What do you want?

Posted by MasterPete

This may be a repeat of some other posts but I am fed up with getting:

Some of you will take this as a winge and some will see it for what it is; An reaction to the interactions I have had in the last three years.

There are good faggots, bad faggots and the ones that are the most frustrating.

The good faggots, are the ones that react.  I post a blog and I get a comment, I get asked if I'm doing more, I get sent a privat message that inspires me to tell me (yes faggot that was in your message), the faggot that sends tribute because maybe worship, thanks or ?   So fare in my interactions these, I don't need more than two hands to count them on.

Then you get the ones that start, messages, replays 20 or more then nothing not a word.  No expiation no reply, you leave me with out a resign why, how to deal with you?   Whats the point I try a faw messages to see if you respond and then move on but you are the most fucked up of them all.  One word wrong or said in the wrong way and poof up in a puff of smoke. 

Then the worst of them all:
Messages just saying "I am interested."  Or "I want to serve you".

Because would sort of replay are you expecting?  I don't know.  Some of you have been winging that your called degrading names but do you say that when all you send is one of the above messages? No.

If your sent a replay that says "I want you to come and clean my house." you may replay with "Yes Sir" but then what, you make no plains or want me to spell out every little thing.

If you say "I am an ATM" in your profile and I say "Tribute then boy" you don't send a message saying "Please Sir I am looking for a connection first."  instead youirst  winge in a blog about Masters that think it's all about money and demand it first off.

It is never your fault for not knowing what you want, or being so weak to ask but then strong in telling us we got you wrong.   Of cause it may be my fault and maybe I don't have the body you want, or the big cock, arms chest, but if that is all you look for in the even you will be said and lonely.

So I have added this to my profile.

A Master that enjoys all aspects of cashdom and BDSM.   If you approach me with just "Sir I want to serve." then it is likely you will get a replay you don't want.  It will ether be too polite or too "You fucking faggot, what do you want?", It's a two way street, say what you want, "Please Sir treat me kindly" or "Please Sir I'm just a fucking faggot" and I will respond in kind.

A Tip for Newbie Slaves - How to Survive, and Thrive, When ‘Being...

Posted by skyerubberguy

As a newbie you may wonder, when is the best time to consider joining a stable on this site? I have only been on this site a couple of days and wanted to share a reflection on how cope with the first day or two as a lone stray or slave on here and trying to navigate your way around the site, and come to grips with all its features... and possible early pitfalls!

On my first day after registration, someone said to me that it can feel like being ‘thrown into a pool of sharks’, and there is certainly some truth in that so prepare yourself!

However, if you explore that analogy a little further, you can actually find a solution in there too! For me, what I did was, when the first ‘shark’ or Master came along who presented as clearly powerful, dominant, charismatic and communicated a clear projection of an overall decent person with personality (yes, I’m talking about you, my beloved MasterZal, you can start preening your feathers while you smile that knowing smile!)… well, I bought him a beer and asked him about joining his stable. My initial judgement of him was confirmed when he advised not to rush into things too quickly unless I was absolutely sure. This ‘shark’ didn’t bite needlessly then and had some real and genuine empathy for me in my predicament. To be serious, being taken in by Masterzal is like walking into the corner shop and buying a lottery ticket and then winning big time! I simply can’t wait, and am giddy with excitement and butterflies, to begin deepening and strengthening our Master/slave dynamic, learn from him and open myself up to all the new opportunities for growth and personal development that comes with any new special relationship. I feel truly blessed to have stepped through the front door of OF and found Masterzal waiting there to greet me at the ‘welcome mat’ and show me around. How many slaves can truly say that they have had that same intensively positive and encouraging start to their life at OF? Quality conversations and interactions from the get-go! Comments below, please! Or drop me a message and tell me your story, I would love to hear it, both good and less good experiences!

Later that first day I wanted to thank him for his advice and his general good guy vibes (how they gently pull our strings so, eh?!) so I bought him a really nice blue camo computer mouse from his Amazon wishlist. When he later thankedme for it and commented that he would think of me when he used it, which on this site might well be quite a lot, I realised that he hadsussed me out! I wanted him to think about me a lot, every time his Master’s hand grabbed that mouse and clicked. It would feel like it was a little bit of me he was grabbing and giving me a friendly ‘click’ or nudge.Or for every mouse scroll.. like a soft stroke or pat on the head.

Masterzal very kindly accepted my application to join his prestigious stable only 24 hours after joining the site, and was probably quite right indeed to call me a bit of a stray puppy looking for a collar and a short leash! But power and control is always a two-way process, it is never all about one side of the coin. And it made me reflect on my own and my gorgeous beloved Master’s words and actions... who exactly was controlling who and how in this scenario I’ve just outlined? Worth thinking about, eh? Who has gained more from the ‘transaction’?

To go back to the shark pool analogy, my reasoning was this: where is the safest place to be in a pool of sharks? Ask the Remora or Pilot Fish… they swim close to the sharks, eat any parasites feeding off the shark and so have formed an inter-dependent, symbiotic relationship with them… a bit like Masters and slaves when they truly get it right and commit to taking the time to get to know each and walk a journey together. From the point of a newbie slave - as a ‘Pilot Fish’ in a pool of ‘sharks’ - my advice to newbies is this…find the very best ‘shark’ you can, the very best Master who will help you grow and deepen your slave mindspace... and also find great comfort and refuge from predators in these perilous waters! Happy Swimming!

Click here for info on the Pilot fish!"  https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pilot_fish