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Approach in Findom: A Guide for Subs
Posted by DorianTheAlpha

1. Read about the Alpha. Be acutely aware of how to stand out, and know Their turn-offs to the best of your ability.


2. Send Their minimum amount. Generally, at least 300-500 in tips. If you want to impress, send more. If they ask you to send again to prove yourself, or for whatever reason, do so promptly & passionately.


3. Make your first words your best, most selfless. Ask the Alpha how you can best serve them? Do not bring up your past, present, interests, or kinks. This is about Them: Their perfection, Their domination, Their pleasure. Please Them. They will know what to ask about you, when that information becomes relevant for them to know. A verified, experienced cashmaster knows how to explore a sub’s mind, and explore D/s better than you ever could, slave.


4. Wait patiently for Their response. Don’t panic. Don’t bombard Their inbox. Certainly don’t block Them in a worried frenzy. Simply breathe and know that you have followed Their approach instructions well, and They are busy draining other subs at the moment. They will reply to you, in time.


5. Possibly the most important: an initial tribute is not a transaction. There is nothing given in return. Have no expectations. The Alpha owes you less than nothing. The tribute is a gift for the privilege of being welcomed into the powerful realm of Their existence, which is itself the greatest privilege you could ask for.


Follow these instructions, and almost every Alpha will welcome you into their stable for the supreme opportunity to serve Them financially, and whatever other ways They may please. 


Good luck, My sweet pets.

The 10 Commandments of Financial Domination
Posted by DorianTheAlpha

I often share different versions of these as a guide to slaves who fall under My spell, new to financial domination. Already here, plenty of sad little souls have asked Me for free domination...


To that end, read the below and follow each point with fervent diligence.


Do so, and you will thrive in findom, pleasing Me and/or even the strictest Master outright:


The 10 Findom Commandments:

1. Send. Tribute financially to your Master.

2. Submit. Master's pleasure is your sole purpose.

3. Sacrifice. Save, work more, sell things... to send more.

4. Obey. Do as your Master says, promptly & completely.

4. Be selfless. Void of ego: your orgasms & kinks are meaningless.

5. Speak with clarity, consistency, and creativity.

6. Represent your Master well in the findom community.

7. Own your failures. Learn fast, & make no excuses.

8. Serve only your Master, unless He tells you explicitly otherwise.

9. Celebrate your Master's other successes: there is no place for jealousy.

10. Be clear in your limits, then push yourself to expand them.

Findom Approach: The Abridged Version
Posted by DorianTheAlpha

by DorianTheAlpha


I have an older post that delves into this in greater detail. Consider this a pocket version.


When you are first approaching an Alpha you want to serve:


1. Send before speaking. Even if only 50 tips. A gesture to prove you're serious, and selfless.


2. Know your Master. Likes, dislikes, style of domination, expectations.


3. Speak clearly, and learn quickly. Always over-communicate unless He says otherwise.


4. Set your limits with Him, and respect His. Within that, obey. Always.


5. Be proactive & creative. Plan, save, earn, send more and please Him however you can.


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The full version explores these and more in greater detail, but follow these five steps and thrive for your Master.

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