Maybe you don't. But if you do, what is it about it that turns you on?
Which of these is You?
There may be more than one that applies to You.
You may have other reasons that aren't included here. Please mention them.
1. I get heavily sexually turned on by the power of it.
2. I get a bit sexually turned on by the power of it.
3. I get sexually stimulated from being worshipped through cash, but not in a massive way.
4) I do it simply because I'm a superior Alpha. I get a buzz from it, but it's not sexual.
5) It's fun and I enjoy it, but it's just an interest I have. It's not sexual for me.
6) It's a way to make some money from fags, nothing more.
10 Things Specific to Online Financial Domination
by DorianTheAlpha
#1 - Discipline
No, not the kinky kind. I’m talking about self-discipline. It’s easy to be motivated at the start, or after a heavy drain, maybe you’ve just owned a new fag or two. Not everyday will be motivating. Some days this might even feel like work, down right discouraging. Discipline is what separates the flashes in the pan from the those who stand the test of time (this is true for Dominants and submissives).
#2 - Communication
Online domination is noisy. Very noisy. Being a strong communicator is a key part of succeeding here, but that doesn’t mean being everywhere all the time. Be thoughtful about where you want to focus your own energy, and in those places: be responsive. With your fellow Alphas, with owned fags, with loyal sluts: make time and be thoughtful in your replies. A stale dynamic rarely lasts long. M/s is above all a relationship.
#3 - Decisions
I wrote this point specifically for Alphas new to online scenes. Timewasting: when a sub seeks free attention without any intention to serve you. The more I consider the idea, the more I realize it presumes an Alpha does not choose how to spend that time. When you indulge a timewaster, you the Alpha spend that time wastefully. It’s important to get to know potential servants. See: communication. Decide with intention, and stand firm by your choices while also…
#4 - Learning
Ultimately, the decisions you make are based on judgment. I’ve made decisions I later changed (past blogs, notably). There is a difference between flip-flopping a choice, and growing as a Dominant. No one is above improvement, and yes even as Alphas we can and are sometimes wrong. Whether it’s a fellow Master, a seasoned sub, or a brilliantly written borderline Nobel-prize-winning calibre blog — there’s always more to learn.
#5 - Responsibility & Ethics
I often hear from Alphas that it’s the sub’s responsibility not to self-destruct. And this is true. Ultimately, kinks like findom are power exchange between two consenting adults. That said, the best dynamics here exist because the Master & slave trust each other, deeply. Be responsible with your subs. Be ethical in your domination. Now, you can still leave a bitch battered, bruised, mouth full of ash, piss, spit, and weeping in a way that they fully consent to & even thank you for while begging for more. Intensity & extremes can and should still be responsibly, ethically carried out.
#6 - Community
Is the cash fun? Obviously. Do you know what’s more fun? The people that make this place great.
It’s called power exchange, not tips exchange. If you *need* the money, then you’re starting this for the wrong reasons (that’s just My perspective). If you’re only interested in heartless cash grabbing, you’re going to grow bored quick regardless of your success. Community is what makes OF, more than anything else.
#7 - Respect
Rule 1 - don’t be a dick. And it is rule #1 for a reason. That goes for Masters to Masters, Masters to fags, and fags to fags (obviously most of all fags to Masters). There’s plenty of Alphas here who use a sharp, punitive tone, while also doing so respectfully. Respect doesn’t have to be soft, or cuddly. I don’t agree with all of you. I don’t even like some of you. But being a toxic twat is a surefire way to alienate yourself or worse get banned from the site. Be better. Respect everyone.
#8 - Start
Unsure whether you’ve got what it takes to dominate online? Try it. Do it. Open your account. Verify, read the rules, and dive right in. Worried messaging subs will make you seem weak? Write them. Send PMs. Test what works best. You can only get better. This is the cliché classic “you miss 100% of the shots you don’t take”. It’s especially true of the online space where you’re just an avatar and a handle until you make yourself more than that. So make yourself more than that.
#9 - Stop
I don’t know who told you to start but that was a horrible idea. Stupid.
I joke, but the notion that you need to be always-on and constantly grinding will burn out the best of us. Taking breaks matters. Prioritizing your health & wellness matters. Remember that there’s more to life than the next tip notification or Pantheon climb. Stop and smell the roses. Call your grandma. Read a book. There will be subs & sending aplenty when you return. This message was brought to you by someone who is constantly failing at this particular point and in general maintaining work/life/kink balance.
#10 - Give Back
Donate to the site. There’s no elaboration here. The man’s growing a moustache for a good cause. If you haven’t put up for it: donate. Men’s health is no joke and last I checked we all had a cock between our legs.
Don’t forget to like & subscribe. New merch available soon. (This is a joke)
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Short summary for happy and entertained Masters and slaves! At least from my personal experiences,
Monday is tribute day; Master decides how much, where and how to tribute. No Master?Ask an Alpha you fancy for a tribute opportunity.
Lucky slaves who were kindly given a debt contract usually pay a part every monday but that is Master to decide.
Tuesday is... to come soon
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Wednesday is: wishlist day
_Thursday= 10ÂŁ Thursday
_Friday= fagtax
_Sunday= reimbursements day
A play day for slaves to sneak in Master(s) wish list & buy a small (or big) something for the Master or Masters you like. See my blog post about wish list Wednesday (on my profile).
Friday is known fagtax.
Time for a new tribute occasion; I am launching: the 10ÂŁ Thursday!
A day,
we slaves will choose one or more Masters we fancy and send him (or
them) a 10ÂŁ gift (or 100 tips), Easy and fun.
Tributing every day is not what makes a good slave.
It is not the frequency nor the amount that make a good helpful, useful and faithful slave.
I truly think a good slave and a good Master will depend on what you look for, what you like, how you get along together, how everyone behaves and what kind of dom/sub relation you will build up together.
But then, tributing everyday or very regularly is fun and hot! Why do without? At least, if you can afford it and if and you want this!
My opinion: It doesn’t have to be big! Many small tributes or targets on regular basis are just as exciting and effective. The important thing being to show s********n and devotion.
So far then my new idea & way for an extra tribute occasionw hich I think is can be nice and fun for both Masters andlaves but that is up to you,
This, as my previous tributing games & ways were created to please and entertain Master as well as all Masters and slaves on the site
Many verified Masters without a slave and many single slaves! I like those games and different habits of tributing on weekly basis because it is giving all Masters the occasion to be tributed and it gives all slaves the opportunity and fun to tribute one or several Masters without getting engaged,
have fun,
enslaved
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A sharing of some more personal thoughts and feelings. Findom and
me, how, why and after!A little about me & own experiences so
far, A few of you asked. Time for me to reveal a bit and be a
little more intimate than the eternal smiling, always positive and
in a good mood concierge of the chat! As for ever ; forgive my
English & enjoy trying to guess what I mean,
As for sex ; my findom practises & attitude started quiet young ! 7Yo, exactly, everyday around 10 am ! As a teenager I believed in the power of young lads & was looking for them to protect me from the older bad bullying boys. Young & already bad behaving doms I guess !
As an older teenager
I discovered naked men (live) & switched my love for candies to
love for dicks & sex!
I discovered real findom when I was about 20yo.
No more giving cookies but giving money to a man I lliked & wanted to please. I have had some fun & gsome reat connections on those old Yahoo Groups where many doms had their Group, their pics & fans ? I remember 2 very well ; My favourite now on here as : All for GodMasterArchMasterArch, He had such a yahoo group with the hottest male soles pics ever,
I've been asking him to upload those on OF but I didn’t yet succeed !
Came Twitter time with again several doms I got to know & made
connections with, Should I mention I often ended serving those men.
one day while checking what had been posted I saw a dom’s
account His tweets were simultaneously similar but different from the
other doms and their tweets,
He had some
interesting things posted comparing to the casual Twitter dom.
I
must admit that his pics were just as interesting to look at,
He
posted a link to some owned fags thing wich I found weird & not nicedisturbing,
I had heard that name too many times in the past & not exactly in an enjoyable way, Being on Twitter I also met some hot black American guy I started to chat with & soon started to serve,
We exchanged messages about everyday, Ask Slave ; my English may be bad, I do love to write,
I was serving this
hot black man while looking and thinking about this other white dom.
His tweets were simultaneously similar but different from the other
dominants and their tweets !
It took about a year before
I dared to send this dom a message! It may not be very visible but I’ve always been rather shy, careful
and the kind of guy who try not to disturb. My education, I guess,
I'm not the type to want to impose myself neither! Especially not
when I care about someone,
Having read that this owned fags
link was leading to a Master/ sub site, we : (the black dom &
myself) decided to register, It took a days to see how the site
worked& what’s to do on it as how to do it. We tried things
out & tested others. we decided to test that stable option.
I
was there for a few days & as far as I remember; I paid that dom
to leave that stable after a few days
That stable thing &
giving up control was nothing for me at that time,.He wasn’t
neither the right dom to do such things with,
He’s still a
member on OF but doen’t log’in no more.
While being on OF,
I got in touch with member : yellow bandit, He old me about his
target record. Several targets running at the same time yet having
many targets running simultanimy. For several doms, That game
sounded fun! I met Master Pete on the chat & started on :
targets games with many, many doms, Too many doms actually but it
was fun & it still is a good fun time to remember.
For those who should want : you can read about those targets & rounds on Sir MasterPete profile & on mine. I basically would do a round 3 & 4 but it’s too expensive. About £500 per round; is a fun but expensive game!
I will rather keep
that money to play with one single dom the way most subs do,
At
that time I met & started making a connection with an exquisite,
wonderful cruel hung man with massive balls, a beautiful voice &
a humour to die for, A man who has been burning his kitchen a few
times while trying to cook!
An international beloved sub member
who was to become a lifetime friend. By now & unfortunately for
him he’s known as My Cutie Pie!
B efore I continue; an
important detail without too much importance ; For those who
didn’t yet know: Slave as has Stan & “the cat”. This
isn’t a French expression I tried to translate, it’s the way he
calls his cat! A cat bitch & dog Stan who became famous in chat.
A new findom chapter, I met (SHM (or traighthungmaster) (here on OF)!
Daily messages on Twitter wich was fun & nice, We didn't really talk about deep & important things but it was nice to log'in & see I had a message from the dom I had fun with & was serving. Those messages weren’t just to reply question but a few words he wrote spontaneously wich is lovely,
We have been playing quiet a lot, He's an expert in target titles & setting games, We had lots of fun until we, sort of decided the fun was not there no more.Many have been asking about; being called enslaved on a owned site & not being owned !
Why, how come, is the name appropriated,
I guess I’m just unownable, a demanding daydreamer and not to forget : Slave has not yet started building his stable !
Third target I am completing for Slave but he’s too busy being great to work on building a stable, , Being that good ain’t easy, I will p robably have to spend another winter outdoor at his door while he will set more & more targets on me !
you may wonder, what
happened on Twitter & the 2 doms I liked !The black American
dom still posts some scandalously hot naked pics but I don't serve
him no more, as for the other dom, there’s about nothing to say
except maybe : he still doesn’t tweet much!
Slave aka
Cutie love Pie has ever called me a passionate sub into findom &
serving! I guess I used to be that way .To be honest I’m not that passionated no more. As for many subs, I
have been dreaming, wishing & hoping. I have been surprised,
positively and negatively, I was disappointed and saddened but
overall; I don’t regret nothing & won’t waste time on
complaining,
I know many personal things about many of you & a very few know very personal things about me.
All I can is I will never share anything I am being told unless you should ask me to tell.
As for myself; things are not always as they seem.
For those who should wonder; yes you can message me everywhere you want whatever the place,
As you have seen;
same name, same profile pic,
I had dreams and desires, I had
ideals and a certain idea of things.
I'm no longer sure that this is still the case.
I have always preferred to be honest and say what I think and feel. In my opinion, the best reason to build things, to evolve and in any case : to remain faithful to ourselves and our principles.
I really enjoy meeting you daily in the chat so for those who don't have Twitter, my Skype or me email adress ; don't leave without saying goodbye & telling me how I can t reach you.
I lost several friends because of not having any way to get to them, That, it's so sad & so stupid,
At this point I don't really know where I stand anymore. I joined a site for doms to end loving subs.
I have shared & had more fun & honest, sincere times with subs as I ever had with a dom.
I do like to tease & scratch a dom from time to time though, I don’t believe in superior & inferior living beings, Everyone is superior or inferior than another being I do understand the idea behind the scene & game but I believe in equality. It’s not about how many we can or want to give & it’s definitly not about making money, To me it’s almost not even about money, It’s about a connection & relation with someone who makes your days nicer, naturally , A dom making your days nicer ? That will naturally lead to wanting to please this dom & make his life better, nicer & greater in whatever possible way . Some subs likes to be mistreated, some doms will want to exploit, hurt or exploit someone’s feelings or finances, As long as both feel better with each other
I no longer
have any idea what I'm looking for and what I really truly want.
What I noticed above all is that I have lost my spontaneous motivation which was enormous.
Or better said, I no longer really have motivation or expectations for findom.
Whether your ego is small, medium, large or exaggeratedly very large, we are all unique and O; horrible truth ; no one is irreplaceable. I advise you all to complete your profile carefully.
Saying what and who you would like and looking for i’s is a great start to getting it/ .
@BS, Gucci Nike, frenchbottomslut, Jeffie, servus & other owned subs; I love to see & read how happy you are with & thanks your to Master. Sorry for other owned subs I might have forgotten. See you on the chat doms & sub friends
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