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Sunday Worship
Posted by DorianTheAlpha

So many slaves will ask for free tasks… or free attention. To those sweet pets here who genuinely do put their Master’s pleasure first: continue to read. To lurkers stroking to My words without the slightest intention of enacting them… cease to exist you vile waste.

To My sweet pets who serve beautifully, through authentic s********n… Sundays are worship. 

This means, that today of all days, is a blissful opportunity to set your standards for the week. Send to Me. Pray to Me. Commit to new heights for Me. Take care to employ all of the sweet subtleties I enjoy. Go out of your way to embrace struggle for My enjoyment, to embrace s********n for My entertainment, to embrace sacrifice for My pleasure. Those tasks you so desire: send for them. Humiliation? Send for it. JOI/CEI/CBT etc.... send for whatever scratch you are so desperate to itch, My pet.

Sundays set a benchmark for the next six days. Even more so if it is a payday week. Remember, no Alpha here dominates for need of income. Money is simply the scoreboard. The truest of tokens that represents a surrender of financial power from one to Another. So, surrender to Me, My dear toys, in worship. Fall to your knees this immaculate Sunday, to tribute at the altar of My greatness. Show Me you crave to give your feeble power over to Me, in financial tribute. It is the beautiful of ways to do so.

To all the powerful Masters here, have a blessed day rinsing, ruining, training, and draining anew your pets. I admire you & applaud the gift you give these pathetic wayward souls in finding a purpose.

To those pets yet unowned… I am here and waiting. Approach.

Then thank Me again for the privilege.

Domination, Exclusive Consideration, and Ownership
Posted by DorianTheAlpha

By DorianTheAlpha

There are several slaves here, if not most, that serve as community fags. They are not beholden to any one Master, by their own choice. It is one of the few choices a little cash piggy has, and I as well as all Masters should respect that, in order for this findom community to properly thrive.


When a Master and a slave interact for a single interaction, whether one tip, a session, or a series of tips and sessions, there is a temporary domination that occurs. This does not change the fact that there will always and permanently be Superior Alpha men and pathetic beta bitch boy cashslaves. That is eternal, and true. However, a cash slave can choose to serve multiple Alphas, at their own leisure, so long as they obey the Dominant/slave dynamic that is drives their sole purpose: to serve at the pleasure of Alpha Men.

UC (Under Consideration)

Now, some slaves are competitive, both within themselves and others. When channeled properly, this can be deeply constructive for both their s********n and (more importantly) their Master's pleasure. When left to run rampant, it is toxic, destructive, and often leaves the slave blocked and wayward because of their own selfish jealousy. The best cash faggots will be "considered" by their Alpha Masters: a period wherein they serve their Cashmaster exclusively, though not yet owned. Ownership, a cashslave foremost reward beside their Master's pleasure & approval, is a beacon of exemplary servitude: you are a sufficiently excellent cash dispenser that your Masters sees it fit to brand you as public His. The summit of s********n & servitude for a mindless ATM. 


As eluded to above, this is the pinnacle of what subs hope to achieve while worshipping at the altar of their Alpha Master's perfection. Do not conflate this ultimate reward with it being the pursuit of one's servitude: you serve to please your Master, exclusively and entirely. All else follows. Ownership rarely comes to those who actively seek it out; it is rather bestowed upon those truly selfless slaves that purely provide for their Master's every whim, setting aside their own kinks and orgasms for Master's slightest desire. True, beautiful, blissful s********n to a Supremely Powerful Alpha Male.

Now, the reason for this distinction between the three is that too often there are those here who seek to poach, coax, or otherwise betray the fidelity good slaves show their Masters. I hope that this post can serve as a clarification for community cash whores, prospective pets, and wholly owned finfags. The latter two should not be sought out unless their Master has given you His explicit approval. The first... is fair game to use and a***e at your disposal. And oh how they are disposable.

Cheers to all. I hope this helps.

How to Grow in s********n: Saving, Earning, Selling, Sending.
Posted by DorianTheAlpha

by DorianTheAlpha

Now, I will preface in saying this is My opinion, though one I know it is shared across hundreds of Superiors. That said, you may well find a Master that views s********n differently than I describe here. If so, I weep for you because you'll never know the bliss of true sacrifice to serve your Master's pleasure.

Let's begin by listing off the excuses so many pretenders enjoy bleating to Masters Who've heard these tired lines a thousand times before:

- i am student/jobless right now, but i can serve You in other ways.

- i want to send to You, but i need to trust You first.

- i might be open to sending, but financial domination is not My primrary kink.

- i was mistreated by a previous Alpha, i need to recover before i can worship You.

- i have no money to send, but i can be Your promo/task slave.

If this is you: you are the worst kind of wasted space in findom and kink as a whole. These aren't reasons; they're excuses. Do better. Redefine yourself to serve His pleasure first and solely.

There are countless others, equally transparent, equally boring, equally self-branding "block me: i'm a waste of time".

This article is meant as instruction, and as motivation. Like all habits, starting with a few easy steps will lead to  undertaking the harder ones. In time, you can be the best slave you can be by incorporating all of these and more. Internalize the spirit of these habits to truly devote the entirety of yourself to your Master.

1. Work harder, smarter, longer. 

Secure a raise or bonus? That portion goes to your Master. Great night of tips? Those are Alpha's. Win a payout, lottery, jackpot, raffle, contest? Guess whose: your Owner, silly pet. Get a second job, or third, gigging: Uber, tutoring. Suck cock if you can get paid for guzzling cum in your Master's name. Be creative, and proactive.

2. Cut back on luxuries and indulgences. 

Don't buy meals out. Meal prep, and make that coffee/tea at home. Skip the steak, and eat chicken or beans. Fast intermittently if your health allows it. d***k less, or not at all. Only Alpha Men consume fine spirits; you get hooch if anything. Forget about tobacco, weed, parties: they are revelries for Superior Males. Designer labels, latest tech, new toys of any kind... these have no place in a cash slave's world.

3. Simplify your lifestyle.

Forget the Uber: walk, bike or commute. Don't bother with a flagship smartphone when a budget model will do. Take cold showers and reduce your heating/AC to send your Master those savings. Workout? Cancel that gym membership, and go train outside. Sell your appliances and wash your dishes and/or clothes by hand. Which leads Me too...

4. Sell your valuables.

Collectibles: magazines, comic books, video games, watches, vintage items, etc. Jewelry, needless gadgets, vehicles, sex toys (looking at you sissies). Anything you are guilty of from #2, sell — that's a simple starting point. What feels more right: you owning $1,000+ of superficial goods you could do without, or placing that cash into your Master's powerful hands, where it belongs?

I have likely missed ideas here. What matters is starting small, being accountable to improve through sacrifice, communicating your commitments to your Master, and most or all: sending as soon as you have cash to do so. The longer your Master's money stays with you, the lazier you are being, slave.

Read, act, send. Or pretend that you are already doing "enough" for your Alpha, as if that is even possible.

We always deserve more...

The Luxury of Being Dominated
Posted by DorianTheAlpha

by DorianTheAlpha

There is a strange, skewed perspective of domination, in particular financial domination. Many slaves will approach to lead with their kinks. They will tell you all about what turns them on, what their hard limits are, their past injustices and why that makes them unable to trust the ever-perilous threat of Masters that mistreat them.

A common refrain is: "you want Me to send Sir? But W/we've barely spoken."

Now, I will always speak to curious souls. Some slaves are new. Some are unaware of how to approach. Some are just timid. But if after a short exchange, there's little sign they intend to tip, tribute, or otherwise strive to please Me, then I demand it. And generally, this is when the pretenders vanish. Every. Single. Time.

This post is for you, pretenders. The liars, the beggars, the toxic vile vermin that infect the purity of findom.

You do not get to own a Ferrari to pay for it when you like. You don't get to wear a Patek and send them a check when it suits you. You don't move into a seaside mansion and put off your mortgage indefinitely.

Serving an Alpha isn't just a luxury: it is the ultimate luxury. Financial s********n is a gift an Alpha gives you.

Sending Me the money that is rightfully Mine *is* your reward, slave.

So, let U/us here and now stamp out the fallacy that you deserve attention from a Superior Male because of any of the following:

- Uncertainty or curiosity

- Insecurity or past wounds

- Prior mistreatment

- Lack of finances / having being ruined

- Lack of interest in findom

- Servitude to another Master

- The list goes on...

As a slave, you are responsible to educate yourself about findom.

As a slave, you are expected to be able to serve financially, unless your Master explicitly states otherwise.

As a slave, you are required to please your Master first and foremost, however He chooses.

As a slave, you are accountable to understand that your Master allows you the blissful gift of His existence.

As a slave, you are indebted to your Alpha merely by the virtue of serving him. Tribute merits nothing.

As a slave, you are property. It is your choice to be a slave; and it is your purpose as such to be His property.

Understand the choices you make, and adhere to your commitments. Both you and He are allowed your limits. Findom is a choice. When you make it, do not flake and do not flounder. Follow through.

Let us end on a constructive note: follow these guidelines to please your Alpha, and live truthfully in s********n.

1. Do not say that you will send. Send, and then say that you have. Act first, then speak.

2. Do not approach an Alpha leading with your interests. He is above you. Pleasing him is all that matters. Do so, and maybe he will reward you by considering your own interests. That is the true nature of s********n to Another.

3. Do not victimize yourself. There will always be those who hold exception with this post. Slaves here have done so to My words in the past. This is not ironclad; it is a guide. Follow it, or ignore it and resign yourself to the sad lie that you are actually a "slave" — you are the opposite. 

I recognize part of this post are strongly worded. Findom is a place of strong words, and emotions. If you are offended by this, you are likely guilty of what it puts forth. If You are nodding along, you likely know what I'm talking about, and have suffered through your fair share of vermin too.

Be better, for Him. 

For Me.

Purity, Compassion and Acceptance
Posted by DorianTheAlpha

by DorianTheAlpha

Particularly here on, as the website name shows, degradation & humiliation are wanton and welcome. They are arguably an integral part of what makes this extremely kinky space what it is. Many here push the bounds of physical, psychological, and sexual a***e in a beautifully consensual way. It brings out the best in the most dominant Alphas and the most submissive betas. It can also create contention.

There is something lost when D/s becomes an exercise in vanity. This is not to disparage leather fetishes, toy play, or any other kink that uses superficial means. Rather, something often missed here is the human element of domination and s********n. Connecting with A/another, and allowing that person to see a side of Y/you that many of U/us shield from everyday life.

I say this first and foremost because My preferred approach to domination is notably softer than many here. Again, I have nothing but admiration & respect for Those who take what is Theirs with a firmer hand. They are among the top Earners & senders here. Rather, I say this so that if a shy and nervous beta reads this, they can see that s********n comes in many forms. I accept a sub that begs Me to insult them, use slurs, a***e them and objectify them. I also cherish in the same way one who wants to serve devoid of humiliation — where the purity of sacrifice is their foremost kink, and desire. Please Me selflessly, and I will always accept you.

For both, and any form of submissive urge, compassion is My priority. There are many kinks I did not know I loved to indulge, that I now suggest to other betas as points of exploration & discovery. I do not aim to have any own "style". I know this to be true of most of the best Alphas here. They are open to their pets' interests, kinks, and respectful of their limits. Within them, I will use My compassion constructively to help you be the best submissive you can be, and to serve My pleasure as truthfully as you can, and I deserve.

In that, as a conclusion of sorts, I will say: forms of servitude that truly put your Alpha first are acceptable, and beautiful. Do not conflate this with topping from the bottom, being manipulative, proffering excuses or otherwise wasting My time. However, true submissive sacrifice, in tribute and all forms of s********n — I will always accept. 

I say this too, without sounding sanctimonious, that W/we can better accept each other. At times Alphas and subs don't align, or even within our respective P/peer groups, W/we disagree. When W/we learn to accept that, and E/each other, this space — in its most depraved and at its purest — thrives.

Cheers to all, and thanks for reading.

Reluctance and Deference
Posted by DorianTheAlpha

by DorianTheAlpha

Reluctance. The creeping hesitation that paralyzes you between taking the leap of faith, and staying stuck in sad frustration. It occurs in all of U/us, but especially in the frail frightened minds of beta boys. New arrivals worry that they do not belong. Experienced senders worry they've gone too far, or for too long, that they should finally leave the scene. There is always a voice in the back of your mind telling you not to. That voice is why I am writing this post today.

Deference. It is a word you almost never hear in kink. s********n, worship, sacrifice, tribute, selflessness, obedience, eager, pathetic, humiliating... of all the descriptors that float around this community, you seldom hear of deference. Why is that? Well, it's an uncommon word, but it so concisely captures how a sub should behave. It is *the* word, if I were to pick only one. If subs should strive for a single trait, it would be deference. So what does it mean? Respect, politeness — yes. Submissive obedience as well. Acquiescence. It is deferring to your Superior, in a noun. It is the embodiment of your Alpha knowing what is best, always. It is the sub trusting its Master.

All too often, and expectedly so, subs will stutter and say, "I'm not sure", "I don't know if I can", and so many other same-sounding apprehensions. Now, don't get Me wrong, you can say whatever you wish to say. But know that in this reticence, you show your Alpha that you do not trust Him, and His vast experience. So, the next time these demons creep up when your Alpha is pushing you within your established limits...

Let go of your reluctance, and trust the latter instead.

Be better. Be different. Be deferent.

pig looking to build walk in shower due to disability.
Posted by tatbear501

Yes, all ready to serve, near Detroit, my master lets others hold my leash, put their fingers in his ass as they work me over. Lots of piss sweat and spit, maybe some j-lube for slip. is a personal art site. Ferndale is the suburb, afternoon is usually the time, drinks, smoke, some porn. We have our roles, you are our toy for the afternoon, entertaining each of us as top and bottom, you should like to be versatile as well as have a really creative dirty mind. We have toys, tables, chains, leather, video recording area. Were both Poz, late 50s, tattooed, pierced, safe, sane, consensual (and my cock is locked up since sept 20th)

 However, the dog does have a fantasy of regularly servicing a guy (BBC or BWC or medium size its the action) that comes in the back door and pulls out cock and tells me how to pleasure his cock with the bottom of my throat. Husband would either be sitting on big plugs and dongs or filming us. Like I said I like dirty minds. Creative play is way more important than good looks or youth. Why is it so hard to find a dick that will come over for a blow job or to the skull- fuck a fat tattooed white guy.

Posted by Fatdom4subpig

I am back, though still not full time. I had hoped to return with photographic evidence of my adventures offline, though sadly that wasn’t possible. Living where I do with the lack of privacy I suffer from, physical domination of fags is difficult to come by. That being said, I have had a few insights into furthering my experience in findom and online domination in general. I have decided that I am simply not assertive enough with faggots, particularly ca$hfags. So I will be overhauling my profile sometime soon (despite that I just edited it to clean up details) with new rules I expect you dumb bitches to follow. In keeping with this new attitude, I will endeavor to do my best at being more social on the site which includes occasionally talking in the chat room. As I am not overly social in crowds or group situations, this is for my own personal growth. 

All said and done, I am very happy to be back in a far more frequent capacity than I have been for the past several months. As a celebration of my return, I cordially invite any unowned fags to tip me as a homecoming gift. Owned fags may do so as well, provided your generous masters allow you to do so. It’s time to welcome me home you worthless bitches; I am coming for your wallets. Be grateful for the opportunity to pay my rent and feed my belly.

About Me
Posted by gaysianfindom

The information below can also be found on my CB account: _gayasianguyxxx_

I can also be found on Twitter, Snapchat and Instagram at Gaysianfindom.



I'm 30 and I identify as gay, Asian (Taiwanese), cis man, and often horny; hence "_gayasianguyxxx_"

My mind is often in deep introspection pondering the wonders of language/communication, sexuality, purpose, and wisdom.

In my free time I also love to play video games which sparks my interest in game theory; how and why do we determine winners and losers? what are the motivations of those who choose to play? What does it mean for a simulation (ex. The Sims) to be classified as a game and is it the correct hierarchy/arrangement of terms?

Financial Domination

Camming has for sure fueled the fire to my interest in the financial domination kink especially because it seems to marry all my personal interests in one clearly defined activity/mindset. When I dominate, I feel like a passionate explorer in a rabbit hole (your mind) mapping my observations, leaving no stone unturned, plotting new courses of exploration. I thrive off of learning about what is known and aim to venture to the borders of known understanding. (Example: I have only recently learned about and have come to identify with RACK - risk-aware consensual kink.) Come partner with me in this exploration to understand your own sexual pleasure?

Other thoughts on the current landscape of findom

From personal observation, it seems like the current findom population is over-saturated with self-righteous, demanding, dehumanizing doms who may continue to promote toxic masculinity, presumably masking a lack of their own personal security. I often imagine this findom style like an abusive caretaker (the dom) dragging a disobedient dog (the sub) forward, making the interaction an extremely one-dimensional experience. (I suspect this possibly may be due to the fact that some of these doms are straight and thus unable or u*******g to tie in emotional or more cerebral elements like relationship development? But perhaps that’s a negative bias to my own experiences as a gay findom interacting with other submissive gay men).

I personally always strive for long-lasting relationships in which I am positioned to serve the role of an empowering, supportive caretaker that motivates, encourages and inspires the dog/sub to run forward (progressing toward curiosity, passion, and lust - while always being anchored to the safety of the dom). This does NOT mean that all language will be positive and affirming; aggressive and fast financial draining can occur. However, I will always welcome your radical honesty at all times so we can converse without guards, intimately, and stay grounded in a mindset of truth-seeking. I vow to ensure you always feel that you can pause to explicitly discuss limits or emotional dissonance of any kind so that we can reconcile, reset and recalibrate as partners.

Engagement style

I love getting to know what turns people on and especially love it when I can help in that process.

That said, you'll may find me chatting (typing) with different viewers in PMs; it's a bit hard to be respectful of multiple viewers if I focus just on verbal communication.

If you're horny and want to turn me on or get my attention, please slow tip... multiple single token tips in succession drive me crazy and gets my head in the clouds. I think of slow tips kind of like candy on Halloween; I want to get more and eat it up. Wish list gifts/gift cards make me feel like it's Christmas and while I don't expect it to always happen, I interpret them to be a true commitment and care from the viewer. <3

Young Dom looking
Posted by SupremeJord


I’m a young dominant master named Jord, new on this site and hoping not to be disappointed.

Looking for any slaves or pigs willing to serve me in any way I see fit for my gratification. Into most things, especially humiliating my slaves and pigs.

I’ve not found many worth my time so please prove me wrong, do not hesitate to message me you will not regret it

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