How to Grow in Submission: Saving, Earning, Selling, Sending. from DorianTheAlpha's blog

by DorianTheAlpha


Now, I will preface in saying this is My opinion, though one I know it is shared across hundreds of Superiors. That said, you may well find a Master that views submission differently than I describe here. If so, I weep for you because you'll never know the bliss of true sacrifice to serve your Master's pleasure.


Let's begin by listing off the excuses so many pretenders enjoy bleating to Masters Who've heard these tired lines a thousand times before:

- i am student/jobless right now, but i can serve You in other ways.

- i want to send to You, but i need to trust You first.

- i might be open to sending, but financial domination is not My primrary kink.

- i was mistreated by a previous Alpha, i need to recover before i can worship You.

- i have no money to send, but i can be Your promo/task slave.


If this is you: you are the worst kind of wasted space in findom and kink as a whole. These aren't reasons; they're excuses. Do better. Redefine yourself to serve His pleasure first and solely.


There are countless others, equally transparent, equally boring, equally self-branding "block me: i'm a waste of time".


This article is meant as instruction, and as motivation. Like all habits, starting with a few easy steps will lead to  undertaking the harder ones. In time, you can be the best slave you can be by incorporating all of these and more. Internalize the spirit of these habits to truly devote the entirety of yourself to your Master.


1. Work harder, smarter, longer. 

Secure a raise or bonus? That portion goes to your Master. Great night of tips? Those are Alpha's. Win a payout, lottery, jackpot, raffle, contest? Guess whose: your Owner, silly pet. Get a second job, or third, gigging: Uber, tutoring. Suck cock if you can get paid for guzzling cum in your Master's name. Be creative, and proactive.


2. Cut back on luxuries and indulgences. 

Don't buy meals out. Meal prep, and make that coffee/tea at home. Skip the steak, and eat chicken or beans. Fast intermittently if your health allows it. Drink less, or not at all. Only Alpha Men consume fine spirits; you get hooch if anything. Forget about tobacco, weed, parties: they are revelries for Superior Males. Designer labels, latest tech, new toys of any kind... these have no place in a cash slave's world.


3. Simplify your lifestyle.

Forget the Uber: walk, bike or commute. Don't bother with a flagship smartphone when a budget model will do. Take cold showers and reduce your heating/AC to send your Master those savings. Workout? Cancel that gym membership, and go train outside. Sell your appliances and wash your dishes and/or clothes by hand. Which leads Me too...


4. Sell your valuables.

Collectibles: magazines, comic books, video games, watches, vintage items, etc. Jewelry, needless gadgets, vehicles, sex toys (looking at you sissies). Anything you are guilty of from #2, sell — that's a simple starting point. What feels more right: you owning $1,000+ of superficial goods you could do without, or placing that cash into your Master's powerful hands, where it belongs?


I have likely missed ideas here. What matters is starting small, being accountable to improve through sacrifice, communicating your commitments to your Master, and most or all: sending as soon as you have cash to do so. The longer your Master's money stays with you, the lazier you are being, slave.


Read, act, send. Or pretend that you are already doing "enough" for your Alpha, as if that is even possible.


We always deserve more...

Comments
Garboss82
Oct 18 '19
Great blog. The key is $acrifice and don’t be a time waster
coloslutty
Oct 18 '19
Great writing and great ideas for all.
loserfaggot
Oct 18 '19
It's a way of life, and sacrifice in any aspect of life possible for an Alpha is deeply rewarding. If you don't understand that, you either haven't tried it, or are simply a selfish fag who puts your own selfish priorities before a Man you supposedly worship.It's a way of life, and sacrifice in any aspect of life possible for an Alpha is deeply rewarding. If you don't understand that, you either haven't tried it, or are simply a selfish fag who puts your ...See more
servus
Oct 19 '19
Excellent post. Thank You for the lesson, Sir.
BiggerThanYou
Oct 19 '19
Cynic's right. This extreme degree of subservience is fantastical and unattainable.
DorianTheAlpha
Oct 19 '19
I'll point out: "start with a few easy steps", and "what matters is starting small". Your rationale is akin to saying "I can't run an ultramarathon so I shouldn't even bother with a jog." To use the extreme as a line drawn is to miss the point entirely...

Maybe you simply want to be contrarian.

Know that there are servants who give tens of thousands and live comfortably, there are those who give tens and live ascetically. As Garboss said: "it's about sacrifice", not self-inflicted oblivion. My hunch is you're willfully missing the point to stoke the flame, but on the chance you've simply misread or misunderstood the article, let this be a clarification for you two.
I'll point out: "start with a few easy steps", and "what matters is starting small". Your rationale is akin to saying "I can't run an ultramarathon so I shouldn't even bother ...See more
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