And that's fair enough but this time of year in particular can be a very dark and lonely time for people and we need to remember that what we see online is just a persona a smokescreen an individual is behind.
For some it is an escape from stress and a chance to unwind for others it can be a coping mechanism the only way they can find to deal with a real world issue be it a physical issue or something which men in general are famous for not talking about, something in their mental health not being okay.
I know from personal experience how dark this time of year can be. 3 years ago today I received a phone call at work. A phone call NO ONE ever wants to get. To make it worse the Hospital it came from was in a different country to myself. My younger brother had, had a heart attack that morning and had been rushed into Intensive Care but he wasn't going to make it. Even with last minute travel it would still take me 12 hours to get to him I was still 1 hour away when I got the call to say not even the machines had managed to keep him alive.
While this time of year is full of joy spare a moment or two to check in on each other, remember that behind the smoke and mirrors we are all human and can be going through terrible things some quite literally world shattering others not as bad but to the individual can feel just as bad in that moment.
Not everyone is good at reading between the lines and in a community such as this where things can become very intense or even intimate it is even more important that we remember to watch out for each others mental health. A loyal friend suddenly acting out of character can often be a major clue that something is wrong but some people are better at hiding things than others
So forget the nonsense of 'Real men don't cry', ' Emotions make you weak' etc etc and check in on your friends both Sub and Dom over this festive period who knows they may just be needing someone to let them know it's okay to open up and talk about things. After all the loneliest place in the world can be in the middle of a crowd
There once was a man named John who felt lost and unfulfilled in his life. He had a good job and a comfortable home, but something was missing. He felt like he was going through the motions every day, without any real purpose or meaning.
One day, John met a man named Peter who was in need of help. Peter was disabled and required assistance with many of the tasks that most people take for granted. John was hesitant at first, unsure if he had the time or the energy to take on such a responsibility. But something about Peter's situation touched him, and he decided to give it a try.
At first, John struggled with the demands of helping Peter. He had to adjust his schedule and make sacrifices in order to provide the necessary assistance. But as time went on, he found that he was gaining a sense of fulfillment and purpose from his service to Peter. He enjoyed the satisfaction of helping another person, and he found that his own life was enriched by the experience.
As John continued to serve Peter, he found that his relationships with others also improved. He became more patient, more understanding, and more compassionate. He realized that the key to true fulfillment in life was not in material possessions or personal achievement, but in serving others.
And so, John continued to serve Peter with a smile on his face and a sense of joy in his heart, knowing that he was making a difference in someone else's life, and that his own life was all the better for it.
The sissy is now my personal toy, along with his wife, who just rimmed my ass whilw hubby is at work grinding hard for me. You are MINE. Come serve your master. Wait to see what I have in mind for my sissy’s dinner. Hint: he’ll eat at my feet
I came in earlier from work and had in transfer me all of savings. As a result, his wife was worried as her credit card would not work on that day. I told them not to worry as I would take care of them all. Obviously, I do not care one bit about the husband who is now my cash cow and worships my cock as soon as I snap my fingers. He is less than a furniture to me. A tool to use and please myself with. A foot bitch, ass cleaner, faggot cunt to torment when I am bored.
Obviously, I had a lot of fun taking control of this family. The wife was the best part. Initially concerned but once I met her and she saw my superior physique, bigger cock and how her husband became my bitch, she actually got turned on. I fucked her many times in front of her hubby and she understood who was boss. The key however, was to fully break the sissy hubby and this is why I rammed his ass in front of thw wife, foot on his face, spitting all over him. Once his wife saw how much he loved every inch of my cock, she knew she was mine. She now cooks, for me, worships my feet day and night, rim my ass, and surender her pussy to my superior cock. All while her husband slaves away on all fours, cleaning the house and doing evwry degrading chores my deviant mind can come up with.
Sinilarly for their 25 y/o boy who claimed to be straight. It didnt take long for him to understand who was in charge. He now calls me daddy and licks my cock in front of his mom every morning like a pathetic little fuckdog
Only around 10 percent of the human population are alpha by nature and probably only a small percentage of that group of individuals know how to fully assert their power and dominance over the more submissive of the species for their own personal gain.
I know my worth, you will not change that.. all I seem to come across a lot in this scene is a large dose of jealousy and it has to be one of the most clickiest scenes I have encountered during my 37 years of life on this forsaken place we call home. I find it a bit funny to be honest rather than offensive.
The key to it all and the secret of it all is positivity and I know it sounds a bit obvious but it’s true. If you continue with a positive outlook you will naturally attract more positivity towards you. (Naturally). If however you are constantly doubting yourself or your potential to be a success what do you think the end result is gonna be? You guessed it… your pretty much doomed or at best your setting yourself up to fail.
Your circle is important don’t get me wrong and it’s paramount to surround yourself with people you naturally vibe with but your own mentality is way more important as when the chips are down no one but you is gonna truly have your back and believe me when I say this… I have learnt the hard way.
If you are constantly doubting your ability to serve as a sub you are never going to make forward steps, likewise if you are constantly doubting your ability to assert yourself as a dom you are going to remain pretty stagnant. No point complaining, the only person capable of changing it is YOU.
Findom works best when both parties involved are coming from a positive perspective. All other d/s relationships are destined to fail. They might be fun for a while but they will have no longevity. Which ultimately should be the goal for any successful DOM or thriving SUB. When you both thrive together it is magical.
Look at it this way. If you’re not well off then realise your limits are small sends but make them small enough so they can be regular to keep both yours and your DOMS interest rife. If you’re well off then you still need to keep them sends regular for the relationship to continue at a good pace. The amounts will not be as painful for the more well off sub but the sacrifice remains the same and that is ultimately what matters most.
All this money for kinks stuff is not findom so stop trying to play it off as such. There is nothing wrong with selling content or items of clothing or anything else for that matter but IT IS NOT FINDOM.
Let’s begin by stating what I consider to be a basic principle: superiority is earned, not given.
I would question anyone claiming that asserting dominance over someone else is their “birthright”, or that they were born superior.
There are, of course, social and environmental factors that might have given someone the upper hand, or at least a certain advantage, in the path to earn that status. However, such things do not suffice to claim the title.
There is a reason why competency based interviews exist: writing up the perfect resume is easy, but demonstrating that you have all the right skills to perform well in a role is a different story.
It is similar to someone claiming to be funny: prove it to me, tell me a joke, make me laugh, and only then I shall agree with that statement.
There is of course a certain type of character who may fall victim of what has been referred to as the illusory truth effect: repeat a lie often enough and people will come to believe it.
And even though our actions should not be, for the most part, conditioned by the recognition from others, in this particular case, the power of numbers matters.
Superiority drives momentum, and it is, inevitably, closely related to leadership.
Most of us would recognise the key attributes of a good leader: charisma, confidence, integrity, motivation, authenticity, credibility, creativity, emotional intelligence, gravitas…
Powerful people move masses; not by chance, but because the way they portray themselves appears to be attractive to others, and it is that magnetism what provides the power to influence others.
One might wonder what specific characteristics can be considered attractive, and that would probably be a topic for an entirely different blog.
For some, it comes down to physical appearance, looks, and muscles; others value communication skills and empathy; a few people prioritise intelligence and knowledge; many would argue that the most attractive leaders, the truly superior ones, are those who happen to be the full package… and there is always the hopeless ones for whom a full package is reason enough to follow, submit, and obey.
So if you have made it thus far and read this blog in its entirety, ask your self:
As a slave, are you really serving someone who you admire and respect, someone who motivates you, and that you consider a rightful leader?
As a Master, are you really “superior”, and do you really have traits that separate yourself from the rest?
From today Masters can now instantly withdraw their Tips to a bank account without having to wait for the monthly pay-out date.
The minimum amount of Tips needed to make a withdrawal has been lowered to 500 Tips (£50) from 800 (£80).
From November Tips will also be withdrawable after 2 weeks instead of the current 4!
If you have any problems with the new system please email support@ownedfags.com
Do not use the comments or message MOA for support.
Thank you!
In order to establish such order, OF is proud to present the first OF Masters Games, with a short list of events:
- a steeplechase race where the masters will have to jump over piles of discarded Amazon wishlist boxes and puddles filled directly from the OF dungeon's sewage system
- a chariots race (for stable owners only). The chariots will be powered by the owned slaves. Masters with only one slave will compete on a tandem (the slave will be doing the pedalling, obvs!)
- toss the fag. Based on the Highland Games' "caber tossing" event. No further explanation needed.
- pissing contest, with the following categories: distance / volume/ strength
- piñata bashing: blindfolded Masters will compete in smashing piñatas full of OF tips (and probably each other's skulls, inadvertently of course)
Please apply NOW sending a non-refundable deposit of 10,000 tips to cynic, the Games' secretary. Places are limited. Send your deposit NOW to avoid disappointment.
As your on your knees worshipping me I want you to goon out and press send 😈 who will be a good slave for their master and send me a tribute for the night ? 😈🐷💵
As your on your knees worshipping me I want you to goon out and press send 😈 who will be a good slave for their master and send me a tribute for the night ? 😈🐷💵
As your on your knees worshipping me I want you to goon out and press send 😈 who will be a good slave for their master and send me a tribute for the night ? 😈🐷💵
Ofcourse be a good boy and send daddy a tip 💸
And if your feeling up to the challenge apply to my stable 🏠
All are welcome masters and Slaves alike it’s an ass you’d love to lay eyes on 🤤
If ass is not your thing …to fucking bad
Just kidding haha make a request let’s explore our kinks together
As the new system gets closer to release I wanted to update you on how this new system will work.
- Doms will still only be able to cash out Tips that they have had for 4 weeks
- The minimum amount of Tips you can withdraw will be lowered to 500 (£50), this is down from 800 (£80)
- When you have completed the withdrawal the payment will be sent instantly, there will no longer be a monthly pay-out date
- Depending on what kind of account you're withdrawing to determines how long the payment may take to reach you:
Revolut account - instant
UK bank account - within 2 hours (usually instant)
An account outside the UK - up to 5 days
Although payments to accounts outside of the UK will take longer than with WISE, I think we can all agree this is still quicker and more convenient than one monthly pay-out.
In addition to the withdraw fee that the site takes, there will also be an additional transfer fee to cover my banking costs, as I get charged per transaction, however these fees are minimal:
Revolut account - no fee
UK bank account - 2 Tips (20p)
An account outside the UK - 30 Tips (£3)
Because of this I recommend that if you're using a UK or International account to build up Tips and put in one pay-out rather than many smaller ones to save on fees.
To help you understand better when your Tips will be available to withdraw and plan when to put in a request a new section will be added showing the dates that Tips will be available to withdraw.
In the coming weeks a select number of users will be asked to participate in testing of the new system, when the testing has completed the new system will be rolled out to all users.
Thank you for your patience.
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