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Crisis - Charity Cycling Fundraiser

Posting this with MOA's blessing -

I am doing a virtual (indoor bike) cycling tour from the Isle of Man to the south of France to try and raise money for Crisis ( a charity that helps people get back on their feet with work, homes, dependencies and anything else. It's a good cause, but particularly during this pandemic -

 'Towards the second wave of the pandemic, there have been bigger increases from people who are experiencing homelessness for the first time, people who have been furloughed and those who are newly unemployed.'

Homeless people are also much more likely to develop pre-existing conditions that would make Covid much more dangerous that it is even now.

p.s Out of respect for the platform we are on, if you want/are able to please donate with OF tips and put 'crisis' in the note, as soon as I am able to I will reimburse the cash donation through JustGiving on your behalf and DM you a screenshot (will not be immediate, but i wont/can't do a bunk with the tips anyway!)

Last year I had a conversation with a recently-made homeless man, who made me feel very vulnerable (more detail on the link) and i think it's particularly poignant considering the fetish we all practice, the power of finances and the 'risk' to recognise how easily you can lose a foothold- and the slippery slope to homelessness that has very few ways out, and also learn about the help available to us or others we may know.

Plus i've gotten to be a fat bastard over a year of lockdowns so the accountability will be great! If anyone else wants to 'ride-along' or do something similar, the kit i will be using is a Wattbike Atom bike and the app Zwift which replicates 'true to life' inclines and resistance (so it's not gonna be much easier than actually doing it lol) - also using an apple watch, Strava for distances and keeping track of distance using a great app called MyMission- but all you really need is a bike and Mymission. 

I'll be posting regular updates on the JustGiving page!

Many Thanks!

Life Ruination Text Trigger. You will never change.

Tributes → loser feeling reinforced         

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gets horny  ←  swears to quit findom

You’ve wasted your life as a wank machine. Tributing men and binging clips. Don’t worry, this time won’t be different. Enjoy your relapse. You lurk. You relapse. You deactivate for 2 days then repeat. This endless cycle should be getting tiring but the adrenaline rush is so addictive you need more. 

Now you crave more thrill and more danger. If you’re reading this, give up. If you could beat this you would have never relapsed. Unzipping and rubbing the throbbing ache in your pants while your checkings is wiped feels right. Your defeated cock is too weak to say no to and too limp to say yes to normal sex. Poor bitch, your life is over. The wasted kids liquidated on your stomach is a reminder that findom has warped you into a fist fucking loser cash machine. I'm not the reason you biologically imbalanced freaks chase an irrational high of masochism. Whatever happened in your childhood is responsible for that. I'm just here to reap the financial benefits of all the bullying, abuse, and neglect you went through. 

Morals have no place in Findom. I will break hearts, tear apart families, f***e poverty, interrupt income and just laugh at your damaged past. Your problem, My profit. I'm not here for negotiations or therapy. I'm simply here to take advantage of an easy situation. "Never again”. You've repeated it so many times it's lost all meaning. It must be painful, being so stupid. Lying to yourself over and over. Your only real option is simple, admit your defeat and watch as I pick apart your life's work.

You don't get out. You never get to quit. You only get to hate yourself more as I personally oversee your demise. Don't forget to keep stroking, those few minutes of fleeting bliss are the only escape you get from this nightmare. Your only reward for sending is the feeling of nothingness and being forgotten. Five seconds of pleasure when you flush your beta spunk away. Then you're just left with a lifetime of poverty and regret. You're still gonna send because you're an addict. You’re just another disposable brain dead failure. Scamming you while you goon your brains out as your wallet gets lighter. After I’ve milked you dry, you will shoot out your load to a block screen. Another babycock loser will just replace you instantly. No one cares about your existence. You are a nobody, a stroke puppet, jerking in a dark room to strangers. Nobody is ever going to look at you so just get use to sexual frustration and loneliness. Hurry into my DMs with that pumped up jizzdick to get your handsex sessions pumping hard. Squirt your nutgunk out in defeat. I will drain everything, bankrupt you then just block you. Starve your family just for a quick fap session with me.

Financial Master Programming Wank Machines.

How many times have you felt a shower of regret in post nut clarity and told yourself never again? It's a shame that no one has ever successfully quit findom. The damage is irreversible. Let the tingle turn into a throbbing ache in your gooey pindick. Present yourself for the slaughter.

You send within budget, then are pushed beyond your self imposed limit, you think to yourself "shit, this is ruining me, I will quit now". Realizing you get off on being ruined, you hate yourself more, you stroke, you forget and repeat the cycle. My cold, cruel words soothe your aching defective limp fuckpole. Dribbling nutgunk out of your second brain while I end your sex life and cement your fate. Your best orgasms don't come cheap anymore. No life. Lonely. Addict loser locked away, pumping away financial stability. Edging closer to losing all free will. A mindless cash dispenser oozing out cash. Brainwashed and seduced into losing your life to Findom. Wrap your fingers around your pathetic cock and sign over your life to me with every pump. Every ounce of self-control has slowly been drained away in all that beta goo your maggot has been oozing out. You tried your best to fight it. You lost. Fall in love with ruining yourself. It won't be long before regret turns into arousal. Then there's no escape. The closer you get to succeeding the more you want to fuck yourself over. It makes me so happy to know that I'm causing permanent damage to your sorry lives. 

I'm not here to build relationships with the dregs of society. Only to stomp on your finances and throw you away. I promise to forget all about your existence after I'm done leaving long-lasting, irreversible effects on your sorry life. Some masters like to encourage their subs to better themselves but I'm not so deluded. I know you'll never amount to anything. Can you blame me when all these pathetic failures throw themselves in front of me and beg for torture and misery?

The little red devil.

I know many of you have asked for the next part of "Ugly Tranny." and "How I met my first love." OK these will come.   

Many of my blogs hark back to the days when a cold night on the streets of London would not be a problem, but this one comes from a later date when at the fist sign of a grey cloud my joints aches.

Being a lad who was at home with my first computer at 13 I was at the very start of the internet and little did I know that 40(ish) years later I would be having a real time chat including photo's, video and little smiling faces.   In fact for years I has resisted the little smily faces but hay life changes.  

Moving on to 2016 and I had got to grips with this search engine and that search engine and what is now the ubiquitous google.  I am sure I have done some searching I should not have and a few times made sure I was on a public internet service(hot spot).  I take the view that if my IP says I am at Athens Airport then who am I.   Any why the point is I found findom/cashdom during my on going non stop hunt for good porn.    

Finding a chatroom, after doing all the things needed to join the site I started just sitting on the sidelines just reading the way the posts where going.  I noted people kept say (a word) to one of the subs in the room and it appeared the sub was reacting well most of the time.  I noted some of the people said the word and were not getting a reaction at all.  A example that even a self confessed faggot has those it likes, those it does not like and those who just don't do it for them.  

It was as I was reading these messages and sometimes saying the word my self and got a reaction I sent a private messages to the faggot, go a replay.  We connected on skype and started our private chat.  I started to find my self in the finedom world.  I started to note that I was chatting more than what you might call demanding.  Reading "How I met my first love" you will see that this is how it works for me.  My BF and faggots kneel down to me not because I demand it but because it's just the right  thing for them to do.  I find this way people open up to me, some with "secrets" and "triggers" that don't work every time but they do most times.  I like public play abusing a faggot in public and chatrooms but private skype works well and I have a better range of those little smiling faces I said I avoided earlier, some have cute animation.  When chatting with the faggot using "the word" I also found one, a red devil with nashing teeth and the "little red devil" was born.

The little red devil.  Always wants his way but has a note of mischief, naughtiness and fun just like a little imp. He has a personality of his own like my avatar or calling card.  When the faggot see him he knows it's time to play and it's not going to stop until he is payed to go away.  That way the faggot can tell me when he need to stop without telling me.  Sometimes the little devil will go to sleep for a little while, just to wake up again but I always know when enough is enough (maybe)?

Two feet or Not two feet.

LOL thought I would take a brake from my normal "Life and times of Master Pete" and this time just flow up on observations others have made.

To feet or not to feet,

To smoke or not to smoke,

To finger or not to finger,

To showoff or not to showoff,

These are the questions dear faggot.  Is it nobler to suffer the whining and wingeing of faggots or just to display the "F U Finger", sit back and wait.

The thing is I see lots of faggots and Masters wingeing about  what they call "So called masters" just posting pic of their feet and demanding cash then sitting back.  I find I agree with the wingers that post a pic of the feet and a demand for cash, it does not make a master.   However if you take the amount of cash a master gets/has as a sign of how successful a cashDom is.  Then the ones that get the most are the ones that post the most "F U Finger" or "Feet" photo's.  Of course we can never know what goes on in private but on the surface it appears that the ones that spend the most time, chatting, getting to know and otherwise doing the things faggots say they like/want, are the ones that lose out.

So with that in mind.

F U faggots, pay your tributes to me and there's plenty of feet and boot pics on my profile.

Your Master Pete. 

The first day of meeting my Master
It was Tuesday evening that I landed in the beautiful city where my Master lives. I was nervous but at the same time very excited to finally get to meet him for the first time after months of waiting because of this global pandemic. As I entered the airport, I texted him that I had safely arrived and he replied by welcoming me to his hometown. I felt so calm and peaceful to read his message. I then took a taxi and went to check in to the apartment that I booked to stay. He told me he would come to meet me after 7pm at my apartment and that I would pay for his taxi. There was some problem with his water heater at home and he was waiting for the technician to fix it.

It was just slightly more than 1 hour before he arrived and I waited patiently. I requested for his permission if I could hug him when I first met him and he said yes. The moment he texted me that he's right in front of the entrance, I immediately rushed down to open the door and there I saw him standing and smiling at me. He looked so perfect and extremely handsome! I hugged him and I had tears in my eyes and I said to him, "It's so good to finally get to meet you, Sir!" As he entered my apartment, I immediately went down and kissed both of his shoes and I hugged him again on my knees. He then went and looked at my wallet and he took some money for his taxi without even asking me. 

He then sat on the couch and asked me to sit on the floor. He asked me to remove his shoes and to start kissing and sniffing his socks. They smelled so good. He smelled so good. Then he wanted to have shower because the technician couldn't fix his water heater yet. I just looked at him entering the bathroom wishing he would invite me to have shower with him. I didn't ask him because I told myself I needed to be patient and stay calm for that moment to arrive. After he had shower, I went to him on my knees. I did not know his expectation but I gave him my first cash tribute in person. He smiled at me, he took it and he said, "Good boi"

It is true when he said he had clean and smooth feet that any slaves would be happy to kiss and lick for hours. His feet was very clean and they smelled amazing. I continued to kiss and lick his feet while he sat on the couch watching TV. He let me continue worshipping his feet while sometimes I stole a glance at his amazingly good looking face. He stayed for around 2 hours and then he said it's time for him to go. I suggested to him for me to wear the chastity device that I brought and for him to keep the keys. He seemed reluctant in the beginning because he knew I might become crazy from the online experience in the past. But I begged him and promised him that I won't go crazy. As I put on the chastity, he just took the keys and as I locked it, I knew there's no turning back. This would be my first time to experience wearing chastity for several days without being able to remove it at all. He would come back to meet me again on Friday.

Before he left, I requested him to take my wallet, all my money and all my cards for him to keep. He gladly took them but he left me with some cash for me to buy food. He said it wouldn't be in his best interest if I was starving. As he's about to leave, I was still on my knees and I gathered all my courage to make another request from him, "Sir, I don't know if it's still early for this but would you kiss me before you go?" He then approached me, he looked and smiled at me and he held my head as his lips touched mine. At that moment, I felt like I was in heaven. I didn't expect to get a kiss from my Master on our first day of meeting but he did tell me in the past months that he wouldn't mind to kiss me as a reward to my devotion and loyalty to him. On my knees, I hugged him again and I looked up to him and I said, "Thank you, Sir!" and he smiled at me while patting my head and said, "You're welcome, boi"

I slept that night like a b**y smiling in my dream and I am so thankful and grateful to my Master, the one and only!

(Note that this blog has been reviewed and approved by my Master for me to post it)

10 Things Specific to Online Financial Domination

10 Things Specific to Online Financial Domination

by DorianTheAlpha

#1 - Discipline

No, not the kinky kind. I’m talking about self-discipline. It’s easy to be motivated at the start, or after a heavy drain, maybe you’ve just owned a new fag or two. Not everyday will be motivating. Some days this might even feel like work, down right discouraging. Discipline is what separates the flashes in the pan from the those who stand the test of time (this is true for Dominants and submissives).

#2 - Communication

Online domination is noisy. Very noisy. Being a strong communicator is a key part of succeeding here, but that doesn’t mean being everywhere all the time. Be thoughtful about where you want to focus your own energy, and in those places: be responsive. With your fellow Alphas, with owned fags, with loyal sluts: make time and be thoughtful in your replies. A stale dynamic rarely lasts long. M/s is above all a relationship.

#3 - Decisions

I wrote this point specifically for Alphas new to online scenes. Timewasting: when a sub seeks free attention without any intention to serve you. The more I consider the idea, the more I realize it presumes an Alpha does not choose how to spend that time. When you indulge a timewaster, you the Alpha spend that time wastefully. It’s important to get to know potential servants. See: communication. Decide with intention, and stand firm by your choices while also…

#4 - Learning

Ultimately, the decisions you make are based on judgment. I’ve made decisions I later changed (past blogs, notably). There is a difference between flip-flopping a choice, and growing as a Dominant. No one is above improvement, and yes even as Alphas we can and are sometimes wrong. Whether it’s a fellow Master, a seasoned sub, or a brilliantly written borderline Nobel-prize-winning calibre blog — there’s always more to learn.

#5 - Responsibility & Ethics

I often hear from Alphas that it’s the sub’s responsibility not to self-destruct. And this is true. Ultimately, kinks like findom are power exchange between two consenting adults. That said, the best dynamics here exist because the Master & slave trust each other, deeply. Be responsible with your subs. Be ethical in your domination. Now, you can still leave a bitch battered, bruised, mouth full of ash, piss, spit, and weeping in a way that they fully consent to & even thank you for while begging for more. Intensity & extremes can and should still be responsibly, ethically carried out.

#6 - Community

Is the cash fun? Obviously. Do you know what’s more fun? The people that make this place great.

It’s called power exchange, not tips exchange. If you *need* the money, then you’re starting this for the wrong reasons (that’s just My perspective). If you’re only interested in heartless cash grabbing, you’re going to grow bored quick regardless of your success. Community is what makes OF, more than anything else.


#7 - Respect

Rule 1 - don’t be a dick. And it is rule #1 for a reason. That goes for Masters to Masters, Masters to fags, and fags to fags (obviously most of all fags to Masters). There’s plenty of Alphas here who use a sharp, punitive tone, while also doing so respectfully. Respect doesn’t have to be soft, or cuddly. I don’t agree with all of you. I don’t even like some of you. But being a toxic twat is a surefire way to alienate yourself or worse get banned from the site. Be better. Respect everyone.

#8 - Start

Unsure whether you’ve got what it takes to dominate online? Try it. Do it. Open your account. Verify, read the rules, and dive right in. Worried messaging subs will make you seem weak? Write them. Send PMs. Test what works best. You can only get better. This is the cliché classic “you miss 100% of the shots you don’t take”. It’s especially true of the online space where you’re just an avatar and a handle until you make yourself more than that. So make yourself more than that.

#9 - Stop

I don’t know who told you to start but that was a horrible idea. Stupid.

I joke, but the notion that you need to be always-on and constantly grinding will burn out the best of us. Taking breaks matters. Prioritizing your health & wellness matters. Remember that there’s more to life than the next tip notification or Pantheon climb. Stop and smell the roses. Call your grandma. Read a book. There will be subs & sending aplenty when you return. This message was brought to you by someone who is constantly failing at this particular point and in general maintaining work/life/kink balance.

#10 - Give Back

Donate to the site. There’s no elaboration here. The man’s growing a moustache for a good cause. If you haven’t put up for it: donate. Men’s health is no joke and last I checked we all had a cock between our legs.

Don’t forget to like & subscribe. New merch available soon. (This is a joke)

The Meeting - A dadfag story for Monstercawk

The Meeting. 

I immediately saw him when I stepped into baggage claim. Very tall, dark and handsome. He was 30 years old and built lean and strong. Dark hair and features, he looked like a young movie star.  The Alpha saw me too and started grinning ear to ear as I walked out. I could see in his eyes I was his for the weekend.  I looked him up and down and did a quick scan of his body, suddenly focusing on his crotch. Holy shit he wasn’t joking. He was “commando” in tight workout shorts that showed off his legs but more so showed off his massive manhood. The Alpha had a log in his shorts and I could see it start to stiffen. 

The Alpha turned away and started walking to the car, never saying “Hi or how was your flight?”  I followed him staring at his ass, unable to comprehend what I had gotten myself into..  We got into his car and started driving. I could see out of the corner of my eye his bulge had gotten considerably bigger since the airport and there was a small precum spot growing on his shorts. His cock was a monster!  He had this shit eating grin on his face as he faced forward and said out of the blue, “Which bank do u use”?  I looked up confused from my phone and knew this was how it started.  “BOA, Sir” I said.  “Look up the nearest one fag” he said. My cock jumped at the statement but struggled to get erect in my newly locked cock cage. “It’s .075 miles Sir”.

The Alpha pulled onto a side street 5 minutes later and I could see a BOA drive up machine through the trees. My mind started racing; How much do I have? How much can he pull out? What am I doing? As he’s getting out of the car and starts walking to the machine I hear him say “follow me fag”.  I get out of the car and turn to find him standing under a tree. His silhouette is perfect. Tall long legs, big hands and a massive bulge that I can’t stop staring at.  The Alpha looks at me and smiles. He reaches into his shorts and pulls out the most massive fat cock and balls I’ve ever seen. He just lets it drop in front of his legs and it bounces, begging to be sucked. “Here’s the deal” he says. “You’re going to bow down in front of that ATM facing me. I am going to walk up to you, slide my cock in your mouth and it’s going to stay in your mouth until I say so. Understand fag”? I nod slowly, terrified by what I’ve gotten myself into. “Now get over there and kneel fag”.  I slowly walk over to the ATM. It’s got so many lights; Security lights, cameras, everyone can see. Fortunately it’s 1AMm so no one is out but still! “What if someone sees”, I keep thinking. 

For what seems like an eternity I get to the machine and turn.  The Alpha just stands there grinning, huge cock sticking straight out of his shorts.  He walks towards me and I really realize how tall he is.  This dude is easily 6’4” and his cock is the exact height of my mouth.  His shadow grows as he gets closer and his cock is suddenly right in front of my face. All I see is his dick coming towards me. He grabs the base of his shaft and slowly slides it in. It pushes past my lips and rests on my tongue. It is huge. So fat, my lips are spread wide and it almost cuts off my oxygen. “Gimme your ATM card fag” he says.  I struggle to get out my wallet.  I hand him the card, his cock slides into my mouth more. “Text me the pin fag” My hands are shaking, eyes are watering and chest is racing as I try and focus on my phone, texting the numbers  The Alpha chuckles when his phone chimes and I hear him say to himself “easy money” as he starts entering my pin number.  I’m now fully aware I am bowing in front of a huge Alpha,  his massive cock in my mouth as he is withdrawing what is now his cash from my bank account. His cock begins to stiffen as the machine starts kicking out the bills. 100, 200, 300, 400, 500 dollars spits out, all in 20’s. His cock slides in even more pushin my head back into the machine. I’m trapped.  I can hear the Alpha slowly counting the cash when I look up, mouth full of his manhood.  “Don’t look at me fag unless I say so”, pushing my head hard into the ATM with his cock and hips.  I just sit there frozen in time with his huge cock in my mouth when he slowly starts pumping. With each thrust of his hips he goes deeper and gets harder. As he counts the wad of bills he gets more aggressive, holding my head with one hand and his wad of cash with another. He starts to fuck my face, pushing his massive fat cock deeper into my throat and making me gag, my eyes bulge and water and I struggle with his size.  And then it happens. His cock seems to get even thicker as he screams and pushes his dick deep into my throat, cutting off all air. Huge squirts of cum flood my mouth and throat. I can’t breathe, I can’t swallow, I feel like I’m drowning as his cum load keeps pouring from his cock, down my throat. It seems to go on forever, pulse after pulse. Thrust after thrust till my gut is full of his seed.  His full weight is on me as he finally shivers and sighs heavily,  his thick hard cock slowly starts to soften in my mouth. I’m relieved as I think this is all over. He’s going to pull out now and let me up.  “I told you don’t take my cock out of your mouth until I say so fag”.  He looks down at me and gives me a playful slap on the face and then relaxes. I feel both of his huge hands grasp my head on both sides, holding me into place. Suddenly he closes his eyes and moans. I taste his piss. At first it was a small trickle down my throat, something I could handle but then immediately without warning a huge flood of warm piss fills my mouth and I’m drowning again.  I try to swallow it but there’s so much. The piss starts to flood out of my mouth and all over the ground.  The Alpha is laughing now as he pulls back and starts pissing all over me. My head, my face, my shirt, my shoes, it’s all soaked and covered in his piss. He pisses on me for over 30 seconds, the type of piss load after a full pitcher of beer. I’m soaked. The Alpha just stands there and looks at his slave, cock dripping, hanging out of his shorts with a big grin on his face. He grabs is dick and shakes it off on me before sliding it back into his shorts. A bulge again that demands to be stared at. 

“Theres a plastic bag and a plastic sheet in the trunk fag. Strip naked, put your piss soaked shit in the bag and sit on the sheet for the ride home.  I’ll sneak you up the back, he says.  I just sit there in a pool of piss, dejected and wet.  I get up and follow the Alpha back to the car, dripping piss down my legs and all over the cement. I  strip naked in front of him. He smiles as he sees my cock cage and how small my dick is. “Easy to hide such a small fag clit in there huh slave. Not anything like my monstercock” as he grabs is dick and squeezes it hard. “Your cunt is gonna gaped tonight, slave. Full of my cum and piss. You may or may not like it. Either way, I don’t care.” “Yes sir” I replied as I draped the sheet in the back. “Hold on, I got something else for you” as the Alpha digs in the trunk.  He pulls out a large piece of rope.  “Put your hands out faggot” as he walks over to me and starts tying the ropes around my wrists. “You’re mine now slave”, he growls. He bends down and looks me deep in my eyes. “I own you and we will do this every night until that bank account is empty and what is yours is mine”  I looked up to him, tiny cock caged, hands tied and marked by his piss. “Yes Sir, it’s all yours Sir” I reply as he shoves me into his back seat and closes the door. 

10 Tips for Masters Who Are New to OwnedFags

My blogs are typically about submission. How to serve better etc.

This one is specifically for Masters new to the site. Read up & enjoy.

Feel free to DM if anything below is unclear.

1. Read the rules.

Read the website rules. Read about kink, about D/s ownership.

Read up on findom.

If you're going to try a new kink a sub proposes. Study it. Ask other Alphas.

Everyone starts somewhere. You are given the power to govern a slave's body, mind, and wallet.

Wield that power responsibly, within the guidelines set for this community.

The only tribute allowed here are those sent with OwnedFags tips. No other tribute methods allowed. Period.

2. It takes longer than you realize.

For every useful sub, there are 20 timewasting pretenders.

For every lasting sub, it takes 20 who are fleetingly useful.

So if you're a math guy: that's roughly a 0.25% ownership rate on every sub interaction you have.

Lots of empty-handed, empty-headed strokers. The truly servile sluts are few & far between.

3. Don't do it for the money.

Ultimately, no one is here for the money (or shouldn't be). It's a fun byproduct of a kink: findom.

Findom is about power exchange through currency transfer. Much like bondage is through mobility transfer.

It's just another vector for a submissive to surrender to its Dominant, whether in session or lasting servitude.

If you need money, get a job or sell items. Desperate Alphas are always see-through, and fail. Just truth.

4. Build relationships with other Alphas.

Focus on the other Dominants here. Chat with them. Learn without being clingy about it.

Some, like myself, occasionally whore out their owned fags.

Especially at first, do not DM any slave here that has a lock; that is officially owned. Never.

If that slave reaches out, message the Alpha first.

Once you create a rapport with the Alpha, learn which owned sluts are allowed to & choose to chat, then do so.

Ultimately, conduct yourself so that you are earning the respect of your Alpha peers first and foremost. Always.

5. Find your style.

Emulation is natural. As with any craft, there will be those you look up to.

Take care not to let emulation become imitation. No one likes a copycat.

Find your original voice within the aspects of others you admire.

Ultimately, the most successful Alphas here are such because they are true to themselves.

For instance, I'm a soft-spoken Master. At times, I get harsh, but it's not My innate voice.

I know that, and I stick to it. Others do the opposite. It's about range & authenticity.

6. Build your brand.

A fair bit of domination is marketing. Content is king, engagement is queen, context is god.

Post as often as you can (without spamming). Find a cadence that works.

Few subs are attracted to empty profiles. Post pics. Make vids. Write blogs. Chat publicly.

Engage with others' posts and content, esp Alphas. Care about this community; not just yourself.

7. Set limits, and respect others’.

Not every sub will be a match with you. Maybe you hate piss play; piss pigs won't align with your style.

Maybe you want to solely focus on findom. Maybe findom is secondary to you.

Many subs focus on real-time meets, and even within that types of meets (eg dungeon play).

Be clear about your desires, your dislikes, and focus on those with whom your dynamic could line up.

8. Recognize the toll this takes.

Drop is real. The defeat, deflation, or other such blues felt in kink.

It can be sub drop following a heavy drain or kink session.

it can be Alpha drop after 15 timewasters exhaust you mentally.

Maybe your personal life is impacting your motivation to dominate, or create content.

Be mindful of the weight of your work here.

Yes, dominance is effortless.

But domination is hard work. And acknowledging that is crucial to lasting success.

Take days off. Communicate them to your slaves. The real ones will understand.

Likewise, sometimes subs need to step away. Not all Alphas accept that, but it is equally normal.

9. It isn't a competition.

It's easy to get caught up in the points. The Pantheon & slave market positions.

I've been guilty of it, as I'm sure many others are.

Domination (and submission) are about the intimacy & thrill of power exchange.

Owning a fag is about fulfilling Your Alpha desires together, through their sacrifice & your domination.

Each dynamic is unique. It's own singular bond. No two subs should compete, even serving the same Master.

And no two Masters should compete, because I'll never be Garboss, SkinbossDan, or Fidelio.

They have their styles, their successes, their subs. I have Mine. That's a great thing.

It's the range of kink, and domination.

10. Have fun with it.

I've learned so much about myself through domination.

How sadistic I can be. How compassionate I am.

If you aren't here to enjoy yourself, and create enjoyment for others (even with pain or struggle)

Then you're likely here for the wrong reasons.

Consider this an extensions of "don't do it for the money".


Friday night dinner & more
As a Master, I'm used to order food delivery for Fridays dinner. Thing is, I don't have to pay it because one of you is going to. Who will be the lucky one? 

That's one of the tasks my betas have to keep on mind. This one is a simple task: periodic tribute for a purpose. Some other tasks include text message everyday unless I say so, pics when required, and if we get to be in the same city some nice plans, going out and paying my stuff. 

One thing can lead to another. There maybe sex, there may be not. Who knows. But to get to this point I need to know you. I need to know more and more about you. 

Basic info to start a nice A/b relationships include real name (I'll decide how I'll call you anyway), age, height, weight, and a small collection of SFW pics. This will set the ground to our cash relationship building. Bit by bit, giving me more of you, you'll get higher and higher in rights. 

So, it's Friday. Who's paying?