Hello People, this is my first post and I want to share something with the community for the last weeks and I did want to proper write a text. So, let’s go! I am not that new to Findom, I’ve been already here in the past, but life is rough, and I disappeared from the internet and now I’m back, because I did was reintroduced to Findom and Domination after have an actual IRL slave, where he as an asexual just wanted a guy to boss him around, I got into it and liked more than I think I would like.
But that’s not the focus, the focus
it’s how I did get my first tribute being a giant in a roleplay, as many people
here, I know my persona and Rods like to be big, but not big as conventional
and yes a city destructor, a guy who don’t care to step on cars and people, macrophilia
is a weird fetish to explain to the people but yeah, I’m a giant. And during a
roleplay with a guy who is submissive to me online I’ve said the ‘tribute’ word
to maintain him alive and do not step on his 💩 apartment complex. It was the
wrong method for me, but I didn’t know what to do, for real, that was my first time
getting my two main fetishes together.
My surprise was that he wanted to be
drained while I approach his place in our talks, in random parts of the day, so
we get a budget and start playing for about 2 days. That was the first time I’ve
saw the ****** notification on my phone, and I did actually understand what his
trill was, in off he already said that he did get hard just with my notification
with a text message: “BOOM, IN NEARBY YOU”.
I won’t say values, but it was nice turn
on to me too, be the giant and a guy willing to just try to pay me off to stop
me, what wasn’t the result… it’s been a time I don’t see him, like me, life
start being rough with him, but I still check my little speck and his shoe box
that he calls home.
This blog will have a topic that will probably never go away with the findom community - toxic people.
The most retarded, obnoxious and probably the dumbest people in fіndom.
On this site, in six months, I saw many different people, with different characters, behavior, philosophy, life, and so on. All of them are unusual, with their own history and principles of life, each different and each interesting in its own way. It seems that everything is perfect, but on this scene they appear - toxic. It is difficult to comment on what kind of people these are, but in general they are unpleasant people. And to my surprise, there are many of them not only among Dom, but also among subs who purposefully came to the site to obey others. If it's a Dom, then that's understandable, but being male doesn't make you dominant, or a Dom, or anything but an creature, even worse, creatures can understand and some Doms can't. A real dominant can only be a person who proved all this not in words, but in deed, with his authority, skill, position in society and many other things. Be people, not creatures.
And now about some subs, well, if Dom is doing it, he chose such a role, but he has no knowledge, then how to explain some subs... Complete disrespect both to his colleagues and to authoritative Doms on the site. This is just nonsense, I understand that there are different situations, events, emotions and much more, but when it is on a permanent basis, then many questions arise. The main thing is that you have forgotten here, if you do not follow the rules and behave, in the best case, as an egoist. Many questions remain for both sides, but for another time for sure.
At the end of this small blog, I will say - personally, fortunately, I have not met such people on the site, I received all the stories from other people on the site and in other applications. Fortunately, a large number of such individuals, I am informed, have already left the site, but not all.
Also, no one objects to your presence on the site, you don't need to wear someone else's mask, be yourself, but remain human and have at least some moral values.
That's all, thank you for your attention, everyone have a nice day, fun, entertainment and health 😉😁👍
Found it on Twitter and totally agree with it, so I wanna share it with u with little modifications to adjust my opinion.
The FinDom scene is flooded by more and more people without a BDSM background, but with a "I absolutely need/want (more) money" background.
Greed and financial hardship drive Wannabe-FinDoms to present themselves dominantly, sadistic and sometimes also with money fetish. They learn from what they see on FinDom Twitter and elsewhere and stage an illusory world. There is a lot wrong with this, but at this point I would like to point out above all to which human image a FinDom receives through this diluted scene:
A FinDom is an asshole.
Arrogant. Unreasonable. Self-in love. Unreflected. Greety. Immoral. Superficial. Assaulting. Inhuman.
Because Wannabe-FinDoms know no safewords, no aftercare, no preliminary discussions, no soft & hard limits. You don't know the difference between head cinema and reality. They do not bring the tact for the needs of a sub. They have no passion for deep devotion and devotion.
They go over corpses for money.
Sometimes in the truest sense of the word. They have no self-control and simply take away from a person what he is ready to give. They go out to family fathers or take away from them the last money that was intended for the children.
"It's Your Own Fault"? No. Due to such greedy and inhuman Wannabe FinDoms, which bring neither a fetish nor real dominance, caution is advised, yes. But the person concerned is not guilty.
Because the victims are above all mentally unstable people who are specifically addressed: "You will never have and be able to satisfy a real woman", "The only thing you can do is pay", "Your pathetic existence ..." etc.
Don't get me wrong: It's one thing to play as an experienced:r Dom with kinks. And it is another, conscious to address people who then show themselves privately also as psychologically extremely burdened and specifically exclude them like Christmas geese and drive them into insolvency.
There are black sheep in BDSM.
In the FinDom scene, they even make up the majority. Is that why they are SO FinDoms? No.
I have a money fetish. And yet I don't spend my money on every crap, but love conscious consumption, sustainability and to a certain extent even minimalism.
I love luxury. For me, which means being free in my decisions, because I know how to be anything but free in them.
I am Dom. I am responsible and loving. I listen, ask, praise, give feedback, make important decisions, give inspiration and advice.
FinDoms, show who you are.
Show what's in you.
Shows what leadership really means.
Shows how beautiful it can be to live out fetishes and preferences together.
FinDoms ≠ assholes
There’s a new alpha in town… here to be worshipped by all the good boys around here. I hope you enjoy my content and I’m sure you’ll all be more than generous with those tips, shouldn’t you be tipping me now?
A little about me, I’m not new to being a dom I have a few memberships with clubs in my area and share a club with a good friend of mine it’s specifically nsfw and we are working on bringing one to the northeast so as you can imagine tips would come in very helpful, I specialise in cbt, findom, sph and real time domination but you have to earn a real time session don’t you goon?
My links are in my profile and I’m sure you will all make me feel welcome around here won’t you?
It’s been a while since I communicated on the status of Submit, so I wanted to take some time to explain what’s happening.
Submit is still very much in development, and it is still the intention that Owned will retire and everything will move over to the new site.
Submit is being built on completely new technology to Owned and as such it took a bit to plan and get started, but that is out of the way and actual development has been in full swing for a while now.
It’s become evident in the development though that getting Submit ready within 6 months is simply unachievable. I was a bit naive to think that I could rebuild something completely in that time when it took 10 years of active development to get where it is now.
Since starting the building of Submit there have also been other things pop up that have halted development, the main one being having to find a new card processor. That took up a lot of my time, and if im honest put my head in a bad place and I just couldn’t face working on the site.
I have also had personal issues going on taking up my time, as well as social commitments.
Going back to the card processor issue, if it taught me anything it’s not to have all my eggs in one basket, so I have also been splitting my time more onto other projects and diversifying my work.
As I said, Submit is still being developed, it’s just not being worked on full time like it was before.
So, what does this mean?
Well, I’ve now taken the view that Submit will be “ready when it’s ready”.
I will continue to work on it, and it will be launched, I just won’t be putting a date on when; it should still be sometime this year though. I’m not going to be putting myself under any pressure or imposing self-inflicted time limits. Owned is still operational and works fine, so there is no rush to get Submit finished.
In the coming months I will start to provide limited access to a few users so that I can gather feedback and help with bug testing.
Thank you,
MoA
I always feel like the best place to start any dom/sub relationship is with a get to know you message system. Get in touch on here or we can move it to my skype. Each question will require a small token tribute but its always a great way to establish a connection and see if a sub is geneuine. Also great for the lonely subs out there who really need to chat. Looking forward to your messages and starting a slow controlled relationship and drain for your masters benefit. Everytime a new question/message "dings" in my inbox folder my 9' cock throbs a little bit harder. Looking forward to hearing from you soon subs ;)
AussieStr8Dom
That is a great question FootMasterUK, just what are you looking for?
What I am looking for is a sub/slave who has goals, dreams, power, ambition. I am looking for a sub/slave who has a powerful job where he is an Alpha, only to meet up with me and have me take his power away from him and turn him into an owned sub/slave. I would like to meet up with a sub/slave who is into roleplay only for the roleplay to become serious. I would like a sub/slave who will struggle when I bound him, a sub/slave who will plead with me to set him free, a sub/slave who will say "Please, my wallet is in my trouser pocket, take my wallet and empty it of cash/tips" then I keep the sub/slave tied up and we continue our session, developing it further, exploring new avenues of Domination & submissiveness.
I would like a sub/slave who will put as much into the session as what I will and we both get what we want. I have over 10 years experience in kink, was introduced to findom in 2007 I think it was, had a 6 year break due to an EX and came back to findom late 2019, I am always learning new things about kink, and brushing up on old s🩸🗡️s, I have a few fantasies that I have always wanted to do, but for now I am happy to play and I am open to new ideas to improve my kinks and s🩸🗡️s.
And if everything is clear with the financial part, then the psychological part is another level. If a person is broken psychologically, it is almost impossible to help him, it is not a physical pain that passes over time, it is a pain that can be with a person for the rest of his life and will never heals.
A person can break physically, but psychologically remain strong, nothing will stop him, but if it is a psychological injury, then it cannot be treated, it can only be calmed down for a while, like some medicine. Therefore, many thanks to everyone who helped me in this, your kindness will not be forgotten and will return many times over.I think this is a good start. Back to the blog. Today marks exactly six months since I got acquainted with such a term as findom. Since these six months, almost 5 months, I spent on the OwnedFags.com site, I learned a lot about the very concept of findom, about life related to findom and people who are also in this community.
I still have a lot to learn, but even in such a short time I learned some factors:
1) Findom is addictive. Both from the Dom side and from the sub side. During these six months, I did not visit the site only a few times. It's a big world with different people who like what they do, it's almost like a computer game, but in reality. Perhaps the word "game" will be a very rude statement, but there is a grain of truth in it.
2) Many people do not understand the concept of findom. This also applies to everyone in this community. Dom believes that, being Dom, every sub should pay him whatever amount he wants, simply because he was registered as a dominant. Because he's Dom, and that's all. "All the money for me", "his fault", because he wanted it that way, he is not interested in rejection, he considers himself number one, simply because he was born that way...
FILL IT OUT - there will always be a person who will be better than you in everything you know and know, he will be stronger, he will be better mentally, he will be better intellectually, he will be smarter, he will... No one in this life owes you anything, all people are free and have the right to do what they want. Don't be an asshole, there are a lot of people like you and they think the same. Nothing is free in this world, you have to work hard to get something. If you are interested in money, be smarter, develop a strategy and act so that everyone is satisfied.
As for the sub, it's practically the same. This is financial domination, no one will fulfill your dirty fantasies for free. You have to pay for what your Dom wants. Do not waste the time of other people who want to make a connection with you. You are not the only one. No one makes you to pay an amount that you cannot repay. Everything has its price, and in financial domination it is one of the key parts.
And most importantly, findom is a relationship, one-time or long-term, it all depends on the people. Everyone fulfills his role in it and has what he has.
3) Online relationships and real life relationships are a big difference. Everything is clear here, everything is like in life. Online relationships are a fun stage of getting to know each other for a short period of time. But fіndom in real life is already different, different emotions, different relationship, interest and so on...
Unfortunately, I didn't have the opportunity to experience it, but everything is possible.
That's all.
I hope you understand what I wanted to write. Thanks to everyone who read this post. Have a nice day everyone and be yourself
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