar part in me break out on my fag #1. It felt a relief, and an amazing sexual kink.

On his side, he his obese and ugly and never achieved anything in life. His « dark side » is to stay there. He is turned on when I tell him he is fat and ugly, and that his true nature is to serve me. Honestly, I think he was in love with me.

I really thought we were the only ones in the world having that kind of relationship. I didn’t know « findom » existed. But it was in me. I had these fantasies of extorting a guy, getting his bank account codes and withdrawing what I wanted when I wanted. I needed total submission, but I was confused because I am not interested by the models of submission that I see in porn : piss, skat, pain…

A few months ago, when my fag #1 and I were not talking for a while, after too intense sessions during lockdown, I discovered the findom world on Twitter. I engaged with some users, drained a little bit of money, but I closed the account at some points.

It’s my fag #1 who came back to me lately. And the wheel started to spin again. I discovered this website Owned Fags, which I find amazing, thanks to the creators and moderators. I felt a bit dizzy, like coming out for a second time.

I’ve been observing, interacting a bit, hoping to make good connections with good slaves, and friendship with fellow masters. I know we can’t match with all subs out there, but I’m open minded, and I can screw your wallet by f**ng your brain real bad. Come talk to me, tip, let’s connect, and have fun.

1st Post : A Fag's Place
MasterD has been in this scene for the past 5 years or probably more. I have used a lot of Singapore's slave and now I am branching out to use slaves that will pledge their loyalty to only me. There is too many slave who wants to "try", a "casual" slave or "part- time" slave. I do not get this at all. If you are slave, you do not have a choice. You submit fully to me mind, body, soul and intangible/tangible things. There is not point for you to beg me to take you in when you do not wish to commit fully. 

Your place is under my feet and ass. You ask permission before you speak and you should beg for leniency. Do not take my kindness for granted. Respect your master. Respect your place as a slave. Do not question why. Do it because I told you so. Expect to be a human punching bag. Expect to be a pig who get stuff in the mouth and ass. Expect to be used 24/7. Expect to be mine and only mine. 

If I whore you out, you should be thankful. You gain my respect enough to know that you get to be used by other masters/dom. Your whole existence is only to make me proud, excited and happy. Your happiness is when I am happy. 

You do not get to choose. You get to be used. Drill that in you mind FAGS!

Call me Sir

Master of the day May 16.   I have been a Master for more than 25 years now and have had some really good experiences. For me it's not a game. It's my way of living.  And now I am contemplating wether I should share some of my events in writing. 

Being a true and open Master means my friends and colleagues know me as the true Me. 

Some colleagues have also learned that if they ask about my night before they will get a full reply.

This is an excellent site for me. I have a lot of fun with findom and it fits my ideas of Master slave relations, but it is also just a part of all that that I am. 

My main goals are real meetings and training of a slave to become a total slave for my pleasures . 

A sexslave, workslave, cashslave, painslave, totally exposed for me, under total control of me, trained by me and molded into my idea of the perfect total slave. 

Looking for those few gems of a slave I take my time and enjoy the journey. 

I already found a good few and I am  very proud of them but got time for a couple more. 

Let me know if slave thinks it's up for the task. Up on my standard. And we'll talk 


MASTER DIESEL Introduction

The weather is dull, my house has never been so clean or organised and another Monday in Lockdown, so I thought I would be productive and do an introduction to myself on Owned Fags. So, let’s start how would I describe myself in a few words? Well an Old Guard Leather Master, Dominant, strict but fair, Confident in knowing who I am and what I want and expect in every aspect of MY life. I have always been into wearing leather from being a teenager. Financial Domination started for me at school being in a gang of lads picking out the weak loners and cornering them and emptying their pockets and enjoying spending their money at the corner shop. I have always worked and have a long successful career, so be clear findom is not about making quick cash or easy money! I have been draining and using fags for over 20 years. I enjoy the control, obedience and getting inside fags and slaves heads and getting them onto the path of service to work hard, to earn good money, to then hand it over to ME, giving them satisfaction, fulfilment and purpose to want to do it all over again knowing you are pleasing ME. Getting that cash large or small is as horny as fuck to me watching the figure going up and spending MY money on what I want when I want.

As part of this domination is a huge part of this for me, Boot worship soles treads, heal shaft the whole boot fags, Leather worship, Oral pleasure ready for a deep throat fucking love to hear a fag gagging on my pierced thick cock, Ash use fags with open mouths ready to take my thick hot ash is not a choice is a requirement if any fags are near me while smoking MY gars, smoke abuse nothing better than seeing a fag in my gas mask in tight bondage, fuelling the fags lungs with MY thick heavy gar smoke from MY 8x80 Asylums through the gas mask tube, strict Corporal Punishment for MY pleasure not just when a fag disobeys or disrespectful, Domestic service why should I clean MY house when I can get a fag to do such mundane tasks in life. Poppering a fag slave up makes them weaker to be used and drained for MY gain and pleasure.

So, Fags PM me or approach me in the chat room and let’s show you your rightful place in life.


43. (poem)


So you've got that itch 

Well I have it too

so snort that vial of paint thinner 

and I’ll crash the base of our spines 

Together, in a couple of different positions 

Open that potion, 

Wiff the industrial revolution 

And I’ll make you my machine 

Thrust in and out like a piston 

"-Sincerity" may be too long a word

So sacrifice the last three syllables  

Snort a little more pig, blur your vision 

And make your own decision 

That all decisions, are mine to make


Fag hunting
After a couple years of experience and having one devoted fag I’m looking for the perfect slave. Why wouldn’t you want to be owned my me ? I’m god I’m perfection my importance  is the most crucial thing on this planet and without me you’d be nothing but a loser and pathetic fag . Tips tips tips you hear me in your dreams you hear me whilst you’re driving to work . When you’re going down on your wife I’m everywhere and I’m not leaving until I get what’s mine so best you buckle up and do what’s best and serve me 
Findom Approach: The Abridged Version
by DorianTheAlpha

I have an older post that delves into this in greater detail. Consider this a pocket version.

When you are first approaching an Alpha you want to serve:

1. Send before speaking. Even if only 50 tips. A gesture to prove you're serious, and selfless.

2. Know your Master. Likes, dislikes, style of domination, expectations.

3. Speak clearly, and learn quickly. Always over-communicate unless He says otherwise.

4. Set your limits with Him, and respect His. Within that, obey. Always.

5. Be proactive & creative. Plan, save, earn, send more and please Him however you can.


The full version explores these and more in greater detail, but follow these five steps and thrive for your Master.