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The Luxury of Being Dominated
Posted by DorianTheAlpha

by DorianTheAlpha


There is a strange, skewed perspective of domination, in particular financial domination. Many slaves will approach to lead with their kinks. They will tell you all about what turns them on, what their hard limits are, their past injustices and why that makes them unable to trust the ever-perilous threat of Masters that mistreat them.


A common refrain is: "you want Me to send Sir? But W/we've barely spoken."


Now, I will always speak to curious souls. Some slaves are new. Some are unaware of how to approach. Some are just timid. But if after a short exchange, there's little sign they intend to tip, tribute, or otherwise strive to please Me, then I demand it. And generally, this is when the pretenders vanish. Every. Single. Time.


This post is for you, pretenders. The liars, the beggars, the toxic vile vermin that infect the purity of findom.


You do not get to own a Ferrari to pay for it when you like. You don't get to wear a Patek and send them a check when it suits you. You don't move into a seaside mansion and put off your mortgage indefinitely.


Serving an Alpha isn't just a luxury: it is the ultimate luxury. Financial submission is a gift an Alpha gives you.


Sending Me the money that is rightfully Mine *is* your reward, slave.


So, let U/us here and now stamp out the fallacy that you deserve attention from a Superior Male because of any of the following:

- Uncertainty or curiosity

- Insecurity or past wounds

- Prior mistreatment

- Lack of finances / having being ruined

- Lack of interest in findom

- Servitude to another Master

- The list goes on...


As a slave, you are responsible to educate yourself about findom.

As a slave, you are expected to be able to serve financially, unless your Master explicitly states otherwise.

As a slave, you are required to please your Master first and foremost, however He chooses.

As a slave, you are accountable to understand that your Master allows you the blissful gift of His existence.

As a slave, you are indebted to your Alpha merely by the virtue of serving him. Tribute merits nothing.

As a slave, you are property. It is your choice to be a slave; and it is your purpose as such to be His property.


Understand the choices you make, and adhere to your commitments. Both you and He are allowed your limits. Findom is a choice. When you make it, do not flake and do not flounder. Follow through.


Let us end on a constructive note: follow these guidelines to please your Alpha, and live truthfully in submission.


1. Do not say that you will send. Send, and then say that you have. Act first, then speak.

2. Do not approach an Alpha leading with your interests. He is above you. Pleasing him is all that matters. Do so, and maybe he will reward you by considering your own interests. That is the true nature of submission to Another.

3. Do not victimize yourself. There will always be those who hold exception with this post. Slaves here have done so to My words in the past. This is not ironclad; it is a guide. Follow it, or ignore it and resign yourself to the sad lie that you are actually a "slave" — you are the opposite. 


I recognize part of this post are strongly worded. Findom is a place of strong words, and emotions. If you are offended by this, you are likely guilty of what it puts forth. If You are nodding along, you likely know what I'm talking about, and have suffered through your fair share of vermin too.


Be better, for Him. 


For Me.

How to Cashmeet: Privacy, Honesty, and Intention
Posted by DorianTheAlpha

by DorianTheAlpha


I will keep this one short and sweet.


I am always upfront about My approach.


I am upfront about being a financial dominant first and foremost.


I am a findom. I enjoy almost all other kinks too, but tribute is a must.


I do real-time meets when and where I can, with slaves that earn the privilege.


The key here is earning the privilege. 


I typically meet for $500 or so. I've met for as low as $300 based on the slave's loyalty, sacrifice, and My assessment of their overall submission.


Cashmeets work when the Alpha and slave trust each other.


Mainly, the Alpha knows the slave is true, loyal, and committed.


He will respect the Alpha's privacy, remain honest, and uphold the intention of the cashmeet.


Now, how I ensure these is with a deposit prior to the meet.


Like a drain, or rtgame, it shows Me the slave is willing to commit to its action, like a down payment.


Today, I was told My blogs do not convey this. So here I am: conveying it.


For the record, nothing I have said has ever opposed the above. Nonethless, it's now plain to read.


Cheers to all who can conduct cashmeets like A/adults. 


To those who are unclear: ^^^ study up. This is ultimately My opinion (as is all here).

Avoiding the cold
Posted by GRatedMaster

The headlines have been full of deep freezes, snow, ice, and bitter cold across the U.S. the last week or so.  But for some of U/us in warmer Western or Southern climes, it's business as usual.


In the past I've lived in those colder climates, and have always believed that those who live with palm trees need to at least "feel" what it's like for those who must dress up in full snow gear just to do mundane things like grocery shopping or taking out the trash.  Interesting how many people I offered a visit during those colder months never took Me up on it... Hmm.   LOL


Perspective is an interesting part of what W/we are all doing here, and I think it's always a good idea to try and see things from the other side's viewpoint. When I think about a sub who serves, I think about how it gives him a sense of worth, of accomplishment, and an opportunity to be his true self.  And of course a healthy dose of stimulation too. 


I know how much I revel in submission from subs, and I make sure they know exactly how I feel and My perspective when it happens.


For those of you in colder climes, sorry, and you don't want to know how nice it is here today.  <g>

When is Fag Tax Day ?
Posted by BBCMASTER

Everyday = Fag Tax Day 

Pay up fags !!!


When and how do you like paying your taxes slaves ? The desire to work  hard to give it up to your masters and alpha males should be your top priority.


Your wallet drained , pockets emptied and you feeling grateful to give it to your king , that Alpha  , that Boss.


 Do you get in debt , max your credit cards , to ensure your master is taken care of ? Do you surrender all and is fully committed? 

MASTER DIESEL Introduction
Posted by MASTERDIESEL

The weather is dull, my house has never been so clean or organised and another Monday in Lockdown, so I thought I would be productive and do an introduction to myself on Owned Fags. So, let’s start how would I describe myself in a few words? Well an Old Guard Leather Master, Dominant, strict but fair, Confident in knowing who I am and what I want and expect in every aspect of MY life. I have always been into wearing leather from being a teenager. Financial Domination started for me at school being in a gang of lads picking out the weak loners and cornering them and emptying their pockets and enjoying spending their money at the corner shop. I have always worked and have a long successful career, so be clear findom is not about making quick cash or easy money! I have been draining and using fags for over 20 years. I enjoy the control, obedience and getting inside fags and slaves heads and getting them onto the path of service to work hard, to earn good money, to then hand it over to ME, giving them satisfaction, fulfilment and purpose to want to do it all over again knowing you are pleasing ME. Getting that cash large or small is as horny as fuck to me watching the figure going up and spending MY money on what I want when I want.

As part of this domination is a huge part of this for me, Boot worship soles treads, heal shaft the whole boot fags, Leather worship, Oral pleasure ready for a deep throat fucking love to hear a fag gagging on my pierced thick cock, Ash use fags with open mouths ready to take my thick hot ash is not a choice is a requirement if any fags are near me while smoking MY gars, smoke abuse nothing better than seeing a fag in my gas mask in tight bondage, fuelling the fags lungs with MY thick heavy gar smoke from MY 8x80 Asylums through the gas mask tube, strict Corporal Punishment for MY pleasure not just when a fag disobeys or disrespectful, Domestic service why should I clean MY house when I can get a fag to do such mundane tasks in life. Poppering a fag slave up makes them weaker to be used and drained for MY gain and pleasure.

So, Fags PM me or approach me in the chat room and let’s show you your rightful place in life.

MASTER DIESEL

Financial Master Programming Wank Machines.
Posted by wealthdepleter

How many times have you felt a shower of regret in post nut clarity and told yourself never again? It's a shame that no one has ever successfully quit findom. The damage is irreversible. Let the tingle turn into a throbbing ache in your gooey pindick. Present yourself for the slaughter.


You send within budget, then are pushed beyond your self imposed limit, you think to yourself "shit, this is ruining me, I will quit now". Realizing you get off on being ruined, you hate yourself more, you stroke, you forget and repeat the cycle. My cold, cruel words soothe your aching defective limp fuckpole. Dribbling nutgunk out of your second brain while I end your sex life and cement your fate. Your best orgasms don't come cheap anymore. No life. Lonely. Addict loser locked away, pumping away financial stability. Edging closer to losing all free will. A mindless cash dispenser oozing out cash. Brainwashed and seduced into losing your life to Findom. Wrap your fingers around your pathetic cock and sign over your life to me with every pump. Every ounce of self-control has slowly been drained away in all that beta goo your maggot has been oozing out. You tried your best to fight it. You lost. Fall in love with ruining yourself. It won't be long before regret turns into arousal. Then there's no escape. The closer you get to succeeding the more you want to fuck yourself over. It makes me so happy to know that I'm causing permanent damage to your sorry lives. 


I'm not here to build relationships with the dregs of society. Only to stomp on your finances and throw you away. I promise to forget all about your existence after I'm done leaving long-lasting, irreversible effects on your sorry life. Some masters like to encourage their subs to better themselves but I'm not so deluded. I know you'll never amount to anything. Can you blame me when all these pathetic failures throw themselves in front of me and beg for torture and misery?


You need to relapse badly. Experience financial collapse.
Posted by wealthdepleter

Happy endings are overrated. Your story ends face down in the gutter, broke and disgraced. At least you'll have fond memories of the time a straight man bullied you out of all your money. Slam your hand against your nuts and pump the goonstick to my filthy brainwashing.


You could live a responsible safe life. Work in a box for 8 hours, have mediocre sex, repeat for 40 years, then die. Or you can fuck over that dull boring life with reckless thrill seeking adrenaline pumping destruction and plunge yourself into deep financial dispair and lust. I want your entire savings. I want you left with nothing. Empty out your account. I don't care what you have to do to survive til pay day. Overdraft. Get a loan. Steal. Whore yourself out. I don’t give a fuck about your life. You’re just letters on a screen.


Your life is just a constant war between financial ruination and frustrating sobriety. Oh well, I’m resting good. I don't think about you and I'm not grateful. At the end of the day I'm still here and nothing is stopping you from limping back to send more money. There's no where to run. All the subs want to see you fall. Your family and friends can never know about this. Not a soul to talk to. It's just you and your hand all alone in this battle. Good luck bitch. Too bad I’m more fun than bills. I love when you’re “staying clean”. Block me. Delete your account. Remove all payment apps. It doesn't matter. You lurking on my page means a future relapse. Nothing makes me greedier than a good sob story. I just laugh that I can use depression to fill up my pockets.


I don’t believe in mercy. I have men with no vacation, empty fridges and late rent.  Poverty is no excuse in Findom. I don't care if I have your family eating pigshit in a trailer park. If you have anything, send it, get more and send it again. Fuck your well being. It’s just another day of you waking up in shame and post lust clarity. Don't worry, deleting your account wasn’t going to work anyway. Rejects like you will be back naked on the bathroom floor relapsing. If you were planning on buying something nice, I'm buying something nicer.


I enjoy being so frustrating. I enjoy the inconvenience I cause to your sad life. How easy it is to get rich at the expense of your horny repetitive regretful behavior. If you're depressed or mentally ill you're not getting sympathy from me.


You'll be made fun of.

The Findom Essence
Posted by Levi

Findom is an exercise in Manipulation. One might find despair in crossing his paths with "doms" who try to get the quick cash. The "give me 20€ faggot" status quo. It becomes overwhelming, to realize you are living a reality where no one seems to drag you to that state where you long to be. Being taken by a sense of impotence. Of fragility. Of utter dominance and submission. Where, finally, you can find some inner peace. Some weird, fucked up, twisted, painful peace.

But, yet it still is the closest to a freedom you can find yourself. It's what you know. It's the place where you feel at ease. Having a man. A real man. A man that you look up to, a man that you admire and, to some extent, fear, being part of your existence. Telling you what to do.


Being an image that you worship while, at the same time, you know he is there for you. Even though you don't even dare to demand anything. You just watch. And accept. And embrace his will. You know you are simply part of a higher plan. You've come to this world to serve him.

And, with that, you finally find your state of bliss.

Don't fool yourself. To cross your path with someone like that, it is, as a Roman philosopher once said, Seneca, the old, "luck is what happens when preparation and opportunity meets".

You might be ready to be a proper slave. Obedient. Respectful. Always at disposal. But you need chance, opportunity, to strike gold. And, once you do it, once you find that Dom with the perfect mix of manliness, life experiences that made him as rough as nails, brains to mind fuck you to extents you've never found possible before then, stop for a second. Reach him. And make him your Master. It's a scary world out there.


But, by the end of the day, we all deserve to be loved. Even if it is in the creepiest ways one can imagine.

And better to know what turns you on and find someone who can take care of you safely and effectively to the dungeon.

We are all human beings.

What is Findom?
Posted by BootBoss6446

The internet describes it as the fetish of a power exchange involving the transfer of money from sub to Dom. 


What separates findom from sex work? 


That is a blurry line and one that can be hard to draw. The question that can probably highlight an answer is what enjoyment is be derived from the exchange? Is the submissive structuring a fantasy around a specific desire they have that just happens to include a transfer of money? Then it’s probably best defined as sex work. 


In no way is that meant to denigrate sex workers or what they do and frankly there’s a bit too much of that attitude around.


But is the specific desire that ultimate submission of something valued in our society above almost all else (money)? Well then’s it’s probably closer to findom. Still, it’s only moving down the spectrum. 


In my opinion; findom is when a Master doesn’t just take a slave’s cash. It’s when a Master has such control over the slaves life that it results in a permanent change of the slave’s financial path. making a slave to follow a strict budget, repairing their credit score from past mistakes, meeting financial and professional goals? That to me sounds like financial domination; the power to both destroy and create. The possibility that even if a slave and Master parts ways that a slaves life will be permanently altered by the guidance and control of that Master. 


To me, that is findom. 

Expectations of a bootlicker
Posted by Booted

I know that most scum on here are looking for on line chat, or on line ownership. And that’s absolutely fine. More than happy to take your cash. However, for the few that are able to commit to worshipping me in person i thought it would be good for you to have an idea of expectations. Without exception slaves that I meet in person will be required to worship my boots. More often than not it will be my 20 hole Rangers, but if I am feeling particularly lazy, and I have been working all day, then it may be my work boots you get to serve.  I have included pictures of both on this blog.  Either way, the process is the same. 


If it’s licking my boots it is allowed a bottle of poppers, I think this gives it the headspace to last a long time. I normally require a minimum of 30 minutes per boot. I don’t see the point in doing things quickly, if it’s come to serve me, then it does it properly. 


It starts with the outer sides, at the bottom.( The shank), works its way up to the upper, and works it’s way round to the insides where it continues with the upper and then back down to the shank. it doesn’t touch the toecap with its tongue. (It bulls those fuckers with a cotton cloth and polish later). It applies pressure with its tongue throughout, I need to feel it through the boots or there is simply no point. It applies greater pressure with its tongue when it reaches the balls on the side of my feet, and once I am satisfied that the outer and inner sides are sufficiently massaged I may give permission for it to lick the footbed and then the collar around the top of the boot. It’s positioning while worshipping My boots is quite important. I need to see deference, but the slave needs to be able to do the jon properly. This isn’t about humiliation, this is a gift from ME.  it’s hands remain on the floor, and don’t touch the boots, positioned shoulder with apart. knees and toes on the floor, spread as far as it can spread, and it’s arse in the present position. I am not interested in having my soles cleaned by the slave, but if it’s important to the slave I can make an exception. 

For this Master boot worshiping should not be a degrading experience for the slave, it’s a reward. The slave should be proud it’s gained the privilege. There’s plenty of time to be degraded, and plenary of time to earn reward. This for my slave is an acceptance of its loyalty and an invitation from me to discover its self more than it thought it could. It’s the start. 


Let me know what you think fags. What other expectations I have. 

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