Monday is tribute day. Wednesday is wishlist Wednesday and Fiday is fagtax. Unfamiliar with wishlist Wednesday? A bit of explanations for Sirs and lucky slaves (I am one of those!).
Today is again wishlist Wednesday. As every Wednesday, again a hot day to serve Sirs and buy something from their wishlist. Another nice, hot way to serve & tribute Sirs. Wishlist on Sir' A few advices for your list Sir to get more deserverd gifts. When choosing items tick the box free shipping by Amazon (no shipping costs= more gifts for Sirs)..
Beware: Marketplace items can not be sent to gift registery addresses! Shipped by Amazon
allows slaves to add a thank you word & giftwrapping. It also gives info is there is a problem with the item or delivery.I will also also suggest Sirs to add many items up to ÂŁ10 ÂŁ20 & more yet for any prices from low to more. Many slaves that do not serve you may want to buy a little extra for you & it gives every slave the chance & oportunity to buy a gift for Sirs. Many of us are living on small budget .
Last but not least, please keep your list updated removing the items you don't want no more & those no more available.
Sir can also post his list & a word on the site' wishlist group: https://www.ownedfags.com/groups/299 Masters please; write a few words when adding your list on the group:-)
Post & idea directed by my passion of serving Alpha men. My findom Twitter: https://twitter.com/enslaved2serve
I hope Sirs will soon get the gifts they want & deserve.
Another way I love to serve & please Alphas is completing targets. More info on my profile & previous blogs.
I wish everyone a great wishlist Wednesday
I thought of a lighthearted proposal for the community which will serve the twofold purpose of getting to know people a bit better, whilst making it amusing and entertaining for me.
The idea is simple:
I want you to confess a secret, a dark fetish, a guilty pleasure, or a filthy fantasy to me.
These be can be either things that have happened to you already (e.g. I regularly use vegetables for sexual gratification), or kinks and fantasies that you hope you will experience one day (e.g. I want to have sex with my boyfriendâs dad).
The mechanism to do this is simple and inspired by the traditional fortune cookies, which normally contain a piece of paper with a hidden message inside đ„ .
You shall go into my profile > tribute > send gift > food & d***k
and select the item which resembles a fortune cookie the most: the croissant đ„.
The process to transform a simple and boring croissant into a much more exciting âcrois-sinâ takes place by using the âmessageâ field at the bottom of the screen where you can type your confession.
All messages need to start with the word âcrois-sin đ„đâ, followed by your darkest deeds and fantasies.
You may opt to click the âsend private giftâ toggle, so that only I will be able to see it, or send it publicly, so that your crois-sin will be seen by everyone on the platform.
With the latest changes to the tips transfer system recently introduced in the site, everyone can play the game and take part on the proposal⊠so letâs get baking, guys, and letâs hear about your deepest and darkest sins đ„đ.
Transactional "Findom" Roleplay
This isn't actually Findom but instead is a fee for service act. The word "sub" is replaced with "buyer". The buyer is looking to pay for service or goods. Often, the buyer will demand videos, live sessions or pictures, etc.), and the Dom will provide them in exchange of money. In this type of relationship, it's the buyer who has the real power.
Dominant male and submissive man do a great job of "playing the role"of so called financial domination. The Dom is in charge while the submissive takes his role. These actions usually occur when one or both are horny, mostly the sub and it ends when sub decided to say Bye. Tributes can flow nicely and still the sub holds the power in this situation. In this scenario, Doms who really know how to keep their subs horny, succed.
It is no secret that some of the tributes on OF are under-utilised, and those under the âholidaysâ section are probably used WAY less frequently compared to others.
As I often say, servitude transcends far beyond money: devotion and worshipping can take many forms and shapes.
My submissive pet Tohey93 understands this well and he had no issues stepping up to the challenge of decorating my pics to give them a Halloween touch đ» đ.
He came up with what could (arguably) be considered FOUR works of art, which will serve the purpose of:
a) Re-invigorating the use of some of the less-loved tributes on the site.
b) Entertaining ME.
c) Having a bit of fun.
I have posted a picture with the four âpieces of artâ he created and you can cast your vote for your favourite by sending the tribute shown in the corner of each pic (these can be found under the tribute > send gift > âholidaysâ section).
PS1: Yes, there is a rabbit between the options, but if Donnie Darko got away with it as a Halloween costume, so can I đ°.
PS2: No, this is not âfindomâ, strictly speaking; but if you are not having a bit of fun with your submissives, you should check your priorities and you are welcomed to ignore this post.
Happy Halloween!
For a genuine sub, the act of submitting money to an Alpha, with the expectations of nothing in return, just an offering... can be the most invigorating and rewarding experience. The task is to learn to decipher the genuine deserving Alphas from the opportunists & chancers.
It feels warm and comfortable and leaves a fuzzy feeling inside your tummy, knowing that with each passing second you are becoming more and more entrenched. Every feeble attempt to escape only causes my arms to grip that little bit tighter. You realise there is no hope of escape and you give up.
It is at this exact moment you feel a sense of calm sweep across your mind. You no longer feel the need to fight or resist. It all just somehow feels right now. Almost like you have been waiting for this moment your entire life.
You are home, right where you belong. Safe in the knowledge, that the balance of power, has firmly been cemented in place.
There is no feeling of panic, anxiety or fear. All of that has dissipated and been replaced by feelings of comfort, belonging and security. You have broke through to the promised land.
You will forever be thankful. That I guided you, to exactly the spot in the universe that you needed to be in. But most importantly and above all else.
You feel complete. Your puzzle has found it's missing peice.
Enjoy the ride, but don't be scared. Because the end place is more beautiful than you could ever have imagined.
By this time I had lots of experience of plain good old fashion sex, and some experience of BDSM London places like the Hoist. My circle of friends has always been small but the ones I did/do have are all true and I am open with every one even the straight friend. In fact I met my partner in 2000 at a friends. I got a e-mail from this friend wanting to know if I wanted to help him with a house guest(slave) as he was busy with his full time slave and had plans, one weekend. Well me bing me and not to turn down many chances of a sex I agreed to go and help. So I got on a train(o this is boring) any way I was late so when I got to my friends house, my friend said to go strat to the play room.
In the play room he, the guest(slave) was all ready bound nude to a workout machine. A note from my friend saying Here he is bound with a butt-plug and ready for you. IT needs his cock abused. By genteal because he was circimcised just a month ago. Well read rag to a bull, I don't think my friend know just how much of a sadist I can be. Being circumcised my self I know that the cock head will still be sensitive as will where the scar was. So there he is, my test subject, I start light fingered working out just how sensitive each and every part of his body is. (I use his becayse I had not got in to the "IT" used for faggots and objects). Then I go to the toy box and start putting clamps and pegs on the body, nippes chest arms and legs but leave the cock free to a***e. I did not say a word to him on the machine just peged,flicked, clamed his body. I think he may have been gaged as well. All the time working up to wanting to hurt that cock and knowing when I take the pegs off thats the worst time. I start to run my finger nails over his chest and down his belly. I am sure he would be jumping if he was not bound tigh. My friend is very good at bondage. By this time I am horny to give that cock pain and my nails move closer and closer, finaly reaching his cock. I still have a very light touch. I am sure he must have relized what I was about to do because his cock was twitching and chest heaving a bit but I was not treating him as a him, he was an IT. Now I started working on the scar and the exposed sentive cock head. At this point my aim is pure pain, that is what was going to get me off. I noticed a rouler and know I was going to ues it. I know his cock was going to be in pain and bruised and that is what I wanted I was going to get off on this. Almost as if automatic the wooden rouler smacked down hard on his cock head. He jumpt and I did it again jump, again jump, I don't know how many hits he got but I did come off with one hand jerking my cock and one hand with the wooden rounuler hitting his. At that point with spunk flying my friend came back and up to the room. When when about taking the pegs off, O what sweet pain he jumpt at each one. We removed the bonds and tock him to the bed to rest. My friend keps towls and water there to d***k and wash. He thanks us and we left him to recover. It was 4pm by then and the friends main slave hard started making dinner. The guest(slave) joind us and we talked a little before I left to go home.
Opps I still have not answered the question.
Two weeks on he sent me an e-mail wantting to come to me, which he did. The e-mail said many things but the main one is he was imprest by the workout I gave and wanted to experience such treatment more often. At the time I replayed OK come, I was not looking for a partner and was think as much as I enjoyed the last session this was going to be a chore but I was very very wrong.
After the secound meeting at my flat we started seeing more and more of eachother. Things did not go as plained but we where having fun and we started going on holidays together one of witch was this island. We were married in 2006 and hunymoond here, When he got home John said "You know I always wanted to retire to Greece" and I said OK (As I don't have many connections/family in the UK).
There you are now you know.
To subs reading this, have you ever felt at times you were in another world while in a submissive state? Do you make decisions you normally wouldnât make as youâre being dominated/fucked over? Did you spend more then you intended to, did you give out sensitive information, or perhaps did you let a man black out your computer screen because you âwerenât thinking clearly?â This is totally normal because financial domination is a form of BDSM as subs do other âabnormalâ things with non findom BDSM. The correct term for this state of mind is âSubspace.â The ability to reach TRUE subspace is not the same thing as sniffing and sending.
When the average person thinks of Bondage of any kind the first thing that comes to mind is blind folds, leather, whips, chains, paddles, and rope. The power transfer of your life source coming from your wallet is a MENTAL form of bondage rather then physical. Subspace to many feels like you are almost hypnotized. Some say they feel like they are in a trance after staring at a pendulum. Many have a hard time reaching subspace when they crave to submit, which is where things like poppers or other d***s come into play. A truly skilled dominant can push a submissive into subspace without any substance if he or she knows what they are doing. With Findom, I sometimes like to mix physical BDSM with Findom rather then alone. For example torturing their balls, twisting their nipples, a spiked chastity device, or whatever comes to my mind. In BDSM its easier to get into someone's mind into subspace when mixing pain and pleasure.
When you mix pain and pleasure, your adrenal glands naturally release something called epinephrine (a hormone and neurotransmitter) as your brain releases endorphins from the pleasure you are feeling. During intense stress (doesnât have to be bad stress) and high tension your adrenals can also release something called enkephalins, and enkephalins are very important to understand among these other natural brain chemicals. Enkephalins bind/attach to your opioid receptors during pain as an automatic response as a natural pain killer. Despite feeling some pain or being reminded of mental anguish as youâre being manipulated, your brain will release endorphins as you are âgetting offâ on losing control or being humiliated. And SOMETIMES if you know the submissive well enough, you can get their brain to release enkephalins without physical pain but itâs not that easy. In findom its much harder to activate opioid receptors naturally as the bondage is more mental. This is why i**********n comes into play and can be useful. Intense fear from things like dangerous thrills, b*******l, or info extraction can certainly trigger enkephalins to be released as an automatic response. A skilled dominant will be able to travel through someoneâs mind like a long corridor and knowing which doors to enter. Many of my slaves are curious as to some of the questions I ask them, and each time I reassure them I have a reason for everything. :-)
When You combine enkephalins, endorphins, and epinephrine the chemical combination creates a mild MDA or Morphine like effect. This is why pain can go away during the state of subspace. Iâve had old ancient slaves with spinal issues crawl on the floor feeling nothing at all as I manipulate their thinking as they are under my âspell.â Those opioid receptors combined with the rush of endorphins is literally like you just took a narcotic. And these brain chemicals create a unique effect, as its not just them all being present at once. The temporary altered brain chemistry can truly render oneâs logic completely out the door! Subspace for some is like Heroin for the mind.. as many of the problems that bother you go away for a short while, nothing else matters but where your mind is focused in the world of subspace. When you feel that âurgeâ to get fucked over you remember those pleasurable feelings at times when you are feeling bored or at an emotional low. Subspace becomes a coping mechanism that you become hooked on, like staring at a book and hearing nothing as others call your name.
Like a young one walking near the top of the stairs, they arenât aware they can be hurt themselves if they fall. In subspace, a sub trusting a ânon compassionateâ dominant may be hurt beyond the realms of what they intended to happen let alone their limits. Itâs up to the responsibility of the dominant to check in on a human level if he/she feels that the session/playtime will harm the individual. Its also wise to check in on how your sub is feeling not just for moral reasons, but for the sake of long term dynamics. For example, if the submissive loses control and starts acting out on serious actions that could be detrimental in anyway, the dominant can expect a looming âDropâ when subspace has ended. A skilled master who knows what their doing does their best to make sure Drops donât happen. And remember, A happy slave is a loyal slave.
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